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Would you consider paying for something you couldn't easily get free through swinging?

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester

Are there any scenarios or fantasies you have tried to create or realise, but just not been able to do it through swinging? Thinking of things like younger partners, girls or boys with genuine model looks or athletic bodies, multiple girls, different culture or colour etc? And if so, would you ever consider paying a professional escort(s) to satisfy your urges?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes there are.

And yes i would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't personally because if I was having fun with any lady and they were just going through the motions and not being pleasured by any naughtiness then it's a turn off for me I'm afraid. Role play is another matter entirely though as you know that secretly your partner in fruitiness is loving every minute of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

There is one particular fantasy that I have that would require specialist intervention and equipment so if I really need to pay to achieve it properly then I would say yes,having said that im sure Ill find a way without having to pay

Normal fantasies? no way, you can find them all on any site if you look hard enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we are lucky, maybe we are boring in what we seek but we have found everything we want in swinging and cannot think of anything we would want to do that has not been available in the scene - and a lot that is available in the scene that is not available elsewhere in the whole sex lifestyle be it porn, escorts or other, the main thing being the social side and the friends you make along the way even if you dont play with them.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"that would require specialist intervention and equipment "

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"that would require specialist intervention and equipment

"

Its a complicated one

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester


"that would require specialist intervention and equipment

Its a complicated one "

maybe you should share, perhaps we could help?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Noooo you'll all be wanting to do it then

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"that would require specialist intervention and equipment

Its a complicated one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I would never consider paying for it or indeed accepting payment from anyone… … however though,,,, I am more than happy to receive all yummy sticky-gooey donations for service’s provided

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"easily get free through swinging"

"EASILY"!!!! I flippin' wish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fantasy that involves a man being able to decorate or do the garden...a little diy maybe.

that's defo a fantasy i have always had to pay for or, as usual, diy!

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By *undebigaryMan
over a year ago

dundee

Well ive got a recurring fantasy about an asian woman,so yeh i would.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"Are there any scenarios or fantasies you have tried to create or realise, but just not been able to do it through swinging? Thinking of things like younger partners, girls or boys with genuine model looks or athletic bodies, multiple girls, different culture or colour etc? And if so, would you ever consider paying a professional escort(s) to satisfy your urges? "

Wayne? Is that you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a tight sod, so unless you can get full everything from a 'Cheryl Cole' lookalike for £3.50...then no.

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By *dward and WallisCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

My gel and her bestest friend would happily put on a show for Wayne for £600 00 without the cost of the hotel and the fags are free. Has anyone got his mob no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i would but for what i would want i definitly do not have the money, i think i will wait to win the lotto

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Whilst right at this moment the answer is 'no'...... IF I fancied doing something very specific as a one off, which would be very difficult(bordering impossible) to arrange on here or other sites, then yes I’d pay to make it happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't found a scenario i like that i have been unable to fulfil yet. Paying for it would take all the fun out of it though.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Whilst right at this moment the answer is 'no'...... IF I fancied doing something very specific as a one off, which would be very difficult(bordering impossible) to arrange on here or other sites, then yes I’d pay to make it happen.

Intrigued to know what you had in mind. Sounds interesting "

I don't have anything in mind right now.... or I would have put 'yes' instead of 'no' and 'IF'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

without doubt. but not sure i can ressurrect elvis for mrs' top fantasy....maybe a lookalike?

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good evening!

we dont believe in paying for anything as everything is possible if you try hard enough and as in a previous thread as soon as you pay for it the fun is lost... the person being paid isnt interested in the fantasy just your cash so wheres the fun in that?!!!

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By *undebigaryMan
over a year ago

dundee


"good evening!

we dont believe in paying for anything as everything is possible if you try hard enough and as in a previous thread as soon as you pay for it the fun is lost... the person being paid isnt interested in the fantasy just your cash so wheres the fun in that?!!! "
Well thats not strictly true,as a good escort girl will know that if she turns you on an fulfills your fantasy then you are more likley to use her services again.not that i know firsthand you understand.a friend told,honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Why do people think that paying for a fantasy involves a prostitue?

Not always the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope never would........... get enough offers so why would we xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fantasy that involves a man being able to decorate or do the garden...a little diy maybe.

that's defo a fantasy i have always had to pay for or, as usual, diy!"

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By *undebigaryMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Why do people think that paying for a fantasy involves a prostitue?

Not always the case"
Well go on then,do enlighten me.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i ever get to the point i have to pay to get something i cant get on here i'll kill myself i think lol

No i would never pay fot sex, but then i have never looked for something on here and not managed to get it, i suppose its easier being a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think that paying for a fantasy involves a prostitue?

Not always the caseWell go on then,do enlighten me.lol"

well who else chargers you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is one particular fantasy that I have that would require specialist intervention and equipment so if I really need to pay to achieve it properly then I would say yes,having said that im sure Ill find a way without having to pay

Normal fantasies? no way, you can find them all on any site if you look hard enough"

Pray please tell. I'm intrigued now ... does it involve ropes? (I had mine with me at Chams y'know lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think that paying for a fantasy involves a prostitue?

Not always the caseWell go on then,do enlighten me.lol

well who else chargers you?"

A professional dominatrix.

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By *undebigaryMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Why do people think that paying for a fantasy involves a prostitue?

Not always the caseWell go on then,do enlighten me.lol

well who else chargers you?"
My two exwifes.they charged me,even years after the sex.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Why do people think that paying for a fantasy involves a prostitue?

Not always the caseWell go on then,do enlighten me.lol

well who else chargers you?

A professional dominatrix. "

Thank you Wishy

You could also pay for the use of a specific location,the theme and environment play a big part............or am I just too imaginative

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol


"Are there any scenarios or fantasies you have tried to create or realise, but just not been able to do it through swinging? Thinking of things like younger partners, girls or boys with genuine model looks or athletic bodies, multiple girls, different culture or colour etc? And if so, would you ever consider paying a professional escort(s) to satisfy your urges? "

Oh yes...I have a fantasy which needs a bi fella and bi or str8 lady...

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why do people think that paying for a fantasy involves a prostitue?

Not always the caseWell go on then,do enlighten me.lol

well who else chargers you?

A professional dominatrix.

Thank you Wishy

You could also pay for the use of a specific location,the theme and environment play a big part............or am I just too imaginative "

No, your doing fine, keep going...

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By *nemichaelMan
over a year ago

kings lynn

My biggest fantasy would be for someone to pay me for sex lol.

I know thats never going to happen.

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By *undebigaryMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Why do people think that paying for a fantasy involves a prostitue?

Not always the caseWell go on then,do enlighten me.lol

well who else chargers you?

A professional dominatrix.

Thank you Wishy

You could also pay for the use of a specific location,the theme and environment play a big part............or am I just too imaginative "
Eh a dominatrix is still a form of prostitute if shes being paid to give men an woman sexual relief.even if she doesnt have actual sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fantasy that involves a man being able to decorate or do the garden...a little diy maybe.

that's defo a fantasy i have always had to pay for or, as usual, diy!"

I've acted this one out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fantasy that involves a man being able to decorate or do the garden...a little diy maybe.

that's defo a fantasy i have always had to pay for or, as usual, diy!

I've acted this one out.."

get me some numbers then, im skint lmao

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"good evening!

we dont believe in paying for anything as everything is possible if you try hard enough and as in a previous thread as soon as you pay for it the fun is lost... the person being paid isnt interested in the fantasy just your cash so wheres the fun in that?!!! "

Surely that depends on the role they are hired to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SASHA SASHA SASHA

its ok for you to say theres every thing in swinging for you . if we all had bodys like you we could have all the fun your having as well you gorgous little bit of totty you lol ha ha ha mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AND YEAH

i would pay for a young lass or an old lass cum t think of it if i had someone elses trousers on lol ha ha mad JIMMY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think that paying for a fantasy involves a prostitue?

Not always the caseWell go on then,do enlighten me.lol"

That's a simple one, going to watch strippers, going to a lap dance club, hiring a photo studio like one in Nottingham that has dungeon equipment and other scenarios like a full laundrette set, hiring a yacht to hold a swingers party the list of things you may have to pay for to realise a fantasy and after reading this most of you should be changing your answer to YES YES YES

How many of you pay to go into swing clubs, do you not incur costs to meet at hotels and even at home ?

The questions perhaps should be "are there limits to what you would be willing to pay for in order to realise your fantasies"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well one of my fantasys is to do with heels and fined it hard to find the right couple/woman to help us out with it so i would pay to try out this fantasy.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon


"If i ever get to the point i have to pay to get something i cant get on here i'll kill myself i think lol

No i would never pay fot sex, but then i have never looked for something on here and not managed to get it, i suppose its easier being a woman"

it`s hard enough for a guy to get a meet never mind a a specific fanticy,

a lady can just ask and there will be a long line of men willing to help

but it dont work the other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never in a million years would we pay.

Mr d-d wouldnt enjoy that at all.He'd be so peaved off at parting with our paper that either he wouldnt enjoy it so much or he'd end up fucking us into next wkend in a financial, kind of sexual rage..Tight as a ducks i tell ya.lol

As preference,we wouldnt pay no. But its each to there own.Weve always said any fantasies or dreams we have are just a bonus to us and not a...

"oh god,we got to do that of which we spoke or like,my balls will implode and your flaps are going to fuse together as one skin of chastity blocking any way into the wet and warmth 4ever"

Our sexual life is enough together, always has and always will be, so such impatience or an obsession of having to do what the imagination has made up is not worth a tiny thought of even considering, crossing palms with our grafted for money. If your happy together both mentally and physically, why is there a need to go wasting both money and false emotion and noises to live something out that if left in your head, can be just as sexual and exciting than doing it. Also, isnt there a chance it will be a big anticlimax when after it all ends she/he or both say "250 squids" Please....

I/we dont know, this is all just our opinion and thoughts. Not slagging off or pulling down anyone who would pay, like we said, "each to there own" and if its some folks ways to a means then, go for it and enjoy.

xx

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