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"tried for a while to find a few localish, genuine hot single guys for Mrs H........ Turns out it's quite a challenge!!! They either talk the talk and never follow it up or just completely disappear!!!!!....." Often difficult to convince but when people do get to meet us genuine guys you realise it was worth it. Think a lot of people on here aren't genuine swingers but are fed up with some Internet dating sites lol | |||
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"tried for a while to find a few localish, genuine hot single guys for Mrs H........ Turns out it's quite a challenge!!! They either talk the talk and never follow it up or just completely disappear!!!!!....." We find the same with finding a bi male | |||
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"Don't talk about it, all the ones wanting to chat about it don't actually want sex. They're after all the details so they can wank over them. I've found many guys, don't think they're all single but they do turn up. I refuse to chat about what's gonna happen though, i just say i want normal sex and oral and leave it at that, if they push for more details i ignore them and look for someone else." This | |||
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"if it sounds too good to be true then it's usually a fake, that includes couples and ladies. you just have to prune the s out. but genuine single guys, as we are a dime a dozen take the flak. " That's right, its gotten so boring I stopped doing the searches to find one lol. | |||
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"Seems to be a bit of a two way street - I've been talking to a couple of local women/MF couples and we've both been into each other, but when push came to shove (pun not intended lol), they suddenly went quiet or did a u-turn and said I'm not their type" Very true this...... | |||
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"What does "hens teeth" mean? means rocking horse shit " Too funny... | |||
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"I must be one of the lucky ones. Iv met some lovely guys and had a lot of fun with them. I am very picky though. Iv spoken to a lot but only met with a very select few. Iv never been stood up and they have all been genuine " Got to be a fool to miss on that gorgeous body | |||
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"tried for a while to find a few localish, genuine hot single guys for Mrs H........ Turns out it's quite a challenge!!! They either talk the talk and never follow it up or just completely disappear!!!!!....." Well just checked your profile and obviously some guy or guys are missing out on a lot of fun with you guys | |||
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"Don't talk about it, all the ones wanting to chat about it don't actually want sex. They're after all the details so they can wank over them. I've found many guys, don't think they're all single but they do turn up. I refuse to chat about what's gonna happen though, i just say i want normal sex and oral and leave it at that, if they push for more details i ignore them and look for someone else." Exactly this!! So frustrating. | |||
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"Try being me 4 years never even got a reply from a message" I was going to reply to this, but then thought I'd better not break the 4 year continuum | |||
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"Don't talk about it, all the ones wanting to chat about it don't actually want sex. They're after all the details so they can wank over them. I've found many guys, don't think they're all single but they do turn up. I refuse to chat about what's gonna happen though, i just say i want normal sex and oral and leave it at that, if they push for more details i ignore them and look for someone else." I get this I call them ''fab voyeurs'' guys that get off on hearing everybody else's juicy details and pictures A) because they are married/in a relationship and have no intentions of meeting B) They just talk the talk It's a case of sorting the wheat from the chafe. I have been lucky enough to find some genuine single guys on here though | |||
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"Try being me Here 4 years never even got a reply from a message" And yet you have had 96 meets??? | |||
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"It's very very very hard, sometimes I wonder why I bother..." If it's very, very hard what's the problem. Opps came from a male perspective. | |||
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"Easy to get meets if you want just anyone but difficult to get meets that you want x" I'm fussy, still manage to get meets every day, often more than one. It's down to timing for being on here, spare time available to actually meet, the amount of interest people give you, the people in your area, and people who are prepared to travel to you. | |||
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"The more times someone states they're genuine is inversely proportional to their genuineness... Johnsoda0204's second law of Fab. " How about if a site states it tho and why would they need to state it, hmmmmm. | |||
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"tried for a while to find a few localish, genuine hot single guys for Mrs H........ Turns out it's quite a challenge!!! They either talk the talk and never follow it up or just completely disappear!!!!!....." We are quite successful but we do sympathise with the post... It's a challenge... the other issue that happens is some guys say they are happy to meet a couple then when it comes the time they start explaining that they really only want to meet the fem alone... Play as couple stay as a couple! | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people " It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio." i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either" Ah yea and that's good x. | |||
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"tried for a while to find a few localish, genuine hot single guys for Mrs H........ Turns out it's quite a challenge!!! They either talk the talk and never follow it up or just completely disappear!!!!!....." My own, personal survey says there's a 50% change of me getting laid when I go to a club. It once used to be 66% | |||
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"Im genuine just not local to you " Brilliant! | |||
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"Easy to get meets if you want just anyone but difficult to get meets that you want x" yes this | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either" i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse. | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse." Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. | |||
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"tried for a while to find a few localish, genuine hot single guys for Mrs H........ Turns out it's quite a challenge!!! They either talk the talk and never follow it up or just completely disappear!!!!!....." I'm not local enough for you....but I'm sure there must be plenty near you. If you are still struggling you are welcome to travel over to me.... | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse." very true x | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. " nobody is too attractive for me. | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. " Same for me as I like everyone X | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X" | |||
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"the topic infuriates me.. because it implies and i lot of people have done it in this thread, that if they can't find someone specific to their taste.... people are somehow "less genuine".... total poppycock..... if you are that specific about your tastes.... go out and find those people who are what you are after.... don't want on the mountains to come to you.... get off your arses and be the hunters as opposed to the hunted... i think the mindset of some is skewed so far wrong (well i am a single woman/ couple... the men must come to me!) that it smells almost of some god given entitlement.... I am betting the people you are after are already having a blast, so why should they have to do all the chasing.... be the hunters!!! show people why you they should pick you (and you picked them.... 2 way street) give people a reason to think "wow i must meet that person!" so people like to drive a big old bus over others because they aren't what they are after, doesn't mean they are any less genuine..... done.... furious!" | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X " | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X " oh get a room you's 2 | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X oh get a room you's 2 " we have a bush tyvm... | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X " i am fussy and i still would. | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X oh get a room you's 2 we have a bush tyvm..." Yes we have a discreet bush | |||
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"tried for a while to find a few localish, genuine hot single guys for Mrs H........ Turns out it's quite a challenge!!! They either talk the talk and never follow it up or just completely disappear!!!!!....." Hi OP, I'm localish (in west midlands) and often go to xtasia and now chams aswel, reading your profile i see you visit clubs so would be happy to meet up with you at either. If i'm not your type then good luck in your search. | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X oh get a room you's 2 we have a bush tyvm...Yes we have a discreet bush " thats ok then | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X oh get a room you's 2 we have a bush tyvm...Yes we have a discreet bush thats ok then " yes it is, thanks. would you like our bushes postcode? | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X oh get a room you's 2 we have a bush tyvm...Yes we have a discreet bush thats ok then yes it is, thanks. would you like our bushes postcode? " that would be nice | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X oh get a room you's 2 we have a bush tyvm...Yes we have a discreet bush thats ok then yes it is, thanks. would you like our bushes postcode? that would be nice " haha, wouldn't mind some day, when you're not toio busy and i'm not. don't worry shag, i've not abandoned you. | |||
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"i have never had a problem meeting local people It is easier for women tho cos of the huge male to female ratio. i know plenty of single men on here who have not had no issues with meeting either i honestly think it's down to how attractive other members perceive you as. the ratio is an excuse.Yes or on the flip side if we are too attractive for them as well. nobody is too attractive for me. Same for me as I like everyone X oh get a room you's 2 we have a bush tyvm...Yes we have a discreet bush thats ok then yes it is, thanks. would you like our bushes postcode? that would be nice haha, wouldn't mind some day, when you're not toio busy and i'm not. don't worry shag, i've not abandoned you. " lol and yes that's fine x. | |||
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