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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys,

I don't know if this is a regular thing but I get so many couples asking me if I'm actually straight or if I'd be up for some bi fun...is swinging mainly for bi guys or am I missing something?

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By *rmrshoneybadgerCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I have spoken with guys that there profile says they are straight but they like the idea of trying new things but dont class themselves as bi as it doesn't necessarily need labeled. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i dont think it is my mr is straight lol think guys just want to experience it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah ok, I didn't know as many of the couples that have approached me have always asked me if I was up for bi fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob the fact u have a big cock doesnt help lol x

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By *rmrshoneybadgerCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"Prob the fact u have a big cock doesnt help lol x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to mention that peachy butt pic..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mayb private sum pix x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prob the fact u have a big cock doesnt help lol x"

Haha thanks, although, I don't really know what else to show off really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. I am meeting couples but only play with the woman ofcourse as I am straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol x

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

There could be a few reasons why they'd ask if you were bi

The m might be bi or bicurious and doesn't want to put it on their profile or the m is straight and doesn't want a bi guy involved in case it creates problems later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys,

I don't know if this is a regular thing but I get so many couples asking me if I'm actually straight or if I'd be up for some bi fun...is swinging mainly for bi guys or am I missing something? "

Probably as equally annoying as it is for us when we ask in our profile for bi guys, but get inundated with messages from straight guys who want to" try being bi" just so they can meet Jackie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Swinging is mainly for bi guys and Tgirls. The rest of you might aswell just give up now and leave us having all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone was just honest, open minded and respectful of others there wouldn't be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If everyone was just honest, open minded and respectful of others there wouldn't be a problem"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It may not be a limiting factor - some couples might ask if you're curious or bi as they would experiment, or because they don't want to meet bi-spectrum guys.

Peoples' recognised sexual orientation doesn't stay fixed in their minds or lifetimes for everyone. Neither does it fit neatly into a 2 or 3 categories. A guy that may have tried something and not found it incredibly horny may decide he's straight, or not. Many guys don't fancy other blokes but somehow when there's a mass of bodies writhing things happen and using their head to think things through doesn't need to happen, it's all about being in the moment and maximising their horniness.

Being bi, curious or gay makes a guy no less of a man, so no one should take it as a slur etc.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"Hey guys,

I don't know if this is a regular thing but I get so many couples asking me if I'm actually straight or if I'd be up for some bi fun...is swinging mainly for bi guys or am I missing something?

Probably as equally annoying as it is for us when we ask in our profile for bi guys, but get inundated with messages from straight guys who want to" try being bi" just so they can meet Jackie "

Surely everyone has to start somewhere, Jackie does look lush. Why not just say we're a couple?

I almost joined a couple with a bi curious guy, he asked if it bothered me if he was bi curious I said not at all. But I won't meet you alone. There's lots of time wasters on here and single guys posing as couples, creating the honey trap with pix of a sexy woman. Of course there's plenty of genuine peeps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys,

I don't know if this is a regular thing but I get so many couples asking me if I'm actually straight or if I'd be up for some bi fun...is swinging mainly for bi guys or am I missing something?

Probably as equally annoying as it is for us when we ask in our profile for bi guys, but get inundated with messages from straight guys who want to" try being bi" just so they can meet Jackie

Surely everyone has to start somewhere, Jackie does look lush. Why not just say we're a couple?

I almost joined a couple with a bi curious guy, he asked if it bothered me if he was bi curious I said not at all. But I won't meet you alone. There's lots of time wasters on here and single guys posing as couples, creating the honey trap with pix of a sexy woman. Of course there's plenty of genuine peeps too "

Sorry, don't understand the " why not say where a couple" comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet with a cpl whereby the guy stated he was categorically straight beforehand. Mid way through playing with his wife he asked if he could suck me off to which I said "no way" - completely ruined the meet and was prob one of the most awkward situations I've been in.

Since when is not classed as bi when you want to suck another mans cock!?

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

i regularly get asked the same...must have bi wrote on my forehead lol, i am straight but not bi phobic so i am comfortable with my sexuality enough not to be offended.

It it amazes me how many straight guys in couples and single guys who say they are straight are secretly bi, rather than be embarrassed about it be honest and you'll find plenty of fun here on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i regularly get asked the same...must have bi wrote on my forehead lol, i am straight but not bi phobic so i am comfortable with my sexuality enough not to be offended.

It it amazes me how many straight guys in couples and single guys who say they are straight are secretly bi, rather than be embarrassed about it be honest and you'll find plenty of fun here on Fab."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking of which, im not a couple but i do get bi and gay lads checking em out. have even had messages from them. dont know whay as it says straight on my prifle and i like girls with big boobs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm asked the same thing over and over by men and some couples.

As my profile explicitly states my sexuality, I usually ignore/delete/block those messages. Stops the fantasising person on the other end wasting time

But yeah, happens a fair amount. Unfortunately you'll have to learn to live with it and politely decline advances.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I used to get messages off guys too, I agree a compliments nice to receive off anyone. But I only want to meet women and couples so I set my filters up to block single men...... simples

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