FabSwingers.com forum: Would you let....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One of the guys Mrs chats to on here said he would never let someone else sleep with his girlfriend if he had one but is more than happy to sleep with her. Just wondering how many single guys think this way compared to guys who be happy for them to play.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We've heard men say that too, it shows a massive lack of respect towards us in our opinion and results in us stopping any communication.

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

If I had one and she was up for it Id be more than happy for her to have fun lt works both ways… Id be encouraging it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard single guys say that at clubs, not genuine swingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are loads of people on here not just men, women too, who say they wouldn't swing if they had a partner, there choice I guess,

It makes me wonder if it's because there jealous or if it's because they think there partner is going to run off with the person involved?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Perhaps it depends on the relationship?

There's no way my ex would ever give swinging a go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be fair he is only a young lad and I wouldn't of let someone sleep with S at that age. But then again I wasn't on a swingers website either. What he said doesn't bother me, it just got me thinking.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Quite common. I've come across males of couples on here looking for bi females - and refusing to meet males as their missus too special to fuck any other fellas. Erm cheers for that, what judgement does that place on me?

And quite a few men who want to pair up so they can be a couple and meet bi fems, but I've to stop meeting... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to find a lovely bi lass to share i joined to meet couples. Single guys are really getting a bad name on here double standards all round! What if your imaginary gf wanted to swing would it be ok then or would you deny her the choice? (future gfs take notes) Im amazed how guys like you get meets have some respect ... oh no you just lost any you may have had

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Id love to find a lovely bi lass to share i joined to meet couples. Single guys are really getting a bad name on here double standards all round! What if your imaginary gf wanted to swing would it be ok then or would you deny her the choice? (future gfs take notes) Im amazed how guys like you get meets have some respect ... oh no you just lost any you may have had"

Who's imaginary gf?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I thought we had gone past the age where the man owned his partner.

In our marriage we are equal partners we do not own each other.

We swing because we enjoy seeing the other enjoying themselves.

It has to be mutual consent not one letting the other do something

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"I thought we had gone past the age where the man owned his partner.

In our marriage we are equal partners we do not own each other.

We swing because we enjoy seeing the other enjoying themselves.

It has to be mutual consent not one letting the other do something"

Glad someone is saying this; it's exactly how we feel.

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