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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it me or is there alot of people on here who demand a face pic before chat, but don't/refuse to have one themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or is there alot of people on here who demand a face pic before chat, but don't/refuse to have one themselves?"

Totally agree with you, i always send a face pic with a message

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Is it me or is there alot of people on here who demand a face pic before chat, but don't/refuse to have one themselves?"

We don't have them or ask for them....that's fair I think. If someone wants a face pic then be prepared to send one too...that's also fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or is there alot of people on here who demand a face pic before chat, but don't/refuse to have one themselves?"

We send them when requested unless it's with somebody in our local area, then we think a bit more of it's worth it. Sexy Sally in Bath is going to be a smaller risk having our face pics than Raunchy Rachel who lives around the corner :p

But if we ever even want to think about meeting those people we will always send face pics, otherwise who knows what you're going to get and if you will like each other! C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask for a face photo early on as there's no point chatting if im not attracted to the person. I do however always send a face photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had anyone refuse me a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who doesn't even have A photo on their profile, or just the bog standard black head, is wasting their time asking me for a pic, whether its of my face or my arse! And all the talk about 'feeling attracted', what you meant is you don't want to be seen meeting a munter, that's not what your ego is about, but who would ever believe that 'attraction' can quite easily, and often does, come from other than just a pretty face! I'm sure no ladies here would like to be treated that shallow.... Rant over! Anyone for tea? x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're sayig there is attraction involved in meeting people on a swinging site? Whatever next? Water is wet? :p

Of course face pics are important, but we try and get to know the people first. We look for friends first, swinging partners later. There's nothig stopping us being friends with somebody who doesn't do it for us! In fact we prefer to make friends more than anything else here.

But don't let that make you think differently... We have also seen quite a few butterfaces haha!

But attraction is not the only thing you have to think about. We are both teachers, so we are more careful about who we send pics too. We don't want to send pics out to people who could be parents of kids we teach. That would be very bad news, not because what we do is wrong, but because what we do is frowned upon in these job roles. C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im ment to be going ona meet tonight but he wont send me a face although ive sent him one . Should i go or not ?

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By *ashes83Couple
over a year ago

wirral

I like to see who I'm chatting too.

So ask for a face pic and will attach ours if there not to local.

Still a little shy/nervous of sending face pic first to people in the local area x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im ment to be going ona meet tonight but he wont send me a face although ive sent him one . Should i go or not ?"

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im ment to be going ona meet tonight but he wont send me a face although ive sent him one . Should i go or not ?

No "

Thank you x

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By *ashes83Couple
over a year ago

wirral


"Im ment to be going ona meet tonight but he wont send me a face although ive sent him one . Should i go or not ?"

It's depends if looks are important to you, I'd alway like to see a pic before a meet as I'm a little fickle and like to find them attractive before arranging a meet x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have face pics in friends and always send if i message first

if someone asks me for one i would expect theirs first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im ment to be going ona meet tonight but he wont send me a face although ive sent him one . Should i go or not ?"

Depends how desperate you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you're sayig there is attraction involved in meeting people on a swinging site? Whatever next? Water is wet? :p

Of course face pics are important, but we try and get to know the people first. We look for friends first, swinging partners later. There's nothig stopping us being friends with somebody who doesn't do it for us! In fact we prefer to make friends more than anything else here.

But don't let that make you think differently... We have also seen quite a few butterfaces haha!

But attraction is not the only thing you have to think about. We are both teachers, so we are more careful about who we send pics too. We don't want to send pics out to people who could be parents of kids we teach. That would be very bad news, not because what we do is wrong, but because what we do is frowned upon in these job roles. C x"

My OH is a teacher. It doesn't stop us being open

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive decided not to go and messaged him to say im not prepared to meet without seein a face pic x thanks for the nudge xxxx

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By *ashes83Couple
over a year ago

wirral


"Ive decided not to go and messaged him to say im not prepared to meet without seein a face pic x thanks for the nudge xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive decided not to go and messaged him to say im not prepared to meet without seein a face pic x thanks for the nudge xxxx"

Sounds completely fair to me! Why would you meet up with someone you've never seen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do. I always have face pics, the funnie thing was, had a meet few weeks ago planned, she wanted to meet and we agreed time, I thought she would send a pic of how she looked like lol before, but as the time got closer. I said no cant meet as she never send one.

Wonder why some think its ok that they want to meet with no pics on and it seems normal to them.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Ive decided not to go and messaged him to say im not prepared to meet without seein a face pic x thanks for the nudge xxxx

Sounds completely fair to me! Why would you meet up with someone you've never seen? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im ment to be going ona meet tonight but he wont send me a face although ive sent him one . Should i go or not ?"
NO!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive decided not to go and messaged him to say im not prepared to meet without seein a face pic x thanks for the nudge xxxx

Sounds completely fair to me! Why would you meet up with someone you've never seen? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so it seems most people agree.... we have no issue with sending pics, we have plenty to send. but its so frustrating when people demand pics but wont send any of their own. if you expect something from someone, then be prepared to do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so it seems most people agree.... we have no issue with sending pics, we have plenty to send. but its so frustrating when people demand pics but wont send any of their own. if you expect something from someone, then be prepared to do the same "

If I ask for a face photo and they don't comply I just block and move on. Had a few people saying they couldn't send photos because of occupation but if they expect a meeting then they could keep photo private and only send to people they feel comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pics with me smiling a cheesy smile. I don't trust those profiles where the person never smiles,I don't mind a crooked smile but I like them to have at least half their teeth

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By *ussexsocialMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst

This isn't blind date , we always ask for a face pic before even thinking of arranging a meet but in fairness whenever we ask for one we always attach our own ( and we like the new feature of being able to remove them from the message )

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

With the new feature that alliws you to delete attached photis from sent messages there shoudnt be any objection.to sending a face pic as ypu can send one and once the message as been read you can delete the pic and protect your privacy still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If some one messages us we always ask for a face pic early on as we don't want to sit chatting to people that we will never meet. If they send us one and we like the look of them we will send one back. If they aren't for us then we don't send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the new feature that alliws you to delete attached photis from sent messages there shoudnt be any objection.to sending a face pic as ypu can send one and once the message as been read you can delete the pic and protect your privacy still "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only chat after a see a face pic.. no point getting to know someone then seeing a pic and not being attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read profile and if it states face pic with message I send one! Prob a mistake as after seeing m ugly mug never get a reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always read profile and if it states face pic with message I send one! Prob a mistake as after seeing m ugly mug never get a reply lol "

Just bung them on public - we can't keep up with meets/requests now

S x

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Is it me or is there alot of people on here who demand a face pic before chat, but don't/refuse to have one themselves?

Totally agree with you, i always send a face pic with a message "

U never send face pics but i do expect the other person to Skype.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I understand why some people don't show face pix..... but I don't think I'd go on a meet without seeing who I'm meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I've adopted a feminine approach lol, no face pic, no chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made the rite desision yesterday folks cos hes come off fab ! Thanks all xxxxx

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By *ral4bothMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I only send face pic after I've had telephone contact.

Too many idiots hiding behind fake profiles

I even send them my number so they can ring me on witheld

If they dont ring/make excuses for not ringing they get blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

deffo need to see a face pic, but if we ask for one we are also willing to send our own, alot of people dont

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By * strongMan
over a year ago

hull


"Is it me or is there alot of people on here who demand a face pic before chat, but don't/refuse to have one themselves?

We don't have them or ask for them....that's fair I think. If someone wants a face pic then be prepared to send one too...that's also fair."

I agree but the way I see it is we're all here for the same thing (naughty fun) not romance if you like their body and you meet them and your happy with their face lol then that's an added bonus might just be me who thinks like that .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Is it me or is there alot of people on here who demand a face pic before chat, but don't/refuse to have one themselves?

We don't have them or ask for them....that's fair I think. If someone wants a face pic then be prepared to send one too...that's also fair.

I agree but the way I see it is we're all here for the same thing (naughty fun) not romance if you like their body and you meet them and your happy with their face lol then that's an added bonus might just be me who thinks like that ."

Sorry, that may be a male thing, but there is not a chance in hell I would meet anyone without seeing a face pic

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over a year ago

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