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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Doesn't bother me being told no, why would it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me being told no, why would it?

Did u leave your parents to live on your own? U did not like how to live by their rules.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

"Doesn't bother me being told no, why would it?

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If your asking for something you obviously want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

is this todays sermon......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about it!!...rejection is part of life... I bet everyone has had a no at some point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As adults don't we accept that rejections are a part of life? However, that doesn't stop someone from wanting something. Therefore one must ask in order to receive an answer/response. For every no that you receive it brings you closer to a yes!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

why at they being hypocritical... not here providing a public service

their body... their rules.... like it or lump it!

if the words "no thank you" causes that much offence... then swinging is not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Pops in, Thinks "Oh Dear" and goes back to his colouring book*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why at they being hypocritical... not here providing a public service

their body... their rules.... like it or lump it!

if the words "no thank you" causes that much offence... then swinging is not for you"

Erm. U clearly don't read so good. If u can handle no why did u leave your parents. Think hard on that one buddy. Oh, did u like the hymn T the rugby, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is this todays sermon......"

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil..

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"is this todays sermon......

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil.."

Especially if you read a persons profile, can often tell a lot about a OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is this todays sermon......

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil.."

do u fear cancer! Do u believe modern medicine will conquer death? How delusional is that.....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Erm. U clearly don't read so good. If u can handle no why did u leave your parents. Think hard on that one buddy. Oh, did u like the hymn T the rugby, haha"

left mine at 18 to go to university...they wanted me to be able to better myself.. mum was so proud of me!

are you saying people shouldn't go away to uni????

and as i said in the rugby thread you "mood hoovered" i'm a irish rugby fan.. we sing about "molly malone" and "fields of athenry"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the profile people.

Just chill a little.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Erm. U clearly don't read so good. If u can handle no why did u leave your parents. Think hard on that one buddy. Oh, did u like the hymn T the rugby, haha

left mine at 18 to go to university...they wanted me to be able to better myself.. mum was so proud of me!

are you saying people shouldn't go away to uni????

and as i said in the rugby thread you "mood hoovered" i'm a irish rugby fan.. we sing about "molly malone" and "fields of athenry""

U are avoiding the question buddy. U live on your own why not live with your parents!can u not handle there rules? Honour thy mother and father. Makes u tolerate bad leaders. Parents know u more then leaders.. Think on that awhile.going to uni show u either have a good memory or money. But u have to earn reasoning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid this blokes posts like the plague, as should all of you. You are feeding him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I avoid this blokes posts like the plague, as should all of you. You are feeding him

Can't handle the truth I understand. I expected that much from some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I avoid this blokes posts like the plague, as should all of you. You are feeding him

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

"I avoid this blokes posts like the plague, as should all of you. You are feeding him

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I think he has a lovely way with words.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Erm. U clearly don't read so good. If u can handle no why did u leave your parents. Think hard on that one buddy. Oh, did u like the hymn T the rugby, haha

left mine at 18 to go to university...they wanted me to be able to better myself.. mum was so proud of me!

are you saying people shouldn't go away to uni????

and as i said in the rugby thread you "mood hoovered" i'm a irish rugby fan.. we sing about "molly malone" and "fields of athenry"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

I have a heart of oak and a skin of leather.

I did not leave the authority of my parents. One abdicated himself of that responsibility, the other still has authority through respect.

My feelings on rejection are mine to deal with, and in all fairness I actually have no feelings.

Do not lecture me on respect, rejection and suchlike. You do not know my life. You do not know me.

Walk a mile in my shoes by all means, but be sure I will have filled them with broken glass.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op do you live with your parents?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

I have a heart of oak and a skin of leather.

I did not leave the authority of my parents. One abdicated himself of that responsibility, the other still has authority through respect.

My feelings on rejection are mine to deal with, and in all fairness I actually have no feelings.

Do not lecture me on respect, rejection and suchlike. You do not know my life. You do not know me.

Walk a mile in my shoes by all means, but be sure I will have filled them with broken glass."

Some ppl need to understand and define lecture. Haha. For I was explaining an idea that I wanted to share. I can for I am human like u. U think u are martyr to suffering. How ironic...

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

So are you saying every one who ever left home did so cos their parents said no to em? What about the natural progression of ' flying the nest' ? Not everyone leaves home on bad terms! I would have through that some are infact adults when they leave home and by then know fully what is expected of them with regards to living in the same house as their parents... Or do you think it's still wagging fingers and no no no! ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op do you live with your parents?"

I moved out 9 years ago. My mum died this man. so now I'm cooking for my father

I was merely using reasoning. Those parents that did not inflict harm on their choldren, these children, if they had tolerated their parents, COULD that have reduced the pain what ppl feel now with politicians and leaders? I was making a hypothesis...I was not judging ppl. I merely asked if the situation was different. It is what authors do. Some ppl are so judgemental and rigid in anything. It's a wonder u know how to breathe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So are you saying every one who ever left home did so cos their parents said no to em? What about the natural progression of ' flying the nest' ? Not everyone leaves home on bad terms! I would have through that some are infact adults when they leave home and by then know fully what is expected of them with regards to living in the same house as their parents... Or do you think it's still wagging fingers and no no no! ? Lol

Using my eyes and reading what ppl have said , I firmly believe, children leave because they don't like how the parents intervene etc. that's why I was using honour thy mother and father. If ppl did that would there be less grief. It was an idea I wanted to share..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey u only know the answer if ppl are truthful with u. Considering this place, u have to lie to your fiends being on here. I think it's irony and hypocritical.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"I avoid this blokes posts like the plague, as should all of you. You are feeding him

Obviously not...maybe it is wise to do so though

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I would say they leave because they grow up and want their own independence.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Although to be fair I am a bit lost...well actually a lot lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it too early for Popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it too early for Popcorn?"

Hope not! I'm about to unscrew the lid on some Vodka.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would say they leave because they grow up and want their own independence.

But this independence is what causes grief and war. Learning to submit to other views grounds u in to tolerating bD leaders....tolerate parents gives u experience to endure bad leaders and put up with it. Either tolerate or cry yourself to sleep. I'd rather put faith into something that has logic and reason than say, I am my own boss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?"

Some woman post , 'some guys can't take no'

I was pointing out that independence could not put up with rules laid down by their parents. Hence some of them moved out.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Op do you live with your parents?

I moved out 9 years ago. My mum died this man. so now I'm cooking for my father

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents are 2 of the biggest are holes I've ever encountered, I've not spoken to them for years. So how does that fit with our ignoring shit messages from people we aren't interested in?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op do you live with your parents?

I moved out 9 years ago. My mum died this man. so now I'm cooking for my father

He might never of got into politics. We don't know, he might have turned the other cheek because of the valued lesson he got from his parents. Rules are not always imposed to restrict but to educate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?

Some woman post , 'some guys can't take no'

I was pointing out that independence could not put up with rules laid down by their parents. Hence some of them moved out. "

No sorry still haven't got a clue what you are on about

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

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there are a lot of people on here with various difficulties, if someone is capable of posting on the forum surely they should be treated like everyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

my condition actually works well here. Woman complain they can't find a man that satisfies. My condition will blow your mind

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Op do you live with your parents?

I moved out 9 years ago. My mum died this man. so now I'm cooking for my father

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whose HE

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

there are a lot of people on here with various difficulties, if someone is capable of posting on the forum surely they should be treated like everyone else"

That is true, equally if misunderstanding can be avoided that is also a way forward in my eyes.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I would say they leave because they grow up and want their own independence.

I would say for some if they don't get the independence then it could cause grief and war

I am still not sure I am getting the correlation so I am best sitting out until hopefully someone will explain what I am not getting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather than jumping on the replies people should look beyond them at the bigger picture. But as always quick to condemn and argue.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Op do you live with your parents?

I moved out 9 years ago. My mum died this man. so now I'm cooking for my father

whose HE"

The politician you mentioned I think

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

there are a lot of people on here with various difficulties, if someone is capable of posting on the forum surely they should be treated like everyone else

That is true, equally if misunderstanding can be avoided that is also a way forward in my eyes. "

that would also be fair..... but if the person isn't prepared to listen in any way shape or form to other people putting reasonable or rational points its not really a conversation

its a lecture or a sermon.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?

Some woman post , 'some guys can't take no'

I was pointing out that independence could not put up with rules laid down by their parents. Hence some of them moved out.

No sorry still haven't got a clue what you are on about"

Your parent says while living here u have to do this or do that. The adult questions it and moves out. This adult can not handle no when a parent gives out guidelines. So hence the moving out. A guy asks a woman on here the woman replies no.. Depending on the guys experience he will argue or accept it. Accepting your parents guidelines may have proved beneficial when u have bad or unscrupulous leaders playing with pols lives. The experience with your tough parents grounded u to endure it somehow and not get into such a state. A bit like the motto stay calm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

there are a lot of people on here with various difficulties, if someone is capable of posting on the forum surely they should be treated like everyone else

That is true, equally if misunderstanding can be avoided that is also a way forward in my eyes.

that would also be fair..... but if the person isn't prepared to listen in any way shape or form to other people putting reasonable or rational points its not really a conversation

its a lecture or a sermon......."

As Cheryl Cole says u have to fight for your love. Do u not believe what u are trying to convince me with. Do what I do. That's the point on fsith I was making...u need it...push with your views to challenge me...like I push with mine. Learn from me

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

there are a lot of people on here with various difficulties, if someone is capable of posting on the forum surely they should be treated like everyone else

That is true, equally if misunderstanding can be avoided that is also a way forward in my eyes.

that would also be fair..... but if the person isn't prepared to listen in any way shape or form to other people putting reasonable or rational points its not really a conversation

its a lecture or a sermon......."

And that is a byproduct of Asperges.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

" The experience with your tough parents grounded u to endure it somehow and not get into such a state. A bit like the motto stay calm

Ok it is getting clearer for me now, you say it is how we are brought up as to how we deal with things? I agree to some extent yes

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?

Some woman post , 'some guys can't take no'

I was pointing out that independence could not put up with rules laid down by their parents. Hence some of them moved out.

No sorry still haven't got a clue what you are on about

but what you are not understanding is there are OTHER reasons for moving other than the one you see... for example... going to university!

sometimes a lot of it is gaining independence... but not because they don't abide by house rules.....

how you equate it to everything else is circumstancial....

you can't make the leap between moving out and not being able to take no for an answer.... or moving out and leaders being better leaders

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

there are a lot of people on here with various difficulties, if someone is capable of posting on the forum surely they should be treated like everyone else

That is true, equally if misunderstanding can be avoided that is also a way forward in my eyes.

that would also be fair..... but if the person isn't prepared to listen in any way shape or form to other people putting reasonable or rational points its not really a conversation

its a lecture or a sermon.......

And that is a byproduct of Asperges. "

Look up aspergers and famous people...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?

Some woman post , 'some guys can't take no'

I was pointing out that independence could not put up with rules laid down by their parents. Hence some of them moved out.

No sorry still haven't got a clue what you are on about

but what you are not understanding is there are OTHER reasons for moving other than the one you see... for example... going to university!

sometimes a lot of it is gaining independence... but not because they don't abide by house rules.....

how you equate it to everything else is circumstancial....

you can't make the leap between moving out and not being able to take no for an answer.... or moving out and leaders being better leaders"

I know there are other reasons. But I thought u would have the inteligence to know I was referring to those who challenged their authority.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?

Some woman post , 'some guys can't take no'

I was pointing out that independence could not put up with rules laid down by their parents. Hence some of them moved out.

No sorry still haven't got a clue what you are on about

but what you are not understanding is there are OTHER reasons for moving other than the one you see... for example... going to university!

sometimes a lot of it is gaining independence... but not because they don't abide by house rules.....

how you equate it to everything else is circumstancial....

you can't make the leap between moving out and not being able to take no for an answer.... or moving out and leaders being better leaders"

I did not say moving out would equate to better leaders. Putting up with a restrictive parent teaches u to endure suffers ring for future leaders who are bad. I can't put it any other way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?

Some woman post , 'some guys can't take no'

I was pointing out that independence could not put up with rules laid down by their parents. Hence some of them moved out.

No sorry still haven't got a clue what you are on about

but what you are not understanding is there are OTHER reasons for moving other than the one you see... for example... going to university!

sometimes a lot of it is gaining independence... but not because they don't abide by house rules.....

how you equate it to everything else is circumstancial....

you can't make the leap between moving out and not being able to take no for an answer.... or moving out and leaders being better leaders"

I say to u, go and live with your parents now if u can. If your independence means so much then a struggle u will find it to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?

Some woman post , 'some guys can't take no'

I was pointing out that independence could not put up with rules laid down by their parents. Hence some of them moved out.

No sorry still haven't got a clue what you are on about

but what you are not understanding is there are OTHER reasons for moving other than the one you see... for example... going to university!

sometimes a lot of it is gaining independence... but not because they don't abide by house rules.....

how you equate it to everything else is circumstancial....

you can't make the leap between moving out and not being able to take no for an answer.... or moving out and leaders being better leaders

I say to u, go and live with your parents now if u can. If your independence means so much then a struggle u will find it to be

Put up with your parents rule and u will learn u may never need to stress out when political leaders put upon u a heavy load

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Vodka is the answer to this thread as nothing written makes sense. Must be one of those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I avoid this blokes posts like the plague, as should all of you. You are feeding him

Can't handle the truth I understand. I expected that much from some"

Sweetheart. Sit down, relax, make yourself a brew, and chill! Try coming on to the forums to have some lighthearted fun/discussion - not to open up an arguement with everyone here! Here - have a free virtual hug from me!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Vodka is the answer to this thread as nothing written makes sense. Must be one of those days

can't drink alcohol at the moment so off to get some strawberry milk.... if that is allowed by god and don't get a lecture for it.....

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Sorry I might be being really thick but what is the connection between leaving home and nit getting replies?

Some woman post , 'some guys can't take no'

I was pointing out that independence could not put up with rules laid down by their parents. Hence some of them moved out.

No sorry still haven't got a clue what you are on about

but what you are not understanding is there are OTHER reasons for moving other than the one you see... for example... going to university!

sometimes a lot of it is gaining independence... but not because they don't abide by house rules.....

how you equate it to everything else is circumstancial....

you can't make the leap between moving out and not being able to take no for an answer.... or moving out and leaders being better leaders

I did not say moving out would equate to better leaders. Putting up with a restrictive parent teaches u to endure suffers ring for future leaders who are bad. I can't put it any other way.

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so ... One goes thro the rest of their lives blaming others and justifying why they are infact nasty bastards and bad leaders? All because their parents told em No? So what about those who are dragged up with no guidlines/structure or limitations? Never being told No? Will they accept rejection in life any more or less? Is it that clean cut? .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

there are a lot of people on here with various difficulties, if someone is capable of posting on the forum surely they should be treated like everyone else

That is true, equally if misunderstanding can be avoided that is also a way forward in my eyes.

that would also be fair..... but if the person isn't prepared to listen in any way shape or form to other people putting reasonable or rational points its not really a conversation

its a lecture or a sermon.......

And that is a byproduct of Asperges. "

I didn't sy I was perfect. What are the by products of alcohol? Smoking?obesity?bad language? Need I go on. U do get the hint. Ppl are tolerant of these, so why not me? I must have the strength to endure it. A great trait to have...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aspergers people can go on tangents as alot of issues problems they have go unresolved as they cant deal with it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A no is better than a ignored, deleted message you have sent to a man. It happens to women too. Accept it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A no is better than a ignored, deleted message you have sent to a man. It happens to women too. Accept it and move on "

this

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"The condition you mention in your profile, OP does keep you very focused. It may help if others recognise it before engaging with your strongly held views.

there are a lot of people on here with various difficulties, if someone is capable of posting on the forum surely they should be treated like everyone else

That is true, equally if misunderstanding can be avoided that is also a way forward in my eyes.

that would also be fair..... but if the person isn't prepared to listen in any way shape or form to other people putting reasonable or rational points its not really a conversation

its a lecture or a sermon.......

And that is a byproduct of Asperges.

I am more then tolerant, it's a great gift. However, it sometimes needs to be fully understood to be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Vodka is the answer to this thread as nothing written makes sense. Must be one of those days

can't drink alcohol at the moment so off to get some strawberry milk.... if that is allowed by god and don't get a lecture for it.....

I don't mind alcohol. It's the double standards of behaviour that are exhibited between celebrities and the public. Take Hoffman, he was grieved when he died yet he was a drug addict. If a member of the public admitted to that he would be condemmed...athiests say they don't like God because he causes sufferering. It's a fact that young men lure woman who are minors into the sex trade by alcohol. Ban alcohol? Do u? Do u not care? Why then should God care ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vodka is the answer to this thread as nothing written makes sense. Must be one of those days

can't drink alcohol at the moment so off to get some strawberry milk.... if that is allowed by god and don't get a lecture for it.....

Fabio, you utter deviant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think am reasonably well educated and I cannot make head nor tail of the actual point of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left my parents to go to university.

And because they had run out of chocolate bourbons.

Very important, chocolate bourbons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"think am reasonably well educated and I cannot make head nor tail of the actual point of this?"

Inteligence doesn't have all answers. Maybe ppl go through life like skimming a book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok.

someone said no to you op. I can get that now even that you have aspegers doesnt matter one bit.

The person said no. Now get off your high horse accept it move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I left my parents to go to university.

And because they had run out of chocolate bourbons.

Very important, chocolate bourbons."

yup important chocolate bourbons

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok.

someone said no to you op. I can get that now even that you have aspegers doesnt matter one bit.

The person said no. Now get off your high horse accept it move on"

Erm, no they did not. Look at my original post. I look at ppl status.and I questioned it. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!"

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.

someone said no to you op. I can get that now even that you have aspegers doesnt matter one bit.

The person said no. Now get off your high horse accept it move on

Erm, no they did not. Look at my original post. I look at ppl status.and I questioned it. Haha"

You're OVERTHINKING EVERYTHING - "that way lay madness"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!"

lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.

someone said no to you op. I can get that now even that you have aspegers doesnt matter one bit.

The person said no. Now get off your high horse accept it move on

Erm, no they did not. Look at my original post. I look at ppl status.and I questioned it. Haha

You're OVERTHINKING EVERYTHING - "that way lay madness""

aspegers people do overthink things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok.

someone said no to you op. I can get that now even that you have aspegers doesnt matter one bit.

The person said no. Now get off your high horse accept it move on

Erm, no they did not. Look at my original post. I look at ppl status.and I questioned it. Haha

You're OVERTHINKING EVERYTHING - "that way lay madness""

Perhaps madness showeth truth of what thinking actually is. Before the calm there is a storm. My mind may be a storm but in reality if it reveals something eventually I will find peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.

someone said no to you op. I can get that now even that you have aspegers doesnt matter one bit.

The person said no. Now get off your high horse accept it move on

Erm, no they did not. Look at my original post. I look at ppl status.and I questioned it. Haha

You're OVERTHINKING EVERYTHING - "that way lay madness"

aspegers people do overthink things"

I know...

I also know there's medication to calm it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.

someone said no to you op. I can get that now even that you have aspegers doesnt matter one bit.

The person said no. Now get off your high horse accept it move on

Erm, no they did not. Look at my original post. I look at ppl status.and I questioned it. Haha

You're OVERTHINKING EVERYTHING - "that way lay madness"

aspegers people do overthink things

I know...

I also know there's medication to calm it"

yep hes having a episode I feel!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Is it my severe lack of sleep?

Or is this rant not in an understandable form of english?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed."

No, u are assuming your choice in course is right. U don't know where it will lead. U see your arrogance betray you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it my severe lack of sleep?

Or is this rant not in an understandable form of english? "

the whole rant is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed.

No, u are assuming your choice in course is right. U don't know where it will lead. U see your arrogance betray you.

what arrogance has he shown. None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although to be fair I am a bit lost...well actually a lot lost

"
I'm not Lost...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Is it my severe lack of sleep?

Or is this rant not in an understandable form of english?

the whole rant is lol"

oh well of to put the coffee on, anyone for a brew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed.

No, u are assuming your choice in course is right. U don't know where it will lead. U see your arrogance betray you.

I didn't assume anything, I merely wanted to educate and better myself, however in hindsight my choice of course was in fact absolutely perfect, but I didn't know that at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed.

No, u are assuming your choice in course is right. U don't know where it will lead. U see your arrogance betray you.

Every decision u make, u automatically assume it is the best hence why u object to your parents. The thought of your parents knowing what's right for u more than u do is what eats away at u....this assumption. But equally u assume also that u know too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it my severe lack of sleep?

Or is this rant not in an understandable form of english?

the whole rant is lol

oh well of to put the coffee on, anyone for a brew? "

me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed.

No, u are assuming your choice in course is right. U don't know where it will lead. U see your arrogance betray you.

But they wanted me to go....in fact they paid for me. They even let me come home during the holidays and did all my washing for me (well Mum did, not Dad). They were bloody marvellous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed.

No, u are assuming your choice in course is right. U don't know where it will lead. U see your arrogance betray you.

I didn't assume anything, I merely wanted to educate and better myself, however in hindsight my choice of course was in fact absolutely perfect, but I didn't know that at the time.

An athiests principle is that u reject everything u can not prove. So u can not prove that this course will be good but u do it regardless. I find that amusing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it my severe lack of sleep?

Or is this rant not in an understandable form of english?

the whole rant is lol

oh well of to put the coffee on, anyone for a brew? "

Only if there are biscuits. Important, biscuits are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a swinger get me outta here

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"why at they being hypocritical... not here providing a public service

their body... their rules.... like it or lump it!

if the words "no thank you" causes that much offence... then swinging is not for you

Erm. U clearly don't read so good. If u can handle no why did u leave your parents. Think hard on that one buddy. Oh, did u like the hymn T the rugby, haha"

I can handle no. I'm a big girl. I left my parents house because I worked elsewhere and it was too far for me to travel daily. And when I left that job I got my own place. They need their space as much as I needed mine. Fuck all to do with no liking to be told no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed.

No, u are assuming your choice in course is right. U don't know where it will lead. U see your arrogance betray you.

But they wanted me to go....in fact they paid for me. They even let me come home during the holidays and did all my washing for me (well Mum did, not Dad). They were bloody marvellous

Your parents had parents to. The same question I posed I would expect them to go through to..

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Is it my severe lack of sleep?

Or is this rant not in an understandable form of english?

the whole rant is lol

oh well of to put the coffee on, anyone for a brew?

Only if there are biscuits. Important, biscuits are."

But of course i have a lovely selection to choose from, theres rich teas, digestives, scottish shortbread, nice and even a few jammy dodgers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why at they being hypocritical... not here providing a public service

their body... their rules.... like it or lump it!

if the words "no thank you" causes that much offence... then swinging is not for you

Erm. U clearly don't read so good. If u can handle no why did u leave your parents. Think hard on that one buddy. Oh, did u like the hymn T the rugby, haha

So u never talk to your parents about anything to get advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed.

No, u are assuming your choice in course is right. U don't know where it will lead. U see your arrogance betray you.

I didn't assume anything, I merely wanted to educate and better myself, however in hindsight my choice of course was in fact absolutely perfect, but I didn't know that at the time.

An athiests principle is that u reject everything u can not prove. So u can not prove that this course will be good but u do it regardless. I find that amusing...

Who said I was an atheist? What makes life so wonderful is to embrace the unknown and see where it leads you. You should try it.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"why at they being hypocritical... not here providing a public service

their body... their rules.... like it or lump it!

if the words "no thank you" causes that much offence... then swinging is not for you

Erm. U clearly don't read so good. If u can handle no why did u leave your parents. Think hard on that one buddy. Oh, did u like the hymn T the rugby, haha

So u never talk to your parents about anything to get advice?

Where did I say that??? I ask them advice if I need it, I don't always take their advice but it's good to get another prospective on things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sick of the hypocritical replies on forums or profiles etc

"I guess no one likes being told no"

Neither do u.

Isn't that why u left the authority of your parents.

U did not respect the way they were getting involved.

I bet u get upset inside when someone rejects you and if u don't I'd worry

But my parents weren't so keen on moving 200 miles to join me at university, selfish buggers!

There comes a time when a course finishes. I don't think ppl would complain about leaders if they accepted their parents rule...

But when my course finished, they didn't fancy moving another 200 miles to where I had managed to get a job. I'm afraid your theory is rather flawed.

No, u are assuming your choice in course is right. U don't know where it will lead. U see your arrogance betray you.

I didn't assume anything, I merely wanted to educate and better myself, however in hindsight my choice of course was in fact absolutely perfect, but I didn't know that at the time.

An athiests principle is that u reject everything u can not prove. So u can not prove that this course will be good but u do it regardless. I find that amusing...

Who said I was an atheist? What makes life so wonderful is to embrace the unknown and see where it leads you. You should try it."

Polic dictates, if u are not an athiest u believe. Or are like Peter who deny but really are...I wasn't saying u were, I was remarking to athiests in general....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why at they being hypocritical... not here providing a public service

their body... their rules.... like it or lump it!

if the words "no thank you" causes that much offence... then swinging is not for you

Erm. U clearly don't read so good. If u can handle no why did u leave your parents. Think hard on that one buddy. Oh, did u like the hymn T the rugby, haha

So u never talk to your parents about anything to get advice?

feel free op to speak to your dad about wanting to be a swinger and show him this rant...

He will see signs of a episode you are having.Venting on the internet won't get u far just people looking for the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, whilst in no way would I suggest that you shouldn't be able to have the freedom to speak about matters which interest/concern you, I just feel like we are slightly off tangent here? Whilst I understand (I think) what you are trying to say, I am confused to buggery about what my parents saying or not saying no to me has to do with me (or others) moving out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why at they being hypocritical... not here providing a public service

their body... their rules.... like it or lump it!

if the words "no thank you" causes that much offence... then swinging is not for you

Erm. U clearly don't read so good. If u can handle no why did u leave your parents. Think hard on that one buddy. Oh, did u like the hymn T the rugby, haha

So u never talk to your parents about anything to get advice?

feel free op to speak to your dad about wanting to be a swinger and show him this rant...

He will see signs of a episode you are having.Venting on the internet won't get u far just people looking for the block button"

I some to my mum before she died died what she did. She said to me, what we believe could be wrong....

She might not of agreed but she allowed me to try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your over 18 u can do what u wish.

unless you are a vulnerable adult then I think you shouldnt be on here sorry