FabSwingers.com forum: What would make this site better??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys,

We all know this is a pretty good site. What would you guys like to see from a swingers site? does this have it all or would you like more? any suggestions??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

One hot guy delivered to my door a week. Make that two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One hot guy delivered to my door a week. Make that two.

i like your thinking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like one or 2 local women in penge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple categories for single males, so you don't have to start from scratch every time you want to convince a woman that you're not a desperate loser with no social skills.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

An option for 'loves marmite.'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

free cake

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Some oriental men, unable to find any on here

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi guys,

We all know this is a pretty good site. What would you guys like to see from a swingers site? does this have it all or would you like more? any suggestions??"

Yes, fair moderation in chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you block someone you can't see their forum posts

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

More detailed search parameters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be able to _iew all sent/received messages and not lose them off the end of the page until some have been deleted -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One hot guy delivered to my door a week. Make that two.

Don't you have this option anyway....are you not a platinum member ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"One hot guy delivered to my door a week. Make that two.

Don't you have this option anyway....are you not a platinum member ? "

Had to downgrade to Plutonium. All I get for that is a slight ticking behind my computer and numb hands.

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By *heiceman2Man
over a year ago

exeter

To be able to submit videos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you block someone you can't see their forum posts "

Definitely, definately this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the hot guys lived nearer me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100,000 new women signing up would be good. Ladies who live down south and actually meet. Yeah. I said that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To arrange your pictures in order you chose...and not the order they are uploaded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you block someone you can't see their forum posts "

And also if you block them they can't see you at all in any searches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An advertising thread so that you could find fellow fabbers with a skill or trade etc.

It's nice to mix business and pleasure sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, most fabbed males, couples and tv/ts on the front page of most fabbed as well as females (full galleries can be clicked on separately).

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By *hick33Woman
over a year ago

Essex

photo gallery categories. so you haven't got to look through lots and lots of cock/cum pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ability to re-apply a filter to someone you might have exchanged a message with rather than having to block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to be able to _iew all sent/received messages and not lose them off the end of the page until some have been deleted - "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any time you message someone, they are able to make a single response for any message you send, even if you block them - basically a way to stop twats from slagging then blocking.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

super duper bots that will reject any pics previously uploaded on the net (even if your own pics!)

prompts at 3 month intervals for people who have no pics or profile text.. they cannot use the site features til they integrate their active profile into the community

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Ooh, imagine if you could return messages to people unread. Might stop some of the scattergun copy and paste brigade if they got them all sent back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you guys like to see from a swingers site? does this have it all or would you like more? any suggestions??"

A shorter driving distance to my favourite clubs, please.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The ability to re-apply a filter to someone you might have exchanged a message with rather than having to block them. "

The ability to have bad meets/wasted time wiped from the memory

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

People like me leaving the site

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Proper quotes in the forum. How come when you quote someone it doesn't display who they are? It's 2015!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a bit less prejudice and nastiness and some more acceptance and tolerance of differences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

We all know this is a pretty good site. What would you guys like to see from a swingers site? does this have it all or would you like more? any suggestions??"

What would make it better for me?!

If Paul O'Connell, Leigh Halfpenny, Sean O' Brien, Sergio Parisse and Owen Farrell joined up and agreed to a greedy girls night with me...

Not much to ask for, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adding body shape into browsing. Gets really boring wading through all these body beautifuls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess nothing really annoys me about the site. Maybe if hotlists matched then both get a message, but this wouldn't ever be practical or useful for many, even myself

just trying to think of some!

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"to be able to _iew all sent/received messages and not lose them off the end of the page until some have been deleted - "

Hate losing messages. It can not be that much trouble to keep them.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Being able to browse pics by location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiding your profile should also hide all pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An edit comment button in the forums.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"One hot guy delivered to my door a week. Make that two.

Greedy....can we share?

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

When you have a thread going it does not make a new entry for each message. It runs it like a thread should be run so if you have a long conversation with someone you do not have to scroll a long way down to read a conversation with someone else or lose them off the bottom of the page. We delete read messages and keep the last one so we can still see it but pull the ones back up the page that fell off.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"An edit comment button in the forums."

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Hiding your profile should also hide all pics"

It does. But it does not hide pics.that have already been fabbed..so they can be unfabbed and fabbed again...at least i think so! Someone correct me if i am wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A greater diversity of opinions, topics for discussion and a higher percentage of fab members participating on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a bit less prejudice and nastiness and some more acceptance and tolerance of differences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiding your profile should also hide all pics

It does. But it does not hide pics.that have already been fabbed..so they can be unfabbed and fabbed again...at least i think so! Someone correct me if i am wrong."

If you make them private it hides them until you change back to friends or public

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Anyhow...in answer to the OP. I like its as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man who will just read profile, message and arrange to meet?

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If someone organises an event people can join their mail list so when the event is re run, anyone who showed an interest can be messaged. They can however opt out at any time. Saves a lot of work re messaging everyone each time an event comes round.

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Adding friends but choosing which ones see pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adding friends but choosing which ones see pictures."

YES !!!

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

The info about how long ago you sent your last message and when you received your last message from someone, should be turned into links to those actual messages so that you can see what was said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adding friends but choosing which ones see pictures.

YES !!!"

why - just wondering if you want to be friends why not want them to see your pics - just hotlist them instead -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The info about how long ago you sent your last message and when you received your last message from someone, should be turned into links to those actual messages so that you can see what was said."

this would be an alternative to being able to see all the messages and not lose off page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The option to show if I'm online or not

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"One hot guy delivered to my door a week. Make that two.

Don't you have this option anyway....are you not a platinum member ?

Had to downgrade to Plutonium. All I get for that is a slight ticking behind my computer and numb hands."

That's cos you've been knocking around with me too long

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Anyhow...in answer to the OP. I like its as it is."

Yep.

The only thing I'd like to see is a big sign on the front page reminding everyone that this is JUST a website.

It owes you nothing, it's not designed to do any hard work for you and that being here guarantees you nothing.

Those that realise this and have realistic expectations of what this, or any other website in existence can do for them tend to live happier online lives.

The site works pretty damn well if you ask me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some way of getting rid of all the fake profiles. Maybe accounts auto deleted after a month if not verified, photo verified or paid member by then.

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Adding friends but choosing which ones see pictures.

YES !!!

why - just wondering if you want to be friends why not want them to see your pics - just hotlist them instead - "

We run events and hot list people who like the events. Then we have some friends that we would like to short list them and not see pics and others where we would like them to see. Just something that to us would be useful. To others maybe not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some way of getting rid of all the fake profiles. Maybe accounts auto deleted after a month if not verified, photo verified or paid member by then. "

The site is free to use, everyone has the option to support the site with their fiver. Nobody is a paying member.....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The info about how long ago you sent your last message and when you received your last message from someone, should be turned into links to those actual messages so that you can see what was said."

^This, I looked at a profile the other day and it said we last messaged each other 5 years ago. WTF

I've had beer since then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

"Some way of getting rid of all the fake profiles. Maybe accounts auto deleted after a month if not verified, photo verified or paid member by then. "

I think everyone would agree with this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some way of getting rid of all the fake profiles. Maybe accounts auto deleted after a month if not verified, photo verified or paid member by then.

The site is free to use, everyone has the option to support the site with their fiver. Nobody is a paying member....."

Yes sorry I mean site supporter. My point being 1 of those 3 methods shows they are serious and not just here to waste peoples time.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Some way of getting rid of all the fake profiles. Maybe accounts auto deleted after a month if not verified, photo verified or paid member by then.

The site is free to use, everyone has the option to support the site with their fiver. Nobody is a paying member.....

Yes sorry I mean site supporter. My point being 1 of those 3 methods shows they are serious and not just here to waste peoples time. "

I imagine plenty of people who enjoy playing 'catfish' could afford £2.50 a month.

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Well if you are sexy minded, and want to be with others its a good place to be? and get over it not being Match..com! Accept and enjoy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time wasters have money also.

There are genuine people who meet but choose not to be verified or photo verified. Why should they suffer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy this forum but, tbh, it's pretty old fashioned and limited (eg can't post pics, links, vids)

And it's by far the most restrictive forum wrt moderation/rules that I'm on....for saying it's an adult forum it's very constraining.

Still fun though so not all bad

There is a HUGE uk VW forum that is one of the biggest on the net...fab could learn a lot from the way it self governs and only occasionally needs mod intervention.

I also agree with the block and not even see posts thing....again, pretty standard stuff elsewhere.

As for the site in general....needs much better search capabilities

Basically they could do with acting on some of the suggestions posted in the suggestions forum and have a look at competitive adult sites to see how it's done elsewhere (I'm thinking of NN in particular as a reasonable example of a modern adult site)

Oh and also sort out cam access in chat on tablets (but I think that's a HTML limitation tbh)

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Some way of getting rid of all the fake profiles. Maybe accounts auto deleted after a month if not verified, photo verified or paid member by then. "

There are plenty of fake accounts on here who are verified by photo and/or meet, and fake accounts who are both silver and gold members too. They are easy to spot. None of the above would prevent people creating and maintaining fake accounts, just as they do already.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"If you block someone you can't see their forum posts

Definitely, definately this

Another yes for this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time wasters have money also.

There are genuine people who meet but choose not to be verified or photo verified. Why should they suffer? "

Not saying its the perfect solution. Just an idea to out all the fakes that ruin the site for everyone.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Being able to jump to last read post in the forum rather than just your last post or newest.

Keeping messages from friends/hotlist separate from anyone else to make it easier to have a conversation with those you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time wasters have money also.

There are genuine people who meet but choose not to be verified or photo verified. Why should they suffer?

Not saying its the perfect solution. Just an idea to out all the fakes that ruin the site for everyone.

Genuine people still get verified tick by others. Up to them whether they display the verification message or not. I don't think anyone plays on here and demands peoples do not verify them at all. What would be the point?"
discretion! i meet people who dnt want or need a veri. I introduced a girl to fab last year she wasnt on 7mins when a guy offered to veri her for the promise of a meet for a veri there and then! Lots fake veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we get a "not a bell end button" and people can click it so that everyone knows you're not the kind of account that will abuse or harass and genuinely want to have fun.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"To be able to submit videos "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A south central region, SW is too big an area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any time you message someone, they are able to make a single response for any message you send, even if you block them - basically a way to stop twats from slagging then blocking."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some kind of alert when you are mentioned in a thread or someone quotes something you said. Save you finding it says later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Optional collect messages by conversation or at least have a means of filing them so you can find them.

Also, in search parameters include partner status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More ladies on the site. Too many guys chasing too few ladies. Its too hostile a market here sometimes. People being mean and rude for no apparent reason, but truth be told they (some women) feel overwhelemed with all the attention. More ladies would ease that pressure. Dont know how that would be accomplished btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"photo gallery categories. so you haven't got to look through lots and lots of cock/cum pics. "

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some kind of alert when you are mentioned in a thread or someone quotes something you said. Save you finding it says later

Good idea!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"A south central region, SW is too big an area"

Haha, the East Midlands is only slightly smaller than Asia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nice men that are actually honest!!

No fake profiles.

Banned after deleting profile for like the 100th time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"super duper bots that will reject any pics previously uploaded on the net (even if your own pics!)

prompts at 3 month intervals for people who have no pics or profile text.. they cannot use the site features til they integrate their active profile into the community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An option for 'loves marmite.'"

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

1) A Reality Check filter.

2) A 'Give your head a wobble' button to reply to those that get past number 1

Both for the use of ladies on here of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To give people the ability to have an adult discussion about contentious topics without resorting to insults misconception and lies. Yesterday's "body type dictating ones personality" was a classic example.

And for people to be more accepting to the poor people who start out on the scene. Sometimes if people put something up that's probably innocently misguided/silly in come the high horses who think because a way works them then it must be correct and crucifies the OP. Constructive advice rather than scorn.

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By *oob lover 99Man
over a year ago

chester

To be able to go private with cam aswel ! Other than that I love it how it is !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using vBulletin for the forum would solve quite a few of the problems people find with the forum.

I personally would like the search function made more indepth so that you could search by body type and sexual preferences for expample. It can get a bit tedious searching for females/couples where female is bi/curious and are of the body types we prefer. Oh, and adding a bi-playful option rather than just bi/curious.

Hids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And an edit button for those pesky typos

Hids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a bit less prejudice and nastiness and some more acceptance and tolerance of differences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if everyone had a face pic or any pic, if you could read the messages you have deleted. if you could delete verifications not just not show them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No new members allowed to sign up between the hours of 11.00 on a Friday night and 8.00 Saturday morning...

The ability to send multiple messages and forward messages to other members...

A link on profiles to postings on the forum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A visual display for the "not meeting at present" people. Perhaps a red line on their profile? Stops them being bothered and others wasting their time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your mum."

People not posting childish comments like above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatly " body type " in the search facility.

no more suprises when searching then .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"super duper bots that will reject any pics previously uploaded on the net (even if your own pics!)

prompts at 3 month intervals for people who have no pics or profile text.. they cannot use the site features til they integrate their active profile into the community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Separate mailboxes for those on your friends list. Stop your messages getting lost in the sea of ransom messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More woman would make it better .... x Then more would get meets here.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Separate mailboxes for those on your friends list. Stop your messages getting lost in the sea of ransom messages. "

I'm hoping there aren't that many kidnappers on the site sending ransom messages..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Separate mailboxes for those on your friends list. Stop your messages getting lost in the sea of ransom messages.

I'm hoping there aren't that many kidnappers on the site sending ransom messages..

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Id love to be able to rearrange the order of my pictures

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By *kmale65000Man
over a year ago

doncaster

A Yorkshire chat room at the moment im not sure if were Midlands, North East or North West or all 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Separate mailboxes for those on your friends list. Stop your messages getting lost in the sea of ransom messages.

I'm hoping there aren't that many kidnappers on the site sending ransom messages..

Fucking autocorrect!!! Lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Being able to jump to last read post in the forum rather than just your last post or newest.

I would like this one too if it could be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A new section in the forum called profile advice, so that the 1000s of repeated 'I can't get a meet what's wrong with my profile?' Threads can stop clogging up the rest of the forum! .....sorry rant over! X

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Would like one or 2 local women in penge

where is penge lol?.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Multiple categories for single males, so you don't have to start from scratch every time you want to convince a woman that you're not a desperate loser with no social skills."

hmmm like what, could you give examples of what you mean.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

World peace.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"More detailed search parameters."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about site supporters being able to see who's hotlist they're on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less arse lickers, moaners, wankers and whiners...unless everyone's naked!

I'd also like a quarterly statement of my meets, along with a goody bag, with a balloon, badge (FAB) and some novelty condoms, etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One hot guy delivered to my door a week. Make that two.

Don't you have this option anyway....are you not a platinum member ?

Had to downgrade to Plutonium. All I get for that is a slight ticking behind my computer and numb hands."

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shed loads more women please

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Guestlists for club nights/parties, click on the members names and their profile pops up.

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By *s2inwales69Couple
over a year ago

Abertillery

Stop newbies joining so easily. Stop multiple accounts. Single guys are joining as couples and verifying themselves and their fellow conspirators. A good idea would be a verification phone call speaking to both male and female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a member is kicked off the site for whatever reason then there should be an IP ban so just rejoining with another email addy wont work.... Also if they join on another IP and log in on a banned IP them their account automatically deleted.

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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14

Discount loyalty card for for a free sex with the lady of my choice and a badge with googly eyes on.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

Group messaging, so you can introduce people you're talking to and have more naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A direct link to laterooms.com

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"A man who will just read profile, message and arrange to meet?

The OP was asking for suggestions, not miracles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps a colour coded message system whereby paid members were a different colour to non-supporters. Or perhaps in a different folder or section.

I suppose the logic would be that supporters have a little more invested in the swinging idea, so might be a little more serious about it.

This would definitely make it easier to filter the randoms who join the site, simply to annoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discount loyalty card for for a free sex with the lady of my choice and a badge with googly eyes on."

Oi. I trademarked googly

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Discount loyalty card for for a free sex with the lady of my choice and a badge with googly eyes on.

Oi. I trademarked googly

Hehe

you get em told xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Oi. I trademarked googly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oi. I trademarked googly

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Group messaging, so you can introduce people you're talking to and have more naughty fun

Group messaging would be very useful when arranging parties.

A better mail system with folders would be good too. It's too easy to lose mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A section in browsing for....

Older f or fm etc looking for young m/f etc.

And young looking for mature.

Fantasy and role-play section could be fun.

Everybody can help fulfil each others pleasure by reading a profile advert and messaging with a interest. Would save the long search and questions to find somebody..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be able to comment on peoples pics

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Women in London who like older guys like me who love giving oral. Especially iwomen who are domme or domme curious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A reply and deleted button in messages

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

More real swingers, and a lot less keyboard swingers

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"I'd love to be able to comment on peoples pics

very very bad idea when you think about the outcomes from that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'd love to be able to comment on peoples pics

very very bad idea when you think about the outcomes from that."

We post on a site where comments are allowed on pictures and it can get really nasty. If some of the forum posts I see are anything to go by I think it would happen here too so I wouldn't advocate this idea either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"super duper bots that will reject any pics previously uploaded on the net (even if your own pics!)

prompts at 3 month intervals for people who have no pics or profile text.. they cannot use the site features til they integrate their active profile into the community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been on other sites that are too fussy and often don't work properly, so one of the things we like about Fab is that it's simple and the tech works.

That said, there's two things we'd really like to have:

1. Ability to re-order the display of pics (without having to delete and re-load them)

2. Multiple hotlists, or a way of marking profiles with different tags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally and not having a go at admin as they do a crackong job generally but when as has happened a member who is ex fb sends what can only be described as threatening messages as default admin blockd both people from seeong each other which I understand.

At what point is a person barred from fab.

Thats my only bug bear.

Rest of time things go great in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age old request...different coloured tick for meeting in person or cam veris for those of us who look for people who actually meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[IMG] [/IMG] - sometimes you just NEEEEEED to post a certain pic in reply.....

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By *nnocentOneWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

[Removed by poster at 10/02/15 08:55:48]

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"For me personally and not having a go at admin as they do a crackong job generally but when as has happened a member who is ex fb sends what can only be described as threatening messages as default admin blockd both people from seeong each other which I understand.

At what point is a person barred from fab.

Thats my only bug bear.

Rest of time things go great in my experience."

The blocking might not be the only thing that is normally done, that is just so things don't escalate further. Below is what Admin say they do with reports.

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is re_iewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly re_iew your feedback and take the necessary action. After re_iewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'd love to be able to comment on peoples pics

very very bad idea when you think about the outcomes from that.

Agree. Why would someone want to publicly say what they thought about a picture. It is looking for upset. People are going to use this in a negative way. If you like someone's picture send them a message, if you do not, move on.

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

At what point is a person barred from fab.

Thats my only bug bear.

Rest of time things go great in my experience."

Admin bugged my neighbour who used our wi if and computer to go on fab. Thought we had double accounts lol. I can understand this does not happen often but no explaining would change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The age old request...different coloured tick for meeting in person or cam veris for those of us who look for people who actually meet..."

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

Hi all,

Do away with the cam veris, or stop them being hidden on profile.

Then different colours for social meet and play meets . Connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it would be if we don't ancer your first 2/3 messages you cannot send anymore ! Xx

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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14

"Discount loyalty card for for a free sex with the lady of my choice and a badge with wibbly woobly eyes on.

Oi. I trademarked googly

Googly amended

Never want to mess with another mans googly...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people stopping coming onto the forums and berating bad men, rude women, fake couples and the like....

it's like one upmanship half the time... I had one who did this, no way.. I had one who did this, no way.... I had......

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

free cake reminds me ......HOW DO YOU GET A FAT BIRD INTO BED.....A PIECE OF CAKE ,,

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Unicorns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

Do away with the cam veris, or stop them being hidden on profile.

Then different colours for social meet and play meets . Connie xx

It's nobodies business what we do on our meets...whether play or social...just meeting is enough, we wouldn't verify anybody in that way and wouldn't accept any that distinguished that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if there were filters for size as in slim, average or large, foreign or british, straight or bi.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"if there were filters for size as in slim, average or large, foreign or british, straight or bi."

i'd love to see how that "foreign or british" filter is going to work.... prey tell......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if there were filters for size as in slim, average or large, foreign or british, straight or bi.

i'd love to see how that "foreign or british" filter is going to work.... prey tell......"

People who are born in this country, or what nationality they were. or white black or the other.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

How about a holiday forum.

or just change the worldwide name ..Connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3D...

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By *ong-legged-divaTV/TS
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Some kind of miracle program that realises when autocorrect has high jacked your post, that you didn't want to type "ducking" and changes it back again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good video section

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By *iles3659Man
over a year ago

Stafford

How about a clickable option that will send a message that says "thank you for your message but we do not wish to proceed"

Something that takes no longer than hitting delete but let's down the recipient a little more gently than DELETED.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"How about a clickable option that will send a message that says "thank you for your message but we do not wish to proceed"

Something that takes no longer than hitting delete but let's down the recipient a little more gently than DELETED."

how about taking no reply as no thanks.

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By *iles3659Man
over a year ago

Stafford

And there's a reply that completely misses the point!

There is no doubt in anyone's mind that DELETED = No Thanks.

But plenty of people would like to say No Thanks politely but simply do not have the time when they receive 100 messages.

An alternative would give people a practical solution to being firmly negative but still friendly FAST.

Got it now or shall I draw you a picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fetish section.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Better search functions - by body type or height for example.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"And there's a reply that completely misses the point!

There is no doubt in anyone's mind that DELETED = No Thanks.

But plenty of people would like to say No Thanks politely but simply do not have the time when they receive 100 messages.

An alternative would give people a practical solution to being firmly negative but still friendly FAST.

Got it now or shall I draw you a picture?"

its been suggested before many times, and why do you think its never been implemented, well lets see, instead of the threads and statuses complaining of no reply, they would be complaining they got an automated reply instead of a personal reply, so your idea would be no further forward, that topped with many people dont want to reply to unsolicited mail/ people that havent bothered to read profile/ incompatible people/ one word or one line messages so choose to ignore and delete as they do not wish to receive the well why not/ whats wrong with me/ or abusive messages that follow, the site rules tell you all you need to know, do you get it yet or should I draw you a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to be able to appear off line do I can go about my lurking without being PMed just because I appear online

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"And there's a reply that completely misses the point!

There is no doubt in anyone's mind that DELETED = No Thanks.

But plenty of people would like to say No Thanks politely but simply do not have the time when they receive 100 messages.

An alternative would give people a practical solution to being firmly negative but still friendly FAST.

Got it now or shall I draw you a picture?"

Oooh, feisty!

Admin have already said they tried an automatic reply back when the site was young and people complained that it was impersonal. So they put in the FAQs that no reply = no, and left it there.

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Get rid of the

pic collectors

time wasters

Wannabes

The sites good

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By *iles3659Man
over a year ago

Stafford

"And there's a reply that completely misses the point!

There is no doubt in anyone's mind that DELETED = No Thanks.

But plenty of people would like to say No Thanks politely but simply do not have the time when they receive 100 messages.

An alternative would give people a practical solution to being firmly negative but still friendly FAST.

Got it now or shall I draw you a picture?

Good and fair explanation and much more reasonable than your first reponse.

But I haven't suggested removing the delete option. That would remain available to everyone who felt that way you have described.

I'm simply offering choice to those who may choose to use it.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"And there's a reply that completely misses the point!

There is no doubt in anyone's mind that DELETED = No Thanks.

But plenty of people would like to say No Thanks politely but simply do not have the time when they receive 100 messages.

An alternative would give people a practical solution to being firmly negative but still friendly FAST.

Got it now or shall I draw you a picture?

Good and fair explanation and much more reasonable than your first reponse.

But I haven't suggested removing the delete option. That would remain available to everyone who felt that way you have described.

I'm simply offering choice to those who may choose to use it."

like the other poster says it has been tried and suggested, and with the choice between both would just make the complaints of it not been personal higher, think of all the threads starting with "why do I only get automated replies" or words to that affect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be able to write on people's statuses, some of them crack me up..oh and a bomb so we can blast some of the freaks that keep stalking lol.

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By *iles3659Man
over a year ago

Stafford

I do hear that but I was with people last night who were looking at 213 messages received in 2 hours.

They wanted to send polite replies to some and they wanted to delete the rubbish.

They only had the second option available to them.

So I stand by my suggestion, the reasons behind it and the right to make it.

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