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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am curious.

not every woman is blessed with a flat and firm tummy.

and this question goes to guys as well to bi-females.

is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an issue it's the overall person and personality that makes someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting question...... -----Mum here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me

And I have one myself and still have plenty of genuine offers and meets so in my experience no it's not a deal breaker

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast

Love a fatty me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a fatty me x"

There's always one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucking hope not!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I fucking hope not! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. "

I purposefully put one picture of mine up so men knew before messaging me. If they don't like it, it's their issue.

I don't really like it on myself but considering ive just shed 6st after a year from hell with health issues and major surgery, im over the moon with my curvy and slimmer than I was figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have issues with mine too. No one i've met seemed to mind though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. "

And from what I can see if you in your pics... WOW!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious.

not every woman is blessed with a flat and firm tummy.

and this question goes to guys as well to bi-females.

is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?"

Do you really need to ask this of guys? You know 90% of guys on will take any shag they can get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks so much, ryverbloo. I like yours too!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I have a big belly, doesn't seem to put guys off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Do you really need to ask this of guys? You know 90% of guys on will take any shag they can get."

I am not after guys who would fuck anyone.I try to find that out before a meet. I am not a hole. I am a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer real woman looks rather than skinny models.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the biggest fan of my tummy, but as a mum of three I love it for what it's done - and if anyone doesn't like it they can jog on. It's their problem not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fucking hope not! "

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Much prefer real woman looks rather than skinny models."

How does being slim make a woman not real??

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

In the choice between perfect gym fit toned abs and flat stomach, or a bit of a tum with some wobbles and perhaps a few stretches here or there... we'd both go for the tum But then, having a bit of a tum tends to go with having gorgeous curves in other places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. "
it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral."

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral."
youve met em too? curvy??

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe! "

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, I take the person as a whole. However, I like curves and it can be a big turn on. Last night when I was out, I saw a girl who had the arms of a size 16 girl, but the torso of a 12. It looked like she had been put together, but had got someone else's arms and I liked it. It was different and I thought she looked sexy. Not an easy thing to compliment someone on, though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral. youve met em too? curvy?? "
just injecting a little humour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?. "

do you have a problem with females tummies or why do you ask that?

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

i hope not othrewise im in trouble , still got my mummy tum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest sincere quality people that can converse about anything other then themselves is so much more intriguing then the gymslim mirror models anyday

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess."

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I bloody hope not. Mine is stubborn and I appear to be losing inches from everywhere except that but and my upper arms. Grrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral."

Haha priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensible answer, I dislike mine a lot, and it looks like I've had 4 large children when actually all I have to blame is a lot of weight gain and loss over the past few years. What I've also realised though is no one really cares, and we're all our own harshest critics. One woman I was involved in a FFM with has identical stretch marks to mine, but I never noticed it at the time and she never noticed mine, it was only when we were talking another time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference."

how does that make feel a woman who has a big tummy? this is not the right topic for jokes. sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious.

not every woman is blessed with a flat and firm tummy.

and this question goes to guys as well to bi-females.

is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?"

Not at all. Sexy doesn't always equal stick thin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a mummy tummy It's the reason I'm not comfortable with many men. Fine with ladies though. Much prefer a curvy lady.

Char

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?.

do you have a problem with females tummies or why do you ask that?"

Not at all I have one myself I just think that the constant 'real women have curves' and 'real men like woman with curves' comments totally absurd. All woman are real no matter wether they are a size 6 or 26 and every size in between. And all men are real regardless of which of those sizes they prefer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?. "
any man like that wouldnt turn up to meet a "curvy' lady would he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest sincere quality people that can converse about anything other then themselves is so much more intriguing then the gymslim mirror models anyday "

Oh god here we go with this crap again. Gymslim mirror models cant be honest and sincere either can they? Why cant you just say that youre ok with the tummy instead of feeling the need to put others down to make the point?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?.

do you have a problem with females tummies or why do you ask that?

Not at all I have one myself I just think that the constant 'real women have curves' and 'real men like woman with curves' comments totally absurd. All woman are real no matter wether they are a size 6 or 26 and every size in between. And all men are real regardless of which of those sizes they prefer. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?. any man like that wouldnt turn up to meet a "curvy' lady would he?"

Do me a favour pal, we all have our own preferences...it doesnt make anyone more or less real.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?. any man like that wouldnt turn up to meet a "curvy' lady would he?"

That's not what you implied, you implied that only real men like woman with curves. Which is ridiculous.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Honest sincere quality people that can converse about anything other then themselves is so much more intriguing then the gymslim mirror models anyday "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

aaaarrrrrghhh!

can we keep the discussion to the topic?

I am really interested in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?. any man like that wouldnt turn up to meet a "curvy' lady would he?

That's not what you implied, you implied that only real men like woman with curves. Which is ridiculous. "

It was just another moronic comment from the white knight brigade who hitch their wagon to the "curvy" ladies cause because he thinks it will get him a shag quicker

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference.

how does that make feel a woman who has a big tummy? this is not the right topic for jokes. sorry.

"

I'm guessing the same way a man feels if he's turned down for being too fat, or not having a cock of at least 10 inches, or not being able to whistle Bohemian Rhapsody whilst drinking a glass of water.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

hate mine I had a c section for a big baby and two major ops on my tummy but never had a bloke turned off by it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 3 sections no matter what i do I mine will never go flat, I've done every excerise going but because they have cut through my stomach muscles so many times they are basically fucked, I have now accepted this and try not to let it bother me, though sometimes it does

I think we all see things in ourselves that bother us far more than they bother others, sometimes we are our own worse critics

You have to remember not everyone will view you how you view yourself

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"aaaarrrrrghhh!

can we keep the discussion to the topic?

I am really interested in that.

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I think the answer will always be split down the middle, some prefer slim toned woman, some prefer bigger ladies, some don't care about size, it's just a shame that people can't express that without insulting the other end of the scale or implying that slimmer woman aren't real if they aren't curvy or such like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not a problem. It's the undefinable sexiness and attitude.

The most attractive and sexiest ladies on here don't fit into a single age, size or any other category.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks to the one who write an answer to the question.

sounds good to me.

and right, I am able to see people as a whole. why shouldn't other people be able of that too?

but still, it's a tricky topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs has a tummy, bless her she is very conscious of it. But we have lived life and had numerous children etc which enables us to have a mature & fun outlook of life. So we would only really want to play with the same anyway!! A bit of a tum is not an issue as long as you don't resemble a bag of potatoes, cos that's just not our thing lol

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Absolutely not

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By *egularFunMan
over a year ago

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Nowt wrong with tummies!

A tummy is perfect for wrapping your arm around while spooning...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"aaaarrrrrghhh!

can we keep the discussion to the topic?

I am really interested in that.

I think the answer will always be split down the middle, some prefer slim toned woman, some prefer bigger ladies, some don't care about size, it's just a shame that people can't express that without insulting the other end of the scale or implying that slimmer woman aren't real if they aren't curvy or such like. "

the question wasn't "do you fancy big bellies?"

the question was if it was a deal breaker if you would find out in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?. any man like that wouldnt turn up to meet a "curvy' lady would he?

That's not what you implied, you implied that only real men like woman with curves. Which is ridiculous.

It was just another moronic comment from the white knight brigade who hitch their wagon to the "curvy" ladies cause because he thinks it will get him a shag quicker"
wtf? i turn meets down thank you very much all single guys arent willing to shag anything with a pulse! and to clear the air i was tryin to be supportive and i dont be long to any brigade nor do i wish to!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference."

Won't like me and my spare tyre then

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"aaaarrrrrghhh!

can we keep the discussion to the topic?

I am really interested in that.

I think the answer will always be split down the middle, some prefer slim toned woman, some prefer bigger ladies, some don't care about size, it's just a shame that people can't express that without insulting the other end of the scale or implying that slimmer woman aren't real if they aren't curvy or such like.

the question wasn't "do you fancy big bellies?"

the question was if it was a deal breaker if you would find out in bed."

Sorry I got sidetracked by the comments.

Seeing as there are clearly a few people who it would bother to the point of them not wanting to play with someone who had that I think having a picture on your profile even in underwear would prevent you having to worry, I would be a bit mortified if someone wanted to meet me then buggered off coz I had a bit of belly wobble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I actually prefer a little belly on the ladies. Dunno why, just turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious.

not every woman is blessed with a flat and firm tummy.

and this question goes to guys as well to bi-females.

is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?"

I'll swap you. Try having your whole body covered in psoriasis (red patches of skin that make you look like a ****ing leopard) and being too nervous to be around any couples because you'd be too jealous of their perfect skin. Or people staring at you when you go swimming. Kids asking "what's wrong with you". Amazingly, various single guys have been lovely about it though.

From photos, it seems a lot of women play wearing lingere that covers their stomach up anyway, is this an idea if you don't feel confident?

Failing that, the Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred is a very good beginners workout that tones up bits you never thought could be toned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral. youve met em too? curvy?? "

Fair few guys fit that description too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has bits of their bodies they don't like or things that bother them, if there is a physical attraction and a mental connection that more than makes up for a few wobbly bits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

@crazyxtc

good comment! I see...

and yes I do have lingerie that helps me to feel better about it when playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious.

not every woman is blessed with a flat and firm tummy.

and this question goes to guys as well to bi-females.

is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?"
No x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has bits of their bodies they don't like or things that bother them, if there is a physical attraction and a mental connection that more than makes up for a few wobbly bits "

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference.

Won't like me and my spare tyre then "

A spare for one of those massive excavating trucks, probably not. A spare for a motorcycle, probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral. youve met em too? curvy??

Fair few guys fit that description too!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious.

not every woman is blessed with a flat and firm tummy.

and this question goes to guys as well to bi-females.

is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?"

To give a direct answer, it would depend on how big it was, so yes it could be in certain situations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love the softness of my wife's tummy. That follows on to mean Im not put off by a bit of mummyness on a woman. Tbh I find it quite sexy.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

This thread made me think and it dawned on me that i have never been with a thin lady in all my years. Long live the curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a conversation with a friend about this issue I was advised to 'plank'-not sure if it'll work . But I'm gonna give it ago . . . Oneday. . Possibly ????

(Her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, i love a bit of a mummy tummy, don't mind a few stretch marks either, sign of a real woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This thread made me think and it dawned on me that i have never been with a thin lady in all my years. Long live the curves "

the strange thing is that despite of my worries about my own body I actually fancy curvy women if I just have a firs look.

if I know them better it depends very much on their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, i love a bit of a mummy tummy, don't mind a few stretch marks either, sign of a real woman. "

Another member of the brigade

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

come on, bananaman. be nice.

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

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"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference.

how does that make feel a woman who has a big tummy? this is not the right topic for jokes. sorry.

"

I have to say ....you opened a thread asking if women with tummys are a turn off, then when people give you the answers on here, you get defensive.

If you are especially sensitive about an area of your body, then you are taking a risk asking people what they think because you are clearly upset with anyone who doesn't give you the answer you are seeking.

Solution? Don't ask the question if you aren't prepared for the answer.

I don't say this to be mean, but in all honesty, some people will love a tummy and some won't. You asked. They answered! Thats the forums for you! If it upsets you, then save the question for those people whose opinion genuinely matters to you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find here on fab woman are find with a tummy but men with a beer tummy is look down on .

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Well, i love a bit of a mummy tummy, don't mind a few stretch marks either, sign of a real woman. "

Okay, so women without a mummy tummy or stretch marks even though they've given birth aren't "real"? And speaking of stretch marks, how few is few?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find here on fab woman are find with a tummy but men with a beer tummy is look down on . "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference.

how does that make feel a woman who has a big tummy? this is not the right topic for jokes. sorry.

I have to say ....you opened a thread asking if women with tummys are a turn off, then when people give you the answers on here, you get defensive.

If you are especially sensitive about an area of your body, then you are taking a risk asking people what they think because you are clearly upset with anyone who doesn't give you the answer you are seeking.

Solution? Don't ask the question if you aren't prepared for the answer.

I don't say this to be mean, but in all honesty, some people will love a tummy and some won't. You asked. They answered! Thats the forums for you! If it upsets you, then save the question for those people whose opinion genuinely matters to you. X"

I have no problem if someone says he doesn't like it. but I don't like condescending jokes. no need to put down people.

one can just say he or she doesn't like it. that's fine.

do you see the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference.

how does that make feel a woman who has a big tummy? this is not the right topic for jokes. sorry.

"

I don't think he was joking

To be honest I though he answered your question adequately, you asked if a tummy would put people off he said a small ones fine but not a big fat gut

How peoples answers make others feel it just pot luck if you ask a question you have to accept not everyone will tell you what you want to hear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why is this thread abused as a cockfight arena?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

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I also like my women curvy, Christina Hendricks is my ideal woman.

I have big boobs and like playing with big boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is this thread abused as a cockfight arena?"
people have different views and that's good ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference.

how does that make feel a woman who has a big tummy? this is not the right topic for jokes. sorry.

I don't think he was joking

To be honest I though he answered your question adequately, you asked if a tummy would put people off he said a small ones fine but not a big fat gut

How peoples answers make others feel it just pot luck if you ask a question you have to accept not everyone will tell you what you want to hear "

I give it up.

if you read it again you will see what I mean.

just one question:

do you see a difference between these two sentences?

"small dicks are just not for me."

and "everything is wrong with guys where I have to look for hours for their tiny little pathetic baby cock."

if yes. well done.

if no. ok, I give up.

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

tummies are great

is mine off putting ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

not a very helpful comment...... but that's the risk here, I guess.

I thought I answered your question. I like a woman with a tummy, I don't like a woman with a big fat gut. There is a difference.

how does that make feel a woman who has a big tummy? this is not the right topic for jokes. sorry.

I don't think he was joking

To be honest I though he answered your question adequately, you asked if a tummy would put people off he said a small ones fine but not a big fat gut

How peoples answers make others feel it just pot luck if you ask a question you have to accept not everyone will tell you what you want to hear

I give it up.

if you read it again you will see what I mean.

just one question:

do you see a difference between these two sentences?

"small dicks are just not for me."

and "everything is wrong with guys where I have to look for hours for their tiny little pathetic baby cock."

if yes. well done.

if no. ok, I give up."

The only people who have ruined this thread are the "thats a real woman" brigade who feel the need to down on one body type in order to praise another...eliminate those fuckers and you have a good thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"come on, bananaman. be nice."

He can be nice,where a "hot" couple are concerned anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I think men look at woman as a mother and a woman who give birth so to some its part of life if they have a tummy and even a turn on as its can be feminine........ But men now they don't give birth and if a big tummy its from over drinking or eating to much .. why woman maybe get away with it more here. Not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find here on fab woman are find with a tummy but men with a beer tummy is look down on . "

Beer bellied men aren't attractive to me ever. Fat men can be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See I think men look at woman as a mother and a woman who give birth so to some its part of life if they have a tummy and even a turn on as its can be feminine........ But men now they don't give birth and if a big tummy its from over drinking or eating to much .. why woman maybe get away with it more here. Not sure."

but I hope I get away with it too, I never had a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer real woman looks rather than skinny models.

How does being slim make a woman not real?? "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find here on fab woman are find with a tummy but men with a beer tummy is look down on .

Beer bellied men aren't attractive to me ever. Fat men can be "

And one is not the same as the other????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a bit of a bigger belly than I would (ideally) like. I would blame carrying my 3 kids but it is probably more down to the years of excessive cider consumption and love of Mcdonalds. I have never had a man complain about it, one or two have actually said they find it particularly attractive

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I am curious.

not every woman is blessed with a flat and firm tummy.

and this question goes to guys as well to bi-females.

is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?"

Not really, If i was forced to go on looks alone the face would be the deal breaker for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find here on fab woman are find with a tummy but men with a beer tummy is look down on .

Beer bellied men aren't attractive to me ever. Fat men can be

And one is not the same as the other???? "

I'd say not, to me a beer bellied man is a man of average build or even under but with a out of proportion big gut, a fat man is well just a fat man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?.

do you have a problem with females tummies or why do you ask that?

Not at all I have one myself I just think that the constant 'real women have curves' and 'real men like woman with curves' comments totally absurd. All woman are real no matter wether they are a size 6 or 26 and every size in between. And all men are real regardless of which of those sizes they prefer. "

I totally agree! So I'm not real cause I'm not curvy? Good to know! What a load of absolute shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find here on fab woman are find with a tummy but men with a beer tummy is look down on .

Beer bellied men aren't attractive to me ever. Fat men can be

And one is not the same as the other????

I'd say not, to me a beer bellied man is a man of average build or even under but with a out of proportion big gut, a fat man is well just a fat man "

You do realise theres no such thing as 'beer belly' right? Thats just a myth build up over years of misinformation. You dont get a different type of belly from beer than say burgers or chocolate; fat is the same no matter where it comes from. The difference youre noticing is down to the person in particular and how the fat grows on their body. Some will go purely to the belly (the kind youre thinking off), and on other it will grow more evenly or on different body parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing with women and i couldn't give a flying feck about tummies, odd shaped boobs, stretch marks….the list goes on.

I've got a list of insecurities a mile long, I guess most of us have, but when it comes to play, I've learned to kick the fuck out of them. It kills me to see woman go to pieces when it's time to strip off and to be so self-conscious that they forget to enjoy themselves when all I see is beauty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find here on fab woman are find with a tummy but men with a beer tummy is look down on .

Beer bellied men aren't attractive to me ever. Fat men can be

And one is not the same as the other????

I'd say not, to me a beer bellied man is a man of average build or even under but with a out of proportion big gut, a fat man is well just a fat man

You do realise theres no such thing as 'beer belly' right? Thats just a myth build up over years of misinformation. You dont get a different type of belly from beer than say burgers or chocolate; fat is the same no matter where it comes from. The difference youre noticing is down to the person in particular and how the fat grows on their body. Some will go purely to the belly (the kind youre thinking off), and on other it will grow more evenly or on different body parts"

Of course I do

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?"

Nope.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral."

I just tuck mine in my knickers and leave it as a surprise

But I always carry a skin stapler so scaffolding not required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

I just tuck mine in my knickers and leave it as a surprise

But I always carry a skin stapler so scaffolding not required "

I also find that if i stand on my head while he stands up to perform oral my belly hangs away from the required area anyway

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?.

do you have a problem with females tummies or why do you ask that?

Not at all I have one myself I just think that the constant 'real women have curves' and 'real men like woman with curves' comments totally absurd. All woman are real no matter wether they are a size 6 or 26 and every size in between. And all men are real regardless of which of those sizes they prefer.

I totally agree! So I'm not real cause I'm not curvy? Good to know! What a load of absolute shite "

I am not a real woman! I am made of lego!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

I just tuck mine in my knickers and leave it as a surprise

But I always carry a skin stapler so scaffolding not required

I also find that if i stand on my head while he stands up to perform oral my belly hangs away from the required area anyway "

What a good idea and there's silly me being puncturing myself with staples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?.

do you have a problem with females tummies or why do you ask that?

Not at all I have one myself I just think that the constant 'real women have curves' and 'real men like woman with curves' comments totally absurd. All woman are real no matter wether they are a size 6 or 26 and every size in between. And all men are real regardless of which of those sizes they prefer.

I totally agree! So I'm not real cause I'm not curvy? Good to know! What a load of absolute shite

I am not a real woman! I am made of lego!! "

Hot lego!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a deal breaker but I do prefer a tummy...If a lass was a nice person I could overlook a flat stomach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong with a tummy on a woman, everything wrong with a gut. Especially one that starts from below the breasts and billows and droops to below the pantyline necessitating the need for scaffolding to perform oral.

I just tuck mine in my knickers and leave it as a surprise

But I always carry a skin stapler so scaffolding not required "
good girl see ya fri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a deal breaker but I do prefer a tummy...If a lass was a nice person I could overlook a flat stomach. "

Your such a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand what some of the people here mean by "so is a slim woman not a real woman then?" don't misunderstand me.

but it always makes me smile when slim women behave as if in society they were discriminated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what some of the people here mean by "so is a slim woman not a real woman then?" don't misunderstand me.

but it always makes me smile when slim women behave as if in society they were discriminated. "

Theyre not behaving as if theyre being discriminate against. Theyre just reacting to the moronic comments made against them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a deal breaker but I do prefer a tummy...If a lass was a nice person I could overlook a flat stomach. "

Haha "i could overlook a flat stomach"...christ on a bike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a woman with a tummy, find it hot !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand what some of the people here mean by "so is a slim woman not a real woman then?" don't misunderstand me.

but it always makes me smile when slim women behave as if in society they were discriminated.

Theyre not behaving as if theyre being discriminate against. Theyre just reacting to the moronic comments made against them"

sorry, but that reminds me to these white, christian, male americans who complaint about discrimination when a latina woman was elected as a judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what some of the people here mean by "so is a slim woman not a real woman then?" don't misunderstand me.

but it always makes me smile when slim women behave as if in society they were discriminated.

Theyre not behaving as if theyre being discriminate against. Theyre just reacting to the moronic comments made against them

sorry, but that reminds me to these white, christian, male americans who complaint about discrimination when a latina woman was elected as a judge. "

What are u on about???

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over a year ago


"I agree. for me it is the same with other people.

but with my own I have some issues....

I don't show it on my pictures. so I ask myself if someone would be turned off if they see it when I get undressed.... that would be disastrous. it doesnt matter to real men honestly it really doesnt your safe!

How does a man not being attracted to a lady with a tummy make him not real?.

do you have a problem with females tummies or why do you ask that?

Not at all I have one myself I just think that the constant 'real women have curves' and 'real men like woman with curves' comments totally absurd. All woman are real no matter wether they are a size 6 or 26 and every size in between. And all men are real regardless of which of those sizes they prefer.

I totally agree! So I'm not real cause I'm not curvy? Good to know! What a load of absolute shite

I am not a real woman! I am made of lego!! "

I'm a Lego woman too. When a man grabs my fat arse I say "Oi! Leggo!! "

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I understand what some of the people here mean by "so is a slim woman not a real woman then?" don't misunderstand me.

but it always makes me smile when slim women behave as if in society they were discriminated. "

I don't think the slim woman on here think they are discriminated against in society but it's clear from many many MANY threads that 'fat bashing' is unacceptable (and rightly so of course) but people can say anything awful they like about slim woman and that's ok, only dogs like bones, noone wants to fuck a Skeleton they might break, only real woman have curves.

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over a year ago


"I understand what some of the people here mean by "so is a slim woman not a real woman then?" don't misunderstand me.

but it always makes me smile when slim women behave as if in society they were discriminated. "

I don't think that at all. But I do find those comments so ridiculous. You can talk about tummy issues without saying slim women aren't real can you not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a deal breaker but I do prefer a tummy...If a lass was a nice person I could overlook a flat stomach.

Haha "i could overlook a flat stomach"...christ on a bike"

what? I don't find toned women that physically attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

come on!

slim people are not really suffering of bad comments in this society. so keep calm. it's all fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a deal breaker but I do prefer a tummy...If a lass was a nice person I could overlook a flat stomach. "

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over a year ago


"Not a deal breaker but I do prefer a tummy...If a lass was a nice person I could overlook a flat stomach.

Haha "i could overlook a flat stomach"...christ on a bike"

Just out of interest why's that funny

Loads have said if they liked a woman a belly wouldnt bother them and you haven't comments to a single one, yet someome says they could over look a flat belly for a nice person and you feel the need to quote and mock it

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"come on!

slim people are not really suffering of bad comments in this society. so keep calm. it's all fine. "

It's not ok to make the bad comments though, just because they don't happen as often I wish women (and men) would learn that you don't have to put someone else down to feel better about yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a deal breaker but I do prefer a tummy...If a lass was a nice person I could overlook a flat stomach.

Haha "i could overlook a flat stomach"...christ on a bike"

Well,you can't overlook a fat one can you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't know that slim people suffer that much because of their appearance....

do you really need to hear that slim is actually society's definition of hot and attractive?

there you go. it is.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Not a deal breaker but I do prefer a tummy...If a lass was a nice person I could overlook a flat stomach.

Haha "i could overlook a flat stomach"...christ on a bike

Just out of interest why's that funny

Loads have said if they liked a woman a belly wouldnt bother them and you haven't comments to a single one, yet someome says they could over look a flat belly for a nice person and you feel the need to quote and mock it

Interesting "

Overlook it, because it's flat..doesn't stick out. I got it. Not straight away though. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"come on!

slim people are not really suffering of bad comments in this society. so keep calm. it's all fine. "

Very calm here, you're clearly making it up as you go and can't argue your case very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"come on!

slim people are not really suffering of bad comments in this society. so keep calm. it's all fine. "

Were not on about society, were on about in here, where slim girls do get offensive comments made about them by those looking to promote fat girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a deal breaker but I do prefer a tummy...If a lass was a nice person I could overlook a flat stomach.

Your such a gentleman "

Let it not be said I'm not an equal opportunities type....slim folk have a place as much as anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't see your problem.

I never said slim people are something less, have I?

and if yes, tell me where.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so thin during my 20s that when I laid down in a bikini there was a gap of about 2 inches between my stomach and my bottoms. I couldn't lay down on a beach because you could see my lady bits

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over a year ago


"I am curious.

not every woman is blessed with a flat and firm tummy.

and this question goes to guys as well to bi-females.

is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?

Do you really need to ask this of guys? You know 90% of guys on will take any shag they can get."

This thought crossed my mind too

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I didn't know that slim people suffer that much because of their appearance....

do you really need to hear that slim is actually society's definition of hot and attractive?

there you go. it is."

Depends what you read. I don't read Cosmo or anything with celebrities in it. I'm concentrating on weight lifting and fitness. Where being 'skinny' Means nothing and being strong means everything. I can't wear skinny jeans any more because my thighs are too muscly..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"come on!

slim people are not really suffering of bad comments in this society. so keep calm. it's all fine.

Were not on about society, were on about in here, where slim girls do get offensive comments made about them by those looking to promote fat girls"

ok. so you come from curvy to fat.

interesting.

as I said. calm down.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"come on!

slim people are not really suffering of bad comments in this society. so keep calm. it's all fine.

Were not on about society, were on about in here, where slim girls do get offensive comments made about them by those looking to promote fat girls"

Yep, goes both ways, which brings me back to what I said about people insulting the others to get brownie points, seems acceptable to slate slim girls but not the other way round..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see your problem.

I never said slim people are something less, have I?

and if yes, tell me where."

Well I was responding to someone else's comment about curvy women being 'real women' whatever that is. You jumped in then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"come on!

slim people are not really suffering of bad comments in this society. so keep calm. it's all fine.

Were not on about society, were on about in here, where slim girls do get offensive comments made about them by those looking to promote fat girls

Yep, goes both ways, which brings me back to what I said about people insulting the others to get brownie points, seems acceptable to slate slim girls but not the other way round.. "

Agree with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see your problem.

I never said slim people are something less, have I?

and if yes, tell me where.

Well I was responding to someone else's comment about curvy women being 'real women' whatever that is. You jumped in then"

um.... you quoted me. so I thought you were talking to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"come on!

slim people are not really suffering of bad comments in this society. so keep calm. it's all fine.

Were not on about society, were on about in here, where slim girls do get offensive comments made about them by those looking to promote fat girls

ok. so you come from curvy to fat.

interesting.

as I said. calm down. "

I cant even understand what youre saying now so no point in continuing

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Well, this escalated quickly

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I am curious.

not every woman is blessed with a flat and firm tummy.

and this question goes to guys as well to bi-females.

is a bit of a tummy on a woman a deal breaker for you?"

Oh god no! I love curves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see your problem.

I never said slim people are something less, have I?

and if yes, tell me where.

Well I was responding to someone else's comment about curvy women being 'real women' whatever that is. You jumped in then

um.... you quoted me. so I thought you were talking to me?"

Yeah, to your slim people comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right lets just take a walk down real street here

Men on here outweigh women by maybe 100 to 1

Would a tummy put people off

You could be a banana in a bin bag and still get more offers than you can handle so long as you had a pair of tits

And there lays your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see your problem.

I never said slim people are something less, have I?

and if yes, tell me where.

Well I was responding to someone else's comment about curvy women being 'real women' whatever that is. You jumped in then

um.... you quoted me. so I thought you were talking to me?

Yeah, to your slim people comment "

Ooh funplay, lingerie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here."

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right lets just take a walk down real street here

Men on here outweigh women by maybe 100 to 1

Would a tummy put people off

You could be a banana in a bin bag and still get more offers than you can handle so long as you had a pair of tits

And there lays your answer "

not really.

as I said, I am interested in people who wouldn't just fuck anything that moves. and there are men and women on here (I have also met some) that have standards.

and I was interested in their view.

but I would say, yes, I got my answer. the rest is just sidestuff that I don't really get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see your problem.

I never said slim people are something less, have I?

and if yes, tell me where.

Well I was responding to someone else's comment about curvy women being 'real women' whatever that is. You jumped in then

um.... you quoted me. so I thought you were talking to me?

Yeah, to your slim people comment

Ooh funplay, lingerie? "

Haha shush, I'm in serious mode here!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really"

I see.

I am just surprised.

maybe as a slim person you are not as used to that as we not-slim-ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see your problem.

I never said slim people are something less, have I?

and if yes, tell me where.

Well I was responding to someone else's comment about curvy women being 'real women' whatever that is. You jumped in then

um.... you quoted me. so I thought you were talking to me?

Yeah, to your slim people comment

Ooh funplay, lingerie?

Haha shush, I'm in serious mode here!!"

Alright, I'll towel off your sweat when you're done x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really"

That's what I mean, it's the 'oh you're slim so you must be ok, just take all the nasty comments on the chin and let people say what they want' it's pretty unfair...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right lets just take a walk down real street here

Men on here outweigh women by maybe 100 to 1

Would a tummy put people off

You could be a banana in a bin bag and still get more offers than you can handle so long as you had a pair of tits

And there lays your answer "

And that's all folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really

I see.

I am just surprised.

maybe as a slim person you are not as used to that as we not-slim-ones."

Surprised about what? This isn't the first thread on the topic and it just bugs me.

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley


"I understand what some of the people here mean by "so is a slim woman not a real woman then?" don't misunderstand me.

but it always makes me smile when slim women behave as if in society they were discriminated.

I don't think the slim woman on here think they are discriminated against in society but it's clear from many many MANY threads that 'fat bashing' is unacceptable (and rightly so of course) but people can say anything awful they like about slim woman and that's ok, only dogs like bones, noone wants to fuck a Skeleton they might break, only real woman have curves. "

Absolutely agree! I particularly like being constantly referred to as a 'skinny minnie' - makes me feel great, that one does! Childbirth leaves few of us unscathed! I don't have a big tum but it's not flat and toned either! My boobs are far from perfect and I have so many veins on my legs they look like a road-map of Britain! I may be a size 10 but it sure doesn't make me 'perfect' - nor does it mean that i'm ultra confident and need 'taking down a peg' at any point. Slim women are a seething mass of insecurities and imperfections just like everyone else girls and boys - big tummies or not! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really

That's what I mean, it's the 'oh you're slim so you must be ok, just take all the nasty comments on the chin and let people say what they want' it's pretty unfair... "

ok.

I hope I see you guys when there is the next bad comment about how fat and ugly someone is. or hairy. or whatever.

I'll be there with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right lets just take a walk down real street here

Men on here outweigh women by maybe 100 to 1

Would a tummy put people off

You could be a banana in a bin bag and still get more offers than you can handle so long as you had a pair of tits

And there lays your answer

not really.

as I said, I am interested in people who wouldn't just fuck anything that moves. and there are men and women on here (I have also met some) that have standards.

and I was interested in their view.

but I would say, yes, I got my answer. the rest is just sidestuff that I don't really get. "

Youve said that already, but what youre forgetting is that the MAJORITY of men on here fall into that category who would fuck anything. So lots of the answers youve gotten will have come from them as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't care bananaman.

again: I don't care about these guys. ok?

or are you trying to say that only guys who fuck anything wouldn't mind about a tummy? just to get you right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really

That's what I mean, it's the 'oh you're slim so you must be ok, just take all the nasty comments on the chin and let people say what they want' it's pretty unfair...

ok.

I hope I see you guys when there is the next bad comment about how fat and ugly someone is. or hairy. or whatever.

I'll be there with you. "

Haha okay, we shall see you then!cannot wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really

That's what I mean, it's the 'oh you're slim so you must be ok, just take all the nasty comments on the chin and let people say what they want' it's pretty unfair...

ok.

I hope I see you guys when there is the next bad comment about how fat and ugly someone is. or hairy. or whatever.

I'll be there with you.

Haha okay, we shall see you then!cannot wait

"

why are you so aggressive?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really

That's what I mean, it's the 'oh you're slim so you must be ok, just take all the nasty comments on the chin and let people say what they want' it's pretty unfair...

ok.

I hope I see you guys when there is the next bad comment about how fat and ugly someone is. or hairy. or whatever.

I'll be there with you. "

I see plenty of those every day on here, and I would say the same thing to anyone that felt the need to be downright nasty to anyone regarding size or shape or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care bananaman.

again: I don't care about these guys. ok?

or are you trying to say that only guys who fuck anything wouldn't mind about a tummy? just to get you right."

Em, no. What im saying is that a lot of those people will have been on this thread by the law of averages. How are u gonna know whos opinion to take and whos to discard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love tummies flat or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the OP it hasn't been a deal breaker with all the guys I've met. It may have been with some that I haven't. Am I bothered? Am I fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't care bananaman.

again: I don't care about these guys. ok?

or are you trying to say that only guys who fuck anything wouldn't mind about a tummy? just to get you right.

Em, no. What im saying is that a lot of those people will have been on this thread by the law of averages. How are u gonna know whos opinion to take and whos to discard?"

omg. do you think I count now and then behave different regarding to the result?

I just wanted to hear some opinions. and they were interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really

That's what I mean, it's the 'oh you're slim so you must be ok, just take all the nasty comments on the chin and let people say what they want' it's pretty unfair...

ok.

I hope I see you guys when there is the next bad comment about how fat and ugly someone is. or hairy. or whatever.

I'll be there with you.

Haha okay, we shall see you then!cannot wait

why are you so aggressive?"

I'm not. I responded to a comment. I'm actually a lovely girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eeekkkkk. I hope not. Mum of several very big babies here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really

That's what I mean, it's the 'oh you're slim so you must be ok, just take all the nasty comments on the chin and let people say what they want' it's pretty unfair...

ok.

I hope I see you guys when there is the next bad comment about how fat and ugly someone is. or hairy. or whatever.

I'll be there with you.

I see plenty of those every day on here, and I would say the same thing to anyone that felt the need to be downright nasty to anyone regarding size or shape or whatever. "

good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, bananaman.

but this is really interesting.

seriously. I wasn't aware that slim people are so sensitive to this. I would have thought if you are the general as attractive considered body shape you wouldn't give a sh... about a dumb comment in here.

I never take much notice of what's said on here. But if I read that real men love women with curves and women with curves are real women I will throw my phone out the window I'm sure if someone commented the other way round there would be summit said. That's it really

That's what I mean, it's the 'oh you're slim so you must be ok, just take all the nasty comments on the chin and let people say what they want' it's pretty unfair... "

I get grief from friends for going to the gym and being a 'skinny cow', but hey, that's okay. I'm assuming they think if you lose weight you lose feelings too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one seems to mind mine only me. After having a baby and losing 2st dramatically through having gallstones has left me with loose skin, apparently it doesn't look as bad as what I think but it's always there in the back of my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't really like it on myself but considering ive just shed 6st after a year from hell with health issues and major surgery, im over the moon with my curvy and slimmer than I was figure

"

I have been very interested reading this thread. Snap! I have also lost 6 stone after life saving surgery. I know the scars are a small price to pay for my life but I am still very conscious of my stomach. It hasn't put anyone off yet but always worries me........

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