FabSwingers.com forum: Is it just us.....2. Return of the JINX

By *entcouple4550 OP Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

I've just been reading the thread about bad meets with a mixture of horror and glee. I realise now that any of our own 'nightmare' meets have been nothing of the sort, rather just a bit disappointing. However, and continuing the 'is it just us theme', what we have noticed and started to become uncomfortable with is the amount of couples who split up after we have played with them. I suppose it could be a ruse not to see us again but it does seem a bit extreme. They have definitely removed profiles or not logged on for ages. Its almost 20%. although several were just fuck buddies rather than genuine couples.Are we jinxed? Should I have brought this up? Will anyone ever meet us again?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"what we have noticed and started to become uncomfortable with is the amount of couples who split up after we have played with them."

Can hardly type for laughing at that (in a NICE way, i hasten to add).

Talk about a confidence booster huh?!!

You're next problem is that now you've posted it, every couple who need an excuse to get out of their shitty relationship will try and meet you for a shag, and blame it on you.

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By *entcouple4550 OP Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

""what we have noticed and started to become uncomfortable with is the amount of couples who split up after we have played with them."

Can hardly type for laughing at that (in a NICE way, i hasten to add).

Talk about a confidence booster huh?!!

You're next problem is that now you've posted it, every couple who need an excuse to get out of their shitty relationship will try and meet you for a shag, and blame it on you.

Perhaps we should try to figure out a way of marketing it? A kind of guranteed quickie divorce service for the 'disaffected with their relationship' types......sort of

Are you fed up with your partner but cant think of a good way to end the relationship? Well well arrange a date with Kentcouple4550 and your realtionship will crumble as soon as you walk in the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many people on here for all the wrong reasons, you’ve just been unfortunate enough to meet them, the problems are theirs not yours so don’t think too much about it all.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Excellent idea!

You'll be rammed (and ramming) countless people.

Make sure to offer an "enter by one door, leave by separate doors" option.

Oh, and both "same room" and "separate room" swinging as well.

And let 'em know that you're happy for only one of the couple to play while the other watches, so that either;

John can prove to Stacey, that he CAN get it up Or Stacey can prove to john that she CAN acheive orgasm.

The possibillities are, frankly, endless.

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By *entcouple4550 OP Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

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By *entcouple4550 OP Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

"Excellent idea!

You'll be rammed (and ramming) countless people.

Make sure to offer an "enter by one door, leave by separate doors" option.

Oh, and both "same room" and "separate room" swinging as well.

And let 'em know that you're happy for only one of the couple to play while the other watches, so that either;

John can prove to Stacey, that he CAN get it up Or Stacey can prove to john that she CAN acheive orgasm.

The possibillities are, frankly, endless."

'Hello! Is that the Patents Office?'

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By *entcouple4550 OP Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

"Too many people on here for all the wrong reasons, you’ve just been unfortunate enough to meet them, the problems are theirs not yours so don’t think too much about it all. "

Thank-you for that. Yes I certainly agree that a lot of couples are on here for all the wrong reasons.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Excellent idea!

You'll be rammed (and ramming) countless people.

Make sure to offer an "enter by one door, leave by separate doors" option.

Oh, and both "same room" and "separate room" swinging as well.

And let 'em know that you're happy for only one of the couple to play while the other watches, so that either;

John can prove to Stacey, that he CAN get it up Or Stacey can prove to john that she CAN acheive orgasm.

The possibillities are, frankly, endless.

'Hello! Is that the Patents Office?'

You can't Patent an idea (i've checked) but i see a helluva franchise opportunity.

And even if none of the Dragons want to invest, i bet Deborah Meadons husband shouts "'I'M IN!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we have met 2 couples recently , both from another site ,and the following day they have deleted the profiles ! Although the last couple, she left her coat here ( on purpose we suspect ) and in the pocket was a scrap of paper with her own mobile number and email address. Do you think she is trying to tell us something??

Should we ring her- advice please xx

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By *entcouple4550 OP Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

"Well we have met 2 couples recently , both from another site ,and the following day they have deleted the profiles ! Although the last couple, she left her coat here ( on purpose we suspect ) and in the pocket was a scrap of paper with her own mobile number and email address. Do you think she is trying to tell us something??

Should we ring her- advice please xx"

If you liked her...why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it was more like having a 3sum with her anyway as the guy couldnt perform and had the smallest willy ever seen lol, perhaps thats why she left the number lol. mmmm think we will ring her and see what happens

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By *entcouple4550 OP Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

"well it was more like having a 3sum with her anyway as the guy couldnt perform and had the smallest willy ever seen lol, perhaps thats why she left the number lol. mmmm think we will ring her and see what happens

Just make sure you don't get embroiled in her relationship issues. From what you said maybe she persuaded him to try swinging and he agreed under duress. Posiibly now she just wants a working, reasonably sized cock every now and then. As I say, if that suits you, take advantage of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Well lets hope he isnt on here now. .seeing this . If he didnt have a complex before. . .he certainly will now! ! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol we he told us it was a joint decision to try swinging but we will be careful not to get involved xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well lets hope he isnt on here now. .seeing this . If he didnt have a complex before. . .he certainly will now! ! !"

Lol they are or were on another site so no worry there

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"..... the amount of couples who split up after we have played with them. ...."

Maybe they realised that they w0uld never have the same quality again,after you,and so decided to abandon it all now,to save future dissapointment?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"..... the amount of couples who split up after we have played with them. ....

Maybe they realised that they w0uld never have the same quality again,after you,and so decided to abandon it all now,to save future dissapointment?"

Arse kissing will get you nowhere!

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

Reading this made us think about our past meets and seems that we are just as bad ...

We reckon that 25% of the 16 different couples we’ve met since we started playing with couples some 3 ½ years ago have split …

Admittedly 2 of those ‘couples’ were just buddies – but the other two were BF/GF couples …

One couple had been playing for some time (though they didn’t split til a while after we had met them - phew)

and the other couple were newbies who it seems weren’t both up for the lifestyle (that experience is worthy of a post in the “nightmare meets” thread)

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

id like 2 know what other sites are avalible cause im having no luck on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"id like 2 know what other sites are avalible cause im having no luck on here.

If you're having no luck on here then the chances are it will be the same on every site you go on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"id like 2 know what other sites are avalible cause im having no luck on here.

i do believe u were given a lot of advice a few weeks ago about your profile and opinions that were holding you back....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many people on here for all the wrong reasons, you’ve just been unfortunate enough to meet them, the problems are theirs not yours so don’t think too much about it all. "

Oh I so totally agree with this. So many couples that are in it to keep the other happy. Swinging gets blamed for breaking up couples, but to be fair I think its just broken couples try to use it as a last ditch attempt to fix them.

Katie.

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By *r and Mrs FlintstoneCouple
over a year ago

bridgwater

we havent played much yet ,but its something we both wanted . If your playing as a couple and your both totally in it for the extra fun and games then its all good . Must be a disaster when people have issues before they start.

we have been married 20 yrs this year so its taken a while for us to get here lol , but glad we have x

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"we havent played much yet ,but its something we both wanted . If your playing as a couple and your both totally in it for the extra fun and games then its all good . Must be a disaster when people have issues before they start.

we have been married 20 yrs this year so its taken a while for us to get here lol , but glad we have x"

good on you both ... they do say life begins @ 40

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By *r and Mrs FlintstoneCouple
over a year ago

bridgwater

certainly begun for us

. so much fun

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