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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice guy all way loss when it comes to friendship adult fun even those who have a wild side that knows how to please a lady like lesbians do when it comes to fun but no one will know because nice guys always loss in sex..

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Be a bad guy then

Good luck

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Not true. Guys who complain that they can't get a meet, however.....

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Nice guy all way loss when it comes to friendship adult fun even those who have a wild side that knows how to please a lady like lesbians do when it comes to fun but no one will know because nice guys always loss in sex.. "
yep I can empahise with you a little there...

Personly I think its a subcontiuose primal thing engrained in the female psycy....

Bad guys are thought " go getters"

Confident thus be provider at all costs no matter to what cost to others.

Just watch animal mating behavour in documentaries.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It simply isn't true that women want a bad guy and nice guys get nowhere, I wonder if you realise that its quite insulting to women to suggest that they only ever go for a certain type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not true. Guys who complain that they can't get a meet, however....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

total crap re nice guys, its all down to what people are looking for, ie height, location, interests, lots of diff things that ring the bells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It simply isn't true that women want a bad guy and nice guys get nowhere, I wonder if you realise that its quite insulting to women to suggest that they only ever go for a certain type?"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"It simply isn't true that women want a bad guy and nice guys get nowhere, I wonder if you realise that its quite insulting to women to suggest that they only ever go for a certain type?"

I would say it is silly to say it rather than insulting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. I'm a nice guy(or so I've been told) and I've met some awesome people on here and get invited to go to clubs(I've not bite the bullet yet) regularly.

You'll only be a loser, if you think of yourself as one. Keep plugging away, look for group socials and realise that us guys are 10 a penny on here, so rejection is a massive part of fab.

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...negative men put a lot of people off. I know men have it hard on sites like this and if you are not managing to get some fun maybe change how you _iew things and have a more positive attitude to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think of this site being about getting laid!

This is still the real world remember, it's not full of women just sitting around waiting for any bloke with a pulse. Be funny, be different but be yourself. Unless of course you are timid, boring and a git. In that case be someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry to all i do not intend to upset anyone bye...

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Don't think of this site being about getting laid!

This is still the real world remember, it's not full of women just sitting around waiting for any bloke with a pulse. Be funny, be different but be yourself. Unless of course you are timid, boring and a git. In that case be someone else."

yep get it and agree you should treat this site as the real world, and firstly as a social b4 physical site.

Not all are gifted with a confident gregariouse personality.

Thats just it you should,nt have to pretend or go go outside comfort zone to get reconition.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"It simply isn't true that women want a bad guy and nice guys get nowhere, I wonder if you realise that its quite insulting to women to suggest that they only ever go for a certain type?"
Not suggesting that women WANT bad guys....only suggesting that through evolution women are wired to find this trait intreaguing.

Perhaps not just ladies..... Come on when watching the movies who amongst us are secretly admiring presence of the villian. Thinking to yourself would,nt it be buzz to be like that, whether it be, looks,attitude, lifestyle or even merciless...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think of this site being about getting laid!

This is still the real world remember, it's not full of women just sitting around waiting for any bloke with a pulse. Be funny, be different but be yourself. Unless of course you are timid, boring and a git. In that case be someone else.yep get it and agree you should treat this site as the real world, and firstly as a social b4 physical site.

Not all are gifted with a confident gregariouse personality.

Thats just it you should,nt have to pretend or go go outside comfort zone to get reconition."

The thing is this is a swinging site,Principally for meeting like minded people so if you do not have a certain amount of Confidence and gregariousness how would the meeting get off the ground to begin with.

Gimp

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Rather than being 'nice', be interesting, amusing, inventive...etc. It's the men that can get their personality across that get what they're looking for on this website. Being positive is a huge plus.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Don't think of this site being about getting laid!

This is still the real world remember, it's not full of women just sitting around waiting for any bloke with a pulse. Be funny, be different but be yourself. Unless of course you are timid, boring and a git. In that case be someone else.yep get it and agree you should treat this site as the real world, and firstly as a social b4 physical site.

Not all are gifted with a confident gregariouse personality.

Thats just it you should,nt have to pretend or go go outside comfort zone to get reconition.

The thing is this is a swinging site,Principally for meeting like minded people so if you do not have a certain amount of Confidence and gregariousness how would the meeting get off the ground to begin with.

Gimp"

hhhhmm yes a valid point..

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