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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?"

Yes I get it a lot

I had one guy mail me and ask me to go with him, when we got there it turned out he had arranged to meet a couple there and once in he ignored me all night

Lesson learned

That's why I don't go into clubs with guys any more I only meet them once inside

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I really hope not. I have had one message recently asking if I would escort him to the club in Aberdeen, but that's all

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?"

I wouldn't do it anyway, even if I was paying myself I wouldn't go to a club with someone I didn't know unless they were well verified and had been to clubs before. You never know how someone will act in that situation.

I think a lot are nervous to go first time and want a companion (which I can understand) but if they turned out to be total knob heads it would be embarrasing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?"

Smells of desperation to me

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?"

For them in their eyes its a cheap night out, and again in their eyes a guaranteed shag!

Reply and tell him the club you want to go to is £50 per person, and they do rooms their for £150 per couple inc breakfast. Then ask what time he's picking you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?

Smells of desperation to me "

I don't think its desperation I think they are just trying to save money, I suppose you can't blame them for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?

Yes I get it a lot

I had one guy mail me and ask me to go with him, when we got there it turned out he had arranged to meet a couple there and once in he ignored me all night

Lesson learned

That's why I don't go into clubs with guys any more I only meet them once inside "

i will meet people in a club but not go in with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?

For them in their eyes its a cheap night out, and again in their eyes a guaranteed shag!

Reply and tell him the club you want to go to is £50 per person, and they do rooms their for £150 per couple inc breakfast. Then ask what time he's picking you up "

god no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i will meet people in a club but not go in with them "

That's how I do it now, I had to many guys who obviously just used me as a cheap ticket in so I stopped going in with guys, even if I have met them before, I also find a lot of guys just want you as an offering

I went with a guy once and he just wanted to sit in the couples room and have me fuck every guy who came in so he could fuck his wife, when I refuse to play with a guy he moaned because the guy I was with was with his wife, I left at that point and went out for a fag, the guy I was with them found me and told me to hurry up cause he couldn't go in the couples room alone

I suppose its a learning curve, I'm much more clued up now days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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i will meet people in a club but not go in with them

That's how I do it now, I had to many guys who obviously just used me as a cheap ticket in so I stopped going in with guys, even if I have met them before, I also find a lot of guys just want you as an offering

I went with a guy once and he just wanted to sit in the couples room and have me fuck every guy who came in so he could fuck his wife, when I refuse to play with a guy he moaned because the guy I was with was with his wife, I left at that point and went out for a fag, the guy I was with them found me and told me to hurry up cause he couldn't go in the couples room alone

I suppose its a learning curve, I'm much more clued up now days "

we learn everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheez some guys are so smooth!!

Sounds like they either have some confidence issues or they just really desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's true. Most guys on here are a waist of space. Please don't forget there are real ones xxx. Ps I've been to chams a few times with couples and would always offer to pay for them. After all they have paid for the membership.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Behaviour like that isn't acceptable in any way.

However - on the flip side, when it costs more for a single guy than either a single woman or a couple you can understand why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it's true. Most guys on here are a waist of space. Please don't forget there are real ones xxx. Ps I've been to chams a few times with couples and would always offer to pay for them. After all they have paid for the membership. "

So have you and you paid a lot more than them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behaviour like that isn't acceptable in any way.

However - on the flip side, when it costs more for a single guy than either a single woman or a couple you can understand why."

I understand why but I still think manners cost nothing, to ask a woman to meet you then ignor her all night just to save a few quid just seems rude to me and a waste of my night when I could have been meeting someone who wanted to meet me for me not for cheap entry

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?"

he has probably works out that is still spends less money doing it this was than if he goes on his own... plus if he looks like he is with someone, they think he will get more chance to play (the kid in a candy shop approach)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheez some guys are so smooth!!

Sounds like they either have some confidence issues or they just really desperate "

Lack of self confidence, desperation , the two characteristics every woman looks for in a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Behaviour like that isn't acceptable in any way.

However - on the flip side, when it costs more for a single guy than either a single woman or a couple you can understand why.

I understand why but I still think manners cost nothing, to ask a woman to meet you then ignor her all night just to save a few quid just seems rude to me and a waste of my night when I could have been meeting someone who wanted to meet me for me not for cheap entry "

I agree and think the same to be honest.

id rather someone want to meet me than me just be a meal ticket into a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behaviour like that isn't acceptable in any way.

However - on the flip side, when it costs more for a single guy than either a single woman or a couple you can understand why.

I understand why but I still think manners cost nothing, to ask a woman to meet you then ignor her all night just to save a few quid just seems rude to me and a waste of my night when I could have been meeting someone who wanted to meet me for me not for cheap entry "

I didn't say it was right - far from it!

Personally - I WOULD NOT go with someone and ignore her - I'd want the experience to be shared.

But unfortunately clubs as with the majority of dating sites, hook ups, etc see guys as a means to extract money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheez some guys are so smooth!!

Sounds like they either have some confidence issues or they just really desperate

Lack of self confidence, desperation , the two characteristics every woman looks for in a man

"

Ugh, now you tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheez some guys are so smooth!!

Sounds like they either have some confidence issues or they just really desperate

Lack of self confidence, desperation , the two characteristics every woman looks for in a man

Ugh, now you tell me"

Don't forget Bo and bad breath

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

In our local club it's free for single women, and much cheaper for couples than it is for single men, so it's easy to see why guys would use this approach. Plus they have someone to chat to, at least initially, and more chance of playing with others if they have someone with them.

Being honest, if I was a single guy I'd probably do the same thing, except I'd stay with the woman, not dump her once we were inside. Of course, as we all know single women are at a premium and they have all the power, which is as it should be, even if some of them don't seem to realise it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" as we all know single women are at a premium and they have all the power, which is as it should be, even if some of them don't seem to realise it! "

i prefer to be treated as me not like im some sort of prize

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also makes it easier if the club has a strict single male policy.

There is one club I refuse to go to because of their forcing me to jump through hoops if I want to go along as a single

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By *zzy173Man
over a year ago

Hackney

No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."

Why shouldn't they be picky? Being here is not a community service...everyone is here to fulfil their own desires...If you ain't it, then sorry but thems the breaks...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."

tight!

i wouldn't go into a club with someone i havent met previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."

Are you not selective in your choice of who you meet then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance.

Are you not selective in your choice of who you meet then?

"

obviously we are tight as we wont meet him and let him come to a club with us LOL

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

If I was to go to a club with someone, then I'd want to have met them several times before, so at least we know what makes each other ticks and some trust to not abandon each other, or for example that I am good for checking the condom on rule.

I think the impression of many is that clubs are a free for all orgy from the moment you walk in, but my experience is much that its a social place with a naughty theme where selected play that goes on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was to go to a club with someone, then I'd want to have met them several times before, so at least we know what makes each other ticks and some trust to not abandon each other, or for example that I am good for checking the condom on rule.

"

thats me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."

Sorry but I would rather be called picky then end up with a weirdo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance.

Sorry but I would rather be called picky then end up with a weirdo."

this

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Our local club up here doesn't allow single guys, so often get asked to pair up and get them in.

Its always been a no from me. If I go to a club, I am happy to go alone... and I am not being used as bait, nor a cheap entry for someone else.

I'd go with someone I trusted and had met a few different times.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Will some kind lady pay for me as well please? And my drinks all night. Thanks.

Ps. If you're a sugar mummy, I'd like a new pair of jeans too. And a Maserati.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

And cakes.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"If I was to go to a club with someone, then I'd want to have met them several times before, so at least we know what makes each other ticks and some trust to not abandon each other, or for example that I am good for checking the condom on rule.

I think the impression of many is that clubs are a free for all orgy from the moment you walk in, but my experience is much that its a social place with a naughty theme where selected play that goes on.

"

This is correct. People who don't go to clubs of haven't been to one yet don't seem to understand the great variety of things that happen in a swingers club plus what is private, what is semi-private (in rooms with windows) and what goes on in open areas.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our local club up here doesn't allow single guys, so often get asked to pair up and get them in.

Its always been a no from me. If I go to a club, I am happy to go alone... and I am not being used as bait, nor a cheap entry for someone else.

I'd go with someone I trusted and had met a few different times."

Oh well thats my next question out the window then

Please ignore the Email

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?

For them in their eyes its a cheap night out, and again in their eyes a guaranteed shag!

Reply and tell him the club you want to go to is £50 per person, and they do rooms their for £150 per couple inc breakfast. Then ask what time he's picking you up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And cakes. "

See - too much...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And cakes.

See - too much..."

far from it i bake :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And cakes.

See - too much...

far from it i bake :P"
i know a song abt that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will some kind lady pay for me as well please? And my drinks all night. Thanks.

Ps. If you're a sugar mummy, I'd like a new pair of jeans too. And a Maserati. "

Oh lord won't you buy me a Mercedes Benz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wouldn't go into a club with someone i havent met previously "

but when you're inside the club, you will fuck complete strangers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I would do but for a bloke the costs of going to club is ridiculous.

Only way I would go club is with someone to keep costs down I am fortunate in that my fb is into clubs so when I decide to go will be with her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i wouldn't go into a club with someone i havent met previously

but when you're inside the club, you will fuck complete strangers?"

i go as a single female as i like the freedom to do as i please and to do whom i please, providing they agree

my reputation in the 2 clubs i like and use is good and i wouldn't want a single male whom i have never met acting up and tarnishing that for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smells of desperation? I think of many things that smell a lot worse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never try to buy a meet by offering to pay admissions and for drinks. But being the gentleman that I am, I would certainly offer to pay and for drinks but that is just the way I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't as I don't go to clubs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was thinking of attending a club this wknd i wont be going now! As a single guy i certainly wouldnt feel comfortable having read these posts

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I get quite a few messages like this and it instantly turns me off, as I think that im either a meal ticket for cheaper entrance or that the guy lacks confidence, i feel neither quality is attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?"

Forget a club, I've just had some douche wanting to pay me to meet maybe I'll suggest the price of £500,000 and see what he says

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Was thinking of attending a club this wknd i wont be going now! As a single guy i certainly wouldnt feel comfortable having read these posts "

why not.. we are just talking about people who are for women as "handholders" it doesn't say anything about single men in general....

as long as you go.... chat to people and socialise (which is the trick a lot of single guys miss) then you will be fine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Afraid so we were offered money last week on here by a single male to watch I,d make a killin lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Isn't it how it's always been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In our local club it's free for single women, and much cheaper for couples than it is for single men, so it's easy to see why guys would use this approach. Plus they have someone to chat to, at least initially, and more chance of playing with others if they have someone with them.

Being honest, if I was a single guy I'd probably do the same thing, except I'd stay with the woman, not dump her once we were inside. Of course, as we all know single women are at a premium and they have all the power, which is as it should be, even if some of them don't seem to realise it! "

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"And cakes. "

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"If I was to go to a club with someone, then I'd want to have met them several times before, so at least we know what makes each other ticks and some trust to not abandon each other, or for example that I am good for checking the condom on rule.

I think the impression of many is that clubs are a free for all orgy from the moment you walk in, but my experience is much that its a social place with a naughty theme where selected play that goes on.

This is correct. People who don't go to clubs of haven't been to one yet don't seem to understand the great variety of things that happen in a swingers club plus what is private, what is semi-private (in rooms with windows) and what goes on in open areas.

Him"
exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't it how it's always been?"

not me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?

Yes I get it a lot

I had one guy mail me and ask me to go with him, when we got there it turned out he had arranged to meet a couple there and once in he ignored me all night

Lesson learned

That's why I don't go into clubs with guys any more I only meet them once inside "
Naughty i would never treat you like that, you and your toes would be with me all night! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to meet someone to go to clubs with but as a single guy not as a couple. Just a friend to hang out with and chat with.

The thing that so many frustrated singles fail to appreciate is just how social the club scene is. They think its like eyes wide shut all night long!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love to meet someone to go to clubs with but as a single guy not as a couple. Just a friend to hang out with and chat with.

The thing that so many frustrated singles fail to appreciate is just how social the club scene is. They think its like eyes wide shut all night long! "

so u wouldny want to fuck them lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to meet someone to go to clubs with but as a single guy not as a couple. Just a friend to hang out with and chat with.

The thing that so many frustrated singles fail to appreciate is just how social the club scene is. They think its like eyes wide shut all night long! "

I used to have an agreement like this with a guy, I don't drive so going places that are not on my door step is hard, so he would pick me up and take me home and we would go into clubs together, I'd half half the fuel bill he would pay the entry as most clubs are free for women, so it was an agreement that benefited us both and we were both happy with, I never played with him it was purely a business relationship

To be honest I'd happily do that again if the guy was honest about what he wanted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love to meet someone to go to clubs with but as a single guy not as a couple. Just a friend to hang out with and chat with.

The thing that so many frustrated singles fail to appreciate is just how social the club scene is. They think its like eyes wide shut all night long!

I used to have an agreement like this with a guy, I don't drive so going places that are not on my door step is hard, so he would pick me up and take me home and we would go into clubs together, I'd half half the fuel bill he would pay the entry as most clubs are free for women, so it was an agreement that benefited us both and we were both happy with, I never played with him it was purely a business relationship

To be honest I'd happily do that again if the guy was honest about what he wanted"

i wouldnt and i have done this before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smacks of total desperation Jaqs.....but the site is filling up with desperate men lol....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Smacks of total desperation Jaqs.....but the site is filling up with desperate men lol...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And cakes. "
and a couple of goats to keep your she's company ?? xxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"And cakes. and a couple of goats to keep your she's company ?? xxx"

My sheep outfIt will be gone after Sundays avatar challenge vote. I'm getting fed up of all the sheep jokes, being told to flock off and am going on the lam. Fab it whilst you can.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"does this work

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?"

Sounds desperate to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does this worek

Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)

saying

"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"

Is this how some single men are now?

Yes I get it a lot

I had one guy mail me and ask me to go with him, when we got there it turned out he had arranged to meet a couple there and once in he ignored me all night

Lesson learned

That's why I don't go into clubs with guys any more I only meet them once inside "

What a fucking idiot I we would have let you out of our site xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this a couple of times, but with people I know. I've paid her entry in as I think of it like a date, I'd buy the drinks on a date in a bar so why not pay the entry?

it's not about the money for me, it's about actually going with someone. I'd be reluctant to go to a club without a partner in crime, but the ladies and myself have always chatted about our expectations beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."

So women shouldn't be picky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was thinking of attending a club this wknd i wont be going now! As a single guy i certainly wouldnt feel comfortable having read these posts "

Why? Unless your behaviour reflects what people are being critical of what do you have to worry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it's true. Most guys on here are a waist of space. Please don't forget there are real ones xxx. Ps I've been to chams a few times with couples and would always offer to pay for them. After all they have paid for the membership. "

We'd find that really patronising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your a single guy and want to go just go .

If you need someone to hold your hand, ask your nan or your mum .

Other than that man up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I comment on this without sounding desperate to demonstrate how none desperate and well adjusted I am?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do I comment on this without sounding desperate to demonstrate how none desperate and well adjusted I am?

"

depends if you have been asked lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"How do I comment on this without sounding desperate to demonstrate how none desperate and well adjusted I am?

"

Your bra is well adjusted.

Oh, but I digress from the main point and no-one EVER does that, do they? I agree with the numbers guy above - you're a guy, so just go to the club on ya lonesome, then do what you do and hopefully get some sex. If you don't, so what? You've been to a club and watches other people having sex. It's not something I'd miss out on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."

"Was thinking of attending a club this wknd i wont be going now! As a single guy i certainly wouldnt feel comfortable having read these posts "

I think these guys have a point, maybe there are different ways to express it, some more diplomatic than others.

But I do not think it's particularly easy being a man, or a single man, in these modern days!

Sometimes, we could bear with how things get expressed and listen to the message.

It is not always easy being a (single) man, on and off the Internet, on and off the Swinging scene, and having to invent a new role for yourself.

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By *zzy173Man
over a year ago

Hackney

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By *zzy173Man
over a year ago

Hackney

Well if u dont give us a chance then you wont get to know us.

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By *zzy173Man
over a year ago

Hackney

I wanna go with as many fabulous ppl there is. We only live once and sharing Is caring, I say all this becoz im a decent guy in everyway I think and not many give me a chance. Oh its the way I msg sorry not everyone has the initial gift of the gab but they might be gd later or better in other ways. Just wouldn't know would you.

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By *zzy173Man
over a year ago

Hackney

Well then everyones gonna try pick the prettiest one plus everyone deserves abit of love! 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been asked by a female to escort her into a club and pay for her bexause ahe felt more secure going in with a bloke I did it because ultimately saved me a lot of money so whats actually wrong with that.

As for being ignored whilst in there in if you were going to club anyway whats the issue really you are just helping someone out your not asked to fuck them unless you both fancy it once inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want me in a club you'll have to pay ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been asked by a female to escort her into a club and pay for her bexause ahe felt more secure going in with a bloke I did it because ultimately saved me a lot of money so whats actually wrong with that.

As for being ignored whilst in there in if you were going to club anyway whats the issue really you are just helping someone out your not asked to fuck them unless you both fancy it once inside."

If she wanted you there for "security" why didn't she pay for you rather than you having to pay for her. Sounds more like you were used for a free night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can easily see why some women would be nervous about meeting up to go into a club with a guy more than meeting up inside?

Obviously if he behaves like a total doyle in there then she is worried about how it will reflect on her, but something no one seems to have mentioned is concern for her own safety? If meeting when already inside the club then obviously she is meeting him in a controlled environment, but in the outside world prior to entry it is less so. Just sayin', like.

From my own experience I've been to a club on my own and with a lady, though we had met previously so some of that above concern was taken away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont they understand err hello..woman can get in free or little charge.

They think they are doing you a favour

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if u dont give us a chance then you wont get to know us."

No issue in that but I can pay for myself into clubs and drinks

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I got asked again twice this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then everyones gonna try pick the prettiest one plus everyone deserves abit of love! "

Dont forget to take your sense of entitlement to the club with you. I'm sure you will be a hit!!

Actually a very good advert for never going to a club with a random.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance.

Why shouldn't they be picky? Being here is not a community service...everyone is here to fulfil their own desires...If you ain't it, then sorry but thems the breaks..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got asked again twice this week "

Yeah with the ffff I've been asked to couple up with complete strangers l

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then everyones gonna try pick the prettiest one plus everyone deserves abit of love! 

Dont forget to take your sense of entitlement to the club with you. I'm sure you will be a hit!!

Actually a very good advert for never going to a club with a random. "

I wouldn't want to go with someone I don't know, what's the point in that when I can get in cheaper as a women and be amongst a lot of people I don't know!!

That did sound better in my head, I know what I mean

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Guess with some guys its the pricing structure of clubs making them try save money cheaper to go as a pretend couple paying for both than pay the elevated single guy price

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I wouldn't take a stranger to a club. If they turn out to be socially inept I'd end up apologising for them. Also I would have the problem of getting them home if they got thrown out, or the problem of marooning them there if they had gone beyond the pale.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't take a stranger to a club. If they turn out to be socially inept I'd end up apologising for them. Also I would have the problem of getting them home if they got thrown out, or the problem of marooning them there if they had gone beyond the pale. "

Oi I'm not socially inept I just wanted your boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im meeting someone at a club i meet them inside, i dont see the problem of going in alone just have to grow a pair sometimes and man up.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Cheaper admission if u have a lady with you ... rather than a single guy ....

Very crafty move ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well maybe if clubs reduced there prices for guy's they wouldn't be driven to ask females from here if they wished to go with them to save money , and single females and couples could help by voicing there opinion to the club owners .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after reading about clubs recently i wouldnt go if it was free for single men! fckn keep your clubs and i certainly wouldnt feel it was safe bringing a woman with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been asked by a female to escort her into a club and pay for her bexause ahe felt more secure going in with a bloke I did it because ultimately saved me a lot of money so whats actually wrong with that.

As for being ignored whilst in there in if you were going to club anyway whats the issue really you are just helping someone out your not asked to fuck them unless you both fancy it once inside.

If she wanted you there for "security" why didn't she pay for you rather than you having to pay for her. Sounds more like you were used for a free night."

Was still lot cheaper for me this way again whats wrong with that she had good evening so did i.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of really great experiences doing this as i very rarely do spontaneous play in clubs.

It would be a guy I'd chatted to for a bit. I would then have a social meet with them first and if we got on then I would take them to a club.

Communication I think is key. I tell them what i expect and what I won't accept (and vice versa) Plus the club I go to wouldn't let the guy stay on his own if I was to leave so it's in his best Interest to be well behaved.

Plus it's usually free for ladies where I go and I make my own way so I'm not taking advantage of him.

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