FabSwingers.com forum: Me and my girlfriend

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Me and my girlfriend are both young at 20 years old and we have just started to introduce toys into the bedroom!

I got a cock ring and vibrating cock ring and she got a little bullet!

I want to go further and let her get a proper dildo but I am a little apprehensive :/

I only have a 5 inch cock and if she starts using a proper big 8 inch dildo she won't want me anymore!

Like sex with me will feel no where near as good as the dildo!!

Please can I hear your thoughts on this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her fab see what she thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her what she wants toys wise is foremost important as some people I know arent into big dildos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah she wants one but I only have a tiny cock so surely she would rather use that than fuck me ;(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

toysRfun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? If she loves the toys you already have then she is probably gonna love a massive dildo.

If you think it will cause problems then tell her that, say you think the dildo is gonna make you feel inadequate.

You should be talking to her about this stuff, if you have problems between you both then deal with it.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you are not attached to the other end of the dildo. It's you she wants, she may enjoy her toys but she is with you for a reason, don't worry.

Ah feeling all maternal now, not that I ever discuss dildo's and there use with my own kids. Just somebody else's kids, think I will shut up now.

Don't worry though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner."
agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her a few big toys and send her this way

we will take very good care of her for you

only kidding. spend more time enjoying life than worrying about the size of your cock, its what you do with it, not how big it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her a wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 19 and married. My husband went to a men only toy party,like the Ann summers parties and came back with a huge 12 inch,solid plastic vibrator. We used it a couple of times and then retired it,didn't make any difference to me after. I still have it

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 19 and married. My husband went to a men only toy party,like the Ann summers parties and came back with a huge 12 inch,solid plastic vibrator. We used it a couple of times and then retired it,didn't make any difference to me after. I still have it

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what??? Poor pussy do you want a new one love? Theres some good uns out now! 30yr old fck me if it you only used it once a week its at best 8in with wear n tear alone!!

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Search for 'heeldo' in Google for something a little different! Great video by Lely Love on Pornhub as to how to use it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dildo is not the same as a human being no matter the size, a dildo will not have the connection you have with her and there is a lot more you can do during sex which a dildo just cant do. It is fun spicing things up, if she wants to do that with you then feel privileged she is comfortable in that you have nothing to worry about in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bro don't stress , your building it up to be something it's not enjoy pleasuring her with it , she will always love the feel of the man driving the car more .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think many woman would sooner fuck a lump of plastic rather than the real thing regardless of size

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By *rince Charming 69Man
over a year ago

Loughborough

Many girls prefer to use their toys externally, and dont actually spend much time "plunging in and out"

Sensitive parts are mostly on the outside and so stop worrying!

She will probably be very grateful that you are a caring and sensitive lover.

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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago

Stone

Or consider that the dildo could be used as part of dp play, she'd rather have your modest cock in her arse, sensual without being overly painful. And the dildo is then for pussy play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner."

I am in tolal agreement here. You are together...sex with toys is just that...it is not you...these are tools to be employed in foreplay and the main event...

You will never be replaced by a toy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate dildos,prefer the real thing better, and the bullet and wand are the best and only toys I use. I wouldn't worry to much xx

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By *em4femxxWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

Buy her a wand and a dildo, use both together but don't worry she won't go off you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a dido/combined cock cage thing that extends the size of your cock. Best of both worlds then ??

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

I'd be more concerned about the fact you want to meet men and women behind your girlfriends back than buying a vibrator, unless the idea for a vibrator is so she has something to please her while your out cheating on her?!?!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I'd be more concerned about the fact you want to meet men and women behind your girlfriends back than buying a vibrator, unless the idea for a vibrator is so she has something to please her while your out cheating on her?!?!

classic cheaters handbook rule; I can get it anywhere i like, but they must be faithful to me

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner."

Absolutely this

There is so much more to sex than the final grunting n thrusting.

I'll only get worried when Ann Summers bring out a toy with arms to hold her, lips to nibble her under her ear, and an attachment to put up shelves.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner.

Absolutely this

There is so much more to sex than the final grunting n thrusting.

I'll only get worried when Ann Summers bring out a toy with arms to hold her, lips to nibble her under her ear, and an attachment to put up shelves.

Mr ddc"

and with ann summers it would be made cheap and would fall apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real loving relationships look past "assets".

If she ever "leaves" you for that reason, then she isn't for you. However swinging is about allowing your partner to enjoy other things (if thats what you are here for?), whilst maintaining respect and appreciation for the other partners fears and insecurities - and ensuring you both are happy.

So long as you talk about things openly your relationship will grow stronger.

When it comes to the toys..

In fact a lot of females do not like dildos and prefer vibrators - so get her a wand and let her tell you what works for her when u use it on her.. If you like to watch her use it on her own, tell her that.. she'll want to know.

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By *ady G and GTCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner."

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner.

Absolutely this

There is so much more to sex than the final grunting n thrusting.

I'll only get worried when Ann Summers bring out a toy with arms to hold her, lips to nibble her under her ear, and an attachment to put up shelves.

Mr ddc

and with ann summers it would be cheap and would fall apart

Sadly that describes me too

But just think of the number of batteries it would get through!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or consider that the dildo could be used as part of dp play, she'd rather have your modest cock in her arse, sensual without being overly painful. And the dildo is then for pussy play. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your over thinking it mate, it's all fun

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"Real loving relationships look past "assets".

So long as you talk about things openly your relationship will grow stronger.

When it comes to the toys..

The fact the ops on a single profile, looking to meet men and women, suggests the op and his gf don't talk much at all!!!!

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Some of the best sex is in the mind...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

classic cheaters handbook rule; I can get it anywhere i like, but they must be faithful to me"

He asked for advice on a sex toy. Not what he chooses to do lifestyle wise.

There are hundreds and hundreds of men AND women playing away on here. If you're going to bring each one up on it, it will take some time. We're all here for one thing.. Live and let live.

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By *elle4BrightonMan
over a year ago

Brighton

That cock aint small anyway if its that big soft id look forward to seeing it hard.

i wouldnt be worrying mate with that tool and remember a dildo dont taste half as nice and certainly wont cum !!!

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