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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Soo this has been on my mind and thought I would ask what your opinion is on winks?? Personally I think they r a good way to break the ice...what would u say??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never look at mine. But yeah they would be a good way if i did...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at mine. But yeah they would be a good way if i did... "

If you agree then why don't you look at them? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at mine. But yeah they would be a good way if i did...

If you agree then why don't you look at them? x"

Don't need to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always think its just that's bit extra to say "hey how you doing "

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

I look at them in passing, but don't often follow them up,and then only if when I read their profile it says that they wink to show interest.

I send them occasionally if am not entirely sure about messaging but tbh If I really like someone's profile I just message.

Bugs rarely looks at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignor all winks.

if people are really interested then we'd expect a message.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I never look at mine, never mind respond to them, same as I don't respond to any fabs I may get.

If someone is interested they would message (if they can get round my filters )

The only time I would notice is if I looked at their profile by coincidence

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Nothing better then a cheeky wink or two.

Nothing wrong with a bit of fun in my eyes.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing better then a cheeky wink or two.

Nothing wrong with a bit of fun in my eyes.

Her "

yea an odd wee "fab" or a wink is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me look at a profile yes, if I like it I'll wink back of not I ignore

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Can someone send me one, please. Would like to see what you receive... Thks

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Suit me just fine... I don't want conversations about birth signs,occupation,tv interests!! etc.so a wink suggests interest...lets fuck..

plus I am a lazy cow....Ax

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Makes me look at a profile yes, if I like it I'll wink back of not I ignore "

And it's as simple as that!

I really don't see why people get so wound up over winks. You're just as likely to ignore a message if you don't like the look of that person's profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Makes me look at a profile yes, if I like it I'll wink back of not I ignore

And it's as simple as that!

I really don't see why people get so wound up over winks. You're just as likely to ignore a message if you don't like the look of that person's profile. "
i agree like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore them if they were that interested they would send a message.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We take winks, like fabs, as just a way of saying "hey, we think you look nice/interesting" without them having any real desire to become more involved. After all how often do you walk down a street and think "he/she looks good" without the need to pounce on them hoping for a fuck. Fab is no different.

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We don't routinely wink others as we didn't want to pester people. Yet we do like others winking us. We would then wink back if we were intetested...

... I suppose we ought to put that on our profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing at all wrong with winks! It's part of the FAB setup and they are there for a reason! A message should follow a "wink back" and then you go from there. Ignoring a wink just because you think your special and therefore we should all message you as opposed to a wink as to show our appreciation at your profile and to break the ice boils our blood!!! But ignoring a wink because you are not interested after looking at the "wink'ees" profile is perfectly fine in our opinion as that is what we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if more done this there would be less " whats wrong with me" threads on messages not being answered.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looked at my winks, cba to go through 907 of them. Thanks to anyone who sent me one though.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I like a cheeky wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at the winks and if we like the sender we send a message saying thanks. It has resulted in some great meets.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I delete mine without looking, but its clear on my profile that I will... so anyone expecting a message back from a wink or a fab clearly hasn't read it, so its another filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think its just that's bit extra to say "hey how you doing ""

I would love you to wink me lol

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By *em4femxxWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

I love winks and like to wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

enjoy a nice wink

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Is there a way to turn Winks off?

I get so many its a complete turn off.. I much prefer a decent message to a wink that sent to 50 other people ..

Its impossible to reply to so many random winks when a message would be more personal..

When I have winked people back, they often say `thanks for the wink`! so no idea why they even do it !!

Winks a big no

messages a big yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always think its just that's bit extra to say "hey how you doing "

I would love you to wink me lol"
winked away

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Rarely look and bulk delete...prefer messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing we don't understand is by deleting your winks you leave yourself open to be "re-winked" by the same people?? If you leave the wink there they can't wink again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use them as a great way of filtering,

Our profile clearly state we don't accept winks or friend invites therefore if someone winks at us it shows they have not read our profile so we block.

If they cant be bothered to read and understand what we are interested in we assume they are desperate and will meet anyone so not for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the wink system is great, when I message I try to put in as interesting a message as possible and still get ignored. If I wink and don't get a message or wink back I just jog on.

I will also wink people back should they wink us first, if I like the look.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

[Removed by poster at 07/02/15 09:18:57]

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

The only peeps who winkef me was a TV and my ex.

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