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Bbc seeks Cougars that aren't age-a-phobic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems to be a taboo for a lot of women out there, however I fail to see why the age gap contributes to physical attraction.

im not naive enough to disregard the influence a personality match can have, however I feel way too much attention is paid to this aspect when it comes to swinging. especially when it comes to women who are already attached.

Please, is there a cougar out there that can help me comprehend the turn off, in being found desirable by someone who is younger then yourself, but of legal, consensual and adult age??

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There are loads, there is also plenty of choice though, so I would suggest a more substantial profile to attract the ladies in question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a cougar isn't age a phobic because they like younger men or am I missing the point ?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

How can a cougar be age-a-phobic? Isn't the fact that they search out men much younger than themselves what makes them a cougar in the first place?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

And I don't think many consider it taboo... There are even events like "The Milf Club".

Why would you think its even slightly taboo?

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

from wikipedia:

Cougar is a slang term that refers to a woman who seeks sexual relations with considerably younger men.[1][2] ABC News states that these women pursue sexual relations with people more than eight years younger than they are,[1] while The New York Times states that the women are over the age of 40 and aggressively pursue sexual relations with men in their 20s or 30s.[2] However, the term can also refer to any female who has a male partner much younger than herself, regardless of age or age difference.[3][4]

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so what this means is that cougars cannot be age-phobic so your entire argument is invalid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from wikipedia:

Cougar is a slang term that refers to a woman who seeks sexual relations with considerably younger men.[1][2] ABC News states that these women pursue sexual relations with people more than eight years younger than they are,[1] while The New York Times states that the women are over the age of 40 and aggressively pursue sexual relations with men in their 20s or 30s.[2] However, the term can also refer to any female who has a male partner much younger than herself, regardless of age or age difference.[3][4]

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so what this means is that cougars cannot be age-phobic so your entire argument is invalid."

They are technically as they don't want older guys

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway

Agree with _litterbabe depends on where you live there are now events for your exact needs..

Generally though. There are more young lads to older ladies. So they can have their pick. .. If you attend some event and get known it will attract more interest for you ..

I'm not a cougar. By choice. They found me ... Ideally hot guy my age was always my preference l

Look what I'm doing now ... The site has 1000s of profiles. You will get lucky. Try not to worry about it too much x x x

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"from wikipedia:

Cougar is a slang term that refers to a woman who seeks sexual relations with considerably younger men.[1][2] ABC News states that these women pursue sexual relations with people more than eight years younger than they are,[1] while The New York Times states that the women are over the age of 40 and aggressively pursue sexual relations with men in their 20s or 30s.[2] However, the term can also refer to any female who has a male partner much younger than herself, regardless of age or age difference.[3][4]

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so what this means is that cougars cannot be age-phobic so your entire argument is invalid.

They are technically as they don't want older guys "

good point!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Seems to be a taboo for a lot of women out there, however I fail to see why the age gap contributes to physical attraction.

im not naive enough to disregard the influence a personality match can have, however I feel way too much attention is paid to this aspect when it comes to swinging. especially when it comes to women who are already attached.

Please, is there a cougar out there that can help me comprehend the turn off, in being found desirable by someone who is younger then yourself, but of legal, consensual and adult age?? "

not only is your arguement invalid as others have pointed out.....

but aren't you the one being age-phobic by specifically looking for cougars????

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By *iverview1Couple
over a year ago

gourock


"Seems to be a taboo for a lot of women out there, however I fail to see why the age gap contributes to physical attraction.

im not naive enough to disregard the influence a personality match can have, however I feel way too much attention is paid to this aspect when it comes to swinging. especially when it comes to women who are already attached.

Please, is there a cougar out there that can help me comprehend the turn off, in being found desirable by someone who is younger then yourself, but of legal, consensual and adult age??

not only is your arguement invalid as others have pointed out.....

but aren't you the one being age-phobic by specifically looking for cougars????"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So cougar was clearly a poor choice of words. So replacing that with the term 'older woman then myself' (desperate attemept not to offend anyone). Please bare in mind this is clearly based on my own experience. Having said that I think _litterbabe has come up with my answer.....it must be my profile.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

If they are truly a cougar (dislike labels but will go with the flow) then they would seek you out and not respond to a request?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So cougar was clearly a poor choice of words. So replacing that with the term 'older woman then myself' (desperate attemept not to offend anyone). Please bare in mind this is clearly based on my own experience. Having said that I think _litterbabe has come up with my answer.....it must be my profile."

What profile ? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has different preferences but for me age is just a number. I've had lovely meets with much younger people and equally just as lovely meets with older people too

I suppose it's all to do with the right chemistry.

Ps you've been blessed with the most beautiful black cock. You'll be very much in demand. J

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway

Yes a better worded profile would help .. You have a face picture use it. And. Good verifications ..

Personally labelling isn't always for everyone. I actually hate term MILF with a passion .

In swinging there are no rules.. And nor should their be in life. We all make our own choices .. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has different preferences but for me age is just a number. I've had lovely meets with much younger people and equally just as lovely meets with older people too

I suppose it's all to do with the right chemistry.

Ps you've been blessed with the most beautiful black cock. You'll be very much in demand. J"

In my limited experience on here, I think women want a lot more from a meet than just a cock so selling yourself for more than just that would probably be a good idea but I could be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has different preferences but for me age is just a number. I've had lovely meets with much younger people and equally just as lovely meets with older people too

I suppose it's all to do with the right chemistry.

Ps you've been blessed with the most beautiful black cock. You'll be very much in demand. J

In my limited experience on here, I think women want a lot more from a meet than just a cock so selling yourself for more than just that would probably be a good idea but I could be wrong."

Thats a good point. A good well balance profile is worth it's wieght in gold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a taboo for a lot of women out there, however I fail to see why the age gap contributes to physical attraction.

im not naive enough to disregard the influence a personality match can have, however I feel way too much attention is paid to this aspect when it comes to swinging. especially when it comes to women who are already attached.

Please, is there a cougar out there that can help me comprehend the turn off, in being found desirable by someone who is younger then yourself, but of legal, consensual and adult age?? "

This post makes no sense. A cougar by definition likes younger guys... So how can a cougar help you comprehend why they find younger guys a turn off, when it clearly a turn on for them? I suggest you think before typing in future.

You also feel too much attention is paid to people wanting a personality match? So we should just fuck anyone who offers?? Don't you realize you are on a swingers site not a casual sex site. Most swingers like the lifestyle and social aspect aassociated with it, not just the sex.

And lastly if you want more attention I recommend you put more on your profile than " ...." !!! Older women usually have a better understanding of what they want out of a meet and if you don't give them anything to work with they'll skip your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cougar is a woman in her 50s wanting a younger guy usually below 30 ok lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a taboo for a lot of women out there, however I fail to see why the age gap contributes to physical attraction.

im not naive enough to disregard the influence a personality match can have, however I feel way too much attention is paid to this aspect when it comes to swinging. especially when it comes to women who are already attached.

Please, is there a cougar out there that can help me comprehend the turn off, in being found desirable by someone who is younger then yourself, but of legal, consensual and adult age??

not only is your arguement invalid as others have pointed out.....

but aren't you the one being age-phobic by specifically looking for cougars????"

Ooooo you beat me to it, I wanted to say that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So cougar was clearly a poor choice of words. So replacing that with the term 'older woman then myself' (desperate attemept not to offend anyone). Please bare in mind this is clearly based on my own experience. Having said that I think _litterbabe has come up with my answer.....it must be my profile."

I won't meet anyone I'm old enough to be the parent of as it feels awkward to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm not a cougar yet as im still under 40 haha aw well still seek out younger guys

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