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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After being on here for a shirt time,I'm starting to realize there's some really picky people,especially about short replies showing first interest or even winks,which sometimes I do if they say winks are ok as an icebreaker to show you are interested.

. Anyway there's quite a lot of singles and couples with really short profiles,but want an essay off you and say they wont answer or just delete short intros.How long or short should a message of interest be shown if you meet their criteria,a courteous reply should be given even if its no thanks.

Ok that's off my chest,can carry on getting ready for work now,be interesting to see reply's,short or long acceptable in a forum lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Short time not shirt time,before someone goes on about grammar..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bother messaging profiles who stipulate how long a message should/shouldn't be, they seem like they'd be hard work ! I always tailor a message to the individual based on their profile and try to inject a bit of humour and personality without boring them senseless !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want an essay,I much prefer a facepic that way if i fancy them we can chat and see how things go and if I don't I will politely say sorry your not my type, saves alot of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My philosophy is if I have to send s meaningful or unique message, one that isn't just a "how's you" and attach photos. Then I expect the same in return.

I've had messages from people whose profile is a list of demands about what they expect in a message and something that gets their attention, yet their message to me is nothing like that at all.

When I message people i try to tailor it around their images and profile. I mention things I like about them and what they have said. If their profile is short and I have nothing to go by then I don't bother

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We have a decent sized profile, but all we say about messages is that we want something more than just "hi".

We don't expect an essay, won't respond to a list of demands and have no interest in putting codewords in messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't want an essay,I much prefer a facepic that way if i fancy them we can chat and see how things go and if I don't I will politely say sorry your not my type, saves alot of time"

I do add face pic to all my interests,perhaps that's where I'm going wrong,I'm just scaring the hell out of them haha

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I wouldnt ask for an essay but when meeting my pics including face are all public so I expect a face pic to be attached so i can see if im attracted enough to chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldnt ask for an essay but when meeting my pics including face are all public so I expect a face pic to be attached so i can see if im attracted enough to chat "

I hope my profile is seen like that,I am being honest,and showing body and face photos too,and congratulations,hope all goes well with the bump,will it be your first?

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I find it strange when the first message asks for a face pic when they have neither a public one on their profile or one sent with the message.

To me if it's polite to send a pic first if you are going to ask for one yourself.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id prefer a short message than a essay that doesnt say shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"id prefer a short message than a essay that doesnt say shit "

Ooh helloo,I think you have deleted me before without reply,just being cheeky and trying again lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id prefer a short message than a essay that doesnt say shit

Ooh helloo,I think you have deleted me before without reply,just being cheeky and trying again lol,"

not from my site supporters

just as you send a message doesnt give you the right for a reply

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I wouldnt ask for an essay but when meeting my pics including face are all public so I expect a face pic to be attached so i can see if im attracted enough to chat

I hope my profile is seen like that,I am being honest,and showing body and face photos too,and congratulations,hope all goes well with the bump,will it be your first?"

thank you and no my first were fraternal twins this is my 3rd and final.

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