FabSwingers.com forum: Just asking if

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I should delete my account as I'm not getting much going on other than lots of false promises or should I perservere? I'm asking the ladies by the way. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a guy that was verified yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Persevere.... Won't happen overnight...be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah delete mate. Lower the odds for the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a guy that was verified yesterday

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never bloody noticed that 2 meets in 2 mths...that's fecking lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not happy then delete. It's that simple. How should we know what's right for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a guy that was verified yesterday

never bloody noticed that 2 meets in 2 mths...that's fecking lucky"

Lucky guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could improve your profile. you don't say anything about yourself. for everybody who doesn't just want to have a body to enjoy there is no information.

put some personality on your profile and try to stick out of the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might as well stay, your veri said she so much wanted to meet you again, seems you found one there. So there is no false promise really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did meet but they wasn't through here. They just happened to be in here. Met at a club. My stats from here are a big ZERO!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Why not try writing a profile and see if that helps?? Not much to delete from what I can see!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Why are you just asking the ladies? There are plenty of successful guys on here who could give you pointers...

Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did meet but they wasn't through here. They just happened to be in here. Met at a club. My stats from here are a big ZERO!!"

Well in that case, read your profile to yourself and ask 'would you meet you?'

It's non existent and may a well not be there. It'll be invisible to the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If you're not getting what you want from here and you feel you've given it your best shot then delete it,or hide the profile for a while

The site will still be here if you decide to come back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only asking the ladies because it is their opinion that matters to me. Don't need a sympathy shag either. Not sure if you've seen me but I don't struggle and I don't care if that sounds arrogant.

Always a tool on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you I might just do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good point. I was lazy in the setting up process. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only asking the ladies because it is their opinion that matters to me. Don't need a sympathy shag either. Not sure if you've seen me but I don't struggle and I don't care if that sounds arrogant.

Always a tool on here. "

So if in your words you" don't struggle" why are you moaning

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not moaning, just asking if I should delete or not. I have nothing to moan about.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Most nowadays like to arrange to meet at clubs less diasppointment then as if theuve suffered from a time wasters theres always someone else to play with

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Only asking the ladies because it is their opinion that matters to me. Don't need a sympathy shag either. Not sure if you've seen me but I don't struggle and I don't care if that sounds arrogant.

Always a tool on here.

So if in your words you" don't struggle" why are you moaning"

My thoughts exactly.

Lots of love, Toolbag. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Not moaning, just asking if I should delete or not. I have nothing to moan about. "

Only YOU know whether it's worth your time or not. If clubs are working for you and this isn't, great, stick with clubs.

But as has already been said, your profile doesn't sell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many have said before OP, effort in = rewards out

Your profile is doing nothing for you and therefore the success you have had on fab to date (i.e. none) is directly proportional to the effort you have put into your profile.

There are many, many threads from others asking for profile advice. Why not have a look at some of them and see what advice has been given to others and see if you can apply any of it to your own profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeh a couple of people have said the same. Think I may stick to that approach. Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree my profile doesn't sell me. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Thank you. "

Louis if you click on reply and quote at the bottom of a post it makes it easier to follow who you're responding too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you.

Louis if you click on reply and quote at the bottom of a post it makes it easier to follow who you're responding too

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an attention seeker ! Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"What an attention seeker ! Wow"

Put your claws away sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an attention seeker ! Wow

Put your claws away sweetie"

Sorry but how shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many guys expect instant meets on here, when they find out they actually have to put effort in they want to leave....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Delete, delete or be a sheep

My USP is dressing as a sheep - socials, clubs, house parties - you name it, I'm there baaa-ring away and I have plenty of veris, so my advice is to stand out and be a sheep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did meet but they wasn't through here. They just happened to be in here. Met at a club. My stats from here are a big ZERO!!"

I'm not surprised with a two word profile. Seriously what do you expect??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

patience is a virtue ,,, and think about something classy to put in your profile

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Just delete the account, if you change your mind you could always create another one.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

"Only asking the ladies because it is their opinion that matters to me. Don't need a sympathy shag either. Not sure if you've seen me but I don't struggle and I don't care if that sounds arrogant.

Always a tool on here. "

well, in this ladies opinion your attitude on this thread is an instant turn off. You are possibly a lovely guy, and maybe even a hot one... But based on what am reading here that doesn't translate.

Delete or stay, you're a big boy, you decide.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Yes I advise delete.

good luck for the future

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If the OP is getting more joy outside the site, then leave. Or just stop logging in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?"

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

" I'm asking the ladies by the way. X"

see... you are making one of the most common mistakes in swinging....

if you are looking to play with couples, then why on earth are you looking for answers from just one half....

i would assume if you are looking for couples that BOTH parties are making those decisions on who to meet.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete or stay, you're a big boy, you decide. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree my profile doesn't sell me. Thanks"

Something in your profile sold you to the ladies who verified you

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Oi, Bitch, where's those hairy chest pics you promised me?

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Oi, Bitch, where's those hairy chest pics you promised me?

- Amy. x"

Bitch? Bitch!?!? I aint no ones bitch, bitch!!!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Oi, Bitch, where's those hairy chest pics you promised me?

- Amy. x

Bitch? Bitch!?!? I aint no ones bitch, bitch!!!

Shut it, you Tart! *Runs and hides*.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Haha you look like a weak version of Grant Mitchell you muppet.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Haha you look like a weak version of Grant Mitchell you muppet. "

Feel better after that, do we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Haha you look like a weak version of Grant Mitchell you muppet.

Feel better after that, do we?

Not sure if that was meant as an insult or compliment or both

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Haha you look like a weak version of Grant Mitchell you muppet.

Feel better after that, do we?

Not sure if that was meant as an insult or compliment or both

I do like The Muppets... and having a Grant Mitchell Muppet might shake things up a bit.

You could have Kermit pinned up against the wall, threatening him to leave town.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"you could improve your profile. you don't say anything about yourself. for everybody who doesn't just want to have a body to enjoy there is no information.

put some personality on your profile and try to stick out of the crowd.

What a load of bollocks as if anyone reads them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Haha you look like a weak version of Grant Mitchell you muppet.

Feel better after that, do we?

Not sure if that was meant as an insult or compliment or both

I do like The Muppets... and having a Grant Mitchell Muppet might shake things up a bit.

You could have Kermit pinned up against the wall, threatening him to leave town.

I *could* do that, but with me being such a weakling, I wouldn't want to run the risk of being overpowered by Kermit, I'll just shout knobend at him from a distance, and probably stick my fingers up aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did meet but they wasn't through here. They just happened to be in here. Met at a club. My stats from here are a big ZERO!!"

Your profile apart from your nice abs is a zero - zero effort in and therefore you get out what you put in.

You write well in here - give your profile text some effort! And if you are straight why are you looking for mm couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Haha you look like a weak version of Grant Mitchell you muppet.

Feel better after that, do we?

Not sure if that was meant as an insult or compliment or both

I do like The Muppets... and having a Grant Mitchell Muppet might shake things up a bit.

You could have Kermit pinned up against the wall, threatening him to leave town.

This doesn't sound very "Grant Mitchell", it sounds like the local chavs.

My wet dream is ruined!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or are you hoping that female responses may lead to a sympathy shag?

Whaaaaa?!?!?! Single males creating threads in the hope of a sympathy shag????

Naaah, surely not!!!!

Haha you look like a weak version of Grant Mitchell you muppet.

Feel better after that, do we?

Not sure if that was meant as an insult or compliment or both

I do like The Muppets... and having a Grant Mitchell Muppet might shake things up a bit.

You could have Kermit pinned up against the wall, threatening him to leave town.

This doesn't sound very "Grant Mitchell", it sounds like the local chavs.

My wet dream is ruined!"

*chases Kermit down the street and rips his stuffing out*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having received a message from you , I would say that sending a copy and paste effort is where you are going wrong . There was nothing in it that made me think wow I have to message you back . It was boring and exactly the same as the other 50 messages we got today.

Make yourself stand out with you first message .

The only thing you did right was send face pics although one was blurred .

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

"Only asking the ladies because it is their opinion that matters to me. Don't need a sympathy shag either. Not sure if you've seen me but I don't struggle and I don't care if that sounds arrogant.

Always a tool on here. "

Why only ladies? Your profile says you are looking to meet couples including all male couples, don't you want their input?

Unfortunately as you can only be bothered to write two words on your profile and the attitude you have shown , we vote you should delete

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