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By *irty fun with couples OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brampton

Would love to go to a club but I am a little over weight so bit self conscious has any more over weight people got any advice for visiting a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clubs have people of all shapes n sizes ..

go to kestrels on a sunbathing day and then as confidence grows have a wander round etc

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this issue too

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

We are all different shapes and sizes..and all attracted to different shapes and sizes... Just try a club and see.

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By *ay4youMan
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"I have this issue too"

Well u shouldn't u have the perfect body!

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

All shapes sizes and ages visit clubs. dress in something that makes you feel sexy and give it a go. much more acceptance of different body types in clubs than in most "normal" social places

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"I have this issue too

Well u shouldn't u have the perfect body!"

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By *irty fun with couples OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brampton

It's having the confidence to go and get naked that is if I was lucky enough to meet some one

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"It's having the confidence to go and get naked that is if I was lucky enough to meet some one "
i never get naked with any one else but steve , still got the mummy tum x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Then wear something you can keep on that makes you feel sexy.

No need to be naked unless you want to.

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By *irty fun with couples OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brampton

Don't know what would be classed as sexy for me

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By *irty fun with couples OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brampton

You are fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's having the confidence to go and get naked that is if I was lucky enough to meet some one i never get naked with any one else but steve , still got the mummy tum x"

After 5 full terms pregnancies, most of them 10 lbs, i do get naked in front of people. And i'm fat.

People will either fancy you or not. I have a lot of repeat meets, so luckily am attracting the right people.

Not saying you should do anything you're uncomfortable with, but most people tend not to care about the unflattering bits of your body. It's ok to be real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see all sorts of shapes and sizes in clubs, honestly you shouldn't worry x

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By *irty fun with couples OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brampton

Thanks for the reply s it has been stopping me from going to a club for a long time and I really want to go to, one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far from the body perfect (whatever that means)and I go to chams and feel totally at ease there ...rarely have I seen people actually walking round naked, , apart from on a Tuesday naked night. ..lots of different shapes and sizes and nobody cares. .but I guess if you're self conscious nothing anyone will say Iis going to change that ..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to go to a club but I am a little over weight so bit self conscious has any more over weight people got any advice for visiting a club"

I'm a god and my body is a temple, but I have heard of the lesser folk like yourself not being allowed into clubs, but I can't help sorry.

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By *irty fun with couples OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brampton

Jesse James must be awsome to be perfect like you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for it op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the reply s it has been stopping me from going to a club for a long time and I really want to go to, one "

First time I went I can honestly say I saw all sorts, it was actually very liberating, go for it xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Would love to go to a club but I am a little over weight so bit self conscious has any more over weight people got any advice for visiting a club"

Wear a sheep outfit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone feels the same !

But remember the people in there are swingers like yourself ! Just normal people not supermodels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im amaxed at the hot men i manage to attract so chill op n have fun xxx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

My advice? Forget about it and go. There will be people of all shapes and sizes there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesse James must be awsome to be perfect like you are"

I think he was joking? I love it on these boards when people take everything seriously. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club F have a bi night once a month - that might be a good place to start?

If you don't go, you'll never know.

Good luck and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have this issue too"

The rubber duck looks pretty pleased with the way you look

It's hard to disagree with said ducky.

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By *irty fun with couples OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brampton


"Jesse James must be awsome to be perfect like you are

I think he was joking? I love it on these boards when people take everything seriously. Lol"
was jut taking the piss nothing serious

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"I have this issue too"

Are you having a laugh. Your body is perfect, I would give anything to look like you do

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

The first time we went we were both a bit wary as I have got a large belly since getting diabetes and the hubby has quite a small dick but we were soon stripped off and in the hot tub and felt very liberated

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By *irty fun with couples OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brampton


"The first time we went we were both a bit wary as I have got a large belly since getting diabetes and the hubby has quite a small dick but we were soon stripped off and in the hot tub and felt very liberated "
that's exactly what's happened to me got diabetes and yes not got the biggest cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have this issue too"

you have NO issue. Believe me. Xxxx

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I got diabetes 9 years ago and was slim then. It is just the belly that has got big, I think by the insulin injections in the stomach. The hubby has always been embarrassed by the size of his dick but is fine with it now since we started swinging

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