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By *aulspenisontour2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Please somebody help,can't understand been on

Site 2 weeks and no invites,I'm fit clean genuine

Horny,and still nothing,I must be doing something

Wrong god knows,just want my first experiance

On site then who knows xxxxxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Crikey - 2 whole weeks eh? I'd jack it in mate there's no hope for you! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it will happen when it you least expect it to happen. keep your head up. patients i say, there is always something out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok well, this is a swinging site, not a quick fix shag site.

You need to have patience, we haven't had a meet for over 2 months and we can meet everyday/evening/weekend.

We have a full profile and over 80 pictures of both of us for all to see.

That's a couple, imagine what it is like for single guys.

You need a lot of patience and need to put a lot of effort into getting a meet, some take a year or more to get their first meet.

You can short cut the system by getting along to a social event or to a club to get yourself known.

Use the forums, make sure your profile is good, use the chatrooms.

Remember your profile is your shop window, people wont shag you cos your bored, use your window to advertise what you have to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You still have a thread running 'new to site'. message left for you 9 mins ago on that thread

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

how many threads are you gonna start about this??

you have another on here lready where people have provided feedback on your profile etc, did you not like the comments so started another one instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AND .... read people's profiles, it is a sign of respect, mailing people who don't meet single guys will only piss them off and depress you when you simply get blocked or ignored all the time.

Chancing your luck doesn't work, if people dont meet single guys no amount of pressure or pestering will make them change thier minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it will happen when it you least expect it to happen. keep your head up. patients i say, there is always something out there "

Hey, you answered him in the last thread aswell

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Come to my place - i'll suck you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See also, camera, lights, action, Birmingham thread

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"Please somebody help,can't understand been on

Site 2 weeks and no invites,I'm fit clean genuine

Horny,and still nothing,I must be doing something

Wrong god knows,just want my first experiance

On site then who knows xxxxxx "

Mate, don't take this the wrong way: desperation never looks attractive! People have already said, this isn't an 'instant shags for all' site, it's a swinging site. If you don't understand the difference, maybe it's not for you?

Be patient, be polite, be yourself - if there's somebody on here who suits you (and vice versa) you've as much chance as anybody - good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have read your profile and to be (possibly) brutally honest I can't understand it.

Would you meet you after reading that profile????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have read your profile and to be (possibly) brutally honest I can't understand it.

Would you meet you after reading that profile????????"

I can understand it,but it really needs to stand out from the 1000's of other single male profiles on here.

You need to include more,your likes dislikes,what you are looking for ect.

And asking husbands if they can take pics of you and their wives then hand the pics to you for your profile isnt going to help you either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 whole weeks, blimey i would have thought you would have had atleast 4 shags in that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a bad world being a single bloke. Do what you want when you want so to speak. Obviousley some peoples expectations are way too high and probs dont realise theres more too life than just themselves. ( did i really just say that out loud...Never! ) Learn from the rest and bobs your uncle..

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You have "patience is a virtue " on your status message...you might need a bit more than two weeks of it.

This isn't like Argos where you go in, order what you want and it gets delivered wrapped to your door....you have to be patient and work at standing out....be that in mails/ profile/chat/forums or socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying that and advice onboard you should have atleast had a gang bang meet, fisting session and numerous pissing party's under your belt lol. I would rap in now mate if your getting no where haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its always hard for single guys on here as couples and single women have more choice.

patience and perseverance are key

be polite, dont go straight in for sex chat as not everyone likes that

listen to what someone is saying to you too

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Face facts age is a cruel thing, too many 28-30 year old blokes playing around, so competition is pretty fierce.

Better pictures, suggestive rather than porn, and a profile that is a bit more friendly. What you are looking for, e.g. anonymous hotel meets, or dinner party with lots of flirting leading to bed hopping etc

The typo 'now' instead of 'know' might put some off.

Puts hand up to say his own profile probably isn't that great either, but always easier to give advice than take it.

At least people on here are reasonably friendly, and unlike other sites there is not the constant stream of cam ladies asking you to verify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just dont understand the thread aint being funny but fook me coming here and putting the fact u been on for 2 weeks and havent had any fun just reeks of desperation i think by doing what u done you prob scared of any interest you may have had ...typical single bloke giving rest of us a bad name.. may i reccomend a course of bromide to be getting on with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having looked at your profile it tells me absolutely nothing about you, likes/dislikes, what you are looking for, what type of person you are attracted to AND you have 5 pics of your cock!

I'd have a rethink and make a little more effort! You get back what you put in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really need to sort your profile out its one of thousands and needs to stand out a little bit better, as for being on here for two weeks and having no luck ?well its not instadate, sort your profile, send polite respectful messages to people that interest you and you then stand a fair chance of finding what you want.

Master (Katie can have her own opinion)

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Having looked at your profile it tells me absolutely nothing about you, likes/dislikes, what you are looking for, what type of person you are attracted to AND you have 5 pics of your cock!

I'd have a rethink and make a little more effort! You get back what you put in!"

I'd be happy to put it in, but i WILL expect to get it back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks ! 2 Weeks !! Been on here near on 2 years, 1 verified genuine meet from a couple who I knew before joining. The most polite messages addressed only to the people who precisely fit my criteria and whose statements and preferences I check very carefully. I can't even get a reply FFS ! Is my inbox jammed up or summat ?? Mate if you think 2 weeks is a problem your in the wrong place

Oh and by the way, not having a rant, just stating a fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are allowed to comment on your own threads if you wish!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not meet the people on your friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on my friends list ? Well, one I have the others go as follows, 2 nearly met but something at their end always seems to crop up. 1 asked to go on my friends list but never replies to messages. You tell me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that's 2 that do not reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having looked at your profile it tells me absolutely nothing about you, likes/dislikes, what you are looking for, what type of person you are attracted to AND you have 5 pics of your cock!

I'd have a rethink and make a little more effort! You get back what you put in!

I'd be happy to put it in, but i WILL expect to get it back.

"

You expect a lot, don't you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just gettin of the thread im willing to put any effort required for hornymids girl lol ...very nice pics hun u shud sell em to the medical proffession natural remedy to erectile dysfunctia lol

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