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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

I literally have no luck

At all on here barely get a message back

and that's a no thanks, am I really that ugly? Sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Its not about luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same for all the single blokes and not to do with your looks mate.

I'm lead to believe that patience and a decent profile write up are key. Also clubs and socials.

Keep plugging away, You'll get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely would if you weren't so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think perhaps you are looking for the wrong type . You are a good looking guy , look on meets and events and make yourself available ...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i am glad someone said it before me so i don't get accused of being "the hater"... but if you think its all about just your looks as to why you are not getting meets... i don't think you really know about swinging.....

looks is just one part of a much bigger puzzle.... you have to be able to help yourself "help yourself"... and if it feels that you spend more thought on your post here than it does on your "shop window to the world"... then there are issues.....

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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

Thanks guys but I don't know I'm shy to go to a club by myself to be honest and I'll say around 90% of women on here will go on looks as First impressions so yeh if you like the look of someone you would want to go to know them , no-one wants to get to know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not ugly OP, so one wonders if it's your approach that is not working for you

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Oh well there's no hope for you then fella, only you can do things for yourself, no one can do it for you.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Thanks guys but I don't know I'm shy to go to a club by myself to be honest and I'll say around 90% of women on here will go on looks as First impressions so yeh if you like the look of someone you would want to go to know them , no-one wants to get to know me "

if which case... i am now going to be blunt..

if that is what you believe... and you aren't prepared to listen to anyone who may tell you any differently... and you brush it off....

as the person above me said..."in one ear, out the other"... no one is going to be able to help you.....

you know that thing i said about "helping yourself" help yourself..... not listening to others isn't go to help yourself!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys but I don't know I'm shy to go to a club by myself to be honest and I'll say around 90% of women on here will go on looks as First impressions so yeh if you like the look of someone you would want to go to know them , no-one wants to get to know me "

London not easy most of my mails are from people up north. ( past reading anyway)

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"I literally have no luck

At all on here barely get a message back

and that's a no thanks, am I really that ugly? Sigh "
Have you taken any notice of the previous help/advice you were given many many weeks ago?

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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

Like I said guys I am listening but some of you ain't giving me advice telling me not based on looks not advice mate, what's wrong with my profile, what am I doing wrong? Elaborate. And btw I ain't one of these guys who message 'I wanna do u hard' , 'suck my cock' or 'I'll shag ya brains out'. My first messages ain't sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha I no what women on here and I don't have it unfortunately ha

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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"I literally have no luck

At all on here barely get a message back

and that's a no thanks, am I really that ugly? Sigh Have you taken any notice of the previous help/advice you were given many many weeks ago? "

Yeh didn't work so trying again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the same for all the single blokes and not to do with your looks mate.

I'm lead to believe that patience and a decent profile write up are key. Also clubs and socials.

Keep plugging away, You'll get there."

Get where ? What's the guy actually looking for ? Maybe a dating site would be more suited rather than a swingers site.

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple
over a year ago

HULL

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple
over a year ago

HULL

Another moaning guy, stating he is not getting any lol, if you don't know the answer to why. I would give up swinging lol xx

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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"Another moaning guy, stating he is not getting any lol, if you don't know the answer to why. I would give up swinging lol xx "

Elaborate mate or lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys but I don't know I'm shy to go to a club by myself to be honest and I'll say around 90% of women on here will go on looks as First impressions so yeh if you like the look of someone you would want to go to know them , no-one wants to get to know me "

you're right- of course they go for looks. its a sex site not a debating society.

you are in london though, the swingers graveyard.

as for clubs- why would any single guy pay 40-80 bucks to hang around for sloppy seconds? leave that to the real no hopers.

but, some tough love coming... ditch the attention seeking and use your personality. will help more in the long run.

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect"

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is a virtue, have you got few years? Its the same for mostly all men here due to the high ratio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get in the chat rooms and chat . Soon make friends . (Face cam) . A quick search and theirs loads of socials round you. Get that important green tick then the ladies will come to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies "

Ohhhhh I love sucking on a fab lolly or two!! xx

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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies "

Hey guys please I don't really know the lingo kinda new to this what's a fab lollie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies

Hey guys please I don't really know the lingo kinda new to this what's a fab lollie?"

It's an ice lolly with sprinkles called FAB!! lol

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies

Hey guys please I don't really know the lingo kinda new to this what's a fab lollie?"

Seriously? You're joking right mate?

Go to the supermarket right now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies

Ohhhhh I love sucking on a fab lolly or two!! xx"

Oo bloody hell nearly choked on my brew reading that!!! Ha

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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies

Hey guys please I don't really know the lingo kinda new to this what's a fab lollie?

Ohhh course I know fab lollies I love em just thought was some swingers slang lol

Seriously? You're joking right mate?

Go to the supermarket right now lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies

Ohhhhh I love sucking on a fab lolly or two!! xx

Oo bloody hell nearly choked on my brew reading that!!! Ha"

I've choked a few times on my FAB lollys too

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Another moaning guy, stating he is not getting any lol, if you don't know the answer to why. I would give up swinging lol xx

Elaborate mate or lady x "

All advice that will or can be given (there's loads of threads already in the archives) is going to be generic, you'll have to interpret that advice and adapt it to you.... There's no magic pill anyone can give you,.. It seems the common thong that's not working is you.... As the dragons would say I'm out

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies

Ohhhhh I love sucking on a fab lolly or two!! xx

Oo bloody hell nearly choked on my brew reading that!!! Ha

I've choked a few times on my FAB lollys too "

Few too many Fab lollies over here, need to swap to the carrots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrrrrgggghhh! Give up it will go on carpet!

U can choke on my calypso anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies

Ohhhhh I love sucking on a fab lolly or two!! xx

Oo bloody hell nearly choked on my brew reading that!!! Ha

I've choked a few times on my FAB lollys too

Few too many Fab lollies over here, need to swap to the carrots "

I wouldn't say that, stick to the lollys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrrrrgggghhh! Give up it will go on carpet!

U can choke on my calypso anyway "

Only like FABs, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur missing out!!! U must like one of them milk lollies to suck on!!! It's a crime not ha even i do chocolate or vanilla? Such a tough call!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Like I said guys I am listening but some of you ain't giving me advice telling me not based on looks not advice mate, what's wrong with my profile, what am I doing wrong? Elaborate. And btw I ain't one of these guys who message 'I wanna do u hard' , 'suck my cock' or 'I'll shag ya brains out'. My first messages ain't sexual. "

okay... did you bother looking at the profiles of the people that sent you advice in the last thread....

or have you bothered looking at some of the profiles of the people that have given you advice in this thread for example....

then look at yours...... and compare how they sell themselves as opposed to how you sell yourself......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ur missing out!!! U must like one of them milk lollies to suck on!!! It's a crime not ha even i do chocolate or vanilla? Such a tough call!!"

I don't do vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha! I love a bit of vanilla though Ur more of a hardcore cookie dough girl then eh! Bloody hell women of today eh

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex


"Ur missing out!!! U must like one of them milk lollies to suck on!!! It's a crime not ha even i do chocolate or vanilla? Such a tough call!!

I don't do vanilla "

Mmm I don't mind vanilla, as long as it's a bit saucy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another moaning guy, stating he is not getting any lol, if you don't know the answer to why. I would give up swinging lol xx "
Sign up as a male and you would complain too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ur missing out!!! U must like one of them milk lollies to suck on!!! It's a crime not ha even i do chocolate or vanilla? Such a tough call!!

I don't do vanilla

Mmm I don't mind vanilla, as long as it's a bit saucy

"

Lots of sauce here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahahaha! I love a bit of vanilla though Ur more of a hardcore cookie dough girl then eh! Bloody hell women of today eh "

Nope, Rossi through and through lol

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex


"Hahahaha! I love a bit of vanilla though Ur more of a hardcore cookie dough girl then eh! Bloody hell women of today eh

Nope, Rossi through and through lol "

Only Rossi I like is the drink!

Man I have an unhealthy obsession with Energy drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make you're own luck kiddo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like I said guys I am listening but some of you ain't giving me advice telling me not based on looks not advice mate, what's wrong with my profile, what am I doing wrong? Elaborate. And btw I ain't one of these guys who message 'I wanna do u hard' , 'suck my cock' or 'I'll shag ya brains out'. My first messages ain't sexual. "

So crossing your arms. No every girl likes a bouncer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies "

Fuck knows how I'm going to cope with demand once the weather gets warmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your personality and approach that put me off

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Here's a vastly improved version of what you currently have, in terms of fixing the spelling, grammar, and making it make sense:

'Hi, I'm Jason from East London. I'm on here to meet a lovely woman, so that we can mentally and physically stimulate and challenge each other!

I'm a mechanic and I work most days. I'm looking for someone who can help to take my mind off everyday life, and to put a smile on each other's faces. Get in touch. X'

Now, even having improved what you had there immeasurably, it still says almost nothing about you. It's not very interesting, it barely tells a prospective person what you are looking for, and it won't get you a single meet.

Take the effort that you haven't had to put in to fixing the above, and apply it to building on what's there.

If you want someone to 'get in touch', you need to think about giving them a reason.

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex


"It's just your lack of googly eyes on your penis and that fine tuned ability to cross your arms I suspect

Definitely needs more googly eye cock shots!

& Fab lollies

Fuck knows how I'm going to cope with demand once the weather gets warmer "

Open your own business where you teach guys how to turn their cocks into fab lollies... you'll make millions and have the girls queing at the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be right up the front!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another moaning guy, stating he is not getting any lol, if you don't know the answer to why. I would give up swinging lol xx

Elaborate mate or lady ux

All advice that will or can be given (there's loads of threads already in the archives) is going to be generic, you'll have to interpret that advice and adapt it to you.... There's no magic pill anyone can give you,.. It seems the common thong that's not working is you.... As the dragons would say I'm out "

Pssst.... pay no attention to these guys mate, there ARE magic pills... Trust me I was considering a career in a monastary or even moving to a land where no one has sex, such as London...

Then I laid my hands on This shit! Now Im knocking boots round the clock!

Seriously, I've had to fit a revolving door to my bedroom, durex have given me a company account and the reason there's been hardly any power cuts recently is because I've rigged a kinetic motor up to my hips which now powers the national grid, you know what Im saying??

I know what you're thinking; Where can I lay my hands upon these fine pharmacuticals? Well Bliss isn't a guy to see his brothers go without, no sir! They can be yours For the knockdown price of £999.99 a batch, I shit you Not!

And as another nice surprise, unlike Most medication these actually taste Good to boot! I've got them available in skittles and m&m's favours and I've even painstakingly lettered each pill with an 's' or an 'm' so you'll know the difference.

Now have We gots a deal or have We gots a deal?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Thanks guys but I don't know I'm shy to go to a club by myself to be honest and I'll say around 90% of women on here will go on looks as First impressions so yeh if you like the look of someone you would want to go to know them , no-one wants to get to know me

you're right- of course they go for looks. its a sex site not a debating society.

you are in london though, the swingers graveyard.

as for clubs- why would any single guy pay 40-80 bucks to hang around for sloppy seconds? leave that to the real no hopers.

but, some tough love coming... ditch the attention seeking and use your personality. will help more in the long run.

"

its not a sex site its a swingers site.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Patience is a virtue, have you got few years? Its the same for mostly all men here due to the high ratio."

there are many many successful men here and within the swinging scene, its called putting the effort in, making excuses like that is just a cop out, you make your own luck here, effort in= rewards out.

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