FabSwingers.com forum: Is sex evil ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There seems to be a long standing association between sex and all things satanic. I've often wondered why this is. My view is that something so perfect beween consenting people, that gives them so much pleasure, is quite the opposite. If I wasn't meant to have such desire, I wouldn't be so full of lust.

I suspect most of it stems from religious beliefs but, if you ever take time to read the Old Testament, on which Christianity and I understand Islam are based, there's some pretty well thought of people who have done some pretty nasty things to get their way when it comes to sex.

I'm not a religious nut by the way, I do believe in something bigger, in fact I think I'm a bit of a polytheist, but I'm never going to know for sure so I don't spend time trying to prove one way or another.

Anyhow, I just wondered what views were on this, do you think it's wrong/forbidden/even evil. Or, like me, do you think it's a gift of who/or whatever, to be taken full advantage of.

As I say, just curious.......oh an bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex isn't evil but some people who have sex with lots of different people are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex isn't evil but some people who have sex with lots of different people are.

are they? Bloody hell, that's me for purgatory then. Surely evil people do all sorts of things, usually hurting someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If sex is evil, I think you're doing it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex isn't evil but some people who have sex with lots of different people are.

are they? Bloody hell, that's me for purgatory then. Surely evil people do all sorts of things, usually hurting someone?

Yeah, I did say some, didn't mean you in particular.

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Of course anything so good has to be made evil to keep us under control. What is evil is the way a whole industry has built up to exploit our sexual urges..anyone remember the swinging sixties? Goes to look for his flares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I know, there has never been a war over sex. Wars are the result of religion or land disputes, that's evil.

If we are to beleive in "our creator" ,who ever that may be, why were we one of the only creatures on earth given the ability to derive pleasure from sex, if it's an evil act?

Sex isn't evil aslong as it's not with children,animals or certain vegetables

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course anything so good has to be made evil to keep us under control. What is evil is the way a whole industry has built up to exploit our sexual urges..anyone remember the swinging sixties? Goes to look for his flares."

good point, could be a control thing i guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As far as I know, there has never been a war over sex. Wars are the result of religion or land disputes, that's evil.

If we are to beleive in "our creator" ,who ever that may be, why were we one of the only creatures on earth given the ability to derive pleasure from sex, if it's an evil act?

Sex isn't evil aslong as it's not with children,animals or certain vegetables

oh go yes, don't corrupt parsnips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's an interesting perspective for you.

If sex is so evil, then why is it that without sex the Human race would become extinct.

Sex is necessary for reproduction and therefore can not possibly be evil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's an interesting perspective for you.

If sex is so evil, then why is it that without sex the Human race would become extinct.

Sex is necessary for reproduction and therefore can not possibly be evil."

No not sex with the same person, but sex with lots of different people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Here's an interesting perspective for you.

If sex is so evil, then why is it that without sex the Human race would become extinct.

Sex is necessary for reproduction and therefore can not possibly be evil.

No not sex with the same person, but sex with lots of different people."

but, if it gives great pleasure to those people, and its consenting, is that not a good thing. If Porn, prostitutes, causal dating sites prevent one innocent person from getting raped, or worse, Isn't that a good thing? I think consenting sex makes the world a better place.

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Our very survival depends on sex and then nurturing for many years. Hence monogamy and that idea that sex is a duty and inappropriate thoughts about random members of the opp sex should be soundly chastised and the devil scourged from the miscreant.

We can create hobby bubbles to do everything apart from have consenting sex it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex isn't evil but some people who have sex with lots of different people are.

I'd love to hear your rational argument on this subject??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex isn't evil but some people who have sex with lots of different people are.

I'd love to hear your rational argument on this subject??"

would you realy.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"As far as I know, there has never been a war over sex. Wars are the result of religion or land disputes, that's evil.

If we are to beleive in "our creator" ,who ever that may be, why were we one of the only creatures on earth given the ability to derive pleasure from sex, if it's an evil act?

Sex isn't evil aslong as it's not with children,animals or certain vegetables

Helen of Troy? Her running off with Paris ended with the Siege of Troy by her jilted hubby Menalaes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never read one religious tex from any of the main religions that stated sex was "evil" it's very subjective and boils down to circumstances for instance eg a woman may cheat on a man the act see had with another was not evil between them it was passionate and enjoyable , the the consequence of tht action was evil as it hurt her partner .

One could argue dose evil even exist or is it simply the a dance of good ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absence of good not dance lol bloody productive tex !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's seen as wrong to have sex with anyone other than your partner . So being on here and enjoying it with others is seen as evil by some .

Lines that get crossed such as anal / bisexuality / bdsm / etc.... also are deemed wrong by many .

But if you and the people you partake of such atrocities with are happy then is it really evil ? Or satanic ?

There isn't really an answer to that but for now we will continue to enjoy such debauchery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's an interesting perspective for you.

If sex is so evil, then why is it that without sex the Human race would become extinct.

Sex is necessary for reproduction and therefore can not possibly be evil."

Unless the things reproducing are evil. Then sex would be evil.

Someone also mentioned pleasure, what if our purpose isn't to receive pleasure? Does seem weird our bodies allow us to have pleasure, but we also know that our bodies can mess up, what if pleasure is madness?

Until we know our purpose, and obviously we might not even have have a purpose, then we don't now what is right and what's wrong. We cannot define evil until we know what is wrong exactly, and nobody knows for sure. So we just try and live in the way that ensures everything is controlled and works for us. But not all of us, only those who want to be a part of the control group.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

I think you'll find the people that think sex for the sake of pleasure is evil are usually people not getting any ie Catholic church , ugly people

sits back and waits for the trolls to begin the onslaught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be the Roman Catholic position that 'fornication is only for procreation'.

I think in most texts based on the Old Testament sex is for reproduction and not pleasure. I think other non Abraham based religions are more relaxed about sex for fun between married couples.

That being said the Old Testament contains the Song of Solomon which is dedicated to sex and has the wonderful line 'Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins, and feed among the lilies.'

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Two answers:

1) Yes, if it doesn't involve me.

2) In the main, the Abrahamic religions feel sex between a married couple for the procreation of children is good. This includes sex with your wife's servants, and even any women you capture personally in war.(with the caveat you have to let the women go after a year, and look after the children).

Anything else, including wanking or sex purely for pleasure can expect you to get a bit of smiting.

I think it's turned into more a control mechanism. Find something natural, that everyone likes to do, make them feel guilty for wanting to do it, then tell them you can absolve their sins if they pay you money, or go off to fight against your enemies.

I did once look into the Indian religions, where they feel sex is the closest you can ever get to god, since he must be present inside you both at the point of conception. Hence the temples decorated with sexual carvings. Unfortunately even they advised that the common man may find this too much, so should leave the rampant bonking to the priests, and instead have simpler pleasures such as meat or chocolate!

Ps there's no punchline in this bit, sorry!

Mr ddc

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By *ILUV2PLAYMan
over a year ago

Crewe

I was once told:

Sex is evil,

Evil is sin.

Sin is forgiven

So get stuck in. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's an interesting perspective for you.

If sex is so evil, then why is it that without sex the Human race would become extinct.

Sex is necessary for reproduction and therefore can not possibly be evil.

No not sex with the same person, but sex with lots of different people."
think ur on the wrong site then love haha

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It used to be the Roman Catholic position that 'fornication is only for procreation'.

I think in most texts based on the Old Testament sex is for reproduction and not pleasure. I think other non Abraham based religions are more relaxed about sex for fun between married couples.

Oh and some:

"You remind me of Pharaoh’s well-groomed and satiny mares.

Pendant earrings line the elegance of your cheeks; strands of jewels illumine the curve of your throat.

I’m making jewelry for you, gold and silver jewelry that will mark and accent your beauty"

"When my Lover lay down beside me, my fragrance filled the room.

His head resting between my breasts—

the head of my lover was a sachet of sweet myrrh.....

Restless in bed and sleepless through the night,I longed for my lover.I wanted him desperately, absence was painful......"

"Dear lover and friend, you’re a secret garden, a private and pure fountain.

Body and soul, you are paradise, a whole orchard of succulent fruits—

Ripe apricots and peaches,oranges and pears;

Nut trees and cinnamon,and all scented woods;

Mint and lavender,and all herbs aromatic;

A garden fountain, sparkling and splashing,fed by spring waters from the Lebanon mountains."

"Wake up, North Wind,get moving, South Wind!

Breathe on my garden,fill the air with spice fragrance.

Oh, let my lover enter his garden!

Yes, let him eat the fine, ripe fruits."

Oooh I feel all a fluster....

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Breathe on my garden,fill the air with spice fragrance.

Oh, let my lover enter his garden!

Yes, let him eat the fine, ripe fruits."

Oooh I feel all a fluster....

I think that's why our school skipped that bit, moving straight from plagues and smiting of heathens to virgin births and women keeping their heads covered lest they inflame men's passion.

I suspect there'd be a lot more interest in the PRS exam if there was more discussion about breathing on lady-gardens!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathe on my garden,fill the air with spice fragrance.

Oh, let my lover enter his garden!

Yes, let him eat the fine, ripe fruits."

Oooh I feel all a fluster....

I think that's why our school skipped that bit, moving straight from plagues and smiting of heathens to virgin births and women keeping their heads covered lest they inflame men's passion.

I suspect there'd be a lot more interest in the PRS exam if there was more discussion about breathing on lady-gardens!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the pagan communities whether theist or not had a rather more open attitude to non monogamous non heterosexual relationships...suppressing that was a form of control particularly of reproduction...so play to people's most basic fears, death and eternal punishment as many religions do to bring people into line...

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"There seems to be a long standing association between sex and all things satanic. I've often wondered why this is. My view is that something so perfect beween consenting people, that gives them so much pleasure, is quite the opposite. If I wasn't meant to have such desire, I wouldn't be so full of lust.

Anyhow, I just wondered what views were on this, do you think it's wrong/forbidden/even evil. Or, like me, do you think it's a gift of who/or whatever, to be taken full advantage of.

As I say, just curious.......oh an bored

Discuss "

I think back in the days of extreme Christianity sex was deemed evil as a form of contraception. guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyhow, I just wondered what views were on this, do you think it's wrong/forbidden/even evil. Or, like me, do you think it's a gift of who/or whatever, to be taken full advantage of.

As I say, just curious.......oh an bored

Discuss "

Mr Crowley had sex with 120 women and didn't get them pregnant. (It's called anal sex )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, there you have it folks, unless your a Roman Catholic and have sex with more than one person, in which case it's purgatory for you, fuck who you like when you like, as long as they consent of course. No need for stoning unfaithful women, or smithing men with fire for spilling their seed. All good clean fun.

We can't all be wrong......can we ?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Well, there you have it folks, unless your a Roman Catholic and have sex with more than one person, in which case it's purgatory for you, fuck who you like when you like, as long as they consent of course. No need for stoning unfaithful women, or smithing men with fire for spilling their seed. All good clean fun.

We can't all be wrong......can we ?

But then, if Purgatory is full of folk who fuck around, how bad could it really be?

"Sorry, god, still think I need a bit more time in here"

Not sure they thought that one through...

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

"As far as I know, there has never been a war over sex. Wars are the result of religion or land disputes, that's evil.

If we are to beleive in "our creator" ,who ever that may be, why were we one of the only creatures on earth given the ability to derive pleasure from sex, if it's an evil act?

Sex isn't evil aslong as it's not with children,animals or certain vegetables

Certain vegatables

,which veg are ok then? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain vegatables

,which veg are ok then? lol"

All of them, apart from beetroot

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"As far as I know, there has never been a war over sex. Wars are the result of religion or land disputes, that's evil.

If we are to beleive in "our creator" ,who ever that may be, why were we one of the only creatures on earth given the ability to derive pleasure from sex, if it's an evil act?

Sex isn't evil aslong as it's not with children,animals or certain vegetables

Certain vegatables

,which veg are ok then? lol"

Mrs ddc's G-spot butternut squash was purpose made. Proof there must be a god, and that sex with certain vegetables is okay!

Mr ddc

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Anyhow, I just wondered what views were on this, do you think it's wrong/forbidden/even evil. Or, like me, do you think it's a gift of who/or whatever, to be taken full advantage of.

As I say, just curious.......oh an bored

Discuss "

I don't think that sex is evil

However, I think that having sex with multiple partners (and I am guilty of that) leaves one desensitised, feeling shallow and exposed to a higher risk of STIs

So, maybe there is something useful in those religions afterall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't give two fucks if there is certain people or even whole religious communities that think sex is evil..they aint going to stop me enjoying it

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"As far as I know, there has never been a war over sex. Wars are the result of religion or land disputes, that's evil.

If we are to beleive in "our creator" ,who ever that may be, why were we one of the only creatures on earth given the ability to derive pleasure from sex, if it's an evil act?

Sex isn't evil aslong as it's not with children,animals or certain vegetables

Actually we are not. Dolphins do too. They even use things like sticks that the find to increase their pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyhow, I just wondered what views were on this, do you think it's wrong/forbidden/even evil. Or, like me, do you think it's a gift of who/or whatever, to be taken full advantage of.

As I say, just curious.......oh an bored

Discuss

I don't think that sex is evil

However, I think that having sex with multiple partners (and I am guilty of that) leaves one desensitised, feeling shallow and exposed to a higher risk of STIs

So, maybe there is something useful in those religions afterall"

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