FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the clubbers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My profile clearly states I don't like anal sex (which to me means anything up my bum) and any potential playmates I meet, I always reiterate this.

However, when in a club on a big bed with lots of other couples you just tend to go with the flow. I quite enjoy the touching and feeling both ways, I find it a huge turn on.

But my question is this, would you stick your finger up someones bum without asking if they minded. I personally would never do this but that's because I don't like it myself maybe.

Thoughts please

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It seems to be the fashion these days. I was handled quite roughly by one guy on Saturday and had a very sore bot the next day. Even when you ask them to stop the fingers just creep back in.

Also its unhygienic. What are the odds they wash their hands before fingering someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they asked we would both be unhappy and tell them to stop.

A decent person would ask or at the least apologise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just try and get away with what they can rather than asking. I've had to be quite verbally forceful in the past and it's ruined the night. I don't play openly anymore as I can't be bothered with the hassle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It seems to be the fashion these days. I was handled quite roughly by one guy on Saturday and had a very sore bot the next day. Even when you ask them to stop the fingers just creep back in.

Also its unhygienic. What are the odds they wash their hands before fingering someone else?

Exactly what I thought. He did stop straight away but I still felt he should have asked first

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unless they asked we would both be unhappy and tell them to stop.

A decent person would ask or at the least apologise. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people just try and get away with what they can rather than asking. I've had to be quite verbally forceful in the past and it's ruined the night. I don't play openly anymore as I can't be bothered with the hassle. "

Its a shame the minority spoil it for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile clearly states I don't like anal sex (which to me means anything up my bum) and any potential playmates I meet, I always reiterate this.

However, when in a club on a big bed with lots of other couples you just tend to go with the flow. I quite enjoy the touching and feeling both ways, I find it a huge turn on.

But my question is this, would you stick your finger up someones bum without asking if they minded. I personally would never do this but that's because I don't like it myself maybe.

Thoughts please

I wouldn't no but I have had loads of guys do it to me, I think they are testing the water, try a crafty finger and if she don't moan get the cock up next

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If they did that with me then all play would stop immediately. I'm pretty vanilla in clubs anyway.

But I would not find it acceptable for someone to shove their finger up my are whether I liked it or not

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I simply ask the lady if she likes any 'anal play' and go from there.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile clearly states I don't like anal sex (which to me means anything up my bum) and any potential playmates I meet, I always reiterate this.

However, when in a club on a big bed with lots of other couples you just tend to go with the flow. I quite enjoy the touching and feeling both ways, I find it a huge turn on.

But my question is this, would you stick your finger up someones bum without asking if they minded. I personally would never do this but that's because I don't like it myself maybe.

Thoughts please

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Totally unacceptable behaviour and likely to earn the offending person a punch in the squidgy bits!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

The first time I ever played in an open room some guy stuck his finger up my bum,I hadn't spoken to him before,never seen him before wasn't even playing with him!

I hit the roof

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"The first time I ever played in an open room some guy stuck his finger up my bum,I hadn't spoken to him before,never seen him before wasn't even playing with him!

I hit the roof

Wow, you must be fit, I'd jump too if someone did that, but I doubt if I could get near the roof!

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

"Unless they asked we would both be unhappy and tell them to stop.

A decent person would ask or at the least apologise. "

This...definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"The first time I ever played in an open room some guy stuck his finger up my bum,I hadn't spoken to him before,never seen him before wasn't even playing with him!

I hit the roof

Wow, you must be fit, I'd jump too if someone did that, but I doubt if I could get near the roof!

I was waiting for a comment on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask male or female. But then I. Treat people how I. Want to be treated. Nobody should ever assume at a club that its a free for all

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think some people try to push boundaries in clubs without asking if it is desired.

As I'm not everyone's cup of tea, I prefer to wait until I get an explicit invite before joining in. I try not to try to anally fist anyone without a by their leave....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No permission = No bum love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a huge fan of my bum being touched so always ask before I touch someone else's; although its normally the other person asking me to do it to them; and if so I'm happy to oblige

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

NOOOOO.

Good lord if someone tried that on me I'd.....well I can't say as I'd be banned from the forum. But walking out of the club would not be an option for them.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I wouldn't dream of inserting fingers anywhere without asking, especially someones arse, besides, I'd have to pop on a glove first!!!

Had it done to me a couple of times and on both occasions, I just got up and left.

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