FabSwingers.com forum: help please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. I am married 20 odd years, together for kid purposes only, want regular friend. Feel as though I need to lie to meet. But not in my nature, we all deserve honesty. Please don't judge me. Just want honest advice and am I on wrong site? Cheers for any advice. X

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

You say 'feel as though I need to lie' I assume you mean with regard to your married status/

Some folks will play with both single and married guys, some will only play with one or the other.

So you tell the other person "I'm married" and they reject you, you assume its because you are married?

So you tell the other person "I'm not married" and they reject you, you assume they rejected you because ?

Are you on the wrong site? Well there, could be something like 75% of the membership of this website is husbands not getting any sex at home

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

married men for me, can be hard work to meet. They have restricted times, I can't wear perfume an can't leave any marks if I want to get a little bit rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"married men for me, can be hard work to meet. They have restricted times, I can't wear perfume an can't leave any marks if I want to get a little bit rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. I am married 20 odd years, together for kid purposes only, want regular friend. Feel as though I need to lie to meet. But not in my nature, we all deserve honesty. Please don't judge me. Just want honest advice and am I on wrong site? Cheers for any advice. X"

There's lots of married women playing behind their husbands back on here, why not pitch a few of those?

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You're concerned about lying to strangers but not to your wife and mother to your children? Oh lordy lordy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You're concerned about lying to strangers but not to your wife and mother to your children? Oh lordy lordy."

How do you know he's lying to his wife?

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You're concerned about lying to strangers but not to your wife and mother to your children? Oh lordy lordy.

How do you know he's lying to his wife?"

Fair point. Apologies for jumping the gun OP. Does your wife knoW and happy with you playing away? If so you'll find it easier to meet people and I'd be honest about it.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

20 years together for kid purposes, the children are grown now and your still in this relationship so it's has to be more than kid purposes, please don't lie to yourself to stop you feeling bad about stepping out on your wife. Your either going to cheat or not don't blame it on the wife and probably a loveless marriage etc will be your next comments

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

What ever your reasons , I'm married and state it on my profile and my first message to someone , if you get blown out then that's that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What ever your reasons , I'm married and state it on my profile and my first message to someone , if you get blown out then that's that "

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