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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we know the first contact with someone on here is very important.

we know that its a big no no to go with to very short "fancy a fuck" type messages, and some people don't like to read an essay, but what we would like to ask you all is -

what would you all say is the most important things to say or not to say in the first message to get a positive response?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I wouldn't worry, I get the feeling you'd get a response regardless of what you say .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by what I read I'd say there's no sure fire formula, It varies from person to person. If I was going to send a message it'd be based on the feeling I get from their profile and possible posts of theirs I've read in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had a first message there it said... open them legs daddy's coming seriously do guys think lines like this will work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a first message there it said... open them legs daddy's coming seriously do guys think lines like this will work?"
yea its so hot NOT!

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By *reacher and TartCouple
over a year ago

High Peak

An informative targeted message always gets most interest for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well seeing he hadn't been verified and been on a few months... Feel sorry for genuine single guys with dafties like that

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Messages are only part of the whole package. You can send a stellar message but they're not attracted to you or send a poor message but you're just their type. That person can also be having a bad day and delete your message on sight!

As mentioned before, there's no sure fire way of getting it right because people are different and want different things. Just be yourself, message with honesty and positivity and what will be will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, what time does your hubby go to work?

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