FabSwingers.com forum: Do you fuck on first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many of you enjoy to fuck on first meet

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Nope. Social only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there a sexy connection n condom s y not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only at clubs for us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done. My preference is not to though

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I have done at a club but only after chatting on here for ages first and I wouldn't of done had the chemistry not been right. I prefer a social meet first though for a coffee or a beer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes, sometimes no....I do prefer a social first but its all circumstance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah Kevin bloody Wilson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your dad own a brewery ?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done but generally prefer social meet first. But if the chemistry is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the chemistry. No chemistry no play, no protection no play either

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By *ittlemisspinkWoman
over a year ago

manchester

I do if it feels right no point waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most definitely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if the chemistry is there, a meet I had recently was the perfect example as the sex on the first meet was some of the best Ive had!

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Sometimes yes, sometimes no....I do prefer a social first but its all circumstance "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have a lot of spare time so when we do have a meet it's usually with some sort of play in mind! But that's why we chat on here for a while first, make sure the chemistry is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly "

See the button under the post your replying to that says 'reply and quote'......

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By *ottzpairCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Yes we do, busy busy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I'm happy to have a drink first but not essential for me. If I don't get a good feel from someone by text and phone calls it's not going to change by meeting face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes...very little free time, so if i was meeting i would already have to be pretty sure i was going to meet for fun

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Why else would you be on here, if its not to fuck? I don't even say hello, just come in and fuck me hard mmmmm

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

If there is mutual attraction, then definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. We've already wheedled out the ones we don't want through messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever had a first meet that hasn't ended in sex. Even when I wasn't expecting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if we like each other, I prefer to play first meet, meet for a drink and a chat first then move onto play, I can't see the point in rearranging for another time if you like each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, all depends on chemistry, accommodation and condoms!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

That is the aim of the game all being well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do if it feels right no point waiting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! If there's a sexual attraction why the hell not?

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Have done a couple of times in the hot tub at The Vanilla Alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep....it's why I'm meeting

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Absolutely! If there's a sexual attraction why the hell not?

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

You only live once, so have fun!

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Our time for meets is limited due to work so yes we will fuck on a first meet but only if there is a connection and attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. It's all i'm on here looking for. Don't mind having a brew and that first though.

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By *aureanCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Yes, always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say no but two of my four veris were a fuck on the first meet. Oops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you enjoy to fuck on first meet "
Well, as I normally only go to clubs when I'm feeling frisky, then I would hope it happened each time.

But then my "pickiness" sets in and brings my hit-rate down to in between 33 and 50% Damn you pickiness, I want to get laid!

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We only meet at clubs so it'd be pointless if we didn't. Saying that, we don't go to clubs 'expecting ' to play. We enjoy the social side just as much.

Dave

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We message here, then we whatsapp and sometimes phone chat by which point all is sorted. All it needs is to meet and see if all that's been said and the people are who they say they are, we talk from where we left off either in the bar of the hotel or the room and if the attraction in the actual meet is as it was on the site all is set as far as we are concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local - a social then back to theirs if chemistry etc

partys/clubs if chemistry etc socially first

so yes generally first meets after chatting here or accasionally people ive never chatted on here before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play easy to get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alwais fuck ofcourse, don't wanna leave full balls behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly yes x

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London

"Mostly yes x"

Hope so

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

If the first kiss works, then hell yeah.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I have done but generally prefer social meet first. But if the chemistry is there

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social 1st, my only exception is distance but a rapport would have been built up off here before hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we do ... its what we are on here for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

Oh who am I kidding, mostly yes

but I meet people in clubs, it's totally different from meeting off here, you chat and instantly know if the chemistry and attraction is there .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes

Oh who am I kidding, mostly yes

but I meet people in clubs, it's totally different from meeting off here, you chat and instantly know if the chemistry and attraction is there ."

saved me typing lol

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By *mandaboundTV/TS
over a year ago

Newton Le Willows

Yes but only after loads of chat beforehand. Sort out all the issues before so there isn't any misunderstanding when we do meet and can get down to what we both want

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We do

already done the getting to know people and decided we like them before we arrange to meet so it works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do usually because I've taken time to get to know people on here first, but if the chemistry is there and the situation is right then yep

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

some of my meets have been socials that led to nothing, some that led to a bedroom pretty close and others that led to a separate 'date' being made.

Never say never, I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on person and mood

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I'd be very disappointed if it ended in the pub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials are overrated

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I have & am happy to if everyone's happy. Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah!

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By *exWithThePrettyCouple
over a year ago

Ilford

Yes. We have plenty of vanilla friends & are on here to meet people to have sex with.

We have had socials but don't indulge in the scene every weekend so really prefer if fun is on the cards first night when we do, as long as everyone is happy. Profiles that rule it out on the first meet generally get bypassed.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I have done although I never intend to. What can I say? I'm easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that what it's about??

Chat first, take it from there, agree the time and place and off you go??

Why else be on a sex site if you're not planning to have sex!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I have sucked or fucked on nearly every first meet, but when I start meeting again (if I start meeting again) it will be social first every time if person is new to me.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

I always fuck on the 1st meet..

Well, my fucking machine does..or I get one of my 3 strap ons out

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I NEVER fuck on first meet. 100% purely social first meet. No exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes, all depends on chemistry, accommodation and condoms!!

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. Thats what i meet for. A good scuttling then a bit of pillow talk then im off to find my next victim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you enjoy to fuck on first meet "

If there's chemistry.... Just try stopping me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like too cause our spare time is limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, yes

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Ummmm depends if in club then hopefully yes........

If at a social then I have done in past if I have flirted with them online etc

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I have done, depends if click well enough x

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Sorry for being an odd man out. Just too boring to meet up the first time. Then rearranged again for fun.in fact the zeal and anxiety is gone..I can understand some people flow with chemistry. Not for me

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We don't have a lot of spare time so when we do have a meet it's usually with some sort of play in mind! But that's why we chat on here for a while first, make sure the chemistry is there."

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We have only had 2 meets but both times we started to play within an hour of meeting. We r here to fuck s we don't want to wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to meet in a social setting first, but have usually taken a bit of time chatting beforehand to get the connection. So yes, usually ends in play on first meeting...it'd be a shame to let the moment pass

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes that's the point of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't have a lot of spare time so when we do have a meet it's usually with some sort of play in mind! But that's why we chat on here for a while first, make sure the chemistry is there."

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We'll normally meet for a social, then see how the evening takes us

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Always. If I'm meeting its because I'm horny so I'd be very disappointed if it didn't result in sex. That said, I'd walk away if the chemistry wasn't there.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I never do socials, a waste of my time. But then I only meet and play in clubs so I chat with them there before maybe finding a room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are an odd one...

They don't really reveal how you'd gel sexually.

You could get on really well socially but not be suited sexually. And vice versa.

So what's the point?

Unless looking for potential relationship/dates/friends, messaging/phonecalls/seeing pics, suffices.

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's right, tbh, most of my socials lead to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only meet if I'm in the mood to play, and already feel some connection - then if the chemistry is right I'm more than happy to have sex almost straight away.

In fact, I tend to find that if I don't play on a first meet, then it's not going to happen at all.....

But maybe I'm just an easy slut at heart...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you enjoy to fuck on first meet "
Yes we do, thats why we are on here, it is a sex site after all, Its not a social site, thats Facebook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has happened to me twice and that was 2 years ago but there was social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the chemistry. .. If by talking to them on the phone/messages I get a good feeling then yes, as sometimes it's hard arranging a mutually convenient time for the both of us... so sometimes the play is on the cards as time permits but it's not a necessity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials are an odd one...

They don't really reveal how you'd gel sexually.

You could get on really well socially but not be suited sexually. And vice versa.

So what's the point?

Unless looking for potential relationship/dates/friends, messaging/phonecalls/seeing pics, suffices.

S x"

Well they kind of do reveal more than messaging alone does, you can tell a lot from a goodnight snogging sess.

I've not met again on that basis of that alone, you don't get to any bases with me if you can't kiss!!

Also, I do find people don't always turn up looking or acting how they come appear online ~ nice enough to have a drink with not nice enough to have sex with.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yes, as I seldom get a second meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, every time but I am picky with who I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to get to know the person/couple a bit, gives a better connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a social first meet with someone from here... at least it was supposed to be a social but we ended up fucking in my car in the pub car park...

I guess that meant it had gone well?

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By *ehind closed curtainsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

Sometimes, but never promise before we meet, depends on chemistry & how hot the build up has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thought this was a sex site not a social site

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Yes, quite often if I've felt there's a "spark" after we've met for a drink and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social is ok but we are here to do you now what long as they done look like the elephant man or she has a face like it's been hit by a express train get jiggy with it shake you merry maker.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Yes

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Very very rarely. Prefer to get a bit of a buzz going after meeting face to face. Saying that, I have done a couple of times and am still in touch with them after all these years

It really does depend on the person/couple and how the meet goes to be honest

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Yes! -and on second, third and fourth....... providing there's a mutual attraction, of course, and almost always in clubs

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By *ulie and PaulCouple
over a year ago

stockportish

Yes if we click no if we don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she wants to. Sure.

Why deny ourselves the pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully

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