FabSwingers.com forum: In a bit of a pickle . . .

By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

Ok, so here goes.

I'm a heavily pregnant woman in her mid twenties. Huge sexual appetite, yet havent had fun (masterbation or otherwise) since august.

It's not something i've ever wanted to do (meet when pregnant), hence I have not. However, as my due date is drawing closer and the lack of sex is clawing away at me like a second little demon, I must admit I am highly frustrated. Oh so close to investing in a new toy but weary of the effects.

Would it be rude of me to ask have any other mama's had a similar experience and if so, what would you advise?

Kind regards,

Under-sexed mum

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was once visited by a heavily pregnant young work colleague. She was 7 months into her pregnancy.She was climbing the walls for seX . . It was none of the most passionate and hornieSt meets I've ever experienced. Now have quite a thing for pregnant women. Lol

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I'm confused, are you asking if it is safe to masturbate with a toy?

- Amy. x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

right up to the birth of our 2 children's births we had full penetrative sex..

if your worried, don't be just get comfy

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

"I'm confused, are you asking if it is safe to masturbate with a toy?

- Amy. x"

Partly yes

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

it's fine - you go for it! I'm in Liverpool in a couple of weeks - and am happy to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just rub your clit , simples

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Im currently 21 weeks and allI can say hos im glad my fellas home for the weekend.

Masterbate away it cant hurt the baby casual sex with a strange meet could if you catch something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a reason as to why you're not having sex with your partner (if not to personal to ask), being pregnent never stopped us, infact sex is what started off labour of our youngest

Hex

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

"Im currently 21 weeks and allI can say hos im glad my fellas home for the weekend.

Masterbate away it cant hurt the baby casual sex with a strange meet could if you catch something"

Congratulations

This is one of the many reasons I dont wish to meet when pregnant. Baby is no.1 priority. I'm just looking at options as being single and having a high sex drive but no sex is tearing me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Six months? SIX MONTHS? It must be like you're going cold turkey

As for being safe, well obviously I'm no expert but I believe it's not only safe but it's the law for a woman to experience pregnant sex.

You won't harm your baby in any way, either by having sex or masturbating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Hex said, we had sex right up to the end. I couldn't have survived without that lol!

Using toys is absolutely fine when pregnant too...I did with all of mine

Hids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can almost hear the sound of thunder as a thousand Fab guys rush to Liverpool to help a damsel in distress

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Odds bodkins! Get your end away before you explode

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Nothing unsafe what-so-ever about penetrative sex/masturbation. I too chose not to swing as the health of our Baby came before a short-lived thrill in my books, but then again I was lucky to have Bradley when I was pregnant as I was horny as fuck, but still masturbated like a mad woman too.

So long as you don't do electro-stimulation (use toys that give you electric shocks) or use any of those weird spikey ones, you should be fine.

And if you're THAT worried, just use the tip of a vibrator on your clit.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went swimming the day before and had sex the night before my middle child was born.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Im currently 21 weeks and allI can say hos im glad my fellas home for the weekend.

Masterbate away it cant hurt the baby casual sex with a strange meet could if you catch something

Congratulations

This is one of the many reasons I dont wish to meet when pregnant. Baby is no.1 priority. I'm just looking at options as being single and having a high sex drive but no sex is tearing me up

Thank you and Congrats yourself

I do feel your pain i was single during my first pregnancy with my twins as the dad took off when i told him I was pregnant and ive always had an high sex drive too so I was climbing the walls not meeting and still getting offers that were oh so tempting but I resisted and I niw have two beautiful amd healthy girls as my reward

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Toys (clean, phthalate free, and nothing extreme ofc) are completely safe for penetration, and vibes are fine too (used inside or out.) Having plenty of sex is for the best as it helps keep the muscles in trim.

Also (and not everyone will like the thought of this, so stop reading if you're easily icked) your baby will enjoy your orgasms too.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Toys (clean, phthalate free, and nothing extreme ofc) are completely safe for penetration, and vibes are fine too (used inside or out.) Having plenty of sex is for the best as it helps keep the muscles in trim.

Also (and not everyone will like the thought of this, so stop reading if you're easily icked) your baby will enjoy your orgasms too. "

Thats all true I having a very happy wriggly baby after experiencing the big O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used my toys all they all 3 pregnancies right upto close to due dates

There's no harm a toy can do, climax isn't going to hurt it either

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

Thank you folkes. You must all think i'm a bit mental giving previous veris but since the baby's dad and I parted ways, I just havent been the same in that respect. Time to get ordering a few toys as a reward me thinks

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

"Six months? SIX MONTHS? It must be like you're going cold turkey

As for being safe, well obviously I'm no expert but I believe it's not only safe but it's the law for a woman to experience pregnant sex.

You won't harm your baby in any way, either by having sex or masturbating."

I'm a born again nun, didnt you know? The one who miraculously fell pregnant from a sip of communal wine

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

What about the father of your child..

I had such a wacking orgasm when I was 35 weeks pregnant my waters broke.

That was quite funny..Like having sex when your milk comes in .. I used to tie a towel round me cos it would just pour out .. funny times.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

Did you know semen contains prostaglandins that can start labour? So hot sex for you!

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

I'm no longer with the baby's father, hence the forum really

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I'm no longer with the baby's father, hence the forum really "

Toys are very safe. I think you are doing the right thing laying off playing till

The baby is born as you never know what you could catch and that could be dangerous. Only 3 months left now, your over the worst. A £5 Anne summers bullet used to sort me out when I was gagging

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ten % off lovehoney and you can send back if you dont like it.

sorry you are not with the dad.

there are quite a few guys that like pregnant sex on here it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel envious of all u woman who had such a high sex drive when pregnant

I'm 5 months pregnant and had no sex drive what so ever, me and the mister are planning a _omantic night tonight though so hopefully that gets me going

fingers crossed

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

Only 6 weeks until bambino is due. Im just at the end of my tether. Especially now im on maternity leave.

I'll be sectioned by the time this baby is born

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

"Ten % off lovehoney and you can send back if you dont like it.

sorry you are not with the dad.

there are quite a few guys that like pregnant sex on here it seems."

Some things just arent meant to be, but at least I have my little lady to look forward to. Wouldnt change that for the world

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Ten % off lovehoney and you can send back if you dont like it.

sorry you are not with the dad.

there are quite a few guys that like pregnant sex on here it seems.

Some things just arent meant to be, but at least I have my little lady to look forward to. Wouldnt change that for the world

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Good luck .. I wonder if you will still be horny once baby is born. I was so busy I didnt bother about sex at all after.

Too much effort. Wich I had known about vibrators back then. I doubt I would have bothered again.

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

Possibly not, but as its my first I wouldnt be able to say for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"............ but at least I have my little lady to look forward to. Wouldnt change that for the world

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By *iccardaTV/TS
over a year ago

Wallasey

Hope You find a fun way to relieve Your tension had a friend who sat on the washing machine on the spin cycle when she was expecting

er stopped it bouncing round the room lol

And all the best for the birth

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By *atsnCorsetsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

From a midwife friend of ours sex can actually help stimulate labour so if you're 39 weeks that could potentially be an issue...

But the positives of sex, masturbation, and of course cumming far outweigh anything else so go for it!

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

"Hope You find a fun way to relieve Your tension had a friend who sat on the washing machine on the spin cycle when she was expecting

er stopped it bouncing round the room lol

And all the best for the birth

Bugger! Mine is under the unit

Thank you, It's going to be a good while yet, but hoping once baby is a bit older that I can start visiting T.H. a bit more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it wrong to perv the profiles of the ladies expecting hoping to see some baby bump pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a born again nun, didnt you know? The one who miraculously fell pregnant from a sip of communal wine

Ha, well I'm a believer, you must be a nun to have lasted this long, I'm soon to be completely out of action for around 6 weeks or so and the thought of that is bad enough.

If you decide to buy some toys to relieve yourself can I offer my services as goalie, after all this time I reckon you may shoot that little lady straight across the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was it wrong to perv the profiles of the ladies expecting hoping to see some baby bump pics.

I hope not

They should be compulsory, hah

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

Sex during pregnancy was the best sex I've had in my life... Especially after I left work for maternity leave at 8 months - every day my hubby got home from work I made sure it was the first thing we did!! So many arguments over me being horny and him too tired

Do it, don't hold back on the play time! You're missing out big time!

But yeah, no meets - risking catching stds is potentially harmful to the baby and can cause serious side effects if untreated before birth x

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

"I'm a born again nun, didnt you know? The one who miraculously fell pregnant from a sip of communal wine

Ha, well I'm a believer, you must be a nun to have lasted this long, I'm soon to be completely out of action for around 6 weeks or so and the thought of that is bad enough.

If you decide to buy some toys to relieve yourself can I offer my services as goalie, after all this time I reckon you may shoot that little lady straight across the room.

I didnt think that far ahead! Urgh dont the one thing im dreading is the birth. I'll be asking for all the pain relief they've got. Any of you saucy sods doctors by any chance?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

had sex all the way through her pregnancy even at the night she started labour pains 4hrs later before she gave birth the same day 12hrs later

though for pain relief she was on gas and air as what she wanted but soon changed to i want the needle

but was too far gone to have it as goes for the mask it didnt last long before it was off and not used again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel envious of all u woman who had such a high sex drive when pregnant

I'm 5 months pregnant and had no sex drive what so ever, me and the mister are planning a _omantic night tonight though so hopefully that gets me going

fingers crossed"
You,ll have Valentines day soon..

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I'm a born again nun, didnt you know? The one who miraculously fell pregnant from a sip of communal wine

Ha, well I'm a believer, you must be a nun to have lasted this long, I'm soon to be completely out of action for around 6 weeks or so and the thought of that is bad enough.

If you decide to buy some toys to relieve yourself can I offer my services as goalie, after all this time I reckon you may shoot that little lady straight across the room.

I didnt think that far ahead! Urgh dont the one thing im dreading is the birth. I'll be asking for all the pain relief they've got. Any of you saucy sods doctors by any chance?

You'll be fine.

If you do try just gas and air though, make sure you start sucking that shit up as soon as you feel a contraction coming! Nobody told me that if you start it too late, it's bloody useless! Lol.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any of you saucy sods doctors by any chance?

Funny you should ask, Doctor James here, I'm not a gynaecologist but I'll have a good look at it for you.

Like Amy says, you'll be fine, don't stress over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a midwife friend of ours sex can actually help stimulate labour so if you're 39 weeks that could potentially be an issue..."

Sex that involves a man can bring on labour because his cum can irritate the uterus. This, combined with the hormone release from both parties can start labour, BUT masturbation and/or having some alone time with your fav rabbit wont risk bringing on labour early, as you don't have the man there being an irritant.

Good luck hun

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"?.........as you don't have the man there being an irritant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"?.........as you don't have the man there being an irritant.

lol that wasn't accidental

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By *uzi Jones 26 OP Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

Haha! Very well made point. Useful for some things but annoying for most

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