FabSwingers.com forum: are some people just to picky

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to my knowledge. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, everyone has their preferences and they are entitled to them

Hex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think so - to have sex with someone (at least when you are not high as a kite on some powder, liquid or herbal stuff - lol ) there has to be an attraction and we all have a certain type/types. We know some lovely people - but would never dream of having sex with them simply because there is zero chemistry that way.

Hope that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope we all have preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that people have the right to be picky

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I could maybe think of some who aren't!!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We are, not ashamed of it either, and above all personalities have to be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think so - to have sex with someone (at least when you are not high as a kite on some powder, liquid or herbal stuff - lol ) there has to be an attraction and we all have a certain type/types. We know some lovely people - but would never dream of having sex with them simply because there is zero chemistry that way.

Hope that makes sense?

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as long someone dunna offer u a pink panther you'll have a cracking nite

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Oh dear has someone been turned down lol . Everyone has their own criteria of what is attractive and they are entitled to them . We generally find the only time we are told we are too picky is by someone we dont want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear has someone been turned down lol . Everyone has their own criteria of what is attractive and they are entitled to them . We generally find the only time we are told we are too picky is by someone we dont want to fuck"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"???"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proud to be picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep all people who turn me down

Wayyyyy to picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"???"

too picky?

yup.. we are..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we all have our own preference of likes and dislikes.

Has to be chemistry there to want to have fun with someone

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Picky is best way to be.... Well until we get that dreaded no thank you reply

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah, everyone should fuck everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah, everyone should fuck everyone.

Fancy a shag

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"yeah, everyone should fuck everyone.

Fancy a shag

aye go on then,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope rules of attraction apply on here just like they do in life. Why lower your standards just for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the 'if i wouldn't be seen in public with a person then i wouldn't fuck them!'

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I picky the ones I likey...

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

"I use the 'if i wouldn't be seen in public with a person then i wouldn't fuck them!'

Very good rule x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope that makes sense?

as long someone dunna offer u a pink panther you'll have a cracking nite

Did you ever see a panther that was pink?

A panther that was positively pink?

Rinky dink panther, rinky dink panther

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By *ookingaboutMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"No, everyone has their preferences and they are entitled to them

Hex"

agree with both points

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I could maybe think of some who aren't!!"
. Every member is entitled to use selection criteria. Would you buy any old car or do you make an informed choice based on the information available .

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By *hitedukeMan
over a year ago

derby

Yes.

Im very disappointed that everyone i want to fuck doesnt think the same about me

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

No such thing as too picky. You have to want to fuck someone before getting naked. At least I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope that makes sense?

as long someone dunna offer u a pink panther you'll have a cracking nite

Did you ever see a panther that was pink?

A panther that was positively pink?

Rinky dink panther, rinky dink panther

Funny guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit im picky and so I should be lol. I don't jump into bed with just anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very picky

I pick them all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea,makes them feel good about themselves when someone hot says yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, everyone has their preferences and they are entitled to them

Hex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, if it was the other way you would see women would be less picky, no daubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its funny how folk call you picky or stuck up when you say "no thanks" or even "no fucking chance,in yer dreams"

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"???"

I knew you had asked this before.....

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/307337

i'll answer this the same way i answered that...

if people weren't picky... i'd be more worried!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Belles incredibly picky! Me, as long as it has a pulse!!!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm very picky, when someone messages me, I look for reasons not to meet them.

From gut feelings to bad grammer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very picky, when someone messages me, I look for reasons not to meet them.

From gut feelings to bad grammer"

You wouldn't meet someone because of bad grammar? Wow!

I would agree if it was "text talk" as that's annoying, but just for a few spelling mistakes or lack of comma's????

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Goodness yes, I'm picky and fussy, and can be put off quite easily...

But I have limited free time, and would rather not meet than have an unpleasant time.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I am... So im told. But its my body and i choose who touches it.. So...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Goodness yes, I'm picky and fussy, and can be put off quite easily...

But I have limited free time, and would rather not meet than have an unpleasant time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in my case.

I'm picky, fussy & particulair about who I meet. Why wouldn't I be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We're not picky.

We say no to everyone.

Equal opportunities and all that!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Very picky here

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I am picky, and I would prefer to meet someone who is picky as opposed to someone who will fuck anything with a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn right, if I'm going to give someone access to my bits, it's going to be someone I want. Not into any hole a goal

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"???"

Too picky for what?

Too picky to agree to meet you? Probably. The very cheek of it! How very dare they?

Yes, I'm picky. I'd be concerned about the self-esteem and psychological well being of someone who would shag anyone at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyones preference u could bé the fittest peeps goin but if u cant socialise have poor communication skills and dont no how to party and no personality what good is it ? And when u getting no fun or meets then it is time to look at yaselves where ya going wrong ,picky till the next great peeps we meet happy days

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I could maybe think of some who aren't!!. Every member is entitled to use selection criteria. Would you buy any old car or do you make an informed choice based on the information available ."

I would test drive it first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its good to be a little bit choosy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We pick and choose the people we find attractive. I've seen people in the past who have declared they are very picky and not been attracted to the people they have met. Doesn't make me any more pickier than them. Just means we have different tastes. Some people say they are picky because they only meet tell,muscled men. I just call that a preference for tall,muscled men

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Damn I'm picky xx

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Nope rules of attraction apply on here just like they do in life. Why lower your standards just for sex? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its funny how folk call you picky or stuck up when you say "no thanks" or even "no fucking chance,in yer dreams""

Agreed... I can go from sexy lady to stuck up bitch in 3 messages

example:

male: mmmmm wow love your profile and pictures you are so gorgeous/beautiful/stunning fancy a chat/meet/fuck

me: No thanks you are not my type

male: Stuck up bitch / timewaster / it's a sex site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its funny how folk call you picky or stuck up when you say "no thanks" or even "no fucking chance,in yer dreams"

Agreed... I can go from sexy lady to stuck up bitch in 3 messages

example:

male: mmmmm wow love your profile and pictures you are so gorgeous/beautiful/stunning fancy a chat/meet/fuck

me: No thanks you are not my type

male: Stuck up bitch / timewaster / it's a sex site!"
Or blocked some cant take no on the chin thats why cant handle rejection lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fair picky I got told by a couple I don't have the right to be picky as a single man haha I won't drop my standards to get laid I'm not that desperate

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm fair picky I got told by a couple I don't have the right to be picky as a single man haha I won't drop my standards to get laid I'm not that desperate "

Everyone has a right to be picky.

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By *ntimatediscretionMan
over a year ago

eaglescliffe

everyone has the right to be picky, though some blokes would literally fuck the crack of dawn.

I personally try to go with the mind-set that unless I would be happy to go for a public drink with them and be comfortable being seen by people I know, then its probably best giving it a miss, and rightfully reversed. I know I wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea and expect that to be the case all round. not many gym fit 20 something's would like a 50/60 or 70 year old bloke with a beer belly crawling all over them... there has to be a mutual attraction....

there are more couples and females on here that blokes so they have the ability to be more selective....

a lot of blokes think some women are like mopeds... good to ride on unless your mates see you....lol

no offence intended and am now sure that I will be slated...but that's the way it is, or is it??????

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By *ntimatediscretionMan
over a year ago

eaglescliffe

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We all have different sex drives, needs and interests.

Too picky for who? It's a question that makes no sense and we all subjectively are appropriately picky for ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in my case.

I'm picky, fussy & particulair about who I meet. Why wouldn't I be?"

Damn it! And there was me, thinking I might be in with a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Picky" can mask an imbalance of enthusiasm for NSA sex in a Couple's relationship.

It is not unusual to find the male very enthusiastic about a meet until the little lady gets home and then its "not for us". Looking at veris often shows up things like they had one meet in 2013 and none since. Ce la vie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Picky" can mask an imbalance of enthusiasm for NSA sex in a Couple's relationship.

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we often get called picky or false because our last verification was in 2013 normally by people who don't fit what we are looking/asking for.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"???"

This website is called fabswingers.com not ifuckanybodywhoasksme.com

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Absolutely picky here! Even if there were only 5 men/women/couples on the site and I didn't like any of them, I'd happily go without, rather than have sex just for the sake of it. *shudders*

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Hmm I think sometimes they can be, but then women have a huge surplus of candidates, while as a male who is meh, I don't at all :P

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I'm too picky, people don't like it, i say it's my nose i'll do what i want with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned down 3 couples and 4 females last weekend as they were not the type of people i look for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a couple can be hard work, both have different ideas of what they like you can end up turning down so many people because one of the couple has no interest while the other does some may call that fussy but thats life and everybody has their own taste, some may take a hit to please the other one but it's not something we would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be as picky as we like thanks. We get the people we 'want' as opposed to the people we could settle for.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

No. Nope. Not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats what it's about, your bodies your choice and if people don't like that then it's their problem and noone elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you be TOO picky?

I don't think so.

most of us are not desperate. so why shouldn't we have high standards?

I just said no to a very cute looking guy because he wasn't flirty enough and I therefore didn't feel appreciated. it feels much better for me to be picky than just take what I can get.

I expect that of other people too by the way. if they don't really fancy me I don't want them to meet me. it would be a waste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its funny how folk call you picky or stuck up when you say "no thanks" or even "no fucking chance,in yer dreams"

Agreed... I can go from sexy lady to stuck up bitch in 3 messages

example:

male: mmmmm wow love your profile and pictures you are so gorgeous/beautiful/stunning fancy a chat/meet/fuck

me: No thanks you are not my type

male: Stuck up bitch / timewaster / it's a sex site!"

Hahaha so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all - everyone's entitled to have standards and a preference.

Just because you're on this site doesn't entitle you to play who you seek fit- it has to be a mutual agreement/attraction and not one sided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep all people who turn me down

Wayyyyy to picky

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you get turn't down ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i,m always polite when a lady says I'm not her type,hapened once then we met, guess what happened next....?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm so picky I've turned my right hand down On more than one occasion...

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By *olly RogererMan
over a year ago

Braintree

Look at it from A different angle as I dont think people can be "too picky" when it comes to sexual activity. However are people "too vain" would be an all together different expression regarding the same thing.

We all know people have sexual preferences and attractions, but we all also know that "personality" counts for much more than looks in the every day world, and beautiful to some is not beautiful to others, so my question is..how can some people see others users personality or beauty by some half cocked pictures and a few lines.

So for my answer, No. People are not too picky but stipulating, tall, fit and big cock simply does not go down well with me.

The question really us, woukd you sleep with a tall fit big cocked guy who was a complete moron or couldnt string a sentence together, or would you rather an average guy who held your mind, conversationally great and made you laugh

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