FabSwingers.com forum: BLOW JOBS.....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there many men out there that just can't come from a blow job and only sex does it for them?

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

I would say I am one who hasn't rather than can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does not matter really if they ok with it and enjoying themselves

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of coming across as Milk Tray Man i must say that She who must be obeyed gives the best blow job i have ever had and cracking sixty ive had a few,but i rarely orgasm, I cant say why but i like to think its because i need to give Her pleasure as well ?

Soppy Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With posts like this, I find science holds the answers. Let's take it to the lab and get some data.

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By *zeye73Man
over a year ago

Amersham

Personally i find its down to technique.

Sometimes it just ain't going to happen but it's very difficult to criticise. It's still a blowjob and I love them.

There are of course other occasions when the sensation is mind blowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a blow job as a starter, but not to come from, just doesn't really do it for me, like to finish with one after sex though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 yo never cum from a bj. Many have tried all have failed. Bjs don't interest me really. Only have them if the woman I'm with really wants to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"40 yo never cum from a bj. Many have tried all have failed. Bjs don't interest me really. Only have them if the woman I'm with really wants to do it"

BJs don't interest you? Now there's something I thought I would never hear a man say!

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By *ensualNorthantsMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Enjoy them don't cum from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blow jobs are my favourite

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I one of those guys although its unlikely i will come from a blowjob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving blow jobs ... And hate being defeated ... I would be very disappointed if I could not manage to make a guy cum through oral ... Looking up at him as he's going to explode is just the best .

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Its a rare event if I do cum from one, but it been known to happen. I think its because there is more friction when having penetrative sex as opposed to a blowie, especially if its tight

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Not all men like blowjobs (but the majority do). I have never yet met a women who likes being licked out. are these women in the rate minority?

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"Not all men like blowjobs (but the majority do). I have never yet met a women who likes being licked out. are these women in the rate minority?"

R u serious?

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By *ensualNorthantsMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Thays tru too

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By *zeye73Man
over a year ago

Amersham

"I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

And do you have a special trick or technique to help you reach your goal?

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

I have no problem cumming from a BJ.... Never knew guys couldn't cum like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's done right its lush ... Mind blowing but some guys just don't cut it ... As i

I am sure us girls just don't cut it 4 some guys at bjs ..it's technique and reading the signs , sounds and movements from the person your pleasuring x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all men like blowjobs (but the majority do). I have never yet met a women who likes being licked out. are these women in the rate minority?

R u serious?"

I'm not keen as most blokes techniques are shite

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By *ensualNorthantsMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Not all men like blowjobs (but the majority do). I have never yet met a women who likes being licked out. are these women in the rate minority?

R u serious?

I'm not keen as most blokes techniques are shite

Most...not all

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By *zeye73Man
over a year ago

Amersham

"Not all men like blowjobs (but the majority do). I have never yet met a women who likes being licked out. are these women in the rate minority?

R u serious?

I'm not keen as most blokes techniques are shite

I have tutored with many variations on a technique. As they say, practice makes perfect.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

And do you have a special trick or technique to help you reach your goal?"

Ive been told i do. But most importantly ppl say its obvious that im enjoying myself so that in itself is a massive turn.

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By *zeye73Man
over a year ago

Amersham

"I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

And do you have a special trick or technique to help you reach your goal?

Ive been told i do. But most importantly ppl say its obvious that im enjoying myself so that in itself is a massive turn."

Very true, enthusiasm plays a big part. Nothing worse than watching someone clearly not enjoying themselves

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

My veris when i flash them r complimentary about me giving bjs. All i know is i love them and can make me extremely wet giving them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ppl say its obvious that im enjoying myself so that in itself is a massive turn."

Definitely agree with that.. Probably the biggest turn on in a bj. If I can shove it in however hard or deep I want, it's such a thrill! Or if she takes control and is clearly having fun... Maybe even better. Specially if I know she's gonna swallow

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By *ensualNorthantsMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"My veris when i flash them r complimentary about me giving bjs. All i know is i love them and can make me extremely wet giving them"

Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have mentioned this in other forums. I find it near impossible to cum during bj's. I think it may have only happened twice? But I'm always happy when a lady wants to make it a third.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"ppl say its obvious that im enjoying myself so that in itself is a massive turn.

I always swallow and then if given the chance carry on sucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all men like blowjobs (but the majority do). I have never yet met a women who likes being licked out. are these women in the rate minority?"
Eh?

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By *ensualNorthantsMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Not all men like blowjobs (but the majority do). I have never yet met a women who likes being licked out. are these women in the rate minority? Eh?

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lol

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

Mmmm that's an awesome BJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always swallow and then if given the chance carry on sucking"

Knock yourself out. Always up for an all-day bj hah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ppl say its obvious that im enjoying myself so that in itself is a massive turn.

I always swallow and then if given the chance carry on sucking"

Would let you carry on with me :p x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever came once from a bj.

it was a bj /handjob

she had skill lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to put my hands up to that i think. Don't think it's happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly cum not from a BJ. Bit from hard pounding throat fucking.

I do enjoy a BJ though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to let you try susy, swallowing is a massive turn on!

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"I'd love to let you try susy, swallowing is a massive turn on! "

Thanks

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Not wishing to brag or gloat

but last Friday I had two different FAB ladies suck me off during the course of a daytime party, and then a vanilla lady friend suck me off later that night.

Not sure how that data helps with a scientific study but it was a hell of a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the sensation of nearly cumming and also the frustration of slowing or stopping at just the wrong time.

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By *ensualNorthantsMan
over a year ago

Northampton

All this bj talk is turning me on

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Not just me getting a tingle from reading this then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife gives awsome head but I don't cum our girlfriend give a Great blow job and I cum like a bull. Go figure but head and a blow job are to different things in my book so what ever.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Enjoy them don't cum from them"

Same here . Really enjoyed all I've had except when one lady thought it fun to bite hard . .

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Not all men like blowjobs (but the majority do). I have never yet met a women who likes being licked out. are these women in the rate minority?

R u serious?"

Yeah My ex never enjoyed being licked out, Her mates don't non of my flat mates at uni like it apparently. Shame because I like Licking women out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

And do you have a special trick or technique to help you reach your goal?"

you have to follow the reaction to your action - and go from there - oh i like that

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

And do you have a special trick or technique to help you reach your goal?

you have to follow the reaction to your action - and go from there - oh i like that

Lol so do. Its the only way. Every1 is so different. There isnt 1 way to give a bj that works for all. U need to watch listen feel there reaction. Guide them. Let them guide u. Immerse yourself in the pleasure of it . Use all your senses.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Glad im not the opnly one. I was begining to think there as something wrong with me. I love receiving a BJ but I very never cum from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

And do you have a special trick or technique to help you reach your goal?

you have to follow the reaction to your action - and go from there - oh i like that

oh i ve got them coming already

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

You certainly can't beat the view of a lady looking into your eyes while she is cupping your balls and slowly treating you to an erotic licking and sucking

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

And do you have a special trick or technique to help you reach your goal?

you have to follow the reaction to your action - and go from there - oh i like that

oh i ve got them coming already

Who is them ? Lol

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

And do you have a special trick or technique to help you reach your goal?

you have to follow the reaction to your action - and go from there - oh i like that

oh i ve got them coming already

Who is them ? Lol"

Yes, who are the lucky buggers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I loooove giving blow jobs. Not all men cum from them. But most do

And do you have a special trick or technique to help you reach your goal?

you have to follow the reaction to your action - and go from there - oh i like that

oh i ve got them coming already

Who is them ? Lol

Yes, who are the lucky buggers lol"

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

I find a gentle prostrate massage always works...

but main thing is for the guy to be relaxed

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

When I felt myself tensing up during Friday's first blowjob she said,"Relax, what's the worst that could happen?"

I said,"I don't know"

She said,"The worst that can happen is that you'll cum in my mouth"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there many men out there that just can't come from a blow job and only sex does it for them?"

I Jez have found I find myself holding back even with women who want me to cum in their mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amazed shocked dumbfounded!!! please tell me this is a piss take right? ffs men Not cummin from bjs and women Not liking been licked out fffffffs is there a dictor in the house my head hurts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him can cum from BJ's.. But it will take ages, we just end up f*cking most of the time anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there many men out there that just can't come from a blow job and only sex does it for them?"

Rarely cum from a blow job, normally it's foreplay so I don't want too, if we've played and then I push my cock in her mouth, different story

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

Trouble with a good BJ it makes me come too soon. My partner gives incredible head but knows if she wants me to last got to back off. Had loads of blow jobs from other players and luv it when they swallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell can just about come with out even touching my cock haha! Which isnt good really ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all men like blowjobs (but the majority do). I have never yet met a women who likes being licked out. are these women in the rate minority?"

I love it but rare to find a man who is actually good enough to make me cum

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"You certainly can't beat the view of a lady looking into your eyes while she is cupping your balls and slowly treating you to an erotic licking and sucking

The eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most have said already. It's about reading the enjoyment from your partner. Pace, speed, depth and generally wanting to be an enthusiastic explorer.

My man rarely cums from bj alone. But having two hands means two areas to explore whilst enjoying his manhood.

Works for us xx mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me they're pleasurable but not in the same league as a good old-fashioned fuck - missionary position ideally. The reason is that for me the big turn on is seeing/feeling the woman getting more and more turned on, her body squirming and writhing against mine, the look of ecstasy on her face as she comes.... ahem, think I need a cold shower!

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Maybe I have a slight "hang up" about it but I have always believed that good sex is sharing and both of you put some effort into it and both share the pleasure of having a good orgasm, a BJ seems a little one-sided where the woman puts in all the work and the guy gets the benefits.

Mind you, I am not opposed to going down on a woman and making sure she has a good time. Maybe I am a bit weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely cum from a bj. I can count on one hand the times I have.

I enjoy it, just doesn't happen. If it does, it tends to wipe me out because of the intensity.

I would also disagree with an earlier poster, who said it was down to technique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does depend on the skills and other elements

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"Are there many men out there that just can't come from a blow job and only sex does it for them?"

I have always found it hard to cum from bj in the past but my OH is so good at them I do cum but she has to go for a while bless her

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"for me they're pleasurable but not in the same league as a good old-fashioned fuck - missionary position ideally. The reason is that for me the big turn on is seeing/feeling the woman getting more and more turned on, her body squirming and writhing against mine, the look of ecstasy on her face as she comes.... ahem, think I need a cold shower! "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Ladies who don't like being licked???? Is that a foreign language...lol.

I love giving bjs and get a little disappointed if a) he doesn't pull me off because he can't take it anymore or b) I don't get a nice mouthful

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

Nothing like a mouthful or faceful of cum, yummy yummy !!!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Ladies who don't like being licked???? Is that a foreign language...lol.

I love giving bjs and get a little disappointed if a) he doesn't pull me off because he can't take it anymore or b) I don't get a nice mouthful

it isca compliment when I pull back from a horny bj in case I shoot too quick

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Ladies who don't like being licked???? Is that a foreign language...lol.

I love giving bjs and get a little disappointed if a) he doesn't pull me off because he can't take it anymore or b) I don't get a nice mouthful

it isca compliment when I pull back from a horny bj in case I shoot too quick

Yes I know that's why I'm disappointed if that doesn't happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all down to technique, I rarely cum from a blow job but when I do it's fantastic lol

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I'd hate to disappoint you then

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

Blowjobs do it for me and cannot imagine not being able to cum from one. Probable if guys are on the blue pill It will cause delay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Managed it with only one woman she had a pierced tongue and I'm pretty sure she learnt everything from watching porn, it was just a shame she was mad as a box of frogs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love blowjobs but very rarely cum from one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. I never cum thru bj but when shagging the pussey I cum within minutes lol.

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Sadly i am one that cant( or at least haven't) sometimes i get close but nothing, i do feel bad for the lady, trying her hardest and all no pop lol do women get upset/offended by this?

I have getting them but my focus is on pleasing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont cum very often from blow jobs, doesnt mean i dont enjoy it thou

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By *eyondCuriousWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Fuck a bj is so fucking good never not cum all the way down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it difficult to cum sometimes, but a bj is the best feeling EVER!

Besides, a finger or two up my ass is a surefire way to make me fire! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone can cum from oral, some can, some can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kat loves giving BJs and enjoys giving real pleasure to the guy. As he comes she loves to watch him writhe with pleasure as he shoots his load into her mouth. There have however been one or two though who cannot cum. Not sure why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kat loves giving BJs and enjoys giving real pleasure to the guy. As he comes she loves to watch him writhe with pleasure as he shoots his load into her mouth. There have however been one or two though who cannot cum. Not sure why. "

You don't need to wonder why they can't. Not everyone can. Same with squirting, some women can, some can't

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By *jeibm2012Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

I think I have, but I generally don't. There needs to be combined hand/mouth action

I prefer giving oral as a lead in to sex as my route to cumming. Getting head is often fine but i think i just prefer to be more active than passive :D

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I love giving oral but I`m not fixated on whether he will cum from it or not, if his head is back and his mouth is open with eyes closed and he looks like he is in ecstasy then that is enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love some oral. Been ages since i've had and feeling the need for it.

Can i throw a tantrum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never come from being given oral. I'm sure i'd love it if I did it would be lovely - but i'm essentially a penetration fan which is why i'm straight I guess! Must confess i'd be disappointed if I gave oral to a guy as foreplay and and he came without giving me a good rogering first!

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