FabSwingers.com forum: mistress???

By *rPleasureMrsPain OP Couple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

Has anyone been someone's mistress? If so did u have rules, etc. I've been asked to b someone's mistress but am unsure? Any advice or help is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry hun, it's been a long day, do you mean mistress like a Domme or mistress as in bit on the side? X

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By *rPleasureMrsPain OP Couple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

Bit on the side mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was once a few years ago by accident as he said he was single, and by the time I found out I was infatuated with him. All I would say is that not to expect to much from him and that you will always be second place in his priorities. Otherwise it was great you get all the best bits without having to clean up after him! Just watch out u don't get hurt x

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By *rPleasureMrsPain OP Couple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

Did u have rules in place etc? If so what? Believe me mine is so complicated any way I'm having to give it a great deal of thought

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Stay away! Nothing but trouble ahead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I almost became one very very recently....very complicated situation!!!

Will your husband mind you having a regular thing like that? x

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By *rPleasureMrsPain OP Couple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

I don't have a partner now, hence why this account hidden for now. it's him with the partner that won't have a Clue. He used to b my partner hence why a lot of thought got to go into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a partner now, hence why this account hidden for now. it's him with the partner that won't have a Clue. He used to b my partner hence why a lot of thought got to go into it"

Ohhhh I see....hmmm....word messy springs to mind. Do you still have a lot of feelings for him, or is it more a sexual thing? x

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By *rPleasureMrsPain OP Couple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

I still have some hence my reservation, but more a sexual thing now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then I guess for me it would boil down to whether I thought those emotions/feelings would come back or if I could keep it sexual.

My situation's different (in that we're both married & he already has one mistress!!) but I felt I would get in too deep emotionally, so called time on it before it went as far as us sleeping together.

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By *rPleasureMrsPain OP Couple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

I'm realistic that I'm never getting him back, I can say that with honesty. But as for feelings I don't know, what I need to work outhe, things I need to know but don't want to push too much

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It could get messy and cause lots of problems in future

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By *rPleasureMrsPain OP Couple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

How? I've nothing to lose other than get hurt?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"How? I've nothing to lose other than get hurt? "

How about his wife? Is she ok with him having you as a mistress?

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