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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been on this site verified for a number of months now with only 1 veri by meeting. Im not fake, consider myself average looking and honest. Any ideas on why im not getting any bites when i dangle my hook, so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 meet in 3 months isn't bad going from what I hear. Socials and clubs seem to be the most recommended route.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all genuine, there is just a massive queue ahead of us, our turn will come eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all genuine, there is just a massive queue ahead of us, our turn will come eventually."

Use the site to supplement your social and sex life, not instead of .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly nothing is ever as good as the hype that made us all sign up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all genuine, there is just a massive queue ahead of us, our turn will come eventually.

Use the site to supplement your social and sex life, not instead of .

"
That's what I do as well, like use it to get some extra fun as well I meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site verified for a number of months now with only 1 veri by meeting. Im not fake, consider myself average looking and honest. Any ideas on why im not getting any bites when i dangle my hook, so to speak. "

Not accommodating can be off-putting.

It looks like you are attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those pics are neither inviting or creative. Perhaps have a look at some of the good me a profiles on here and improve. Yours look very willydimentional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember that us single chaps vastly outnumber the ladies on fab - by around 300 to 1.

So they have more to choose from

And are generally inundated with about 100 messages per day, so are more likely to be tied up selecting potential meets from those messages than by going searching.

Unfortunately, when they DO visit your profile, I suspect most of them will be heading for the next without giving you a second thought. Why? Far too many cock pics.

Seriously fella, the majority of ladies aren't interested in seeing pictures of it.

What they will interpret from your profile is that you are little more than a cock.

Your message may be exceedingly polite and pleasant, your profile text even somewhat appealing, but your pictures are going to give the wrong impression.

That said, I'm not too keen on how you begin your profile text.

Laying down the law with 3 rules.

Really?

You ever met a woman? Got any idea what they think of rules or conditions laid down by men?

While I personally don't see any problem with you being fussy, having standards etc, as far as they're concerned, their attitude is that as they have the pussy, they dictate the rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site verified for a number of months now with only 1 veri by meeting. Im not fake, consider myself average looking and honest. Any ideas on why im not getting any bites when i dangle my hook, so to speak.

Not accommodating can be off-putting.

It looks like you are attached."

Appreciated but i like a little privacy in my life. End of the day im expected to take what everyone puts on there profile as gospel, should i not be shown the same respects.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site verified for a number of months now with only 1 veri by meeting. Im not fake, consider myself average looking and honest. Any ideas on why im not getting any bites when i dangle my hook, so to speak.

Not accommodating can be off-putting.

It looks like you are attached.

Appreciated but i like a little privacy in my life. End of the day im expected to take what everyone puts on there profile as gospel, should i not be shown the same respects.? "

Honesty is a very good start. You are not expected to take anything that anyone else says. Like all of us, you have a choice.

The fact that you do not want to talk about it looks like you could be attached.

You asked why you are not getting any interest, well there is one reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site verified for a number of months now with only 1 veri by meeting. Im not fake, consider myself average looking and honest. Any ideas on why im not getting any bites when i dangle my hook, so to speak.

Not accommodating can be off-putting.

It looks like you are attached."
It is actually possible to still live at home with parents you know, not everyone are married lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site verified for a number of months now with only 1 veri by meeting. Im not fake, consider myself average looking and honest. Any ideas on why im not getting any bites when i dangle my hook, so to speak.

Not accommodating can be off-putting.

It looks like you are attached.It is actually possible to still live at home with parents you know, not everyone are married lol."

LOL

Of course it is.

Why not just be honest about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all genuine, there is just a massive queue ahead of us, our turn will come eventually."

Lol again Shag m8. Think I keep queue jumping tho......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just talk to people. Chat, take the pressure off yourself and just get to know more people. The conversations will grow and see what happens from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site verified for a number of months now with only 1 veri by meeting. Im not fake, consider myself average looking and honest. Any ideas on why im not getting any bites when i dangle my hook, so to speak.

Not accommodating can be off-putting.

It looks like you are attached.It is actually possible to still live at home with parents you know, not everyone are married lol.

LOL

Of course it is.

Why not just be honest about it?"
Yes and ur right, you could write co still living with parents so cant accommodate.

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By *essysteveCouple
over a year ago

ALICANTE AREA SPAIN


"Ive been on this site verified for a number of months now with only 1 veri by meeting. Im not fake, consider myself average looking and honest. Any ideas on why im not getting any bites when i dangle my hook, so to speak. "

Take a look at your user name and some of the terms that you use in your profile - this can turn many off. Also look at your pix - a cock in a sink......... need we go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One meet in three months? Oh boo-hoo, it took me over a year to get mine. Now quit yo' jibba-jabba and get out there. There's women out there that need pounding like yesterday's beef.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got more interest when i travelled!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a look at your user name and some of the terms that you use in your profile - this can turn many off. Also look at your pix - a cock in a sink......... need we go on?"

What do you mean? I think my knickers would be soaked if I was female and I read that stiffstaff needs a 69 nw.

(by the way, how do you type like that? My phone autocorrects. When I make a call it probably removes my geordie accent)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a look at your user name and some of the terms that you use in your profile - this can turn many off. Also look at your pix - a cock in a sink......... need we go on?

What do you mean? I think my knickers would be soaked if I was female and I read that stiffstaff needs a 69 nw.

(by the way, how do you type like that? My phone autocorrects. When I make a call it probably removes my geordie accent) "

Your knickers would be soaked?? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that your sink?

Note to self.....pack bleach at next hotel visit

Profile is ok (I'm the guy btw)

We wouldn't contact though due to no face pics

Hth

Good luck n get your ass to a club n touch real flesh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One meet in three months? Oh boo-hoo, it took me over a year to get mine. Now quit yo' jibba-jabba and get out there. There's women out there that need pounding like yesterday's beef."

Lol talk about inspirational chat lmao like it. And just to address the situation. I care for a family member part time and dont think its fair to subject them to my antics. But at the same time didnt think putting that up on my profile would look brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is that your sink?

Note to self.....pack bleach at next hotel visit

Profile is ok (I'm the guy btw)

We wouldn't contact though due to no face pics

Hth

Good luck n get your ass to a club n touch real flesh"
bleach?? Am i missing some thing. And i hope your not insinuating im unwashed or dirty.!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One meet in three months? Oh boo-hoo, it took me over a year to get mine. Now quit yo' jibba-jabba and get out there. There's women out there that need pounding like yesterday's beef.

Lol talk about inspirational chat lmao like it. And just to address the situation. I care for a family member part time and dont think its fair to subject them to my antics. But at the same time didnt think putting that up on my profile would look brilliant "

It is a matter of opinion whether it looks brilliant or not, but at least it makes you look more honest!

Take it easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One meet in three months? Oh boo-hoo, it took me over a year to get mine. Now quit yo' jibba-jabba and get out there. There's women out there that need pounding like yesterday's beef.

Lol talk about inspirational chat lmao like it. And just to address the situation. I care for a family member part time and dont think its fair to subject them to my antics. But at the same time didnt think putting that up on my profile would look brilliant

It is a matter of opinion whether it looks brilliant or not, but at least it makes you look more honest!

Take it easy."

Made a few changes. Would u mind a second look and see if that improved anything. Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember that us single chaps vastly outnumber the ladies on fab - by around 300 to 1.

So they have more to choose from

And are generally inundated with about 100 messages per day

"

And those figures came from where? Madeupstatistics.com?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that your sink?

Note to self.....pack bleach at next hotel visit

Profile is ok (I'm the guy btw)

We wouldn't contact though due to no face pics

Hth

Good luck n get your ass to a club n touch real flesh bleach?? Am i missing some thing. And i hope your not insinuating im unwashed or dirty.!!!"

If you aren't dirty you're in the wrong place. The people on here are decidedly filthy....I've seen boobs and allsorts on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I've met some fabulous women through the site, I don't take it too seriously, ita all about fun for me. Don't get hung up about it and every now and again something very special happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that your sink?

Note to self.....pack bleach at next hotel visit

Profile is ok (I'm the guy btw)

We wouldn't contact though due to no face pics

Hth

Good luck n get your ass to a club n touch real flesh bleach?? Am i missing some thing. And i hope your not insinuating im unwashed or dirty.!!!"

Nope

I'm insinuating that people obviously "spunk" into sinks in hotels.... Or piss on them perhaps?

Tbh I didn't look that closely to see exactly what was taking place....

Why else would you have a pic of you cock hovering over a sink?

Maybe it was an artistic pose or summat?

The juxtaposition of the penis with the sink waste signifying the waste of good jizz?...an art installation perchance

Or maybe just a dodgy pic, I dunno.

Either way, no, I wasn't saying you were some sort of minger...I'm sure it's a lovely clean cock x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of the photos would instantly make me hit delete of you sent a message

and text speak and some spelling mistakes sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"some of the photos would instantly make me hit delete of you sent a message

and text speak and some spelling mistakes sorry"

Cheers to all responded, points taken and noted. Thanks for the honesty. Who knows maybe the next any of us speak, it could be in person

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Those pics are neither inviting or creative. Perhaps have a look at some of the good me a profiles on here and improve. Yours look very willydimentional "

Those pics are off-putting!

Willy poking out of baggy undies... Noooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site verified for a number of months now with only 1 veri by meeting. Im not fake, consider myself average looking and honest. Any ideas on why im not getting any bites when i dangle my hook, so to speak.

Not accommodating can be off-putting.

It looks like you are attached.

Appreciated but i like a little privacy in my life. End of the day im expected to take what everyone puts on there profile as gospel, should i not be shown the same respects.? "

yes but dont be put off by the lesser interest - you cant have it all ways

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By *essysteveCouple
over a year ago

ALICANTE AREA SPAIN

We try and help him ............and he leaves the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We try and help him ............and he leaves the site "

Nothing unusual.........

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