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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any other couples find it hard to find a bi Woman to join them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it isn't easy when you consider the options open to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother?

FFMM play can always encompass FFM play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i think some think we are doing it for the male half, we have had this ourselves, so understand.

Trust has to be built and a social imperitive, but it is getting there.

I am afraid other couples that do it for self gratification have spoilt it for others.

Her

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Yes its very difficult. We don't look and just let things happen naturally in clubs and at parties. We find its easier to put our personalities across that way too. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes its very difficult. We don't look and just let things happen naturally in clubs and at parties. We find its easier to put our personalities across that way too. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, from a single bi fems perspective, it's not easy to find couples to play with either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, from a single bi fems perspective, it's not easy to find couples to play with either! "
I guess not no, you have to concentrate on trusting two people.

Her

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Honestly, from a single bi fems perspective, it's not easy to find couples to play with either! "

Completely agree with the above. Alot of couples are far to pushy. Its off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single fem and I just met a couple who have been looking for a year to find a single fem, I didn't realise it would be so hard for couples to find us to be honest xxxx

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Why bother?

FFMM play can always encompass FFM play!"

Seems a bit mean to make the extra M sit out the action though, doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard it is, so many male halfs ruining it trying to get the fem alone, the female half desperate to please him.

So wrong, most get tarred with the same brush.

Has to be a three way equal thing for it to work really.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very hard it is, so many male halfs ruining it trying to get the fem alone, the female half desperate to please him.

So wrong, most get tarred with the same brush.

Has to be a three way equal thing for it to work really.

Her"

I've experienced the above, I've been in the middle of couples agendas, I've had couple throw the jealousy toys out of the pram (both M and F). So of course, I can find couples, it's just difficult to find the 'right' couple. However, when I have, it's been fantastic and so I never give up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very hard it is, so many male halfs ruining it trying to get the fem alone, the female half desperate to please him.

So wrong, most get tarred with the same brush.

Has to be a three way equal thing for it to work really.

Her

Best attitude to take, we tend to go to clubs, go with the flow.

The key for us never go out with intention, a laugh and drink and go from there.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, from a single bi fems perspective, it's not easy to find couples to play with either! "

Unfortunately, this is so true!

As a genuine bi woman, I find it extremely difficult to find nice couples to meet on here.

Either they are crude and pushy, or else just think that it's OK for her to dabble while he watches... it isn't!!!

I think that I've given up looking for couples....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honestly, from a single bi fems perspective, it's not easy to find couples to play with either!

Unfortunately, this is so true!

As a genuine bi woman, I find it extremely difficult to find nice couples to meet on here.

Either they are crude and pushy, or else just think that it's OK for her to dabble while he watches... it isn't!!!

I think that I've given up looking for couples....

It is a shame that these couples are spoiling it

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Honestly, from a single bi fems perspective, it's not easy to find couples to play with either! "

Or bi girls who play on there own :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe the thorght of meeting a couple excites some Women but no so much actually meeting them

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I know a genuinely bi lass and she struggles in meeting women. She joined up a bit ago, got bombarded by couples and males, got pissed off, then deleted her profile.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Forgot to say, she was just after a single lass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, from a single bi fems perspective, it's not easy to find couples to play with either!

Or bi girls who play on there own :/"

They are out there, but again difficult to find. As with everything on here, effort in effort out!! If I put this much effort into my working life I'd be rich!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are women bi if they fancy me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding it hard to get couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why bother?

FFMM play can always encompass FFM play!

Seems a bit mean to make the extra M sit out the action though, doesn't it?"

That's not what we meant at all, fact is when playing as a foursome you get lots of FFM action eg me rimming my guys arse while the lady sucks his cock and being fucked by her guy, so at that point 2 people (the lady getting a spit roast & the guy being blown and rimmed) are getting FFM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very hard it is, so many male halfs ruining it trying to get the fem alone, the female half desperate to please him.

So wrong, most get tarred with the same brush.

Has to be a three way equal thing for it to work really.

Her"

Totally agree, lots of couples chasing the single female, seems to be about the guy and his issues, insecurities etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't enjoy generalising to much but we find that a lot of women here are only here for their partners and don't even want to play alone. We even message single women in here and get the "I'm part of a couple, I'll have to ask him" and then get a "no, not unless he can join" or "no, only you". It's daft.

I have a single and couples profile here, but my singles profile both mentions the couple, and also says that I'm willing to play alone but only with the right girl.

It's amazing how few people will read though :p C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

I know mikki,can I just say yer lookin fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

I know mikki,can I just say yer lookin fabulous

oooh you too,,mwah,xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd never had a private meet with a couple - but i've very occasionally played with a couple in a club in the unlikely event I fancy both of them (I'm ridiculously fussy - sorry guys!)

This is partly because i'm straight/bi-selfish - so it only works if a woman is a 'giver' rather than a taker!

I know it's silly - but even though I find a few women gorgeous - I can't put my hands or mouth 'down there!!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped looking after being told I was a timewaster by someone who was probably a man trying to wank over our conversations. I would only meet with couples for straight mff or with a male friend for straight swap now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

I know mikki,can I just say yer lookin fabulous

oooh you too,,mwah,xxxx

Shurrup Mikki - you know you're fabulous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

I know mikki,can I just say yer lookin fabulous

oooh you too,,mwah,xxxx

Shurrup Mikki - you know you're fabulous!!

you big lezza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might become a lesbian

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

It can take a while, but it's worth persevering in our experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not easy finding single bi females..it takes a brave woman to join a couple of stranger's in bed and have sex with them.It's true,alot of men put the idea of threesomes to their partner's first,but in my case,it was me who put the idea to my husband because it was something i wanted and it is me that seek's out bi females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not easy finding single bi females..it takes a brave woman to join a couple of stranger's in bed and have sex with them.It's true,alot of men put the idea of threesomes to their partner's first,but in my case,it was me who put the idea to my husband because it was something i wanted and it is me that seek's out bi females."

same with us wev talked many times about 'T' sleeping with other men but she don't want to she wants a women,and its her choice who we meet too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

done it once with a lovely girl BUT much prefer another couple - especially if both bi

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Why bother?

FFMM play can always encompass FFM play!

Seems a bit mean to make the extra M sit out the action though, doesn't it?

Yes, but that isn't the same thing at all, is it? Playing as a foursome also includes MF action, but that doesn't make it two singles meeting.

It's silly to suggest to people looking for FFM that they have a two couple meet, because that is simply not what they are looking for.They want to play as two women and one man...which is why it's called FFM. Or MFF, if it makes any difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes don't even bother no more just go with a bi female couple girls still play lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh in search of the perfect couple! Yes it is hard as a bi female. Couples with agendas, jealousy issues and the just plain bat shit crazys. None of it attractive but rife on here. When you find those great couples- the ones who get it! Really get it! It's mind blowing! Three way attraction, all playing none of that 'he watches crap' Amazing! The females are out there we are just very particular with what we want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

Other way around - I fancy you because I'm Bi.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh in search of the perfect couple! Yes it is hard as a bi female. Couples with agendas, jealousy issues and the just plain bat shit crazys. None of it attractive but rife on here. When you find those great couples- the ones who get it! Really get it! It's mind blowing! Three way attraction, all playing none of that 'he watches crap' Amazing! The females are out there we are just very particular with what we want."

Ohhh - well said!!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

As a single bi fem who does happily meet couples - its hard to find ones that are not pushy, don't expect a performing seal, and can be patient until I feel comfortable to meet (the ones that I do get to the meet stage with though are wonderful)

There have also been some shocking attitudes from the male of a couple - I've heard from a handful of couples over my time here that they only want a bi fem to play with as the missus is too good to go with another fella... eh thanks for that.

Also, the minute it gets to the male having a vetting meeting first to check I'm good enough is when the block button goes.

Its really hard to find 2 people you fancy, that are not pushy and that you trust not to have a screaming domestic mid play (been there was not pleasant)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

Other way around - I fancy you because I'm Bi.....

lol,x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why bother?

FFMM play can always encompass FFM play!

Seems a bit mean to make the extra M sit out the action though, doesn't it?

Yes, but that isn't the same thing at all, is it? Playing as a foursome also includes MF action, but that doesn't make it two singles meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…..and that you trust not to have a screaming domestic mid play (been there was not pleasant)"

I've been there too. Couldn't pick my clothes up quick enough! lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question remains however WHY a FFM? Not a FFMM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The question remains however WHY a FFM? Not a FFMM?"

The answer I usually get is that the F isn't interested in playing with other men or having another man there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The question remains however WHY a FFM? Not a FFMM?

The answer I usually get is that the F isn't interested in playing with other men or having another man there."

and what they really mean is the M can't handle another man there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The question remains however WHY a FFM? Not a FFMM?

The answer I usually get is that the F isn't interested in playing with other men or having another man there.

and what they really mean is the M can't handle another man there"

Nope, not in my experience. The F simply isn't interested in another man being there. Many F have always been bi and simply don't get everything they need from a MF relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, from a single bi fems perspective, it's not easy to find couples to play with either!

Completely agree with the above. Alot of couples are far to pushy. Its off putting."

Agreed, I find a lot of couples pushy and demanding it's very intimidating

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By *eyondCuriousWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"The question remains however WHY a FFM? Not a FFMM?

The answer I usually get is that the F isn't interested in playing with other men or having another man there.

and what they really mean is the M can't handle another man there

Nope, not in my experience. The F simply isn't interested in another man being there. Many F have always been bi and simply don't get everything they need from a MF relationship. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The question remains however WHY a FFM? Not a FFMM?

The answer I usually get is that the F isn't interested in playing with other men or having another man there.

and what they really mean is the M can't handle another man there"

sorry but that's not always true we dont mind other males being there at all i have no problem with it (him)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry about meeting couples after a bad meet. Met female alone and played arranged a meet at the weekend to play with her and her hubby was having a few drinks played for an hour she got jealous and they kicked me out the house . I was alone in an area known for prostitution with no taxi booked and no phone signal I started to get followed but managed to flag a black cab down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The question remains however WHY a FFM? Not a FFMM?

The answer I usually get is that the F isn't interested in playing with other men or having another man there.

and what they really mean is the M can't handle another man there"

I don't always not playing with other men. I get what I need from G, I don't need another guy. But a woman opens up more sexual doors!

We do play with couples, but I prefer women. Also, I get final say on meets, not G. That's why this works for us. C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I will say one thing, neither of us are jealous. It's stupid? Why would we do this to be jealous? If we don't like somebody, be it mallet female, we just won't do it. But jealous? In this game...?

Silly! C x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, of course, but couples who have jealousy issues in three way play may not realise that until they find themselves in an MFF situation in reality, rather than in their fantasy.

It's unfortunate, and must be horrible for all involved, especially the single woman, but you can see how it can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any other couples find it hard to find a bi Woman to join them? "

Trust can be a big issue. We suggest meeting at a club. Find this works better as they dont feel as much pressure and tends to go well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I worry about meeting couples after a bad meet. Met female alone and played arranged a meet at the weekend to play with her and her hubby was having a few drinks played for an hour she got jealous and they kicked me out the house . I was alone in an area known for prostitution with no taxi booked and no phone signal I started to get followed but managed to flag a black cab down"

Ive heard similar accounts from other bi female friends of mine. That's whydI'd never have a private meet. Clubs all the way! You never know when jealousy is going to raise it's ugly head, and it's not always the female partner that kicks off.

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

I have a fukk buddie (shell ) we meet together or alone while hubby out at work wekk hirny but I wud love hubby to have a girl he cud meet alone or toghther x x we not jealous type we have trust in each other xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it hard to find straight women in a couple!!! Everyone always wants to play with L ...and she is most definitely not even curious!! Grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both times I've been it the middle of a jealousy situation, it's been the males getting jealous, never the females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are always reading through the forum and its good to see a thread which actually is a useful insight into being both sides of this fence.

We often think that everyone else must be like us, Mrs P is Bi, has been since before I met her and has only played once with other females since we have been together (the fact it was with 4 other women at the same time is neither her nor there lol) It was our first meet as a couple but I didnt see any of it and didnt feel jealous at all..... well only that I hadnt seen it

Mrs P isnt entirely sure how much she wants to see me doing with another female so Im fine with just being there, I enjoy seeing Mrs P happy and if there is more then thats great.

We know what floats each others boat, cant believe there are couples that jump into this blind and dont think about any emotional repercussions of what might happen......

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By *inaboaWoman
over a year ago

tullamore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes its very difficult. We don't look and just let things happen naturally in clubs and at parties. We find its easier to put our personalities across that way too. x"

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By *inaboaWoman
over a year ago

tullamore

"Honestly, from a single bi fems perspective, it's not easy to find couples to play with either!

Unfortunately, this is so true!

As a genuine bi woman, I find it extremely difficult to find nice couples to meet on here.

Either they are crude and pushy, or else just think that it's OK for her to dabble while he watches... it isn't!!!

I think that I've given up looking for couples....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to add we aren't bothered if we play or not, we just like chatting and having a laugh with people, if there is more then great if not we have had a nice evening out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forgot to add we aren't bothered if we play or not, we just like chatting and having a laugh with people, if there is more then great if not we have had a nice evening out

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

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By *reacher and TartCouple
over a year ago

High Peak

"Any other couples find it hard to find a bi Woman to join them? "

There are less of them round and so they can be more selective I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

I know mikki,can I just say yer lookin fabulous

oooh you too,,mwah,xxxx

Shurrup Mikki - you know you're fabulous!!

you big lezza

Shush!!! I'm still in the closet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

Shouldn't all 3 of you feel included??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

I know mikki,can I just say yer lookin fabulous

oooh you too,,mwah,xxxx

Shurrup Mikki - you know you're fabulous!!

you big lezza

Shush!!! I'm still in the closet!!

must be crowded in there

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

Shouldn't all 3 of you feel included??

all 3 do, i was talking more in the search, not the result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

Shouldn't all 3 of you feel included??

all 3 do, i was talking more in the search, not the result"

Ok fair point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

I know mikki,can I just say yer lookin fabulous

oooh you too,,mwah,xxxx

Shurrup Mikki - you know you're fabulous!!

you big lezza

Shush!!! I'm still in the closet!!

must be crowded in there

Nah!! Just me abd my multiple personalities!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

I know mikki,can I just say yer lookin fabulous

oooh you too,,mwah,xxxx

Shurrup Mikki - you know you're fabulous!!

you big lezza

Shush!!! I'm still in the closet!!

must be crowded in there

Nah!! Just me abd my multiple personalities!!

and half the men on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This all seems a right minefield to us, guess that's why we stick with couples, whatever couples reasons for chasing a single lady for a FFM none of it adds up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are women bi if they fancy me

no ones gonna answer ya mikki

I know mikki,can I just say yer lookin fabulous

oooh you too,,mwah,xxxx

Shurrup Mikki - you know you're fabulous!!

you big lezza

Shush!!! I'm still in the closet!!

must be crowded in there

Nah!! Just me abd my multiple personalities!!

and half the men on fab"

Nope! This is an all-girl closet!!

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

How priveleged they must feel

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

How priveleged they must feel "

about the same as we feel about them offering us the grand opportunity for them to come and grace our bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can lick a woman better than most bi women

When I'm in the mood... Although, appearance wise I am far from a woman of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Looking to meet singles or couples but it's a big thing being ' the odd one out' The couple already trust each other I have to meet them and trust them both. Quite daunting! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm Looking to meet singles or couples but it's a big thing being ' the odd one out' The couple already trust each other I have to meet them and trust them both. Quite daunting! X"

Yes thats very true and you need to build a rapport with both parties, trust in a FFM is a three way thing and the only way you can do that is by talking, talking and more talking x

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over a year ago

"Forgot to add we aren't bothered if we play or not, we just like chatting and having a laugh with people, if there is more then great if not we have had a nice evening out

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I'm Looking to meet singles or couples but it's a big thing being ' the odd one out' The couple already trust each other I have to meet them and trust them both. Quite daunting! X"

While I have had lots of fun with MMF, MMMF, MMFF and particularly MMMMMFF, we have been less successful with FFM. I would really enjoy this (as would B!) but single girls have so much choice on here I feel the ball is very much in their court - and as the post above says, they have to feel they trust both of us, and aren't just an add on or a plaything to be used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WOW, what an incredible woman

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I can lick a woman better than most bi women

When I'm in the mood... Although, appearance wise I am far from a woman of course

I very much doubt that

lol

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"Any other couples find it hard to find a bi Woman to join them? "

We've witnessed quite a few couples metioning they can't find a single female and vice versa.What would the problem be for people not meeting? -Mr.

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The question remains however WHY a FFM? Not a FFMM?

The answer I usually get is that the F isn't interested in playing with other men or having another man there.

and what they really mean is the M can't handle another man there

I don't always not playing with other men. I get what I need from G, I don't need another guy. But a woman opens up more sexual doors!

We do play with couples, but I prefer women. Also, I get final say on meets, not G. That's why this works for us. C x"

This is the way we use Fabs, however we have also had a few MMF and that worked out good too. Both males were straight not bi but were comfortable with being close together without touching lol

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over a year ago

"I can lick a woman better than most bi women

When I'm in the mood... Although, appearance wise I am far from a woman of course

I very much doubt that

lol"

Hmm, why?

Don't you think a man can be sensual, understanding and mainly thinking about the satisfaction of a woman rather than himself?

I do love pleasing a woman that way... Been described as incredible in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have to say we would like to experience a single woman to join us more so Mrs flirty can enjoy the play. where she knows she is allowed the freedom to play and experience new things without feeling she has to please both the guys.

And so far we have only ever played with couples and enjoyed all that brings. But as a soft swing couple she would enjoy that fem play to find what she enjoys giving and receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

And that's the attitude that puts single women off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

And that's the attitude that puts single women off

Agreed that's a poor attitude it should be an all round mutual experience all parties on an even keel

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By *estat069Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

We have found it's easier to win 3 numbers on the lottery than an a bi lady seeking a couple taking an interest.... the elusive single bi lady .... a very rare breed indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples that have been in touch with me want ff play while hubby watches.And I refuse to put on a show for hubby.For me the excitement is everyone getting fully involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have found it's easier to win 3 numbers on the lottery than an a bi lady seeking a couple taking an interest.... the elusive single bi lady .... a very rare breed indeed. "

We managed to find one or two, but single girls wanting to play with both of us is near impossible.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

I rest my case about finding couples with the right attitude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have found it's easier to win 3 numbers on the lottery than an a bi lady seeking a couple taking an interest.... the elusive single bi lady .... a very rare breed indeed.

We managed to find one or two, but single girls wanting to play with both of us is near impossible.

C x"

The trick is not to give up. I've only met the fantastic couples I have by being determined!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a women from another site who was single was fun but never managed it of fab but hey still got time before I hang my condoms up for good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are actually quite a few around, they just don't advertise on the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most couples that have been in touch with me want ff play while hubby watches.And I refuse to put on a show for hubby.For me the excitement is everyone getting fully involved."

Makes note... To put you in our hotlist

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Some bi women seem to forget that they're being invited to our sexlife, not the other way round. We have sex, whether we get a meet or not

And that's the attitude that puts single women off

Agreed that's a poor attitude it should be an all round mutual experience all parties on an even keel"

The operative word being "some" bi ladies, not all, we don't meet bi femmes just for our own gratification, we do know the score

We understand that it can be quite daunting for a single lady to meet a couple, and we would like them to feel comfortable with us.....what I meant was the few out there that think that they are doing you a favour and we should be eternally grateful for their time of day......fuck that, you want to meet us.....meet us, if you don't...don't, we aint beholdent to anyone, we care not

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