FabSwingers.com forum: Kicking off a meet....

By *hat the hell OP Couple
over a year ago

Down South

Anybody got any suggestions on how to go from talking to playing....we have a brill time when it all gets going but we are still not quite sure how to say....lets just get it on and play....without offending or seeming like we are being pushy!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on the situation, saying its mfm then I feel the easiest way is for the female to make her way up each guys thighs giving a bit of a stroke over the pants, starting the teasing

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Anybody got any suggestions on how to go from talking to playing....we have a brill time when it all gets going but we are still not quite sure how to say....lets just get it on and play....without offending or seeming like we are being pushy!!!!!"

As a single man who gets invites to join couples, it can vary. I usually ask 'shall I take my clothes off?' and it has always elicited an enthusiastic yes*

*followed by a confused frown then hoots of derisive laughter**

** not

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I just ask 'Fancy a kiss?' It tends to move quite rapidly from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get on with it lol but i usually done my taljin on here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You can Taljin me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things start to move quickly once the rope comes out. Once they are hog tied and blindfolded I can relax and take my mask off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask the visiting couple/person if they are into scat sex - they either laugh and it breaks the ice or they exit rapidly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can Taljin me

Its a cross between talkin and cajoling lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can always feel the buzz while chatting, a little flirting just to make sure and then I just ask if they'd like to play. Fairly simple.

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Its all in the eyes darling!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look them in the eye, tongue slightly out of the mouth to one side, and show your stockings.

Her

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Look them in the eye, tongue slightly out of the mouth to one side, and show your stockings.

Her

That sounds more like someone having a fit!! (minus the flash of stocking lol!) X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys should drop their trousers and announce "It's showtime "

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By *iaFlashCouple
over a year ago

walsall

we have the same problem lol we feel like we are being pushy if we ask if they want to play so usually wait for them to ask us lol

guess the general way to go about it is to just ask if they want to play, if they do then great but if they dont then there is always another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look them in the eye, tongue slightly out of the mouth to one side, and show your stockings.

Her

That sounds more like someone having a fit!! (minus the flash of stocking lol!) X

lol..piss taking

Her

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I actually said "So how do we start this" after chatting to the guy I was with, I was so unsure how to move from chatting to the play bit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's the look you both give each other when there's an "accidental" brush of the hand?

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"we have the same problem lol we feel like we are being pushy if we ask if they want to play so usually wait for them to ask us lol

guess the general way to go about it is to just ask if they want to play, if they do then great but if they dont then there is always another time.

We would say yes please lol

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

undress, kisses or caresses should get things going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet was supposed to be a social but me & the other fem had got each other so het up on WhatsApp that we decided sod the social

When the couple got to ours, we were all really nervous so had a drink and a bit of a chat. A couple of vodkas later I said "sod it" and started kissing the fem. It just went on from there really lol

Hids

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

Jump up and say in a really loud voice "Who wants to fuck?!"

Never fails.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"we have the same problem lol we feel like we are being pushy if we ask if they want to play so usually wait for them to ask us lol

guess the general way to go about it is to just ask if they want to play, if they do then great but if they dont then there is always another time.

we know how to get it started now

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

I have a "plug and play" toy that lets me play vids from a hard drive through a TV

usually just ask what they like to watch and put it on in the background

great ice breaker and a good laugh!

usually starts the stroking!

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

If its somebody new if they go to the toilet they'll come down stairs to her her with a cock in her mouth, usually works lol

Most cases she will say, right I want some attention and it's time to be a naughty slut also usually works

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