FabSwingers.com forum: can love last a lifetime?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can a couple really be in love and faithfull to each other for ever? or are we programed to screw around with whoever takes our fancy?ive just split with my partner last august after 8 yrs together and to be honest i am enjoying my freedom.

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By *hadowsCouple
over a year ago

hull

well we been married for 35 years, and yes love does last, ""faithful"" well that's a rather large question, neither of us have ever wanted to play away, yes we enjoy the company of others both socially and sexually but alway as a couple ,so if you work it out and trust each other ,then my answer is yes you can

T & L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can a couple really be in love and faithfull to each other for ever? or are we programed to screw around with whoever takes our fancy?ive just split with my partner last august after 8 yrs together and to be honest i am enjoying my freedom."

Well we've been together on 24 years now and it just gets stronger.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Oh how I envy you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i believe it can but not everybody can do it

pete and i have been together for 20 years (god would get less for murder lol)

we met on a blind date and although he drives me mad sometimes and no dought i do the same to him there is no way we would ever cheat on each other

beside we would never get away with it we can read each other like a book lol

and i think thats where the swinging helps

lets face it if you have been with one person for as long as we have sex gets a bit boring

and thats where the swinging comes into it

it allows us to explore our wonts and sexual needs and to explore other people (if that sounds right) without having to go behind each others back

but as we know swinging isnt for everybody and unless you can find a comon interest you can share with your partener then thats where the rot sets in an endless stream of work family and everything else life throws at you

but thats just us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We fell in love at 15 while still at school .... still blissfully happy in every way and have total trust in each other. Neither of us has ever strayed although yes we do enjoy the sexual fun that swinging brings. So to answer the question, yes it is possible although sadly becoming rare these days, we consider ourselves lucky

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had it and never wanted it.

but great for those who do

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Can love last a lifetime?

God, I hope not!

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

(sorry - serious grammatical error) try again....

Well yes we believe it can - we've been together since Ju was 17.

We were faithful monogamous types for 26 years, then we started swinging, as much to improve our social life as our sex life.

We're still vey much in love and consider ourselves to be 'emotionally monogamous' and 'sexually adventurous' if that makes any sense.

So yes we believe love can last a lifetime or at least we hope our love will, and in all honesty, is there anything wrong with that?

xxxxxx

Ju & Rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

28 years now... No plans to change anything... Why can't love last?

Some things in life improve... given the chance!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"28 years now... No plans to change anything... Why can't love last?

Some things in life improve... given the chance! "

I'd comment some more.

But being a little Elizabeth Taylor in the marriage stakes......... I'd better not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure all i know is my mum and dad were together without screwing around for 55 years so it works for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my love of avfc has lasted 36 years now thats a loving relationship!! lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we been together 28 years married 26 love him to bits always will, god im a soppy cow lol, ours will deffo last a lifetime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"28 years now... No plans to change anything... Why can't love last?

Some things in life improve... given the chance!

I'd comment some more.

But being a little Elizabeth Taylor in the marriage stakes......... I'd better not!"

Imagine that would ya lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only been together for 5 years and swinging for about 3, we swing for the friendship more than anything. We like to watch other couples have sex and have them watch us! We only ever play together.

We are in love with each other and we see our swinging ego as a combination of the two of us! Like someone else said we are emotionally monogamous, but like to invite people to join us some times! lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"28 years now... No plans to change anything... Why can't love last?

Some things in life improve... given the chance!

I'd comment some more.

But being a little Elizabeth Taylor in the marriage stakes......... I'd better not!

Imagine that would ya lol...."

Ok ok........ I know it's only marriage number 3 but the way the lippy twat is going at the moment.......... number 4 ain't gonna be far off!

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Love can last forever, but it doesn't mean you have to like someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years with more to come so for those with an ability to commit, yes it does last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah man, we been together 10 years near enough, known her all my crazy life, rock and roll.

We have had some crazy sex on hear and are meeting some great people, propper lights our fire, but when the doors close and our fuck friends all go home we get each other stupid just thinking about what we have done.

Loves all about trust if ya ask me, and the sun sets and rises with R lass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 years now..Met on news years eve kaz was working behind a bar got chatting...kept eye contact throught night ..FREE DRINKS lolol.. then the rest is history ..we are soul mates, it was only the stresses of the last year living apart and other personal missfortunes that made our relationship stronger ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my love of avfc has lasted 36 years now thats a loving relationship!! lol xxx"
sad up the blades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't feel there can be many couples that last a life time together and only ever had sex with each other, i do feel that swingers are faithful as everything they do is open and hoesnt but at the end of the day its still keeping your sex life alive that could other wise be getting a bit boring, after all lets be honest theres only so much two people can do together before you've done it all and its all getting a little samey, i have been with my hubby 18 years now, in that time we have done it all, done it everywhere like most married couples if i was only having sex with one person after 18 years i'd be bored daft, but then everyones different manybe some couples are happy going to bed every night doing the same thing, or manybe they having their cake and eating it in private

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

We have been married 30 years and it just gets better. We started swinging out of curiosity as we thought there is no threat to our relationship. Its been even better since and we feel sorry for those who dont have what we have got. Dave and Chris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't feel there can be many couples that last a life time together and only ever had sex with each other, i do feel that swingers are faithful as everything they do is open and hoesnt but at the end of the day its still keeping your sex life alive that could other wise be getting a bit boring, after all lets be honest theres only so much two people can do together before you've done it all and its all getting a little samey, i have been with my hubby 18 years now, in that time we have done it all, done it everywhere like most married couples if i was only having sex with one person after 18 years i'd be bored daft, but then everyones different manybe some couples are happy going to bed every night doing the same thing, or manybe they having their cake and eating it in private

we agree love is totally different to sex its human nature to look at other people, swinging has made us more open to each other and love is meant to be built on trust id never ruin that trust i have from my mrs just for sex

so is it love that lasts for ever or trust its just something to think about

how many of you remember your first love

xxxx

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