FabSwingers.com forum: Insults

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This subject may well have been covered but just wondered if anyone else has received vile insults from another member who you didn't fancy for whatever reason. I usually get called ugly fat and old when I tell some males I don't fancy them. Anyone else have experience of this? Lol

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

In response to a no thanks I once got told my kids should die of cancer (similar site but not this one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are idiots who, by sending immature insults simply prove why you were wise enough to decline them in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In response to a no thanks I once got told my kids should die of cancer (similar site but not this one)"

That's vile. Imagine if you had met the scumbag. On second thoughts...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They are idiots who, by sending immature insults simply prove why you were wise enough to decline them in the first place."

Indeed lol

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Thats why you should say no thanks then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are idiots who, by sending immature insults simply prove why you were wise enough to decline them in the first place."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early on when we joined here we had a random guy, whom wed never even messaged before or spoken too, threaten to come and find gaz and shoot him in the back of the head!! Dont get much worse that that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't understand those people on here who take offence at being told no, makes you wonder how they cope in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I'm fat and no one wants me By the same guy after he pesters me for a meet all the time I'd block him but I find it amusing. I fail to see how being called fat is an insult when it's truE. At least there isn't anything wrong with his eyesight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get them loads especially when emailing profile asking for sex sometimes lol.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Never had it at all ... But after we politely decline we instantly Block ... And don't be doing with all that Drama that could follow ... Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are idiots who, by sending immature insults simply prove why you were wise enough to decline them in the first place."

Exactly just makes you right for declining

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Early on when we joined here we had a random guy, whom wed never even messaged before or spoken too, threaten to come and find gaz and shoot him in the back of the head!! Dont get much worse that that!!

Omg that's awful. Some very disturbing people around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get told I'm fat and no one wants me By the same guy after he pesters me for a meet all the time I'd block him but I find it amusing. I fail to see how being called fat is an insult when it's truE. At least there isn't anything wrong with his eyesight

Oh behave Hun you are not fat. I must admit it is sometimes amusing when they go into a rant after you have declined their offer lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just can't understand those people on here who take offence at being told no, makes you wonder how they cope in real life"

Definitely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had it...but I don't give them the opportunity. I ignore or block those I'm not interested in. saves those conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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ffs.....drama springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs.....drama springs to mind"

I like drama. Makes life more interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never had it...but I don't give them the opportunity. I ignore or block those I'm not interested in. saves those conversations."

Well good for you Hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just asked if I was an escort by someone who pretending. To like me to get me to add him to then see my photos

He said "well only those desperate to fuck someone would go near you" and "you'd have to pay him to fuck you"

Safest to say he got a fair few expletives back in a reply which he read then I blocked the prick!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time.

A guy mailed today with usual chatup. Started very politely. Told him i'm gay. He goes on to say he knows lots of women i can play with. Told him cheers but i do ok..

Then he just got nasty. Said im ugly, old, fat etc etc ... The usual....

I just block ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took this guy off my friends list and he called me a fat ugly whore who must just be a prick tease xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone's ever cared that much about my reaction to them, depressing that they get that worked up about other people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was just asked if I was an escort by someone who pretending. To like me to get me to add him to then see my photos

He said "well only those desperate to fuck someone would go near you" and "you'd have to pay him to fuck you"

Safest to say he got a fair few expletives back in a reply which he had read then I blocked the prick!!

What a nasty arsehole, I've had similar though Hun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I took this guy off my friends list and he called me a fat ugly whore who must just be a prick tease xx"

Yup had similar to this as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject may well have been covered but just wondered if anyone else has received vile insults from another member who you didn't fancy for whatever reason. I usually get called ugly fat and old when I tell some males I don't fancy them. Anyone else have experience of this? Lol

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we've looked at ur pics and u are hot don't listen to the idiots they are talking shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most impressive insult I have ever heard-

Your mother fucks for fish heads so she can sell them

to buy bricks to build a whore house for your sister

so she can make money to get your father out of jail.

- Restaurant manager in Cape Town to a very d*unk and obnoxious patron.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All the time.

A guy mailed today with usual chatup. Started very politely. Told him i'm gay. He goes on to say he knows lots of women i can play with. Told him cheers but i do ok..

Then he just got nasty. Said im ugly, old, fat etc etc ... The usual....

I just block .. "

Aye they sometimes start off all nice the nasty comments usually come out when you decline their offers. Toys and prams spring to mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we've looked at ur pics and u are hot don't listen to the idiots they are talking shit "

Aww thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The most impressive insult I have ever heard-

Your mother fucks for fish heads so she can sell them

to buy bricks to build a whore house for your sister

so she can make money to get your father out of jail.

- Restaurant manager in Cape Town to a very d*unk and obnoxious patron. "

Hahaha ace

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

My polite No thanks was met with the response that I was "too choosy for an old bird" sent him a "Thanks, I'll give you your dummy back now!"

Happens all the time but only from the immature wanna be's, most gents just thank me for the reply.

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

Kent

All I will say is...my blocked list is growing daily!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one guy tell me a was fussy for someone ugly, even though his previous message said he wanted to meet me...i hadn't even turned him down, just hadn't replied to his message.

Other than that, not had anything bad. Couple of guys message me again after i delete their message to say 'is that a no thanks then?', i just delete that message and block at the same time.

I never tell anyone they aren't my type, i block them instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I took this guy off my friends list and he called me a fat ugly whore who must just be a prick tease xx

Yup had similar to this as well

Yep, me too. Once, early on in my fab career I responded to a nasty email and called him a complete twat, guess what? I got a warning for sending abusive messages, he reported ME!

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Yes, not had any really bad ones for a while fortunately though. But nasty when it happens, people seem to think because they're 'anonymous' from behind a screen it doesn't hurt. But it does, especially when nasty messages always seem to arrive on a low feeling day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy messaged me last week. I politely replied 'no thankyou'

He then replied calling me a racist!!

I hadnt even seen a picture of him so didnt even have a clue what race he was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I will say is...my blocked list is growing daily!

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

I only ever reject anyone politely but /ffs,some of the guys here are like little boys and get massively insulted by it !!

Im often called `a minger,only good for one thing, blah blah etc...

Funny thing is once i copy and paste their message on to their friends,if they have any, along with my own observations( abusers often have very few or zero meets in all their time here,have few or no friends,and i point out to them how miserable that must be,failing so epically

They soon shut up and move on ..

The problem is unless they are banned they just up the charm and move onto some other poor unsuspecting soul..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I took this guy off my friends list and he called me a fat ugly whore who must just be a prick tease xx

Yup had similar to this as well

Yep, me too. Once, early on in my fab career I responded to a nasty email and called him a complete twat, guess what? I got a warning for sending abusive messages, he reported ME!

Hahaha I've had warnings for that as well. Seems so cowardly reporting someone, especially when they have been abusive themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only ever reject anyone politely but /ffs,some of the guys here are like little boys and get massively insulted by it !!

Im often called `a minger,only good for one thing, blah blah etc...

They soon shut up and move on ..

The problem is unless they are banned they just up the charm and move onto some other poor unsuspecting soul..

Indeed. Be great if there was a name and shame facility on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I took this guy off my friends list and he called me a fat ugly whore who must just be a prick tease xx

Yup had similar to this as well

Yep, me too. Once, early on in my fab career I responded to a nasty email and called him a complete twat, guess what? I got a warning for sending abusive messages, he reported ME!

Hahaha I've had warnings for that as well. Seems so cowardly reporting someone, especially when they have been abusive themselves. "

The thing is a lot of them don't recognise they are being abusive, they see it as giving you what you deserve fir being "mean" to them, Bad Girl!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ve no right being on the site according to some guys now because I won't meet after the vile abuse I ve received

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I ve no right being on the site according to some guys now because I won't meet after the vile abuse I ve received "

That's not good Hun. Fortunately there are decent people about. How dare someone tell you if you are allowed on the site. I blocked one tonight who said I didn't meet anyone anyway blah blah blah. Obviously didn't have the intellectual capacity to read my verifications. Dickhead lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got an insulting message once from a woman. It was in response to me asking nicely if she could send me a pic (as she had none on her profile).

I replied politely saying that I didn't feel that the insult was necessary and that a simple 'no thanks' would perhaps have been more appropriate.

I really don't see why anyone should feel the neef to be so hurtful and disrespectful. They must live very unhappy lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told to add ten years, then they would take ten years off, I was an old man but not put so politely. The worst part is they blocked me too. They had no pictures and were not verified, I reported her but she is still on here. Got no reply from admin, so I guess being rude is ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ve no right being on the site according to some guys now because I won't meet after the vile abuse I ve received

Thx Hun the nice thing is I ve now made some really good friends on here male and female who have chatted without expectation of a meet that I will end up meeting lol every cloud and all that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I ve no right being on the site according to some guys now because I won't meet after the vile abuse I ve received

Thx Hun the nice thing is I ve now made some really good friends on here male and female who have chatted without expectation of a meet that I will end up meeting lol every cloud and all that

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

"They are idiots who, by sending immature insults simply prove why you were wise enough to decline them in the first place."

On my couple profile, we had a rude message from a guy that we hadn't even messaged or spoken to, but only just looked at his profile. His first messaged was: 'what was wrong with his profile?' and then when we didn't respond, he accused us for being rude for not responding!

He was then promptly blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone tell me that I was a fat whale that's been washed up on the.beach and the only reason he messaged me was because he felt sorry for me as no one would want to Fuck me...that was after I said no to meeting him on the sea front in his car ..... Mi.d you that wasn't the worse message I've had. They used to upsets now I just block and move on after all the know what I look like and who I am .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we're sure you know you have plenty of admirers on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose you get what you sort of ask for. Negative and nasty profile, abuse returned.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've been called frigid before for saying no thanks ans a time waster when i've stated i'm not meeting. Disgusting really would they apply these attitudes to real life rejections?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose you get what you sort of ask for. Negative and nasty profile, abuse returned. "

No one deserves abuse for no reason, if you find a profile like this and you don't like then just move on. Sending an abusive message on the strength of a profile just show's a persons true colours and is quite pathetic to be honest.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Ive had plenty of rude replies often when ive said politely that they are not what im looking for. Old, fat and slag are often the 'imaginative'replies. Which shows that maybe they have read my profile lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pathetic some cannot handle rejection I am always polite and send a thank you for getting back to me message even if I am secretly a broken man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have but thankfully they are few & far between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abuse is unwarranted, of course. Fact remains many ladies and couples are somewhat up their own arse and do often take a very nasty view of men on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Abuse is unwarranted, of course. Fact remains many ladies and couples are somewhat up their own arse and do often take a very nasty view of men on the site."

Agreed but not a reason to lower oneself to their standards !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Abuse is unwarranted, of course. Fact remains many ladies and couples are somewhat up their own arse and do often take a very nasty view of men on the site.

Agreed but not a reason to lower oneself to their standards !"

Agreed. Always good to stay classy.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

you should report to admin, then they can ban them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't go into detail, but I've had one recently who went to incredible efforts to insult me because I read a message and didn't reply. The guys on here can be dicks but some girls are unreal too

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

We seem to quite regularly get abusive messages ranging for being teases to old, fat ugly, desperate,whore time wasters you name it. Though its strange how everyone who has been abusive is someone who has never met anyone on this site, I see a pattern emerging lol

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