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By *honda19 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

WIRRAL

Following the monthly "Deeva" Tgirl night at the Townhouse I felt I've just got to ask those guys amongst you who fancy we girls....How come so few of you attend such gatherings?...after all its not as if we're asking you to come to the pub with us...its a club and every one has the same outlook.

Or is it you just want us to be your dirty secret behind closed doors?

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By *honda19 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

WIRRAL

Hmmm thought I'd get at least a coupke of responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More into coffee myself.

Does that sound like a kink?

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By *honda19 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

WIRRAL

Not at all its nice to get to know someone over a coffee...(or libation of their choice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handy to know

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

I would love to goto one of these evenings. I dont know much about the club scene so I think i would be incredibly nervous at first. I guess there is only one way to get past that tho.

I think the Wirral is a bit far for me but hopefully there is similar sort of events local

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By *honda19 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

WIRRAL

Thats lovely to hear that you'd love to go to a club evening babe...its a shame that the Wirral's a bit off the beaten track for you,but if I may make so bold...try checking the club listings on here then hit the local ones' websites and see whats on

As for being nervous..I think everyone probly is the first time in a new environment....just go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer your question, a very interesting one as well.

Maybe it's easier to fab a pic than to suck a dick?

Hiding behind a made up profile they can Carry out fantasy without worrying about the consequences.

I mean how many actual active members are there on here?

Most are fantasists, and for many that may involve a tgirl.

Surely those who do attend such events are far better fun than those who may lurk in corners afraid to say hello.

I don't know, I would love to attend not to play.

But as a couple coz I bet it is a great night and everyone has a blast.

Am sure jools would love it also.

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By *honda19 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

WIRRAL

Thanks for responding...you raise a couple of interesting points...but to be fair I've met some lovely guys on here but it seems that most only want to meet for "fun" and I think are a lil unsure of themselves when interacting with us girls in a social environment...even something like a club...its a shame because as you said it really is great fun..and of course there's no pressure to "perform" but if it happens it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do socialise with trans people and not just at events. Trouble is they get so stigmatised by a small minority that it becomes hard to make eye contact. Many trans people I know off here even when I see them in gay pubs will only talk to their friends all night. I really do understand how difficult it must be to go out dressed and one day I want to try it! Come on people it's 2015 loosen up with each other. I would love a tgf!

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By *honda19 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

WIRRAL

Ah a voice in the wilderness its a shame you're so far away I think I'd like to be your tgf

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Following the monthly "Deeva" Tgirl night at the Townhouse I felt I've just got to ask those guys amongst you who fancy we girls....How come so few of you attend such gatherings?...after all its not as if we're asking you to come to the pub with us...its a club and every one has the same outlook.

Or is it you just want us to be your dirty secret behind closed doors? "

I attend T-girl events when possible. My only problem is most of the 'girls' are less than convincing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following the monthly "Deeva" Tgirl night at the Townhouse I felt I've just got to ask those guys amongst you who fancy we girls....How come so few of you attend such gatherings?...after all its not as if we're asking you to come to the pub with us...its a club and every one has the same outlook.

Or is it you just want us to be your dirty secret behind closed doors?

I attend T-girl events when possible. My only problem is most of the 'girls' are less than convincing."

...said the man with the hidden face!!!!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Following the monthly "Deeva" Tgirl night at the Townhouse I felt I've just got to ask those guys amongst you who fancy we girls....How come so few of you attend such gatherings?...after all its not as if we're asking you to come to the pub with us...its a club and every one has the same outlook.

Or is it you just want us to be your dirty secret behind closed doors?

I attend T-girl events when possible. My only problem is most of the 'girls' are less than convincing.

...said the man with the hidden face!!!!"

How is my choosing not to publicly show my face on my profile relevant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we adore sexy T girls - and meet them whenever we can - one of our favourite playtimes!

However, we are not really into clubs, so prefer to meet at home with people off here or who we meet in the Gay Village in Manchester

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Butlins, Bognor Regis

I'm a verified admirer but I don't like the club/party scene. But that's down to my personality more than anything else, one on one is great but parties just leave me cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a verified admirer but I don't like the club/party scene. But that's down to my personality more than anything else, one on one is great but parties just leave me cold."

You can always meet a tgirl at the club and have a drink with her 1 to 1, when I'm in a club I always feel amazing when I guy approaches me and treats me like a girl and just chats, they can definitely have my number if they ask and who knows then..

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Butlins, Bognor Regis

I don't think you get the idea of people not liking big social occasions...

Each to there own though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a verified admirer but I don't like the club/party scene. But that's down to my personality more than anything else, one on one is great but parties just leave me cold.

You can always meet a tgirl at the club and have a drink with her 1 to 1, when I'm in a club I always feel amazing when I guy approaches me and treats me like a girl and just chats, they can definitely have my number if they ask and who knows then.."

You can also meet trans in pubs and clubs and do the same without having to go to a sex club

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


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Or is it you just want us to be your dirty secret behind closed doors? "

Not your target audience for the question, but I imagine thats the answer a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress virtually every day and meet/accom but would never dream of attending a club. Just doesn't appeal to me at all. Each to their own x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a verified admirer but I don't like the club/party scene. But that's down to my personality more than anything else, one on one is great but parties just leave me cold.

You can always meet a tgirl at the club and have a drink with her 1 to 1, when I'm in a club I always feel amazing when I guy approaches me and treats me like a girl and just chats, they can definitely have my number if they ask and who knows then..

You can also meet trans in pubs and clubs and do the same without having to go to a sex club"

Your right you can but the OP was about sex clubs and I wasn't judging anyone I was just pointing out you can have quiet chats and meet nice girls there without the sex club atmosphere most of the time in the bar or other non play area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My feeling as ive been to a few clubs like this,, and also escorted a sexy tv,,, can work both ways when a "real girl" is there the attention is shifted,, also I find the day time parties have a lot more men than the evening,, my feeling not that your their dirty little secret, more it's there dirty little secret and men find it hard to get away from the wives at home that have no idea, where as in the day easy to say got some business to attend ,, just my feeling

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By *honda19 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

WIRRAL

This is what I mean...as I pointed out earlier in the thread..its nice to just chat and have a drink with no pressure to perform,but if the fancy takes you the opportunity is there...and most clubs have private rooms if you don't want to entertain the masses

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