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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi,

does anyone feel a bit guilty about inserting items into there arse, but do it anyway and enjoy it. I do, I don't know why, upbringing I suppose. I use a finger or butt plug or slide onto a thin courgette (delish)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty? Never..i wished

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, no guilt here!

K x

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By *traight forwardMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Whats to be guilty about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the title of this thread! Made us laugh!!

Why would you feel guilty? It's your bum lol x

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By *aughty cpl for funCouple
over a year ago

chester

No had John finger in there yesterday and my hair brush in my pussy. Lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really dabbled too much but I wouldn't feel guilty, do whatever you want sexually - if it's legal anyway

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

no never why should the girls and gays have all the penetrative fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No guilt here.

Him

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I don't even feel bad for the hamster, me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi,

does anyone feel a bit guilty about inserting items into there arse, but do it anyway and enjoy it. I do, I don't know why, upbringing I suppose. I use a finger or butt plug or slide onto a thin courgette (delish)"

Don't feel guilty, but do please reconsider eating the courgette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe guilty feelings if it was a friends toothbrush

But otherwise, nah, no guilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never feel guilty. A ex once asked me to meet him in town wearing a butt plug. That as a interesting bus ride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No guilt here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No guilt here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi,

does anyone feel a bit guilty about inserting items into there arse, but do it anyway and enjoy it. I do, I don't know why, upbringing I suppose. I use a finger or butt plug or slide onto a thin courgette (delish)"

Unless it's food.

Can't abide waste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't understand why one would feel guilty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only feel guilty if I was giving the courgette to the in-laws for Sunday dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd only feel guilty if I was giving the courgette to the in-laws for Sunday dinner "

hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even feel bad for the hamster, me."

what, you put the hamster up your arse ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid guilt get a hot goddess to put stuff up there for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's put me right off courgettes

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Never felt guilty about having the odd dido or vibratory up there, didn't feel guilty when the cock went up there either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Avoid guilt get a hot goddess to put stuff up there for you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't a little bit of guilt part of the enjoyment..... x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel so guilty I have to do it on cam for others to see and tell me how naughty I am

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not guilty, sometimes sore after !!!!! And was scared to death once when a butt plug went fully in,the "wings" folded and it just got sucked in as my muscles contracted, terrified it was going to be a hospital visit but luckily a trip to the loo and a good push and all was well, won't EVER do butt plugs again unless they are tethered to my panty gusset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilt ... Futile emotion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel so guilty I have to do it on cam for others to see and tell me how naughty I am "
again?

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By *udist2ukMan
over a year ago

chudleigh

I think its to do with how many "straight " guys there are on here that cant admit to having bi feelings. The amount of them that look and comment on my cock when I am on cam. It still has a stigma to be bi as a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd only feel guilty if I was giving the courgette to the in-laws for Sunday dinner "

You imply that any day other than Sunday and there's no guilt. Is this a religious thing or are you simply a bad person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd only feel guilty if I was giving the courgette to the in-laws for Sunday dinner

You imply that any day other than Sunday and there's no guilt. Is this a religious thing or are you simply a bad person?"

Simply a bad person mate specially on a Monday arse courgette is perfect for tea. Don't suppose you fancy joining us tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not guilty, sometimes sore after !!!!! And was scared to death once when a butt plug went fully in,the "wings" folded and it just got sucked in as my muscles contracted, terrified it was going to be a hospital visit but luckily a trip to the loo and a good push and all was well, won't EVER do butt plugs again unless they are tethered to my panty gusset "

Oh christ you must have some sphincter lol. My worst nightmare. I love a butt plug but when I cum I can feel that bad boy trying to make a dash up my poo chute and it spoils it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never feel guilty. A ex once asked me to meet him in town wearing a butt plug. That as a interesting bus ride! "

Now there's an idea for Miss....

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Speedbumps and sitting at the back would give most bounce :D.

If you had to walk down the stairs while bus was moving that would be hard I guess.

The smoothy prober from lovehoney can be safely swallowed up

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By *honda19TV/TS
over a year ago

WIRRAL

Definitely no guilt here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel guilt that I have not done it for a long time....

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"I don't even feel bad for the hamster, me.

what, you put the hamster up your arse ?"

In all fairness, I had a little wheel built in there for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm just about to raid the vegetable drawer in my fridge ...

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham


"I don't even feel bad for the hamster, me.

what, you put the hamster up your arse ?

In all fairness, I had a little wheel built in there for it. "

Like this one?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OppZ0Aayd88

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never feel guilty love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its to do with how many "straight " guys there are on here that cant admit to having bi feelings. The amount of them that look and comment on my cock when I am on cam. It still has a stigma to be bi as a guy"

Are you implying that if you like anal and a guy you have to be bi or gay ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it, either on my own or with someone else

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By *nigmatistMan
over a year ago

Rowlands Gill


"I don't even feel bad for the hamster, me.

what, you put the hamster up your arse ?

In all fairness, I had a little wheel built in there for it. "

O crikey, I nearly pissed myself laughing at that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its to do with how many "straight " guys there are on here that cant admit to having bi feelings. The amount of them that look and comment on my cock when I am on cam. It still has a stigma to be bi as a guy

Are you implying that if you like anal and a guy you have to be bi or gay ? "

Depends if its a courgette its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi,

does anyone feel a bit guilty about inserting items into there arse, but do it anyway and enjoy it. I do, I don't know why, upbringing I suppose. I use a finger or butt plug or slide onto a thin courgette (delish)"

I might feel guilty if it was someone else's electric toothbrush, otherwise no. Why would I? Do you feel guilty about masurbation to? Its your arse, do what you want with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's put me right off courgettes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer an aubergine. Maybe a butternut squash at a squeeze!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I used to work in A&E ... youd be suprised what some people insert ... can be very dangerous ....

Its a good laugh though to hear the excuses of how the foreign body got there in the first place ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood how people get stuff stuck that requires a&e. I've had all sorts up there. Patience and gravity usually sorts things out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna tell your mums!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Avoid guilt get a hot goddess to put stuff up there for you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This mean I'm normal then ??lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its to do with how many "straight " guys there are on here that cant admit to having bi feelings. The amount of them that look and comment on my cock when I am on cam. It still has a stigma to be bi as a guy"

I think straight guys can be curious and want to explore more. Some do some don't. But as for finding pleasure within your own body. Knock yourself out. It's your body and if you choose to share that experience with another person. That's your business. It's life. You only live once.

Enjoy it x. Mrs x

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Shed the guilt...no room for such a destructive and damaging emotion on a site like this...

Courgette's become marrow's in time..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna tell your mums!!!!"

Aaaaawwwwwhhhh that's dead RUDE!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the replies which have made me laugh and also made me realize there is nothing to feel guilty about.

now if only I could find a lady out there who would punish me for my (past) guilty feelings....... perhaps with a big courgette ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I s'pose that I should feel guilty about it - but I'm always too busy just enjoying myself!!!

And forget the courgettes - time to move on to the cucumbers.... mmmmm!!!!!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Forget cucumbers

Its the girth that counts

.Marrows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forget cucumbers

Its the girth that counts

.Marrows

"

Christ may as well go the whole hog and shove the Green Grocer up your bum lol.

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham


"Forget cucumbers

Its the girth that counts

.Marrows

Christ may as well go the whole hog and shove the Green Grocer up your bum lol."

I tend to find magazines don't work as well. Get soggy quickly. papercuts too.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

No I don't feel guilty about it but I have been known to be embarrassed about the number of items in my toy box.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

so you should, nothing should go up a man's chuff

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

or a womans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it you haven't partaken? Its been popular for thousands of years. The reason is.....it feels great! Unclench that penny from between your cheeks and tickle your balloon knot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand your feelings. It's common among sub men. Guilt and shame are feelings that tend to inspire certain needs. I say embrace it. i bet if you get someone (you trust) to tie you down and finger you you would love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand your feelings. It's common among sub men. Guilt and shame are feelings that tend to inspire certain needs. I say embrace it. i bet if you get someone (you trust) to tie you down and finger you you would love it. "

As Woody Allen says when asked by a Psychoanalyst "do you think sex is dirty?", "only if you're doing it right!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand your feelings. It's common among sub men. Guilt and shame are feelings that tend to inspire certain needs. I say embrace it. i bet if you get someone (you trust) to tie you down and finger you you would love it.

As Woody Allen says when asked by a Psychoanalyst "do you think sex is dirty?", "only if you're doing it right!"

"

Bingo. There is obviously some learnt association that is making him feel guilty but this guilt is conflicting with what he feels he needs (something up his arse hole) and he needs to resolve it (by sticking lots of things up this arse as offten as he can)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand your feelings. It's common among sub men. Guilt and shame are feelings that tend to inspire certain needs. I say embrace it. i bet if you get someone (you trust) to tie you down and finger you you would love it.

As Woody Allen says when asked by a Psychoanalyst "do you think sex is dirty?", "only if you're doing it right!"

Bingo. There is obviously some learnt association that is making him feel guilty but this guilt is conflicting with what he feels he needs (something up his arse hole) and he needs to resolve it (by sticking lots of things up this arse as offten as he can)"

Its why Mp's want so many types of porn outlawed again. It give it the "naughty" factor back. Then if nanny catches them, they get a spanking. Or their arse caned while an orange injected with poppers is put in their mouth. Whilst wearing stockings and suspenders.

Remember Stephen Milligan? The police said "there were no suspicious circumstances". But I don't think half the Tory party had credible alibis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand your feelings. It's common among sub men. Guilt and shame are feelings that tend to inspire certain needs. I say embrace it. i bet if you get someone (you trust) to tie you down and finger you you would love it.

As Woody Allen says when asked by a Psychoanalyst "do you think sex is dirty?", "only if you're doing it right!"

Bingo. There is obviously some learnt association that is making him feel guilty but this guilt is conflicting with what he feels he needs (something up his arse hole) and he needs to resolve it (by sticking lots of things up this arse as offten as he can)

Its why Mp's want so many types of porn outlawed again. It give it the "naughty" factor back. Then if nanny catches them, they get a spanking. Or their arse caned while an orange injected with poppers is put in their mouth. Whilst wearing stockings and suspenders.

Remember Stephen Milligan? The police said "there were no suspicious circumstances". But I don't think half the Tory party had credible alibis!"

Tbh i couldn't give a shit about porn. I think it makes people lazy when it comes to trying things for themselves. It desensitises us to sex and it degrades women. It has also given are children an unrealistic and warped impression of sex. Until they can regulate porn so no one underage can possibly see it i really couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand your feelings. It's common among sub men. Guilt and shame are feelings that tend to inspire certain needs. I say embrace it. i bet if you get someone (you trust) to tie you down and finger you you would love it.

As Woody Allen says when asked by a Psychoanalyst "do you think sex is dirty?", "only if you're doing it right!"

Bingo. There is obviously some learnt association that is making him feel guilty but this guilt is conflicting with what he feels he needs (something up his arse hole) and he needs to resolve it (by sticking lots of things up this arse as offten as he can)

Its why Mp's want so many types of porn outlawed again. It give it the "naughty" factor back. Then if nanny catches them, they get a spanking. Or their arse caned while an orange injected with poppers is put in their mouth. Whilst wearing stockings and suspenders.

Remember Stephen Milligan? The police said "there were no suspicious circumstances". But I don't think half the Tory party had credible alibis!

Tbh i couldn't give a shit about porn. I think it makes people lazy when it comes to trying things for themselves. It desensitises us to sex and it degrades women. It has also given are children an unrealistic and warped impression of sex. Until they can regulate porn so no one underage can possibly see it i really couldn't care less. "

It is regulated. Always has been. You have to be 18 to _iew it LEGALLY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand your feelings. It's common among sub men. Guilt and shame are feelings that tend to inspire certain needs. I say embrace it. i bet if you get someone (you trust) to tie you down and finger you you would love it.

As Woody Allen says when asked by a Psychoanalyst "do you think sex is dirty?", "only if you're doing it right!"

Bingo. There is obviously some learnt association that is making him feel guilty but this guilt is conflicting with what he feels he needs (something up his arse hole) and he needs to resolve it (by sticking lots of things up this arse as offten as he can)

Its why Mp's want so many types of porn outlawed again. It give it the "naughty" factor back. Then if nanny catches them, they get a spanking. Or their arse caned while an orange injected with poppers is put in their mouth. Whilst wearing stockings and suspenders.

Remember Stephen Milligan? The police said "there were no suspicious circumstances". But I don't think half the Tory party had credible alibis!

Tbh i couldn't give a shit about porn. I think it makes people lazy when it comes to trying things for themselves. It desensitises us to sex and it degrades women. It has also given are children an unrealistic and warped impression of sex. Until they can regulate porn so no one underage can possibly see it i really couldn't care less.

It is regulated. Always has been. You have to be 18 to _iew it LEGALLY."

I am going to laugh in you face for just a naive statement.

HA!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the laughter? Check the law on who is allowed to legally purchase pornography. Anyone OVER 18. Its quite simple. Want to see an x rated film at the cinema? You have to be 18. Want to enter a sex shop? You have to be 18.

You mean kids accessing porn on the internet? Fuck all you can do about that, apart from monitor what they are _iewing. But most people can't be arsed doing that, and want someone else to do it for them. Then they moan when their right to _iew their own kinks is taken off them because the government is concerned about what kids could see.

You can only regulate what is controllable. The intrnet is nit controllable, but your childs internet browser is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you are saying porn is readily available to kids even tho there is a law.

You just proved my point.

Thanks for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only because it cannot be stopped by no other means than direct control of each individuals profile settings. The internet is like a porn shop with a deaf dumb and blind man standing guard. The law still states you have to be over 18 to _iew porn. That is in itself, regulation! Tootless, maybe, but regulation nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only because it cannot be stopped by no other means than direct control of each individuals profile settings. The internet is like a porn shop with a deaf dumb and blind man standing guard. The law still states you have to be over 18 to _iew porn. That is in itself, regulation! Tootless, maybe, but regulation nonetheless."

Whateves!

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