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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a short message today which i opened,but as it says on our profile we don't reply untill we have both had a chance to read it didn't reply straight away.

Once we had both read the message we went to reply and wait for it....BLOCKED lol.just shows that people don't really read profiles do they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how rude! Just for the record, what would your reply have been?

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Had a short message today which i opened,but as it says on our profile we don't reply untill we have both had a chance to read it didn't reply straight away.

Once we had both read the message we went to reply and wait for it....BLOCKED lol.just shows that people don't really read profiles do they."

We've had that and often preceeded by some kind of rude message such as 'typical of couples you never reply' but interdisperesed with four letter words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a short message today which i opened,but as it says on our profile we don't reply untill we have both had a chance to read it didn't reply straight away.

Once we had both read the message we went to reply and wait for it....BLOCKED lol.just shows that people don't really read profiles do they.

We've had that and often preceeded by some kind of rude message such as 'typical of couples you never reply' but interdisperesed with four letter words!"

Yep,we get that too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh when you get a message, read it, then they have deleted their profile before you have a chance to reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just logged on after a short break, six messages suggest the people sending them have left the site!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Just what is it about you ladies that frightens all the men away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Just what is it about you ladies that frightens all the men away? "

the existing threat that we may just say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha thats so true! All mouth & no trousers you blokes!!!

Wait for the abuse.............

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"haha thats so true! All mouth & no trousers you blokes!!!

Wait for the abuse............. "

all mouth? hmmmmmmmmmm

could anyone manage a good session with just using mouths? i reckon you could give it a fair go

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

What about when you get a second message bitching about why you haven't replied to the first one before you have even read the first one.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"What about when you get a second message bitching about why you haven't replied to the first one before you have even read the first one."

yep get that too - anyone would think we sit at the computer all day just waiting for theor messages so we can reply lol

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I rarely respond instantly, and on the odd occasion i have been known to go weeks without opening mail from people i dont know. I am one of the fickle ones i guess.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

*their

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had been called "strange" by two separate gents, and were blocked by them both as I told them I was not interested after a handful of unsolicited messages.

For all I know, it could be the same person using different profiles!

Me, strange? Tell me something I don't already know myself!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I had been called "strange" by two separate gents, and were blocked by them both as I told them I was not interested after a handful of unsolicited messages.

For all I know, it could be the same person using different profiles!

Me, strange? Tell me something I don't already know myself! "

awww Pearl I wouldn't call you strange, weired maybe but not strange lol

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I get so few messages - I open them immediately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"how rude! Just for the record, what would your reply have been? "
we went to go back to the couples profile to have another look before making a decision but discovered we were blocked lol...

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"haha thats so true! All mouth & no trousers you blokes!!!

Wait for the abuse............. "

that the usual way the party goes

everyone naked and lots of oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get so few messages - I open them immediately."

Whats a message?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I get so few messages - I open them immediately.

Whats a message? "

It's when you go to the supermarket for a single item.

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

one of lifes little ironies has just occured to me here.

with so many people stating we dont have time to answer all these messages with 'thanks but no thanks' yet have all the time to post in here complaining about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one of lifes little ironies has just occured to me here.

with so many people stating we dont have time to answer all these messages with 'thanks but no thanks' yet have all the time to post in here complaining about it.

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You know, I'm one of those people and yet I've sat here for 15 mins doing sod all except deleting messages and posting on the forums.

Point proved, I think.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Same here.. Work laptop on one side, ipad on the other

Flicking between the two trying to do both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we try to reply straight away as we dont get loads, and if we send message that doesnt get a reply we just think we dont float their boat. Just as annoying though is thosd who dont read the message properly.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Salsa, I always try to reply straight away, after all, I don't get any of the fancy a quickie ones lol so it's easy for me. How do you go about getting the unsolicited fany a quicke ones ? I would quite like some of them lmao

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"How do you go about getting the unsolicited fany a quicke ones ? I would quite like some of them lmao"

Gender realignment surgery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Salsa, I always try to reply straight away, after all, I don't get any of the fancy a quickie ones lol so it's easy for me. How do you go about getting the unsolicited fany a quicke ones ? I would quite like some of them lmao"

Being female definetly helps with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am usually polite if we get fancy meeting in 20 mins ones as cant do due to kids and say so. Got a tad sarky with a non message reader the other day though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all the messages i get from ladies i tend to errrrrrr dream about as i never get any , booo hoooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Salsa, I always try to reply straight away, after all, I don't get any of the fancy a quickie ones lol so it's easy for me. How do you go about getting the unsolicited fany a quicke ones ? I would quite like some of them lmao

Being female definetly helps with this."

Hmmm I guess it would, but that's not happening, can't afford it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get so few messages - I open them immediately.

Whats a message?

It's when you go to the supermarket for a single item."

Lots of tasty 'single items' in my local supermarket. Every little helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have sent a number of messages, very rarely get a reply. When I do, it's usually negative, so I write back and wish them well.

Perhaps I am being too nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me, strange? Tell me something I don't already know myself!

awww Pearl I wouldn't call you strange, weired maybe but not strange lol"

.

Eh, hmmm, I take that as a compliment!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We always reply to any messages and we are always polite and in an ideal world would reply straight away,however if only one partner has seen the message or perhaps children have come bursting into the room as your about to reply means you can't always do that lol

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I've often wondered when a message is showing up as "been read" but you don't get a reply, is it worth waiting a bit and sending a nice follow up? I mean if they weren't interested, it would just have been deleted wouldn't it? Not sure what to make of that half-way-house situation.

What do others think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've often wondered when a message is showing up as "been read" but you don't get a reply, is it worth waiting a bit and sending a nice follow up? I mean if they weren't interested, it would just have been deleted wouldn't it? Not sure what to make of that half-way-house situation.

What do others think?"

I'd say wait, some don't bother deleting 'till they can delete in bulk.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I would'nt follow up,some people leave mail for ages and then do a mass delete of all of them

If I was interested in someone I would reply straight away and tell them so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a message and read it but don't delete it then I'm thinking about it. You will always get a reply if its a civil message but perhaps not straight away. The fact I haven't deleted though means its a possibility. Don't take this as gospel though, its just the way I work my mail!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Have sent a number of messages, very rarely get a reply. When I do, it's usually negative, so I write back and wish them well.

Perhaps I am being too nice."

Definitely too nice. Hurl abuse, they love it really...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"If I get a message and read it but don't delete it then I'm thinking about it. You will always get a reply if its a civil message but perhaps not straight away. The fact I haven't deleted though means its a possibility. Don't take this as gospel though, its just the way I work my mail! "

So, 21 sent, 10 read, 5 replied, 5 deleted

She loves me, she loves me not, she loves me, she loves me not......

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

can I say its not just couple who are the victims of this.....

I get that a bit because i look at them at work on the iphone and can't reply straight away...

so get home and find a volley of abuse in the in tray.....

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