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By *avidandVictoria1975 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby

We're brand new and bit nervous! Is this normal and do the nerves go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally normal

I don't think the nerves ever truely go, I think if they did then you have become hardened to the life style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're brand new and bit nervous! Is this normal and do the nerves go "

Very normal....I still get the pre meet nerves every time....its all part of it for me..

in fact, I'd worry if the nerves went.....

Just don't do owt your uncomfortable with and the nerves dissipate as the meet goes on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're brand new and bit nervous! Is this normal and do the nerves go "

My first time was in a car with a couple. I'd never done anything like it before(had just come out of a 10 year monogamous relationship). I was nervous as hell and couldn't even pop a boner.

But I made sure the lady had an awesome time. And the guy said, it was one of their best meets.

So, be nervous. It's totally normal and just try to have fun.

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By *avidandVictoria1975 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Thanks guys...I suppose a few nerves are healthy. Going to a club tonight for 3rd time hoping to push our boundaries a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience the nerves will turn to excitement as you get closer to your meeting time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get nervous meeting, it's normal I think and I've been on here 5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nerves are part of the buzz as they evolve into excitement for me... Enjoy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my first time i was so nervous,so i thought a drink would help,ended up totally smashed,lucky it was just a social and nothing was expected

i think i might get a little to nervous

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By *avidandVictoria1975 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Thanks guys glad it's not just me then I'll def need a drink tonight

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

The nerves are good I think...a part of the excitement linked to it all

Hope you enjoy yourself and meet some nice people.

Best wishes

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By *avidandVictoria1975 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Thanku I hope so too. I think it's pushy people who I worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys glad it's not just me then I'll def need a drink tonight "

have a drink to calm the nerves,but not to much to effect mr winky which i've also done,even after 100mg of viagra,it wasnt happening,so dont forget.....moderation is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanku I hope so too. I think it's pushy people who I worry about "

dont worry about pushy people,you do what you want to,and thats it...you'll be fine.

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By *avidandVictoria1975 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Thanku for the advice

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