FabSwingers.com forum: Too young for Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your an adult what you do is your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first joined when I was 21. I had a great time meeting and chatting to people and I found it was older ones who acted immature towards me as if they were jealous that I'm young and hot and they're not. Now I'm back at 23 I'm still told I'm too young. I tell them to get fucked.

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

A lot of this comes from experience - younger people on here tend to miss out on meets a lot, or have major relationship upheaval from one week to the next. It's a stereotype and doesn't apply to everyone, but plenty of older couples just won't bother with young single guys based on experience or reputation of young single guys in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have the cheek to speak to me for a little while and then say "oh, you're 18, I didn't realise, that's way too young" that annoys me as they've clearly not taken notice of my profile but if I message someone and they say I'm too young then I respect their preference

I know in myself that I am mature and want to explore sexually so it doesn't bother me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All good replys... i agree there is a unfortunate stereotype associated with younger people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I have had older couples and singles acting 12 years old to me before when I've posted on the forums, questioning why I'm here etc as if they have the divine right to run the place. On the other hand I've had plenty that have accepted opinions from me without an issue.

Maturity isn't a number it's your attitude, just ignore the abusers, if you're over 18 you have just as much right on here as seasoned swingers

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"All good replys... i agree there is a unfortunate stereotype associated with younger people on here"

Not necessarily.

Some people simply don't want to meet men (or women) around the age of (or younger than) their children.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?"

If they've told you that you are too young to be on here, well, sadly for them, the site owners disagree and they make the rules.

If they've said they won't meet you because you're too young, that's different and entirely fair enough.

Personally I can't understand why anyone 18, 19 or in their early 20s would want to be on a site like this rather than going out, clubbing and partying and meeting people in the "real world". It doesn't mean you're not allowed to be here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I first joined when I was 21. I had a great time meeting and chatting to people and I found it was older ones who acted immature towards me as if they were jealous that I'm young and hot and they're not. Now I'm back at 23 I'm still told I'm too young. I tell them to get fucked."

And this sums it up beautifully. Stereotyping- all youngsters are immature and all oldies are not hot. What a load of bollocks! I think most of us are sensible enough to realise that you will get immature old people and mature youngsters. However people have preferences which is good. Means we all don't go after the same thing. Personally under 30's just don't do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly it should be down to personal preference, no one is too old or too young, they may be for a particular individual but that's not the whole community. Same as some people are attracted to others and some are not

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?

If they've told you that you are too young to be on here, well, sadly for them, the site owners disagree and they make the rules.

If they've said they won't meet you because you're too young, that's different and entirely fair enough.

That basically suggests that the only reason people are on here is because they are old, past it and ugly. If you were young and hot you don't need the site.

With respect that is not true. We are not exactly old and do go clubbing etc. But swinging is a different thing and it is hard to meet people in clubs who engender the open and honest lifestyle that a good swinger lives. It is totally different. If I knew about this at 21 I would have loved it.

Some young people are irritating, as are some older people. It is not the age which makes them unsuitable, it is the fact they are pricks. Young people are excellent if they act with dignity and some are downright beautiful. Bring them on I say. The more there are on here the better the site will be.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Doesn't it perfectly represent the oh so mature attitude of some of the younger members too?

Talk about shooting yourself in the foot.

Jealous? Whatever you say...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?

If they've told you that you are too young to be on here, well, sadly for them, the site owners disagree and they make the rules.

If they've said they won't meet you because you're too young, that's different and entirely fair enough.

That basically suggests that the only reason people are on here is because they are old, past it and ugly. If you were young and hot you don't need the site.

No that's not what I was saying at all

Also, meeting people as a couple is a bit different to meeting people as a single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're very unclear on your points though. Plenty of us 'young' people do go clubbing however I wouldn't presume or approach the concept of swinging whilst out clubbing. Our age doesn't deny us the opportunity on here it's a completely separate interest than going out on the town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife loves hunky young guys but has found that sadly they dont seem to know what they are doing. It was a fantasy that didnt quite work out as we hoped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love younger ladies and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?

If they've told you that you are too young to be on here, well, sadly for them, the site owners disagree and they make the rules.

If they've said they won't meet you because you're too young, that's different and entirely fair enough.

This implies it is an either/or situation, and that people choose to go on here instead of going out clubbing etc to meet people. I'd imagine that's only the case for a very very small amount of people.

For me, I'll go out to meet new people most weekends, but every now and again I can use this site to look for people and situations that I wouldn't typically encounter in a bar or club.

I'm sure it's a similar story for many other young people on here.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Wow......

18 to 20 year olds.... Ha ha have no problem there..

You,d make an old man very happy lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of this comes from experience - younger people on here tend to miss out on meets a lot, or have major relationship upheaval from one week to the next. It's a stereotype and doesn't apply to everyone, but plenty of older couples just won't bother with young single guys based on experience or reputation of young single guys in general "

Or the fact that they've no interest in anyway half their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're very unclear on your points though. Plenty of us 'young' people do go clubbing however I wouldn't presume or approach the concept of swinging whilst out clubbing. Our age doesn't deny us the opportunity on here it's a completely separate interest than going out on the town "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?"

I got the same but just chatted to people more and the age thing wasn't a big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like anything on fab...personal preference! I don't usually look too much at age..its weather or not I click with someone and what I'm wanting at the time lol. Xx

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Absolutely...personal preference and working out how mature or otherwise people are whatever their age. I am knocking on a bit and obviously tend to chat more to people nearer or around my own age, but wouldn't avoid or ignore someone because they were younger...or indeed older.

God luck here whatever age you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

though some people associate certain age groups with a certain level of maturity so it's up to you to get involved in the discussions and in chatrooms to prove that you're not defined by age

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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

I personally prefer older guys as in my experience so far,they are more experienced in and out of the bed,we have more to talk about and they tend to be more tactile and sensual.... That said,it is my experience so far and I'm by no means stereotyping.... There will be some great young guys who's chances of meeting will be somewhat reduced by the reputation instilled by those who act like immature idiots....

So.... Young guys,don't let this out you off as there's somebody for everybody on here,just be yourselves and more importantly have fun!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't have much to talk about....simple really

Geriatric Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know, your either to young or to old for the older milfs. You cant win lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit that I am a bit worried if a 18 year old girl contacts us (49 and 46) because she would like to play with us.

sounds weird for me that such a young girl wants to play with someone who could be her parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had the same problems i know my own mind x for swinging you need to have self respect and have confidence no matter your age x

As for older people, bullying young people to come off fab because of your personal reasons is wrong you should be giving them adivce and support but not mother them they don't need a new mum x

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By *hapeShiftersCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Well said LittleMiss! We love playing with younger guys and girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's ok if they are here and there are enough younger people they can have fun with.

although it wouldn't have been good for me personally to be on here with 20. I was definitely not mature enough for this. but everybody is different.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

21? Been there, done that, got the Tshirt. Jealous? You are joking.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21? Been there, done that, got the Tshirt. Jealous? You are joking.lol

as if hotness had to do with age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number, as an older couple we have had experience of all age groups, if you respect someone's decision to get involved with an older person everything will work out, our most rewarding time was the 3yrs we were involved with a 20yr old girl.

So please to all young and old, respect each person's decision, we are all human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv had the same problems i know my own mind x for swinging you need to have self respect and have confidence no matter your age x

As for older people, bullying young people to come off fab because of your personal reasons is wrong you should be giving them adivce and support but not mother them they don't need a new mum x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?

If they've told you that you are too young to be on here, well, sadly for them, the site owners disagree and they make the rules.

If they've said they won't meet you because you're too young, that's different and entirely fair enough.

This!

I guess many feel that at that tender age one-on-one in 'normal' relationships is exciting enough without adding to the mix! However - your body/your life and your right to be here if that's what you want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for 30+ guys i alway have x

they are loads of young people its there choice its up to themselfs to find What they like sexaul one day the young will become older people and hosting parties and events and bully your children and grandchildern x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?

If they've told you that you are too young to be on here, well, sadly for them, the site owners disagree and they make the rules.

If they've said they won't meet you because you're too young, that's different and entirely fair enough.

This!

exactly people should be left get on with their lives without having to justify their decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see anyone bullying here...?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?

If they've told you that you are too young to be on here, well, sadly for them, the site owners disagree and they make the rules.

If they've said they won't meet you because you're too young, that's different and entirely fair enough.

This!

Nothing stopping them from doing both. At their age they have the energy to do nightclubs and Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to admit that I am a bit worried if a 18 year old girl contacts us (49 and 46) because she would like to play with us.

sounds weird for me that such a young girl wants to play with someone who could be her parents.

Same here and once had a 20 yr old girl tell me she likes to call the older women she plays with Auntie, yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to admit that I am a bit worried if a 18 year old girl contacts us (49 and 46) because she would like to play with us.

sounds weird for me that such a young girl wants to play with someone who could be her parents.

Same here and once had a 20 yr old girl tell me she likes to call the older women she plays with Auntie, yuk"

that's just wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is bullying going on by telling them that there too young to on a site like this its up to the person who they fuck x

On over posts were people do give adivce to came of the site and go clubbing and drink, the only young people I know that are creating trouble, breaking windows, fighting, go around with guns and knifes, self harming, getting pregnant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is bullying going on by telling them that there too young to on a site like this its up to the person who they fuck x

That's not bullying, they are just saying what young people in their opinion should be doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just that and iv seen messages that people name calling and i had nasty messages meself for being in a different age group x

its like telling someone your fat or skinny to go do something esle other than swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are bit too dramatic.

none in this thread said anything mean against younger people.

and everybody here has experienced mean messages. I got told that bigger women are a turn off. so what? there are a lot of unpolite people here like anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I am aking myself if very young people should be on fab it is not in an aggressive way.

I am worried for them. I'm worried zbout an 18year old girl who wants to meet older men. that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just that and iv seen messages that people name calling and i had nasty messages meself for being in a different age group"
Yes me to and its mostly older ones that does it, its easy. I just grass them and report them, easy peacey lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not aimed at you its for the people give out but revive back, iv get nasty messages for being young and over things x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I would think my words "It doesn't mean you're not allowed to be here though" make it pretty clear I don't think you should be denied the right to be here.

I said I don't understand why so many young people feel the need to use sites like this to meet people. It's no judgement, I just don't understand it.

Those looking for threesomes and moresomes makes sense but a lot are just looking for sex with singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like older some dont there going to find out that older doesnt mean there experienced x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were here for fun we may or not had relationships x

for me iv tried being in a relationship but its not enough for me I like variety and freedom of not having sex because sometimes I want company and sex or times I want to play alone and have none sexaul fun in front of tv and girlie nights with friends, guys want sex all the time and get a cob on with you becase you don't want sex for weeks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is bullying going on by telling them that there too young to on a site like this its up to the person who they fuck x

I think putting self harming as a example is a bit stupid, that's not causing trouble or others harm. People unfortunately turn to self harming for many reasons as it's a release for feelings you can't otherwise put into words, so maybe a bit of compassion towards it wouldn't go amis Instead of making it out to be a problem on the streets..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be fair I must say that I am not only worried about too young people on here. there are a lot of people here where I get the impression their motivation is a tricky one.

and you just can't protect them from themselves. it's life. and everybody is allowed to make his own decisions and even mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, like everything, it's to do with your attitude to life rather than age. I've chatted to mature people in their 20's and immature ones in their 50's. As long as you are happy, I wouldn't worry what anyone else thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just that and iv seen messages that people name calling and i had nasty messages meself for being in a different age group x

its like telling someone your fat or skinny to go do something esle other than swinging x"

What on this thread? Hope you've reported them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I get them now and again I just block the person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a fantastic meet recently with a 20 year old couple - we hit it off and it was great - we are more than twice their age but none of us worried about it - it's about the chemistry when you all meet really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might be different if you have children that are almost the same age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have children who are older than them, We just separate swinging from normal life - it's an escape valve - we've always managed to separate the 2 sides of our life - works for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not for us.

but I don't judge you.

have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you - we never judge anybody either - and when we met the 20 year olds we had a very grown up conversation about it all - they liked us so much they came to ours for the night having et them somewhere else - was a really good night for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met - not et - sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I get them now and again I just block the person x"

Click the quote button to comment on another comment, that way we know who you are posting to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I get them now and again I just block the person x

Click the quote button to comment on another comment, that way we know who you are posting to

sorry i was my tablet lol

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I suppose it could be said that the 20 somethings should be too busy having fun outside of here, it is up to you what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose it could be said that the 20 somethings should be too busy having fun outside of here, it is up to you what you do."

What if you are doing both? Because what gets under my skin is when people you should be out clubbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest my younger brother and his friends use the likes of Tinder etc. to meet people now as well as in clubs...I don't think the online stuff is in any way unusual now.

I also wonder when people say 'they should be out in clubs or meeting people in real life'...it does sort of infer that older people are too old and past it to be able to pull in real life so are somehow resorting to here.

I prefer not to meet people much younger than me, but that doesn't mean they can't be here and enjoy the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on you OP...wish I'd started this when I was younger but I was very naïve and wasn't aware of it

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

My ex was on here since 17 so i would not worry about it. Why are people shocked to find young swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"might be different if you have children that are almost the same age.

Never understood this line of thinking...they are not your children ....how far would you take that rule...same age as your neighbour/sister/aunt/corner shop owner ....not being nippy I genuinely dont get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?

If they've told you that you are too young to be on here, well, sadly for them, the site owners disagree and they make the rules.

If they've said they won't meet you because you're too young, that's different and entirely fair enough.

What's stopping them enjoying both?? Going out meeting people in the "real world" and through Fab??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose it could be said that the 20 somethings should be too busy having fun outside of here, it is up to you what you do."

Surely they can do both?? Fun outside of Fab and on Fab too

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I suppose it could be said that the 20 somethings should be too busy having fun outside of here, it is up to you what you do.

Surely they can do both?? Fun outside of Fab and on Fab too

Too right you do not neccesaraly say that some pne has no life because they have fb profile. Fab should be use as supliment to your real life.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Sorry about the Smiley's phone was playing up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a more mature couple and actually displaying our real ages we accept that some younger people will write us off straight away, I guess when we started out we wrote off younger people too we've now learnt to never pre judge anybody we've played with people from 19 upwards (verifications to prove it) and actually one of the most sensible mature likeable couples are both in there early twenties and we consider them friends, so we never rule out any age x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I get them now and again I just block the person x

Click the quote button to comment on another comment, that way we know who you are posting to

sorry i was my tablet lol"

That's okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently (today)changed my profile to a couples profile with my 18yr fb, haven't had any comments yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have the cheek to speak to me for a little while and then say "oh, you're 18, I didn't realise, that's way too young" that annoys me as they've clearly not taken notice of my profile but if I message someone and they say I'm too young then I respect their preference

I know in myself that I am mature and want to explore sexually so it doesn't bother me x"
I wish I had the opportunity to.play with someone young I might be old but ive still got fun left in me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've recently (today)changed my profile to a couples profile with my 18yr fb, haven't had any comments yet "

Tbh I dont know what to say about that...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the great responses... hopefully one day i may find a older couple out there looking for a younger guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too young is never a problem 4 me ! Trouble is there are not enough lol x

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over a year ago

"Too young is never a problem 4 me ! Trouble is there are not enough lol x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, so it's not just me who feels alienated by my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"might be different if you have children that are almost the same age.

that's hard to explain.

it just doesn't feel good for me. I then see then feel like I had sex with my children's friends. and that just doesn't feel right for me. and I don't feel attracted to them with that thought in my head.

I don't say it's wrong.

I just say it feels wrong for ME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xagabor there is nothing wrong with that, you're not attracted to people that age, that's your preference, we don't decide who we are attracted to and who we aren't.

It's the ones out there saying we are too young for this not for themselves as if they make the rules and speak on behalf of all swingers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow!! Pin to pop your ego needed! There are a lot older women on here who are a lot hotter and have the thing you are lacking which is sex appeal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're too young. Come back when you are older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest my younger brother and his friends use the likes of Tinder etc. to meet people now as well as in clubs...I don't think the online stuff is in any way unusual now.

I prefer not to meet people much younger than me, but that doesn't mean they can't be here and enjoy the site. "

Anna if your brother is as hot as you can I have his number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got no problem with the younger women on here. I met a very nice 20 year old and we had a very enjoyable 6 months meeting up most weeks.

Shame it's over now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was 2 inches taller and a year older I might have had the opportunity to get rejected by the perfect woman! Who's your favourite marvel character??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! The first thought that sprung to mind on viewing your profile was jealousy/envy at your 'hotness'! I was a size 8 and a model at your age - clearly now I am a past-it, wizened old crone whose purpose on fab is to make attractive young men and women feel unwanted and unwelcome- not!

Though I think it's wrong to give young people on fab a hard time, have you ever considered that those who do it might genuinely feel that you are emotionally too young to cope with 'no strings' sex, group sex etc etc, and that they might just, quite genuinely, not want to see you get hurt? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was 2 inches taller and a year older I might have had the opportunity to get rejected by the perfect woman! Who's your favourite marvel character??"

Haha if you are talking to me I am in no way shape or form perfect!

Thor is my favourite marvel and god aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly the way some of them put it, I don't at all. Yes there have been some stupid statements from young people in this post. However when people have told me I'm too young, they've been abusive, immature and downright rude. You'd have thought I'd have kicked their dog of something. The fact that I'm 21 and can't have a reasonable conversation with some of them because of that is pathetic

I have also received nice advice and rejections where people just say 'sorry but you are too young for me'. You can't carergorise people just due to a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was 2 inches taller and a year older I might have had the opportunity to get rejected by the perfect woman! Who's your favourite marvel character??

Haha if you are talking to me I am in no way shape or form perfect!

Thor is my favourite marvel and god aswell "

Haha I was, everyone is perfect in their own way!

And you're right Thor is the best! I've always been jealous of his hair

plus coming from a straight guy, in the films Chris hemsworth is just a handsome bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest my younger brother and his friends use the likes of Tinder etc. to meet people now as well as in clubs...I don't think the online stuff is in any way unusual now.

I prefer not to meet people much younger than me, but that doesn't mean they can't be here and enjoy the site.

Anna if your brother is as hot as you can I have his number

I'm much too disturbed to answer that question, I can't judge if he's hot or not

. He's a right knobhead though, if that helps

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over a year ago

"To be honest my younger brother and his friends use the likes of Tinder etc. to meet people now as well as in clubs...I don't think the online stuff is in any way unusual now.

I prefer not to meet people much younger than me, but that doesn't mean they can't be here and enjoy the site.

Anna if your brother is as hot as you can I have his number

I'm much too disturbed to answer that question, I can't judge if he's hot or not

. He's a right knobhead though, if that helps

Haha dont say that I have a habit of picking knobheads.. Like a bloody moth to a flame! X

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over a year ago

"If I was 2 inches taller and a year older I might have had the opportunity to get rejected by the perfect woman! Who's your favourite marvel character??

Haha if you are talking to me I am in no way shape or form perfect!

Thor is my favourite marvel and god aswell

Haha I was, everyone is perfect in their own way!

And you're right Thor is the best! I've always been jealous of his hair

plus coming from a straight guy, in the films Chris hemsworth is just a handsome bastard"

He is indeedy! What i would do to that man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have also received nice advice and rejections where people just say 'sorry but you are too young for me'. You can't carergorise people just due to a number "

I'd agree! On fab i've come across some men in their fifties who act like immature children - and a few 'boys' in their early twenties who turned out to be very much a man! In an ideal world we'd look at everyone on an individual basis - but age filters etc are there to make choosing a playmate less time-consuming!

I apologise to all you 'youngsters' who are being treated rudely by us geriatrics though - one thing we should have learnt at our age is manners and respect for others rights! X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I wish there'd been somewhere like Fab when I was 21 (or even the internet!

). I was definitely into NSA sex, threesomes, and other stuff back then, but not the most successful person when out and about due to hating nightclubs.

I have no problem spending time with the younger bloke if they are so inclined. I'm not going to have a relationship with them so as long as they have the same things that attract me as older men, I'm fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paula, on behalf of all youngsters I accept your apology!

manners are free no matter what your age

Also I don't know how anyone can say you're jealous of them no matter what there age! Look at you really, simply stunning. 20 year olds should be jealous of you!

It's not right to judge someone because of their age however its ok to reject them because of it, just like its fine to reject someone because they're too short or hairy etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and on the flip side to this we feel we are too old as most profiles won't go over 50 so we are both past here !

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over a year ago

"and on the flip side to this we feel we are too old as most profiles won't go over 50 so we are both past here !

Just at a quick glance I can assure you you're not too old. Extremely attractive and seen down to earth. If you were after a bit younger then id be the first in que!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and on the flip side to this we feel we are too old as most profiles won't go over 50 so we are both past here !

exactly!

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

To be fair, although I'm open minded, I wouldn't feel comfortable meeting someone the same age as my mum, so I can see why some people would be turned off by meeting someone of the same age as their children...

It's all preference in the end, and some feel more secure meeting people they feel will be more mature even if it is wishful thinking that age and maturity are the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im too young I no but way life has panned out well if I didnt go on fab id never speak to a women apart from at shop ha. Sad c... I no!

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over a year ago

"Im too young I no but way life has panned out well if I didnt go on fab id never speak to a women apart from at shop ha. Sad c... I no!"

your not too young or old to explore your sexaul prefrences and grow confidence, your not hurting anyone x you right to be here too as well as older people x don't let nobody push you about its not a school yard its a adult site you don't have to message someone outside your age preferences x

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By *uronzanettiMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Im too young I no but way life has panned out well if I didnt go on fab id never speak to a women apart from at shop ha. Sad c... I no!

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100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im too young I no but way life has panned out well if I didnt go on fab id never speak to a women apart from at shop ha. Sad c... I no!

take it this way if you dont get behind a wheel of a vehicle you'll never learn to drive that vehicle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I think most people are on this site to get fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often find messages from people saying you are too young to be on here etc... surely as long as you are over 18 then really there isnt a problem? then it just comes down to age preferences?

If they've told you that you are too young to be on here, well, sadly for them, the site owners disagree and they make the rules.

If they've said they won't meet you because you're too young, that's different and entirely fair enough.

I'm a 21 year old and have been on here for about 6 months. I like this site because up at uni, I don't have the time to go out and meet people, final year is hard! I also hate going out and going clubbing, dragging the nearest and slightly good looking d*unk Neanderthal student boy back to my house for unfulfilling sex. I only have to put on my nice clothes and make an effort of there's a meet or social... I am certainly out the demographic for sure, but it's fun, met my main squeeze on here too!

age is just a number, it's all about maturity and mental connection, and some people got that and some don't, and it's much easier to chat on here than in some uni club with blaring shit music, drinking watered down vodka!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging isnt about just getting fucked its meant to be lifestyle choice like people that are into nudism X

im thinking off hosting a event a get together for young people in a club x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By contrast Paula, When I was 23 I weighed less than 9 stone and looked like a school leaver. On appearance alone it tended to be girls of about 14/15 who found me Most attractive to look at which was neither use nor ornament ha.

I think I would probably be classed as more appealing when I hit about thirty and my rocket fast metabolism finally slowed to super fast. Meant I got the toned muscular body of a 21 year old finally!

Your admission to being a former model does add extra meaning to those adorable Duran Duran style pics of yours mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well on the plus side you will be growing into it just as we are carted off to the sunnyside swingers home for retired hedonists ...and enjoy your years of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha bloody hell if so I want to go to sunnyside swingers home if ur off!!!! Then u will be complaining where all off ruining ur quiet and peace. I mean peace and quiet ha. But I dont think swingers are quietest bunch! Ha

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