FabSwingers.com forum: Are you single?

By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no im not single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man once told me he was single between 8am and 5pm ..yeah right

Her

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit."

I'm with you on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit."

no one likes it but guys will lie to get in yer knickers ,what ya gonna do make em sit a lie detector test

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I appreciate people's individual circumstances can sometimes be complex but I still respect someone who tells me the truth from the start, and I can make my own decision. I put that under the heading of 'respect'.

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit.

no one likes it but guys will lie to get in yer knickers ,what ya gonna do make em sit a lie detector test

Obviously not. But I have decided to be more direct from the start and ask the question. They then cannot say later that I never asked them! I am getting that line a lot! But I do have a strong radar for 'attached' guys so if they are lying, it wont take me long to find out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it isn't just men that do it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name is naughty pirate and I'm single.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am as single as a man can be. Never married, no kids and live alone...well, I have a lodger.

I feel there maybe a reason for this though.

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"it isn't just men that do it xx"

I never suggested it was. I am fully aware that both men and women lie. But I am a straight female, so I was talking from that perspective.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

100% single here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit."

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

One once told me 'Married, but playing single'

FFS!!!!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Single..I'm as single as a Pringle. But really Pringles aren't single they are constantly spooning. Oh what a slutty crisp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single here !

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Single..I'm as single as a Pringle. But really Pringles aren't single they are constantly spooning. Oh what a slutty crisp.

Nice ass

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit.

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As I genuine single guy I too find this deceit hard to understand.

Though would like to raise a couple of points.

i) Is a fella doing anything different from a bored/ frustrated housewife?? Or one who feels neglected.

ii) If a fella was to tell you up front that he either has permission or is with some one and honest would that make it ok....

I think most fellas know the answer to that thus the perpetuation of deceit.

Could also be a buzz for some the physical side just a bonus.

iii) one more point if I may, a fella believe it or not may prefer to to make LOVE to girlfriend but have an outlet for sex...

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I just feel that a good sex life is surely rooted in honesty, trust and respect.

I am not judging what others do but I simply ask that people tell me the truth. If people are honest from the start, then there can be no accusations of misleading later on.

For those who are married or in relationships, there are enough people on here who will play with you, so just be honest and allow others to make their own informed decision.

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit.

As I genuine single guy I too find this deceit hard to understand.

Though would like to raise a couple of points.

i) Is a fella doing anything different from a bored/ frustrated housewife?? Or one who feels neglected.

ii) If a fella was to tell you up front that he either has permission or is with some one and honest would that make it ok....

I think most fellas know the answer to that thus the perpetuation of deceit.

Could also be a buzz for some the physical side just a bonus.

iii) one more point if I may, a fella believe it or not may prefer to to make LOVE to girlfriend but have an outlet for sex..."

My point is, regardless of someones motivation, preference or individual circumstances, it is still possible to be truthful about that, and let others makettheir own decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single, and have had lots of attention from guys that are married or have a partner, it does nothing for me I want to meet/play with single ppl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much single. But as I don't accommodate, I've been called a fibber. It doesn't bother me, I've made enough friends on here who know my situation.

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Its the outright lying that gets to me. Guys who tell me they are married, at least give me the opportunity to decide for myself?? In that situation, some wont mind but others will decide that isn't for them. Its about having the right to choose, instead of being lied to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was untill fairly recently....now I'm not, though she is a member on here and knows what I'm up to and those I speak to with a _iew to meeting get told.

Must say though, I should probably put it on my profile...might be tonights job I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit."

I fully agree hun each to there own and everyone has there own opinion however wen cums to swinging would rather be open and honest than lie as in the end truth always has a way of cumin out and its only others u will hurt if u get found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% married here..(fem) x

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Yes although at least one of the cats (thinks, no scratch that) knows I'm her slave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terminally single here lol

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

" Terminally single here lol"

Terminally??? Sounds serious! Lol

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Im single as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am single and go no one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% Single here

Oh, wait...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very very very very very single

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I totally agree with the op. We once had a meet with a "single" guy but he had been followed to our place by his wife. She ended up creating one hell of a scene on our doorstep to which a lot of our neighbours were witness to. So embarrassing. That is the reason we wont meet single men anymore. It only takes one to spoil things for everyone else.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Im single as fuck"

Oh yeah and its not just a saying.

Your gonna have to be pretty fucking amazing to change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single..I'm as single as a Pringle. But really Pringles aren't single they are constantly spooning. Oh what a slutty crisp.

Nice ass

Yes very nice ass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Terminally single here lol

Terminally??? Sounds serious! Lol"

It is I'm one failed relationship away from adopting 20 cats,getting a few hoards started n becoming a hermit! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely single. I'm fairly sure most guys i meet up with are not, including some of the regulars i see.

I was bothered about meeting attached guys because i don't want to be the cheat, plus it's not really fair on the person being lied to. Not looking for a relationship so being attached wouldn't matter here, although regular meets kind of hints at a relationship of sorts, but one without commitment from me definitely.

Not too arsed any more. I'm not the one lying, i am single and anyone who meets me i'm not lying to. I'm not taking any meets seriously enough to consider the person being in my life forever so don't care if they are liars, apart from one guy who i really do like so i don't meet him now coz he will break my heart (as liars do).

Only thing that bothers me right now is if i end up hauled up in court as 'the other party', married guys who are cheating should always give us the opportunity to opt out of this. I will not meet anyone who is married for this reason.

Fuck morals but yeah i like to keep my head down when it comes to law.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Im single as fuck

Oh yeah and its not just a saying.

Your gonna have to be pretty fucking amazing to change it."

We don't want to change it, we just want to borrow you every now and then

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I totally agree with the op. We once had a meet with a "single" guy but he had been followed to our place by his wife. She ended up creating one hell of a scene on our doorstep to which a lot of our neighbours were witness to. So embarrassing. That is the reason we wont meet single men anymore. It only takes one to spoil things for everyone else."

Sounds awful!!!! Poor you! Thats the problem with liars. Trouble follows them!

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I am 100% single, and have been for over 3 years,

So free to see whoever I choose, and enjoy lovely times together!

And free to accommodate at my nice home any time, daytimes or evenings too!

Gentleman Jack xxx

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

" Terminally single here lol

Terminally??? Sounds serious! Lol

It is I'm one failed relationship away from adopting 20 cats,getting a few hoards started n becoming a hermit! lol"

Ditto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married. I hate the deceit."

I'm in an open marriage, play alone and am very clear about that on my profile. Honesty undoubtedly works against me, but my mother taught me it's the best policy. She also told me not to engage in casual sex

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married. I hate the deceit.

But at least by being honest in your profile, people can make their own mind up now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single so I'm being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Terminally single here lol

Terminally??? Sounds serious! Lol

It is I'm one failed relationship away from adopting 20 cats,getting a few hoards started n becoming a hermit! lol

Ditto!

Oooohhh! Lets compare hoards lol.

Got a pretty big pile of 20+ year old 2000AD comics....make that two piles(keep/sell) sitting on my living room floor

What are you gonna start hoarding Kitten.....balls of wool?

Or balls in jars(of formaldehyde)?...jj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how you define single

To me on here a single guy is a guy who meets alone, if he's not meeting with his wife she is irrelevant, even if he has a couples profile but also meets alone when he's alone he's a single guy

I'm not after love so to me it does not matter if he's married or not so long as he don't clock watch on our meet because I really flipping hate that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single here

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit."

Sounds like they think they have found a legal loophole

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

" Terminally single here lol

Terminally??? Sounds serious! Lol

It is I'm one failed relationship away from adopting 20 cats,getting a few hoards started n becoming a hermit! lol

Ditto!

Oooohhh! Lets compare hoards lol.

Got a pretty big pile of 20+ year old 2000AD comics....make that two piles(keep/sell) sitting on my living room floor

What are you gonna start hoarding Kitten.....balls of wool?

Or balls in jars(of formaldehyde)?...jj

Blimey! Steady! I don't think I am quite that far gone yet! Lol!

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It depends how you define single

To me on here a single guy is a guy who meets alone, if he's not meeting with his wife she is irrelevant, even if he has a couples profile but also meets alone when he's alone he's a single guy

I'm not after love so to me it does not matter if he's married or not so long as he don't clock watch on our meet because I really flipping hate that

I defined my understanding of the word "single' in my opening post. I think my definition is most peoples definition to be fair. I dont think a married man who meets women alone, can be classed as single! He is just a guy lying to his wife. Unless he has told her....

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It depends how you define single

To me on here a single guy is a guy who meets alone, if he's not meeting with his wife she is irrelevant, even if he has a couples profile but also meets alone when he's alone he's a single guy

I'm not after love so to me it does not matter if he's married or not so long as he don't clock watch on our meet because I really flipping hate that

I do think it is sad that you think his unaware wife, is irrelevant though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends how you define single

To me on here a single guy is a guy who meets alone, if he's not meeting with his wife she is irrelevant, even if he has a couples profile but also meets alone when he's alone he's a single guy

I'm not after love so to me it does not matter if he's married or not so long as he don't clock watch on our meet because I really flipping hate that

I do think it is sad that you think his unaware wife, is irrelevant though..."

Why do you assumed she's unawear, I seem to remember saying he could have a couples profile but meet alone too as many couples do, I think it sad you choose to see the bad in people first

I never mentioned anyone being unawear you chose to assume that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married. I hate the deceit.

I just tried to message you to ask your advice about being in an open marriage but as I'm outside your age range it won't let me. If you wouldn't mind giving advice please message me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggle to work out which side of the fence I am actually on now!! By law I am still married but we are separated, yet for reasons for our benefit we still live under the same roof!! I would love to know what the forum thinks that makes me??

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Struggle to work out which side of the fence I am actually on now!! By law I am still married but we are separated, yet for reasons for our benefit we still live under the same roof!! I would love to know what the forum thinks that makes me?? "

My own _iew? Just be honest and tell the person you are meeting. They can make their own mind up then. Its just lying and deceit I hate. Those in fully consenting open relationships /marriages or couples who play separately with full knowledge and consent of their partners are not an issue for me personally, because there is no deceit. Its the innocent partners and wives who dont know their loved one is playing behind their back and lying to those they meet, that bother me. Just be honest with people. Thats all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single but have 4 cats

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It depends how you define single

To me on here a single guy is a guy who meets alone, if he's not meeting with his wife she is irrelevant, even if he has a couples profile but also meets alone when he's alone he's a single guy

I'm not after love so to me it does not matter if he's married or not so long as he don't clock watch on our meet because I really flipping hate that

I do think it is sad that you think his unaware wife, is irrelevant though...

Why do you assumed she's unawear, I seem to remember saying he could have a couples profile but meet alone too as many couples do, I think it sad you choose to see the bad in people first

I never mentioned anyone being unawear you chose to assume that "

If his wife knows and you know and neither of you mind, then fine.

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I'm single but have 4 cats

Oh definitely NOT single then! Lol!!! (Joking x)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single but have 4 cats

Oh definitely NOT single then! Lol!!! (Joking x)"

I agree, I don't get a minute to myself

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

Singleton here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says single and that's all people need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends how you define single

To me on here a single guy is a guy who meets alone, if he's not meeting with his wife she is irrelevant, even if he has a couples profile but also meets alone when he's alone he's a single guy

I'm not after love so to me it does not matter if he's married or not so long as he don't clock watch on our meet because I really flipping hate that

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just feel that a good sex life is surely rooted in honesty, trust and respect.

I am not judging what others do but I simply ask that people tell me the truth. If people are honest from the start, then there can be no accusations of misleading later on.

For those who are married or in relationships, there are enough people on here who will play with you, so just be honest and allow others to make their own informed decision."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Terminally single here lol

Terminally??? Sounds serious! Lol

It is I'm one failed relationship away from adopting 20 cats,getting a few hoards started n becoming a hermit! lol

Ditto!

Oooohhh! Lets compare hoards lol.

Got a pretty big pile of 20+ year old 2000AD comics....make that two piles(keep/sell) sitting on my living room floor

What are you gonna start hoarding Kitten.....balls of wool?

Or balls in jars(of formaldehyde)?...jj

Blimey! Steady! I don't think I am quite that far gone yet! Lol! "

Not yet,but I'll keep my eye out for you on 'the hoarder next door' in the coming years! :p jj hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single but have 4 cats

You're at the start of a slippery slope,ending in crazy catladydom!

Joking of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single but have 4 cats

You're at the start of a slippery slope,ending in crazy catladydom!

Joking of course

The start? I'm half way down the bloomin slide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single here

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single. For some reason, it just suits me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its easy telling porkies on the internet

but what can you do other than take someones word for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says single and that's all people need to know. "

Actually your profile says nothing.

On the other hand however, its screams married

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Is it just me but being single isn,t an issue...... Or to be ashamed of.

I,m happy to be single, and I don,t consider myself a weirdo, frustrated nor socialy/ emotionally inept...

I just prefer it that way.

But as the lady earlier eludes to " each to there own"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still legally married. Been separated 2 years and had absolutely no contact for almost a year. So, yes, i'm single.

Sometimes i think i'd quite like to be in a relationship. Then other times not so sure about that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love being single too

all the hate we get onhere is just because all the married guys wanna be us and their wives wanna fcuk us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about men who are separated from their wives but still married ??

I'm in that boat and there is more chance of me winning the lottery than there is of me taking her back, so am I classed as single or married ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As single as they come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As single as they come.

thats only cos youve not met me yet pops lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just feel that a good sex life is surely rooted in honesty, trust and respect.

I am not judging what others do but I simply ask that people tell me the truth. If people are honest from the start, then there can be no accusations of misleading later on.

For those who are married or in relationships, there are enough people on here who will play with you, so just be honest and allow others to make their own informed decision."

I agree with you here. I'm not single, and it's stated as such on my profile so I don't waste anyone's time.

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"What about men who are separated from their wives but still married ??

I'm in that boat and there is more chance of me winning the lottery than there is of me taking her back, so am I classed as single or married ?

Class yourself how you like..but just tell the truth as you have done here, and you wont have any problems

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"its easy telling porkies on the internet

but what can you do other than take someones word for it"

I always find out!

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Very much single.... All of the time

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Sounds awful!!!! Poor you! Thats the problem with liars. Trouble follows them! "

What made it so much worse is we live in a small town so everyone knew in no time including family. It is something we will never put ouselves in the position of it happening again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im totally single.

Only argue with myself!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yup.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here as a single guy but am married and play with permission. We have a couples profile aswell and my wife has a single profile also. My profile is honest and straight and any fem who has issues meeting a married guy thats fine as its there choice. But there are other fems who prefer married guys as we are less likely to get emotionally attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im totally single.

Only argue with myself!!"

But do you ever win the argument ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says single and that's all people need to know.

Actually your profile says nothing.

On the other hand however, its screams married"

How can it scream married when it says fuck all?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Im single as fuck

Oh yeah and its not just a saying.

Your gonna have to be pretty fucking amazing to change it.

We don't want to change it, we just want to borrow you every now and then

Haha thats good, should get that framed and hung up. You dont have to explain when asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

painfully so.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I always ask direct now! Some seem to think that being able to accommodate in a hotel overnight suddenly make them single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very single. And like you, OP, I have no desire to play with people who are married or in relationships.

Not here to judge anyone, it's just my thing.

Out of a two year relationship since November.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As single as they come.

thats only cos youve not met me yet pops lol "

Meet me then. I'd have you sing to me all day and night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it isn't just men that do it xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single but have 4 cats

You're at the start of a slippery slope,ending in crazy catladydom!

Joking of course

The start? I'm half way down the bloomin slide

Crazy catlady slide pmsl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit."

Whats wrong with been honest........

I'm married with permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As single as they come.

thats only cos youve not met me yet pops lol

Meet me then. I'd have you sing to me all day and night.

i'll sing to you via whatsapp lol.. safer for your ears that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As single as they come.

thats only cos youve not met me yet pops lol

Meet me then. I'd have you sing to me all day and night.

i'll sing to you via whatsapp lol.. safer for your ears that way

I would have wanted kisses in between too. If thhat can't happen. This relationship may not sustain itself...

..i'm a kisser.

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

I am definitely single i have no wife.no girlfriend I live on my own . with nothing to hide it us stated on profile aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Terminally single here lol

Terminally??? Sounds serious! Lol

It is I'm one failed relationship away from adopting 20 cats,getting a few hoards started n becoming a hermit! lol"

Not the cat thing ...noooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Terminally single here lol

Terminally??? Sounds serious! Lol

It is I'm one failed relationship away from adopting 20 cats,getting a few hoards started n becoming a hermit! lol

Not the cat thing ...noooooo

Ok then I'll limit myself to one cat,the most crazy,feral tomcat I can find lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was also single until recently, then I met a lovely guy, off here actually... it's been a huge eye opener to the whole world of swinging and open relationships. I always knew a lot of communication was essential in a relationship, but this was a whole other level. I'm very happy with him, and I do love him (DAWWWW) and I'm excited to get cracking with this excellent sexual journey with him! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says single and that's all people need to know.

Actually your profile says nothing.

On the other hand however, its screams married

How can it scream married when it says fuck all?

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"I appreciate people's individual circumstances can sometimes be complex but I still respect someone who tells me the truth from the start, and I can make my own decision. I put that under the heading of 'respect'."

The trouble is you don't get believed even if you are telling the truth. Some get it in their head that just because you don't accommodate, you must have a partner. They don't take into account you may actually house share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with why lie,, i get I'm married but my wife is sick or she said it was ok for me to get on here she's not in to the hole sex thing,, I'm like not interested! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm single. I wouldn't be on here otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

commitment phobic i think.. i bond n get close to folk.. but just cant commit.

get to a 6 month mark and then push them away

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Burnley

100% single, no wife, no girlfriend, no fb

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By *gm6969Man
over a year ago

Watford

I'm single

if you want a relasionship join match.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single

if you want a relasionship join match.com

unless you want a swinging relationship.. then stick around on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% single here,divorced, no husband! partner,boyfriend, fb, FWB or anything of the like

Absolute hate cheating...no excuses

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By *gm6969Man
over a year ago

Watford

yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100% single here,divorced, no husband! partner,boyfriend, fb, FWB or anything of the like

Absolute hate cheating...no excuses"

But not looking for any of the above either....just to clarify

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

best to not believe anything anyone says on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's another side to this - chatting to someone outside of here and get called all sorts of names, accused of talking to many, being on dates, etc.

All this despite having never met, never asked in any way for anything other than chat (no pics exchange, etc) just talking as friends do yet on a regular basis out comes the tirade...

It's not just the lies that some may or may not tell - its the lack of trust that all this in general brings into anything where the internet/dating sites/etc are concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single..I'm as single as a Pringle. But really Pringles aren't single they are constantly spooning. Oh what a slutty crisp.

Potato chip

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

im singe but its not helped me get many meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"best to not believe anything anyone says on here "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm single too,i agree people should be upfront then you can choose to meet them ans aware of any consequences etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im single ..I think a lot of people are economical with the truth on here ! lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep deffo single here. No body wuvs me

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Totally 100% single here.

Some days wish I wasn't though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% single and staying that way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single

no one wants me lol

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By *allSlimOneMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Single and undateable

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Everyone's personal circumstances are different and some are happy with them whilst others may want to change them. The only thing I ever ask is honesty. I will make up my own mind from that point on

How others choose to live their lives is their own business. I just ask that they dont embroil me into their lies and deceit.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm not single but I play on here as a single, jay is on the other big site as a single guy.

On my profile it says let me know if your married it wouldnt rule you out if you where but if I find out your married then they are gone

It seems to be working as so many of them now tell me their married in the first message never had this until i put it on my profile.

If I know their married its up to me if I want to play with but if they don't tell me, my choice of whether I do or don't play with them my choice has been taken away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not single but would never mislead anyone into thinking I was. What's the point? I would always give someone the credit for being intelligent enough to spot the tell-tale signs anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally single and free here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should do a singles dating section lol

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Bloody hell!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fully single I'm a terrible catch, and smell like fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im very unsingle,,I have a gf a long term fb n im dating a guy,,n yes it all in the open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means."

Creative and conveniently liberal!

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By *ittenwantstoplay OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Bottom line...if someone lies to me, it means they dont respect me enough to be honest and they think I am too stupid to know the difference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Single here too. Waiting for the 'one' if they exist, but having fun while I'm still young anyway

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

100% single or should that be swingle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems that some people like to be economical with the truth. Lets call it 'creative' with their definition of what the term 'single' means.

For me, if someone tells me they are single, it means they have no girlfriend /partner, no relationship, no wife.

I had assumed that was pretty standard definition but some define themselves as single, because they are not married...only for me to discover they have a girlfriend!

I am not here to judge what others do, but personally, I dont meet men who are in a relationship or married.

I hate the deceit.

I'm with you on that one

Truth is always best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 100% single. Never married.

There are times that I am unavailable for meets, such as this weekend, but this is because I am a father and have my two young children stay with me as per the shared residence order I was granted by the courts.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Single, no cats,

i ve two little ladies that think I'm a banker (when do they stop asking?)...

funnily enough my ex calls me a banker as well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEWLY SINGLE 7months ago...is that new?! Time flies!

I don't get the lies part, you see lots of attached people on here who ask for decretion and openly tell you why. It's then down to the other persons morals if they wish to Persue someone being who is being deceitful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single. No children, no pets, and no sex slaves in my basement or around my home either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to back down sometimes ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"best to not believe anything anyone says on here "

There are some honest people, me included on here,dnt tar everyone with same brush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends how you define single

To me on here a single guy is a guy who meets alone, if he's not meeting with his wife she is irrelevant, even if he has a couples profile but also meets alone when he's alone he's a single guy

I'm not after love so to me it does not matter if he's married or not so long as he don't clock watch on our meet because I really flipping hate that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bottom line...if someone lies to me, it means they dont respect me enough to be honest and they think I am too stupid to know the difference!

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By *ashes83Couple
over a year ago

wirral

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