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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think theres a art to Good sex. Some men are shaggers and some are lovers, Lovers of sex not in love with you but put alot into exploring and the seduction and four- play. Its better i think to when you get to know a person. The man who is a shagger leves you feeling nothing he has cum thinking nothing of the person he is with there needs, Its like going to the loo to him no feelings no nothing just cumming and moving to next victom. We are all here looking for sex and fun i know its just bizarre some would go miles just for a shag. GIVE ME A LOVER as i am worth lot more then a shag.Think thats why i like really bi woman as there no holding back on nothing some are so lustfull its heven. Jo xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey I am feeling right horny now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree with you!

i often get pm's asking me if i'm looking for a relationship because of the way my profile is worded, i just want to detract the 'shaggers' from messaging me and encouraging the 'lovers'.

if i wanted a 'shagger' i'd go to a nightclub and get a one night stand....

i know there's those that get-off on annonymous sex and good luck to them and isn't it great that fab can accommodate all of us!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just think its very rear if you get a good lover on a fist meet from sites like this .,.. as alot nurves and looking just for the Buss of shagging and cumming...... I adore good sex hours of it ,,, and its rear to get that on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know what you mean. I do to enjoy a good love making session but in swinging unless it one on one i find it hard to have a love making session if the womens husband/partner is either involved or watching

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i know what you mean. I do to enjoy a good love making session but in swinging unless it one on one i find it hard to have a love making session if the womens husband/partner is either involved or watching "
well i have had mmf and had fun but again it was after getting to know him ... each time did get better for all of us. It was knowing what turned each other on and being open about it ,,, Some times thats hard when you dont know a person to well And some dont care just looking to shag. jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know what you mean. I do to enjoy a good love making session but in swinging unless it one on one i find it hard to have a love making session if the womens husband/partner is either involved or watching well i have had mmf and had fun but again it was after getting to know him ... each time did get better for all of us. It was knowing what turned each other on and being open about it ,,, Some times thats hard when you dont know a person to well And some dont care just looking to shag. jo xxx"

definitly! thats why its always better 2nd,3rd etc etc time you meet. same as a relationship, you begin to know what makes eachother tick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

YES your right ,,, I know alot get ofF on that first shag thats there thing and looking for nothing more ,, I am not here looking for a man of my dreams or man to run away with or one who needs to mail me everyday or meet everyweek ,,, the relationship is sex and thats what i am after just good sex... some will just shag everyone who open there legs most are shaggers as if a person put alot into sex you find thay are not like the rest .. Even there letters stand out from the rest thay are diffrent.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

A very thought provoking thread. I've never thought of myself as a shagged. I'm turned on by exploring the other person's body and what makes them tingle.

Would I ever be a shagger? No thanks. I think that would be disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A very thought provoking thread. I've never thought of myself as a shagged. I'm turned on by exploring the other person's body and what makes them tingle.

Would I ever be a shagger? No thanks. I think that would be disrespectful."
Let me tell you your a rear one xx

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"A very thought provoking thread. I've never thought of myself as a shagged. I'm turned on by exploring the other person's body and what makes them tingle.

Would I ever be a shagger? No thanks. I think that would be disrespectful. Let me tell you your a rear one xx"

And yes - this is my honest view.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just when you get a man who thinking just of himself make you feel like a un-paid whore ,, lol like meat see where meat market come from the saying now ,, Fast-lane sex fuck and go no passion no nothing at times make me feel dead inside ,,,

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"just when you get a man who thinking just of himself make you feel like a un-paid whore ,, lol like meat see where meat market come from the saying now ,, Fast-lane sex fuck and go no passion no nothing at times make me feel dead inside ,,, "

Sadly, selfish people like that do exist. I could never treat anyone as a piece of meat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you Jo men who care make better lovers

getting to know someone & what makes them tick makes the whole experience of sex more passionate & involves both parties being close & intimate satisfying deep desires!

I need your clarification though. I sometimes Struggle using the words 'love making'

sure I have to have deep feelings to share myself with someone who I connect with.

Am I making 'love'? That Im not sure by is definition!

Is making love bonding with someone on a deep relationship level? That's not why Im here - sure if I connect with someone special I'd let it happen but Im no marrage breaker lol - I have bonded with some truely beautiful friends & made friendships that will endure the bad times & the good. Because we can talk openly about anything & everything. The sort of relation ships you have with a partner but is that love?

bit deep but still confused!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kilt-king your a lover ,,, and thats a lover of good sex ...and you may just love the persons body and spend time getting it on ...... so far i see two sorts of men shaggers, who think of there own needs and the lovers men who care and think of others needs not just there own xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kilt-king your a lover ,,, and thats a lover of good sex ...and you may just love the persons body and spend time getting it on ...... so far i see two sorts of men shaggers, who think of there own needs and the lovers men who care and think of others needs not just there own xx "

TY

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"...... so far i see two sorts of men shaggers, who think of there own needs and the lovers men who care and think of others needs not just there own xx "

And I have seen 4 types of women

Shaggers (to use your term)

Lovers (to use your term)

Nutters (to use my term).... they say they are looking for either of the above and then complain when they get it because the guy didn't move in.

Scarey nutters (to use my term) ... work those out for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...... so far i see two sorts of men shaggers, who think of there own needs and the lovers men who care and think of others needs not just there own xx

And I have seen 4 types of women

Shaggers (to use your term)

Lovers (to use your term)

Nutters (to use my term).... they say they are looking for either of the above and then complain when they get it because the guy didn't move in.

Scarey nutters (to use my term) ... work those out for yourself.

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yes your right .. but i give them ones a wide bith ,, lol I normal have worked out thay are before i meet them x lol jo xxx

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

trying to keep this in perspective, all the other person is, is an invited guest into your life or relationship temporarily to satisfy mutual requirments.

if like me you choose to play with regular circle of friends the majority of the time then yes as more meets transpire and relaxation and comfort zone expand between you, i have found far more pleasure and enjoyment are derived from the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree with the OP and expand that to women too, there are those who want the experience to last as long as possible and there are those who just want you to jump on go like a bat out of hell for a few minutes and then get the next one on.

That's what make gangbangs so popular for all those that take part.

The problem if a problem exists, or rather the complaints come (pun intended) when the gangbang style meets the other side, when women just want a quick shag and the guy wants more, when the women dont enjoy oral sex but the guy does, when the women think touching the guys cock, chest, neck etc is someone else's job or when a guy just wants a quick 2 minute shag, no foreplay, no licking, no carressing etc.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

to avoid issues of the person not meeting your needs, be it a quick shag or a long slow all nite session just get to know the person first before taking things further. the ones who dont wish to do this are just wanting the quick stress release of a shag and you both know where you are in the situation and if that suits you both.

what i laugh about is the shaggers who message and just because thats not person is after you get the iconic "its not a dating site you know !" .pmsl !!!

if they wish to jump straight to a meet and bed then thats their choice of how they wish to swing .personally i want to click with person i meet with .find mental connection enhances the physical one . doesnt mean i wanna be with them 24/7 just want alil more substance then being a means to an end for a guy lol!

how ppl swing is down to what feels right and comfortable for that indervidual . neither is the right way or the wrong way just what works for them .so maybe there should be more respect of what the other person is wanting .if its not same as you then be adult and just move on to someone who does match your own requirments !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sensual yes i think alot what you say is right i just wish if a man cant cope and cum so easy ,,,, dont run away do it again ,,,lol xxx

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