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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you meet a girl or couple for the first or second time how many of you talk and ask the lady what she likes and how many go like a jackhammer with the staminer of a stallion be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always discuss with them there preferences and expectations etc, saves going in all guns blazing and them getting bored by one postion etc

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I let you know when I get to meet one.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

you should always ask the lady what she likes as its her pleasure that's important if you want to get asked back,

this always worked for me as a single guy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Prior discussion and agreement with both the guy and the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually there is some discussion via email or text and I can get an idea of what they like.

But its also fun trying different things to see if its liked. For instance after playing with someone a couple of times, I discovered she likes her ears tongued and licked.

But just going like a jackhammer? Not unless its a gb. Surely it's about play? And, of course what the female/couple are looking for from a meet. Nothing wrong with discussion. Even if its preferred through text/email. Then everyone knows what is expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to work out what someone likes during play. Unless they're comfortable discussing that beforehand. Many women can get put off by overtly naughty chat whilst others love it. You can get a rough idea by reading their profiles.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I always ask her for her likes and dislikes

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I like the empathic approach xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No body has ever asked me (Mr) !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always see women one time, no need to ask, usully they r into anal or not, depends how tight they r, if its accommodating you know she had it loads... joke aside, not much to talk about really I think, sex is sex

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No body has ever asked me (Mr) !!!!!"

I would! (in theory)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No body has ever asked me (Mr) !!!!!

I would! (in theory) "

Thanks mate very kind of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally take a run up first or dive off something high up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be making notes guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the biggest turn on I have is knowing that the lady is enjoying everything, cumming hard. So yeah knowing what she wants is majorly important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prior discussion and agreement with both the guy and the woman. "

It would help to get to know the Woman/Man before you meet with a little online messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me the biggest turn on I have is knowing that the lady is enjoying everything, cumming hard. So yeah knowing what she wants is majorly important."

Yup, have to agree with this

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We only play in clubs. We find the friendly open atmosphere there makes it easy to discuss openly likes and dislikes before moving on to deliver the likes.

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown

I normally stat off slow, only putting some of it in. And if they are ok with that I'll still go nice and slow till I'm in all the way. Nice and slow. Till I here fuck me fast or hard. I have to oblige. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gawd no, jackhammers are only good for digging holes in roads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, before I meet someone new, we have already discussed our likes, and what we would potentially like to get up to.

Going like a jackhammer, has never come up lol, but if encouraged to do so during the meet, I might oblige

I think it's a good idea, to have an idea of expectations, but not 100% necessary.

After all, I was "entertaining" a non swinging lady I'd met, I wouldn't stop to run through a list of "do's and don't's" just some communication, as things progress.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting how no guys have really said that let the woman controle the tempo of the sex maybey some guys like to be sat on heverly or fast well till that slip and hit the bone the yowl that let out girls can be taken for pleasure don't you find

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I said that exactly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you meet a girl or couple for the first or second time how many of you talk and ask the lady what she likes and how many go like a jackhammer with the staminer of a stallion be honest "

I don't even understand what you're asking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet ladies who I've been talking with for a while, so always have an idea what they like. But I'm definitely guilty of trying too hard to find out too much about what she likes, rather than just seeing what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you meet a girl or couple for the first or second time how many of you talk and ask the lady what she likes and how many go like a jackhammer with the staminer of a stallion be honest "

How many ladies ask the guy what he likes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you meet a girl or couple for the first or second time how many of you talk and ask the lady what she likes and how many go like a jackhammer with the staminer of a stallion be honest

How many ladies ask the guy what he likes?"

Almost zero!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just trial and error surely?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will give you an update after my meet

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