FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked - with no prior contact?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anybody ever been blocked by somebody else here that you have never even looked at, never mind contacted?

We have history on so any links we click come up a different colour, but we've noticed a few times now while browsing profiles and new pics that profiles block you...even though we have never looked/messaged before?

Is this common? It's not even local people, one was from USA? C x

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

People may have looked at you, decided that they have no interest in you and blocked you to filter you out of their searches, I wouldn't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, this happens. I find it randomly in the chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates."

It's rare but we have done it, we might read a profile and

a) not like the sound of it or the person who has written it.

b) clearly not be suited to what they are looking for or vice versa.

We also occasionally block people if we read their posts in the forum and there is something that offends us.

not that I'm suggesting for a minute that any of those would apply to you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates.

It's rare but we have done it, we might read a profile and

a) not like the sound of it or the person who has written it.

b) clearly not be suited to what they are looking for or vice versa.

We also occasionally block people if we read their posts in the forum and there is something that offends us.

not that I'm suggesting for a minute that any of those would apply to you guys

Exactly the same.....big block list here

Mostly as a result of profiles....it's just a filter to avoid further contact/time wasting on all sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People may have looked at you, decided that they have no interest in you and blocked you to filter you out of their searches, I wouldn't worry about it."

"I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates.

It's rare but we have done it, we might read a profile and

a) not like the sound of it or the person who has written it.

b) clearly not be suited to what they are looking for or vice versa.

We also occasionally block people if we read their posts in the forum and there is something that offends us.

not that I'm suggesting for a minute that any of those would apply to you guys

Exactly the same.....big block list here

Mostly as a result of profiles....it's just a filter to avoid further contact/time wasting on all sides"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates."

Ditto, but usually only those with regular status updates advertising the perils,dramas and joys in their life, in the style of Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked people that I or my partner have past with who we don't want to see our couples profile. But I don't really block anyone unless they deserve it. I try not to judge a book by its cover

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By *randnew23sumsCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"People may have looked at you, decided that they have no interest in you and blocked you to filter you out of their searches, I wouldn't worry about it."

We sometimes do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates."

You haven't blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

experience has taught us to block quickly - just stops the mither of polite conversations when clearly unsuitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone block you Telford cpl is beyond me, you are smoking hot !!???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People may have looked at you, decided that they have no interest in you and blocked you to filter you out of their searches, I wouldn't worry about it."

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I've found that I've accidentally blocked people. From time to time in the chat room the user list 'jumps' and if it happens as you click on a name to see the profile it can happen. It can also happen when on a phone or tablet with clumsy fingers.

I like to think that when I come a across a profile that has blocked me this is what's happened as I've never done anything to warrant it (in my opinion I know).

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Our block list is quite big and yes we have blocked people without any prior contact, but we rarely block people anymore as we are now heavy users of the private note tool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do block people who have viewed me that I have no interest in talking to ....very rude I know ....but just in case. Xxxx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates.

Ditto, but usually only those with regular status updates advertising the perils,dramas and joys in their life, in the style of Facebook "

I just went to get my wheelie bin in and am about to put some laundry in to wash.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates.

Ditto, but usually only those with regular status updates advertising the perils,dramas and joys in their life, in the style of Facebook

I just went to get my wheelie bin in and am about to put some laundry in to wash."

You jest, but we see that sort of thing a lot...

"Just put the kids to bed, now a nice cuppa with my pjs on".

Cheers for that! C x

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I've done this a few times, just browsing through forums and finding certain individuals that, well, just get on my nerves by what they've wrote so it keeps em from my door lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it hapends to me too op, they think they are so up to themselves that they think I will contact them even tho they are miles away plus I never looked at their profiles either before lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block loads and get blocked, I don't worry about it though, plenty people on site to correspond with that not blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your active in the forums some people block you for posting things they didn't like. Don't know why because it doesn't stop them seeing anything else in the forums you post but their logic seems to dictate that you may try to message them at some point.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have blocked people who live too close to me for my comfort and I expect theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anybody ever been blocked by somebody else here that you have never even looked at, never mind contacted?

Is this common? It's not even local people, one was from USA? C x"

If we come across a profile where the cpl or single state 'white British only' or some such shit we block.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates.

Ditto, but usually only those with regular status updates advertising the perils,dramas and joys in their life, in the style of Facebook

I just went to get my wheelie bin in and am about to put some laundry in to wash."

.......................

You are so on the money there...These posts can sometimes make me wonder...laughing though. I hope you get a good drying day...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"People may have looked at you, decided that they have no interest in you and blocked you to filter you out of their searches, I wouldn't worry about it.

I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates.

It's rare but we have done it, we might read a profile and

a) not like the sound of it or the person who has written it.

b) clearly not be suited to what they are looking for or vice versa.

We also occasionally block people if we read their posts in the forum and there is something that offends us.

not that I'm suggesting for a minute that any of those would apply to you guys

Exactly the same.....big block list here

Mostly as a result of profiles....it's just a filter to avoid further contact/time wasting on all sides

This!

Plus people who leave and then come back a week (or in many cases a day!) later under a different name with the same old pics.

Some seem to think people have short memories.

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By *nigmatistMan
over a year ago

Rowlands Gill

I got a wink the other day from a couple and when I tried to look at their profile, I dicovered that I was blocked. That had me confused for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes if I'm feeling naughty, I look at the list of new blokes who have just joined and block them! Isn't that bad. So glad I got that off my chest

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We block people as a type of filter.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Am always blocked.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Sometimes if I'm feeling naughty, I look at the list of new blokes who have just joined and block them! Isn't that bad. So glad I got that off my chest

Ooooo that's soooo mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes blocked loads and never even spoke a bit weird. I suppose some folk look decide your not there type and block as matter of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but its not surprising. I scare men with my preference and I can be a total sarcastic bitch on the forums.

Oh well i think ill live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Am always blocked.

Can't think why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked people that have said things in the forum that I don't like, bit pointless really but feel it's sort of a way of saying I think you're a wanker!

When on cam I'm guilty of blocking a few people that are viewing my cam I'll then leave the room and re-enter so they can't view my cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Am always blocked.

Can't think why."

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked people by accident scrolling through the cam chats ,, so easy to do when using phone app ,, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes its a mistake sometimes is a lot of sheep following the leader if a mate of theirs has blocked someone they all follow. ignore and move on lol its their loss not yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if the profile is not someone I want to meet. Usually becouse of whet they have written, some profiles wouldn't meet themselves lol.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

I often block people who appear on my local news feed with constant statuses like 'I need my balls emptying' or 'I want a pussy to abuse'! I don't want my news feed being filled up with people who I do not ever want contact with, even without reading their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fairly long block list it seems, but it seems to work to filter out the people who don't fit what you're after or you don't fit them either..

They're obviously all very nice people in their own right, but if they want something completely different to me it's sometimes easier to just remove them from the results completely.

I'm sure that I feature on many block lists..

Bizarrely, I was recently sent a friend request, responded and accepted and then was promptly blocked 24 hours later...

Very strange...

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

"Has anybody ever been blocked by somebody else here that you have never even looked at, never mind contacted?

Yes...not many though and no idea why...and not bothered why either!!

Is this common? It's not even local people, one was from USA? C x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People may have looked at you, decided that they have no interest in you and blocked you to filter you out of their searches, I wouldn't worry about it."

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"People may have looked at you, decided that they have no interest in you and blocked you to filter you out of their searches, I wouldn't worry about it.

yes, there are some who pro-actively block - and fair play to them, they have obviously decided they have no interest for whatever reason, so they are doing you both a favour in the long run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have been blocked by people we have never looked at but also had abusive messages from people for no reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to block people that live too near to me from looking at the local updates.

It's rare but we have done it, we might read a profile and

a) not like the sound of it or the person who has written it.

b) clearly not be suited to what they are looking for or vice versa.

We also occasionally block people if we read their posts in the forum and there is something that offends us.

not that I'm suggesting for a minute that any of those would apply to you guys

Exactly the same.....big block list here

Mostly as a result of profiles....it's just a filter to avoid further contact/time wasting on all sides"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've blocked people that I or my partner have past with who we don't want to see our couples profile. But I don't really block anyone unless they deserve it. I try not to judge a book by its cover"

Again.....this attitude that blocking is some sort of punishment "unless they deserve it". Blocking saves so much time, mine and theirs. If I would never be interested in someone for whatever reason I block them, then there are no accidental messages, time saved. I don't do it because they have been naughty

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"I often block people who appear on my local news feed with constant statuses like 'I need my balls emptying' or 'I want a pussy to abuse'! I don't want my news feed being filled up with people who I do not ever want contact with, even without reading their profile

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was blocked by a friend of a friend we both had met. Id never spoke to her in my life. Lol.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Yeah, this happens. I find it randomly in the chat rooms.

This. For some reason I find it is mostly single guys that do it to other guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have blocked guys because I know they have been with people who have unprotected sex. And its us gays who get the bad name ;("

As long as you use protection they you are no more at risk from them than from someone who's history you don't know at all

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I agree

yep i do this too also the guys that upload 8 cock pics at one time or people that are always have moaning status'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking is a sport here ... They get bored and block .

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By *otts7747Man
over a year ago

nottingham

somebody messaged me,then blocked me without me replying.xx

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Yes I've blocked people who I've never been in contact with for various reasons including I don't want to see their status or pics in my local updates x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

All the time, don't mind either, however, I (him) do like to know who blocked who so go to send a message which reveals who did what, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I've blocked people who I've never been in contact with for various reasons including I don't want to see their status or pics in my local updates x"

Ditto

I don't feel I need to read the ever changing drama relating to people just because they happen to live within a reasonable distance of me

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I just came across a profile yesterday that had blocked me. I've never spoken to them...but I know they know my lying cunt ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one in block . lol and really would you wish to chat to the people who blocked you ... I think every ones had a very lucky escape ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked after normal chit chat messaging to a couple,now they have just message me would I like to meet up lol .

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