FabSwingers.com forum: help and advice please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have come across a girl on here and would love to meet.

The issue is i used to teach her at college. In my head its going to go one of 2 ways.

1. She love the idea of fucking her old college tutor.

2. She will run a mile and tell friends ect.

The problem is its a small town and everyone knows everyone and every thing.

I have sent a msg saying hi but she will have no idea its me.

What to do?

Men i know you will say go for it (well most will).

But ladies would you go with an old teacher or tutor if given the chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you mad??! You live in a small town and are willing to risk your professional reputation for a potential fuck. Think with your big head ffs. Plenty if other people in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have come across a girl on here and would love to meet.

The issue is i used to teach her at college. In my head its going to go one of 2 ways.

1. She love the idea of fucking her old college tutor.

2. She will run a mile and tell friends ect.

The problem is its a small town and everyone knows everyone and every thing.

I have sent a msg saying hi but she will have no idea its me.

What to do?

Men i know you will say go for it (well most will).

But ladies would you go with an old teacher or tutor if given the chance? "

I personally wouldn't, but then I wouldn't meet anyone from my village regardless of their profession

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you mad??! You live in a small town and are willing to risk your professional reputation for a potential fuck. Think with your big head ffs. Plenty if other people in here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you mad??! You live in a small town and are willing to risk your professional reputation for a potential fuck. Think with your big head ffs. Plenty if other people in here."

This....

Think it would be a mistake tbh...but your choice...keep us updated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all, how long ago did you teach her? If she is no longer a student then surely your professional reputation is safe (or am I being a bit naive here?)

Second, she is on here for the same reason you are so if she was to tell everyone about you, she would also be telling everyone about herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any of my old teachers contacted me, and the first thing i saw was an image of their cock, i'd just laugh and yeah i would tell my mates and they'd laugh as well.

I'm pretty immature though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think deep down you know the answer to this...

Professional suicide.

As a tutor or teacher you are put in the difficult position of having to be squeaky clean. Fab embraces all walks of life, but you know that society isn't that tolerant.

Tutor? A swinger? Pervert woukd end up being the headline on the Southport Visitor. The fact she is on here does not guarantee discretion.

Also depending on how old she was when you first taught her would have a catastrophic impact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the posts.

I taught her at college she was 18 then and now 22.

I dont live in the town nor teach there any longer. The issue comes from having friends there.

I know i shouldnt but then the erge to is great.

Same concept as being married and being on here as a single, which so many do.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Don't do it! I'm sure you have read the stories in the paper and thought of the teacher "you stupid fuck". It's really not worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you mad??! You live in a small town and are willing to risk your professional reputation for a potential fuck. Think with your big head ffs. Plenty if other people in here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are that you should block her immediately.

If you've stumbled across her profile, if she's a site supporter she will be be able to see who's looked at her and there's a good chance she may have already looked at your profile.

Yes, I agree that if she were to 'out' you she would also be 'outing' herself, but she probably has a lot less to lose.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

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"Thank you all for the posts.

I taught her at college she was 18 then and now 22.

I dont live in the town nor teach there any longer. The issue comes from having friends there.

I know i shouldnt but then the erge to is great.

Same concept as being married and being on here as a single, which so many do. "
As a teacher myself in college who teaches a wide range of adults it would be morally and ethically incorrect to even consider it regardless of how long ago I taught someone. Consider what they might say to their friends. Think with your big head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you all for the posts.

I taught her at college she was 18 then and now 22.

I dont live in the town nor teach there any longer. The issue comes from having friends there.

All of the above.. Put on your best Nikes and run away man..

I know i shouldnt but then the erge to is great.

Same concept as being married and being on here as a single, which so many do. As a teacher myself in college who teaches a wide range of adults it would be morally and ethically incorrect to even consider it regardless of how long ago I taught someone. Consider what they might say to their friends. Think with your big head

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