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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why is it that the women want face pics added to the messages when they either don't have a profile photo or photos of their own face in the gallery but expect the guy to send his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can!

If we don't like there's plenty that will.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Not all of us do, but we want to see who we are chatting to, so if we want to take it further we know what you look like.

I've chatted to many men without looking at their profiles, only to think oops.... Always look first now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If theres not a face pic in the profile my wife will still chat if its a really nice message and profile. If you want it to go any furthur than a quick chat there has to be a face pic sent to her. I know most men send a willy pic and expect her to go weak at the knees but thats not how it works. Theres more to attraction than the size of your dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If theres not a face pic in the profile my wife will still chat if its a really nice message and profile. If you want it to go any furthur than a quick chat there has to be a face pic sent to her. I know most men send a willy pic and expect her to go weak at the knees but thats not how it works. Theres more to attraction than the size of your dick."

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Not all of us do, but we want to see who we are chatting to, so if we want to take it further we know what you look like.

I've chatted to many men without looking at their profiles, only to think oops.... Always look first now. "

You and me both...

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By *asker10Man
over a year ago

london

Always happy to show a face pic on request. Like the idea that they do have some standards though. The worst is when someone does not look like their pics.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

CANTERBURY

Everyone has their own rules which is cool. If you aren't happy with something then don't do it. If you don't want to send a face pic then that is your shout. If a woman won't then speak to you then that is life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can run their profile how they wish, you are not obliged to message them if it bothers you but personally I think its only polite to attach a face pic if you make first contact. If they don't fancy you then no time is wasted chatting and no awkward moments when a face pic is sent later and there's no attraction. You wouldn't approach someone in a bar with a bag over your head or your cock out so why do it here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can run their profile how they wish, you are not obliged to message them if it bothers you but personally I think its only polite to attach a face pic if you make first contact. If they don't fancy you then no time is wasted chatting and no awkward moments when a face pic is sent later and there's no attraction. You wouldn't approach someone in a bar with a bag over your head or your cock out so why do it here ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess at some point we're hoping to meet up and at some point we all want know what we look like before we do (how will we know each other when we meet!? ) So why not as early as possible

Always happy to provide a face pic when asked!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"why is it that the women want face pics added to the messages when they either don't have a profile photo or photos of their own face in the gallery but expect the guy to send his"

Because we have vaginas

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We mainly message / receive messages from couples but i find strange is when they ask for a face pic without sending one with their request.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

know what you mean, don't understand why someone would send a message to someone they haven't seen a pic of, which is why women request them.

But i guess many people aren't shallow and don't go off looks, or are shallow and don't care about looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it that the women want face pics added to the messages when they either don't have a profile photo or photos of their own face in the gallery but expect the guy to send his"

Its the lads fault we gave them the power to ask for what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can run their profile how they wish, you are not obliged to message them if it bothers you but personally I think its only polite to attach a face pic if you make first contact. If they don't fancy you then no time is wasted chatting and no awkward moments when a face pic is sent later and there's no attraction. You wouldn't approach someone in a bar with a bag over your head or your cock out so why do it here ?"

It would make for an interesting night though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can run their profile how they wish, you are not obliged to message them if it bothers you but personally I think its only polite to attach a face pic if you make first contact. If they don't fancy you then no time is wasted chatting and no awkward moments when a face pic is sent later and there's no attraction. You wouldn't approach someone in a bar with a bag over your head or your cock out so why do it here ?

It would make for an interesting night though "

There are probably clubs where this is the norm !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they like having all the Aces up their sleeve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can run their profile how they wish, you are not obliged to message them if it bothers you but personally I think its only polite to attach a face pic if you make first contact. If they don't fancy you then no time is wasted chatting and no awkward moments when a face pic is sent later and there's no attraction. You wouldn't approach someone in a bar with a bag over your head or your cock out so why do it here ?

It would make for an interesting night though

There are probably clubs where this is the norm !"

If there isn't, there should be. Think it's a goer ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because they like having all the Aces up their sleeve"

I think they just like to see if there's any attraction without wasting any time. An inbox with 50 plus messages, they're not going to send 50 plus messages back asking for face pics !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a pic back if I receive one. The amount of men who don't read profile and don't send a pic and think you will reply is staggering sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its double standards and its even funnier as they say ur not my type even tho u given a pic and they don't got one, are they prime ministers wife? don't think so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah its double standards and its even funnier as they say ur not my type even tho u given a pic and they don't got one, are they prime ministers wife? don't think so lol "

Why would they send a pic back if they're not interested ?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Yeah its double standards and its even funnier as they say ur not my type even tho u given a pic and they don't got one, are they prime ministers wife? don't think so lol "

Is the prime ministers wife hot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah its double standards and its even funnier as they say ur not my type even tho u given a pic and they don't got one, are they prime ministers wife? don't think so lol

Why would they send a pic back if they're not interested ?"
As you could see why they said no kinda thing and see if there was a match lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nearly all my private photos are face photos. i have nothing to hide and just to be polite i send a few with a first msg any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah its double standards and its even funnier as they say ur not my type even tho u given a pic and they don't got one, are they prime ministers wife? don't think so lol

Is the prime ministers wife hot? "
I wouldn't say hot but kinda sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they can!

If we don't like there's plenty that will."

I have private face pics and will return mine if I am attracted to the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah its double standards and its even funnier as they say ur not my type even tho u given a pic and they don't got one, are they prime ministers wife? don't think so lol

Why would they send a pic back if they're not interested ?As you could see why they said no kinda thing and see if there was a match lol."

What's the point ? Some very immature people on here that can't take rejection so you just know some might be abusive about their looks to make themselves feel better. The fact someone has been polite enough to reply with a not my type is commendable, no need to waste any further time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah its double standards and its even funnier as they say ur not my type even tho u given a pic and they don't got one, are they prime ministers wife? don't think so lol

Why would they send a pic back if they're not interested ?As you could see why they said no kinda thing and see if there was a match lol.

What's the point ? Some very immature people on here that can't take rejection so you just know some might be abusive about their looks to make themselves feel better. The fact someone has been polite enough to reply with a not my type is commendable, no need to waste any further time. "
?ur right as they are immature so gues that's why they hide the pics as they cant take rejection as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it that the women want face pics added to the messages when they either don't have a profile photo or photos of their own face in the gallery but expect the guy to send his"

If you don't like don't message them. You are not being forced to do anything by anyone. I want to see a face pic and will send one in return if there is a chance we will meet. Mine aren't set to public cos I value discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it that the women want face pics added to the messages when they either don't have a profile photo or photos of their own face in the gallery but expect the guy to send his

Its the lads fault we gave them the power to ask for what they want "

You could always leave. That will show the power crazy ladies who's boss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let those women have their power. you can spot those sort of profiles a mile away after you`ve been onhere awhile

i avoid them

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

If I send a message first I attach a face pic, if someone messages me first I expect a face pic. That way the recipient of a first message can make an informed choice as to what, if anything, is their reply. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it that the women want face pics added to the messages when they either don't have a profile photo or photos of their own face in the gallery but expect the guy to send his

Its the lads fault we gave them the power to ask for what they want

You could always leave. That will show the power crazy ladies who's boss! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it that the women want face pics added to the messages when they either don't have a profile photo or photos of their own face in the gallery but expect the guy to send his

Its the lads fault we gave them the power to ask for what they want

You could always leave. That will show the power crazy ladies who's boss! "

No I wouldnt cause of tje ones that are worth it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face is here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come to the conclusion that the reason why some don't got a face pic on or asks for one, is cos they don't like rejection, but quite happy to give reasons why they don't like you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send my profile pic, might as well get that out of the way, it's going to be asked for at some stage anyway. It's not as though it's a huge rigmarole to do it. I'm of the mind, I enjoy sex, I've got nothing to hide, if people know who I am, so what, what I do in my time has no bearing whatsoever on anything I do outside of this side of my life. If people choose to hide their identity for whatever reason, that's fine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because she said so so stop being a ingratiate and send it.

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