FabSwingers.com forum: Wether it is better to be a nice bloke or a bastard !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello chaps and Ladies , but this is mainly addressed at the ladies. So guys go make a coffee eat a twix or maybe two penguins.

Girls please be honest , what do you look for in a bloke? I have three verifications all from brilliant friends , who I love sharing time with talking to and having a natter.

All my veries say what a nice bloke I am but would I be better being a git and may be not just being such a nce bloke !

sorry rant over been a bad day and I said something rather rotten to some one , who now thinks I am a cad, and I really kind of glum and I don't think sorry is going to do it.

ahh maybe there is my answer , just be myself and nice , sex isn't the be all and end all ( don't read that bit guys ) I really enjoy great company .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be nice is my fave in a guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cool one nil the good guys x

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

I "think" women look for guys that can be tender yet aggressive at the right moment when it comes to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself, no point trying to be something your not because people will see through it in the end. Just my 2p

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

You've answered your own question..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got nearly all my meets because I have come across as a nice guy. Well so I'm told lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why try to be someone you're not, just be yourself ........it's not always the case of nice guys cumming last or words to that effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Never be a complete bastard

An air of a bad boy under the surface is rather nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to be nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks chaps , I used o be on here ages ago and cane back after a long absence , I think my values have changed and what I am looking for has changed , used to be a meet and sex bloke , but now more a meet and fancy a coffee/ tea and do you like flying kites kind of chap x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've answered your own question..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just constantly sarcastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have got nearly all my meets because I have come across as a nice guy. Well so I'm told lol

He comes nicely ladies.

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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Stirlingshire

"Just be yourself, no point trying to be something your not because people will see through it in the end. Just my 2p"

this

Dont try and be the type of person you think someone will like, be You! Think your own way! Its the only way to be, you cant please everyone so please yourself and the all will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice please.

Saying sorry, along with flowers and choccies works with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has lots of social verifications saying how nice and lovely he is and no meet for sex ones I tend to think he's a nice man but not nice enough for a fuck. Nice is nice but I want interesting,adventurous,thought provoking,manly and a great fuck. In a nutshell,be nice but not too nice. Be a devil

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Be a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a really nice guy...I just surprise some with how much a dirty bastard I am.

however..its not really in my personality to want to be a 'bastard' in the emotional scales of things

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

The meets I enjoy most are where the guys nice and we get along well having a laugh. However, when it gets to the serious sexy bit he turns into a bit of an animal...but then I enjoy being ravished ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have got nearly all my meets because I have come across as a nice guy. Well so I'm told lol

He comes nicely ladies."
glad you said nicely and not quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ha ha thanks chaps , and thank you for some really lovey emails too, yes I don't think I could be a git, though I was one today , I will give some one the time and space and respect they more than deserve . They are a pretty amazing person and I hope one day to earn their forgiveness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be nice at first to reel them in.. then become a bit of a bastard later on to keep em..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be nice at first to reel them in.. then become a bit of a bastard later on to keep em..

Sometimes it works, sometimes you just get dropped, it's a bit of a gamble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are needs and then there are wants.

And even a total ballbag knows they need to be nice to get what they want.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"Hello chaps and Ladies , but this is mainly addressed at the ladies. So guys go make a coffee eat a twix or maybe two penguins.

Girls please be honest , what do you look for in a bloke? I have three verifications all from brilliant friends , who I love sharing time with talking to and having a natter.

All my veries say what a nice bloke I am but would I be better being a git and may be not just being such a nce bloke !

sorry rant over been a bad day and I said something rather rotten to some one , who now thinks I am a cad, and I really kind of glum and I don't think sorry is going to do it.

ahh maybe there is my answer , just be myself and nice , sex isn't the be all and end all ( don't read that bit guys ) I really enjoy great company .

About sums it up for me mate I enjoy great company also and if something happens bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww just be yourself, I enjoy the good company first for me it makes the sex much more enjoyable if it happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aww just be yourself, I enjoy the good company first for me it makes the sex much more enjoyable if it happens.

Xxxx thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being nice is way more rewarding in general

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By *exyhornycplCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Just be YOU and TRUE XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to be nice and also honest with people, Some appreciate it some don't,

Not going to chance and be someone am not just to get a meet with someone who goes for the 'Bad boys'

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Be nice until you get me naked then I want you to be a bastard. Does that make sense?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Be nice until you get me naked then I want you to be a bastard. Does that make sense?

Totally!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've met enough bastards over the years. I prefer the guys I meet on here to be good guys (but not that good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it George Clooney in From dusk til Dawn that said "i might be a bastard but i'm not a fucking bastard"

I think that about sums it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I "think" women look for guys that can be tender yet aggressive at the right moment when it comes to sex.

10 out of 10

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys all great reply's thank you

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Do what comes naturally for you.

Some like a bastard, some like a good guy, all like a guy to be themselves. So be that, and it'll all fall into place!

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Nothing wrong with being nice and polite, with just enough hint of kink that can be unleashed once the kissing starts.

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

As my Granny used to say....

"It's nice to be important, but It's more important to be nice."

Jenny xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello chaps and Ladies , but this is mainly addressed at the ladies. So guys go make a coffee eat a twix or maybe two penguins.

Girls please be honest , what do you look for in a bloke? I have three verifications all from brilliant friends , who I love sharing time with talking to and having a natter.

All my veries say what a nice bloke I am but would I be better being a git and may be not just being such a nce bloke !

sorry rant over been a bad day and I said something rather rotten to some one , who now thinks I am a cad, and I really kind of glum and I don't think sorry is going to do it.

ahh maybe there is my answer , just be myself and nice , sex isn't the be all and end all ( don't read that bit guys ) I really enjoy great company .

You've had 3 meets in 5 months that's good going for a single guy, I'd suggest just carry on doing what your doing your doing fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i'm honest most men start off nice till they get what they want and then they turn into complete bastards. I'm not saying all men are like that but you looking at a girl who's just been burned seriously..so i'm bound to think this way...x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello chaps and Ladies , but this is mainly addressed at the ladies. So guys go make a coffee eat a twix or maybe two penguins.

Girls please be honest , what do you look for in a bloke? I have three verifications all from brilliant friends , who I love sharing time with talking to and having a natter.

All my veries say what a nice bloke I am but would I be better being a git and may be not just being such a nce bloke !

sorry rant over been a bad day and I said something rather rotten to some one , who now thinks I am a cad, and I really kind of glum and I don't think sorry is going to do it.

ahh maybe there is my answer , just be myself and nice , sex isn't the be all and end all ( don't read that bit guys ) I really enjoy great company .

You've had 3 meets in 5 months that's good going for a single guy, I'd suggest just carry on doing what your doing your doing fine "

All really good friends

happy social meets leading to brill friendships

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I like a nice guy with a naughty twinkle in his eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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