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over a year ago
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Admiration for your openess of discussion.Most stds are treated with strong anti-biotics.Results are given very quickly if treatment is required.Some tests take longer.I've been for a check up a few times for peace of mind with no problems on a better safe than sorry note.And you never know you might pick up while there lol.Joking aside though at least you know she is gonna be ok which is better than not knowing ???
Bit like the tree surgeon who was skillful but did have a tree that crushed a house - he got a lot of trade from it because it can happen and his insurance paid out.
Ok I didn't pick up there and there are all walks of life in there.
Quite rightly it can be spread in many ways which is often overlooked.The O he had a condom is not a major saftey factor.
Risk is to be minimised by common sense and assessment.Yeah that may sound harsh lol.
Prostitues are often seen as dirt bags - the reality is that they are often cleaner than the ole bird up the club "vanilla".Most pros use protection for everything.Some pros do unprotected for extra cash - desperation to pay for something that is likely to kill them soon anyway.Having said that some are of class lol if you get my drift.
Thing is too,there is a growing tendency now for people to meet at clubs-seems appealling in ways,especially for ladies who like lots of attention too.Happens at homes etc too.
Another reason is some men "cough" not me ! are so unreliable and for a multitude or reasons I dont need to mention make arrnagements the lady gets all horned up and guess what ?? yeah you book the babysitter,spend ages preparing yourself,give the house a good clean and perhaps excited or nervous or both and he dont show up! Even worse he uses a pathetic excuse or even worse just dont say nothing!
Each to their own I say and live and let live.Tempted to visit a club myself might give that one a miss though ! lol.Been to one years ago it was alright-as a couple-didn't play though and was probably one of the worst nights out ever in fairness...why ?? not the men I have to say it was the couples,because they were a couple think they are elite...although I can be loud I can be quiet,may be I am too busy thinking... a quick reckon up in my head at the time worked out that by playing that night,the chances of being infected were very high.All from the conversation of the couple who were nice in fairness but history was appalling,not slating them for the volume of people they had been with,thats ok but the fact they had without being checked up ever.
Not the number of people who people have been with it only takes one to infect.
Honesty is a great factor but rare nowadays.If people could honestly say they had contact with x y z etc then people could think ok obviously there is an element of risk but perhaps minimal.
So as a guide to minimise but by no means a 100% :
If having contact with anyone in any way - rule number 1 get a check up regular - frequency depending on lifestyle and the peolpe in contact with.
2.If he/she or heshe or what ever they are no offence but there all sorts some convincing some confusing.. appears that a pair of gloves or condoms for oral are required - is it really worth it ?? if worn would it be enjoyable ??
3 condoms in penetration - a minefield really,cant say I like them but I do use them. Unless in a long term,with minimal risk.Chances are prior though she has had it in her mouth,I have had my mouth down there,we have kissed,my fingers have probably been around it and in her.Then I grab a condom with my hands and pop it on,wow every bugger is really happy now.Yeah the foreplay was awesome but we are now having protected sex so give us a clap lol.Realistically it minimises pregnancy and spread of stds to a degree.Perhaps more of a mind over a matter for many though.
4 Washing,ok the majority are liklely to have a good clean prior but there are a few dirty buggers lol.May be a clean at other times is good too.Your thinking this is turning into a pantomine...it can be but most need to visit the loo or what ever some point and of course we all wash our hands after.. dont have to announce what your doing or whatever but a good thorough clean with anti bac soap can be a simple method of minimising.
5 Dont be fooled - before the internet and sites like this and others even facebook lol people have had "private lives" affairs and discrete meetings have been going on since adam and eve.The bloke who works hard every day and been loyal to his wife for the last 40 years,they met in the school primary field,lovely couple.Truthfully though she got bored of him years ago sexually but everything else was ok,so he or she decided to spicen it a bit with having liasions with this really nice person who did amazing things to them. They thought they were safe because they said they only had eyes for them and one day they would be living together on a nice desert island somewhere...Truthfully though they were having liasions with their siblings too who were also very secretive.
6 So the faithfull one now has a dose,peeing with this sensation had been going on for years it was thought it was normal.The one who gave it to them was ok,they opened their eyes one day see the truth that they were being screwed by a person who had being screwing everything and got treated in fear.
7 Your reading this you hate me for this - do I look bothered - I'm being blunt ... it's the truth which some dont like - smell ... would you eat food from a restaurant if it smelt off ??? ok I am smiling now too. Some smell and taste can be enough to get you into a restaurant becauce it smells good ! but if it is rancid what would you do ???
I once fingered a girl and without her knowing I kinda disappeared politely without her ever noticing as to why. She did say though "don't you ever smell your finger like that again!" in my mind 'don't worry I wont ! '
Ok yes ladies there are times when smell is slightly different.Just had a smell ? lol. Its natural with hormones and to be fair ladies many will say semen tastes funny with what we eat ?? it works both ways.So no need to overboard with the smell thing but if it smells like it aint seen water in a while it may reflect negligence in other ways lets say.
8 These clubs ... they charge for entrance well most do. Some let single ladies in for free.Most charge a lot more for men,to the point where the men think they should get laid but in fact they dont..maybe that money could been better spent on a pro ?? There are "events and goings on" perhaps unheard of by many that will only allow people to play even if protected if they go ahead with an on site Aids test.
There is a lot of speculation about this and basically how accurate etc they are.They were not all that good years ago but now they are as good as them used by the NHS.Think they are about £20 ish.
Thats the only cost involved in these perhaps more unheard of events. Respect if these known clubs were compulsive of these tests as part of the fee to enter ???
Yes the other risks are there but treatable by anti-biotics.Maybe the people attending should be able to prove they have been checked regular.You don't get a certificate but there are probably ways of showing.
9 bisexual play,no quibbles here I love to see 2 or more ladies getting it on.Yeah seeing the toys etc too, but that massive looking thing they are using giving so much pleasure,how clean is it after its done ann, mary and may be even eric... its same priciple as jack down the club ?? but this piece of latex is loveable it stays up for ever and never lets anyone down,true but it could be riddled ...so loveable why not get a few of em and colour coded or something ???
10 After reading that lot nobody is safe ?? well simple really dont play with anyone other than yourself ...
A lenghty post with a few pointers,it aint perhaps going to stop or have much affect but it may make many more aware - the key factor !! Realistically pantomine style aint gonna happen etc but if everyone is aware they may well think and perhaps minimise.Hopefully though everyone will jam the appointment hotline for the Gum clinic.
Research reveals that Chlamydia - Ghonerea and syphilis are at an all time high in many areas. Thats the people who have been checked the numbers perhaps higher to those unknown.
Sometimes people say stuff that aint true too... sad really but it happens.. |
hope all goes well hun
xx
At the very least, a trip to a club should mean making an automatic appointment for a check-up a couple of weeks later.
It only needs one person there sharing something more than their body...
