FabSwingers.com forum: why is it so hard for asians to get a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it so hard for a asian guy like me to get a meet on here??

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

2 weeks, 1 meet and you think it's hard

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

It's tough for all single guys, regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a hell of a good-looking guy. Unfortunately, some women just have a preference for Caucasian males. Perhaps in the same way people might prefer blondes over brunettes, etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol, i was on here about a year and half ago. And was meeting womeb left right centre. Iv come back again and seems to be much harder in getting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your last pic is a bit menacing,I prefer a happy,kind face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being Asian has nothing to do with it. It usually takes months for any single bloke to get a meet.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Lol, i was on here about a year and half ago. And was meeting womeb left right centre. Iv come back again and seems to be much harder in getting a meet. "

stay positive and I am sure you will again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your last pic is a bit menacing,I prefer a happy,kind face. "

Lol ahhh i dont know how to smile in pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being Asian has nothing to do with it. It usually takes months for any single bloke to get a meet."

It does in some cases. I've seen plenty of profiles that say "No Asians/blacks", etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the site has got more men on and this happens

the site gets busier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being Asian has nothing to do with it. It usually takes months for any single bloke to get a meet.

It does in some cases. I've seen plenty of profiles that say "No Asians/blacks", etc."

Yes but you've also seen black only or no curvy etc etc. All I was pointing out that being Asian isn't why it's so hard to get a meet....It's being a single bloke.

I would suggest trying Googly eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being Asian has nothing to do with it. It usually takes months for any single bloke to get a meet.

It does in some cases. I've seen plenty of profiles that say "No Asians/blacks", etc."

ill be honest now, i have had this on my profile before as i rarely play with Black and Asian men and women but occasionally in a club if i talk to someone and connect with i will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your last pic is a bit menacing,I prefer a happy,kind face.

Lol ahhh i dont know how to smile in pictures."

Think of something funny. Put some of your personality into your profile wording. It's not all about size and how long you can go on for. People have to have the first feeling of attraction. Lots of men can do what you say,stand out from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

racism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 meet in 2 weeks. Thats like the euro numbers for 100 million getting sent to you a week early.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"Being Asian has nothing to do with it. It usually takes months for any single bloke to get a meet.

It does in some cases. I've seen plenty of profiles that say "No Asians/blacks", etc.

Yes but you've also seen black only or no curvy etc etc. All I was pointing out that being Asian isn't why it's so hard to get a meet....It's being a single bloke.

I would suggest trying Googly eyes

I want some Googly eyes

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"racism"

quite right

everyone should shag everyone

it's an outrage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"racism"

Brave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being Asian has nothing to do with it. It usually takes months for any single bloke to get a meet.

It does in some cases. I've seen plenty of profiles that say "No Asians/blacks", etc.

Yes but you've also seen black only or no curvy etc etc. All I was pointing out that being Asian isn't why it's so hard to get a meet....It's being a single bloke.

I would suggest trying Googly eyes

I want some Googly eyes

Where? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your last pic is a bit menacing,I prefer a happy,kind face. "
lol reminds of crime watch

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Being Asian has nothing to do with it. It usually takes months for any single bloke to get a meet.

It does in some cases. I've seen plenty of profiles that say "No Asians/blacks", etc."

LOL Try being over 40 then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"racism"

why is it racism?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being Asian has nothing to do with it. It usually takes months for any single bloke to get a meet.

It does in some cases. I've seen plenty of profiles that say "No Asians/blacks", etc."

I totally agree with you

Most profiles say no asians/black or no asians/white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you should do an advanced search and add in the stipulation that the women you're searching are also looking for your specifics too.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

OP it may be nothing to do with you being Asian.

It may be something else completely - the text in your profile, your interests, your pics, your username - anything!

I haven't even looked - but you seem to be fixating on something you can't change - when the real issue could be something you can.

Oh and patience of course!

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Not racism, just a preference for some. as previously said, some women only want black guys.

The bandwagon is jumped on far too readily and is becoming overcrowded with the grievance culture massive.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"racism"

rubbish..

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"racism

why is it racism?"

Yeah why. To be honest I have looked at profiles and thought "Hey Not Bad, Lets Read It". Then I see they are looking for Black men only. I don't get all upset or try to change them, I just say look at the pictures for a little longer and wish and then.... MOVE ON. Simple. Not everyone is suited to everyone. Just gotta keep looking. We are really fussy and we have a lot of reasons why we like or dislike people. One day you will find someone you like. We have a pretty decent age gap so to find people who are happy with both ends of the age group can be difficult. Also we have to work out what ages we want. So we set our age gaps around both sides of our age. Just keep looking. There is no typical answer to "why does no one want to meet".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont think its racism at all, i have recieved racist messages but not everyone is the same.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I dont think its racism at all, i have recieved racist messages but not everyone is the same. "

report them fella, no place for them and their vile attitudes on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"racism"

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"racism"

care to elaborate why?

btw, how about you meeting us for some bi play..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why the F cant i get a meet? im the best looking guy onhere

actually maybe thats why

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"racism"

Like we said, the grievance bus is overloaded at the moment.

It's a PREFERENCE!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why the F cant i get a meet? im the best looking guy onhere

actually maybe thats why

Lool funny guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why the F cant i get a meet? im the best looking guy onhere

actually maybe thats why

Nope cos I'm a minger and I don't get em either.

Have you tried Gurning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why the F cant i get a meet? im the best looking guy onhere

actually maybe thats why

I don't think he was implying that he was the best looking guy on here.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I haven't even looked - but you seem to be fixating on something you can't change - when the real issue could be something you can.

Oh and patience of course!

because he fixated on the one thing that leaves him blameless.... because that way its everyone elses fault... those mean nasty pasties.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"racism

why is it racism?

thanks for this as I couldnt put it into words but you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your last pic is a bit menacing,I prefer a happy,kind face. lol reminds of crime watch

More Bruno character for me lol.

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Why is it so hard for a asian guy like me to get a meet on here?? "

I love meeting Asian guys but so few are bisexual or like Tgirls - we all have to wait until the right people ping us, as other posters have said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet you

If you were 10 yrs older lived nearer oh and changed your name

Auds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people always pick the reason why they are finding it hard. Why do Asians, single men, fat, skinny, tall, short couples find it hard on here. How do you know that's why u are getting turned down.

U find it hard because you are looking for it. If you come on here for a laugh and don't take it serious you will get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"racism"

Yes, of course, why didn't anyone else think of that!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"racism"

What a load of shit! We don't meet Asian guys as juicy has never been attracted to any she has met so we use it as a filter to narrow down the numbers.

It has nothing to do with racism we do not think we are more superior than any one because of race. We have good friends who are Asian black. Doesn't mean we want to have sex with them. Or are you saying we would be sexually racist? We don't meet or play with gay men as I am straight so does that now mean I am homophobic aswell ffs.

Racism is threw about far to much nowadays and it is generally that the people using the word are so narrow minded. We are on here to fulfill our fantasies know one else's and a lot of people are not going to fall in to the category we want to meet. It's all down to personal preference not an ism, phobia or ist.

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By *ashes83Couple
over a year ago

wirral

your profile is great.

Can I applaud you for not having a load of dick pics yay so refreshing x

I've found a witty update often attracts people to look and message us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also having that fluff on your chin makes you look like tea bag out of prison break ... if you dont know him google him you will see what I mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also having that fluff on your chin makes you look like tea bag out of prison break ... if you dont know him google him you will see what I mean lol

He's still very handsome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also having that fluff on your chin makes you look like tea bag out of prison break ... if you dont know him google him you will see what I mean lol

No need to get personal mate.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"racism

quite right

everyone should shag everyone

it's an outrage"

hookers have to; the rest of us follow our preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 weeks, 1 meet and you think it's hard"

ahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its hard for all guys on here race isn't the issue, you get out of it what you put into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"racism"

Do you actually know what that word means?

I suggest you look it up

Not being sexually attracted to someone is not racist, there are some guys of my own race I don't fancy does that make me racist towards me

some people just are not attracted to a certain skin colour or look that does not mean they do not like them as a person nor does it make them racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own preference and I think it's more a matter of the right people looking at your profile. I don't see it as racism if people prefer to play with people of a certain race ... We have a preference for Asian couples but that doesn't mean we rule out others. We are certainly not racist by any means !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ACTUALLY I'M THE BEST LOOKING guy on fab

I'm brown beefy build sculptured beard hehe

Besides I don't give a Fook what people think of how I look that how you should think OP be confident.

Remember ladies once you go brown you don't frown lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im asian, and its not racist at all, people find different things sexually attractive. Its all good. Just concentrate on the people that do fancy u, rather than the ones that dont. And people need to stop getting personal on here

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