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Too good for you. II

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By *ackspop OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wymondham

Yesterday I asked whether anyone felt that other people/couples were out of their league or just "Too good" for them (for whatever reason). Overwhelmingly, the answer was "Yes" but also,the advice given alongside was "Go for it anyway".

Well, I just wanted to tell you that we went for it anyway and we have a meet arranged Sunday with a very beautiful lady.

Thanks for the advice.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Go you !!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

You will probably find that she's human just like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont look at anyone above or beneath me, this is not about keeping up with the joneses.

If i was to see anyone looking down at us, they would go straight out of our heads anyway.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel this way sometimes. Love the profile, love the pics and not a snowball's chance in hell. Might have to give it a go next time. Well done for getting the meet guys, good work.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I always think people are out of my league, especially when you get some toned muscley guy say he thinks you look amazing.. Just makes me think he's desparate to get his willy wet so will say anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think people are out of my league, especially when you get some toned muscley guy say he thinks you look amazing.. Just makes me think he's desparate to get his willy wet so will say anything "

You look amazing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think people are out of my league, especially when you get some toned muscley guy say he thinks you look amazing.. Just makes me think he's desparate to get his willy wet so will say anything "

I feel the exact same way!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I always think people are out of my league, especially when you get some toned muscley guy say he thinks you look amazing.. Just makes me think he's desparate to get his willy wet so will say anything

You look amazing ! "

Haha thanks

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I've never felt that anyone was too good for me, but I sometimes see couples and think "they'll THINK that they're too good for me". if that makes sense.

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also meeting someone Sunday who I think is good looking and too good for me but fuck it I'm going anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also meeting someone Sunday who I think is good looking and too good for me but fuck it I'm going anyway"

go girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not remotely intrested in leagues, if you are for us we will tell you,same as if we try to speak to you then we dont get a reply who cares.

All we want is to have fun, if people choose to refuse us the so be it.

Who are we to say what peolple like but we have nothing to lose so damn right we are going for it.

Also why we are on the subject, not all oil paintings make good art if u get what we are saying have fun guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also meeting someone Sunday who I think is good looking and too good for me but fuck it I'm going anyway

go girl! "

Well I went.....and met someone who barely looks like his photo and was married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think people are out of my league, especially when you get some toned muscley guy say he thinks you look amazing.. Just makes me think he's desparate to get his willy wet so will say anything "

That's how I feel, why would they want me

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I think loads on here are out of my league physically and in terms of looks but there's more to people than looks.

Sometimes those out of my league people fancy me anyway, because they feel differently about my shape than I do or because another aspect of me appeals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think people are out of my league, especially when you get some toned muscley guy say he thinks you look amazing.. Just makes me think he's desparate to get his willy wet so will say anything "

Absolutely feel exactly the same as you x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well I hope the meet went ok for the OP

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Don't believe in leagues, we are people not sports teams.

Have been a few couples I have thought would never be interested in me - not because they are out of my league etc, but because I'm not the most confident at times.... but have been pleasantly surprised, and hope they have been too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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That's how I feel, why would they want me "

Same here, and how to do message someone you think is too good for your when the ones you DON'T think are too good won't give you the time of day.

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon


"I'm also meeting someone Sunday who I think is good looking and too good for me but fuck it I'm going anyway

go girl!

Well I went.....and met someone who barely looks like his photo and was married "

So you were too good for him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think people are out of my league, especially when you get some toned muscley guy say he thinks you look amazing.. Just makes me think he's desparate to get his willy wet so will say anything "

And that proves one of two things:

(A) they are not above you/better than you etc. or at least don't consider themselves.

(B) it's the usual fake single guys profile. Fake pics, from a married sad do who won't/can't meet anyway....and you probably wouldn't want to....

So what to do?....go for it! In either case you have nothing to loose. Just make sure you check out a bit in case it's (B)

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I'm also meeting someone Sunday who I think is good looking and too good for me but fuck it I'm going anyway

go girl!

Well I went.....and met someone who barely looks like his photo and was married "

What a shitbag!

Did you tell him he was nothing like his photo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say anyone isnt good enough for me. I go for the attraction. No attraction no meet. No one is better than anyone else

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Sometimes I go through phases of not meeting because my confidence deserts me. At times like that, virtually everyone is out of my league.

It's all or nothing with me. I either feel ok about myself or I don't.

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By *ackspop OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wymondham


"Well I hope the meet went ok for the OP "

Thanks for asking: As if happens, Sunday was a complete waste of time and effort. She cancelled 30 mins before we were to collect her (despite the fact I texted her 2 hours prior to make sure it was still on). Reason? She couldn't contact her daughter who had gone out on the piss sat night and she still had her grandchild at the house

It gets better. She's part of a couples profile too, and they contact us late Sun evening and ask if we want to play. Really?

So I explained we couldn't due to early starts (true) then she started texting me explaining why she couldn't get out.

Annoyed doesn't cover it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone is too good for me, i believe we're all equals in here. What i do believe is that some people wouldn't be attracted to me, just as I'm not attracted to some myself. Doesn't mean i look down on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do this too and become to scared to message people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I hope the meet went ok for the OP

Thanks for asking: As if happens, Sunday was a complete waste of time and effort. She cancelled 30 mins before we were to collect her (despite the fact I texted her 2 hours prior to make sure it was still on). Reason? She couldn't contact her daughter who had gone out on the piss sat night and she still had her grandchild at the house

It gets better. She's part of a couples profile too, and they contact us late Sun evening and ask if we want to play. Really?

So I explained we couldn't due to early starts (true) then she started texting me explaining why she couldn't get out.

Annoyed doesn't cover it "

Just goes to show, looks aren't everything.

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By *ackspop OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wymondham

It wasn't even about looks really, it was about getting the wherewithal to actually get it together and go for it instead of thinking everyone else is too good for you. Oh well..

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By *he TrunkMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I never think anyone is out of my league, after all, who am I to judge.

We all like different attributes in others, and all have traits that make us both attractive and unattractive to others.

If I like the look/sound of someone I will message them. if they aren't interested that's fine, I will wait til I find another profile that catches my eye and try again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also meeting someone Sunday who I think is good looking and too good for me but fuck it I'm going anyway

go girl!

Well I went.....and met someone who barely looks like his photo and was married

What a shitbag!

Did you tell him he was nothing like his photo? "

No I didn't just told him I didn't fancy him when he asked me back to his hotel where he is staying whilst he is working here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told by a couple they were too good for me (probably were to be honest) but.. Still a bit harsh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like this a lot . I look at some of the guys that message me and know they wouldn't look twice at me outside of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like this a lot . I look at some of the guys that message me and know they wouldn't look twice at me outside of fab "

This.

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