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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

What ideas do you have for sorting this out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What ideas do you have for sorting this out?"

I suggest labelled boxes, sorted according to size and colour coordinated. That would sort things nicely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!"

You called

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the problem here?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri"

There is a forum for putting proposals forward such as this. Did you know that you can filter out unverified accounts in your searches?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha and age limits number me too meets too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the problem here?!"

You're faceless , like me. We are the problem. Well part of it and at least you have a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the problem here?!"
My problem is I'm not getting the 1000 messages mentioned in the OP

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"What ideas do you have for sorting this out?"

It's obviously everyone elses fault, so why should the OP be expected to come up with idea's. He pays his money, he expects acton.

I don't have any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here a week and trying to dictate how people use their own accounts - stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them,unless they send a pic with a message and they're hot as

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Blimey, if a web site infuriated me I would probably log off and find something more calming to look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha and age limits number me too meets too!"

Are there some words missing?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Haha and age limits number me too meets too!

Are there some words missing? "

Yes, an 'far' in front of 'age'. It's a fab UKIP post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to have a profile picture. I have a face. I always send a pic with a message.

There is so much 'freakin bitchin ere', chill out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the people who have no public pictures or just one private picture how successful are you on here?

I need a sufficient amount of pictures to be sent to me before I can even decide whether I want to speak to that person further. I expect most people require the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!"

But your profile is faceless

Are you saying its OK for you to not show your face but other who choose not to piss you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want to have a profile picture. I have a face. I always send a pic with a message.

There is so much 'freakin bitchin ere', chill out! "

yeah but your a god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the people who have no public pictures or just one private picture how successful are you on here?

I need a sufficient amount of pictures to be sent to me before I can even decide whether I want to speak to that person further. I expect most people require the same. "

I have 3/4 pics, Im quite a private guy, I like to be in control of who see's what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!"

Filter profiles without pics or veries when you search, and make your profile one worth noticing and maybe you'll stand out of 1000's of messages. Having a tiny avatar pic is only a slight step up from no pic at all to many as it still can't be seen very well

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Jezebel used to play the silhouette game....most number of silhouettes in a row on your looked at me page..

3...

I guess Most folks that look at me are safe then..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!"

Maybe do something to stand out rather than blaming the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the people who have no public pictures or just one private picture how successful are you on here?

I need a sufficient amount of pictures to be sent to me before I can even decide whether I want to speak to that person further. I expect most people require the same. "

Some people are hunters rather than hunted , they will send pics to their pray with messages and will often be very successful and capturing their pray. They don't feel the need to advertise their wares to every one preferring to keep them private and for the select few.

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

I have a faceless profile cos I don't have a head......Well, someone once told me I didn't have a good head, or was that give good head, ohhhhh I am now confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jezebel used to play the silhouette game....most number of silhouettes in a row on your looked at me page..

3...

I guess Most folks that look at me are safe then.. "

We beat you! 4 in a row

crystal

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Jezebel used to play the silhouette game....most number of silhouettes in a row on your looked at me page..

3...

I guess Most folks that look at me are safe then..

We beat you! 4 in a row

crystal"

4 here too. Yay!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Jezebel used to play the silhouette game....most number of silhouettes in a row on your looked at me page..

3...

I guess Most folks that look at me are safe then.. "

We have six in a row. Is there a prize?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jezebel used to play the silhouette game....most number of silhouettes in a row on your looked at me page..

3...

I guess Most folks that look at me are safe then..

We have six in a row. Is there a prize? "

a night out with the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the people who have no public pictures or just one private picture how successful are you on here?

I need a sufficient amount of pictures to be sent to me before I can even decide whether I want to speak to that person further. I expect most people require the same.

Some people are hunters rather than hunted , they will send pics to their pray with messages and will often be very successful and capturing their pray. They don't feel the need to advertise their wares to every one preferring to keep them private and for the select few. "

Totally understand that and as a woman without a public picture you'll still be inundated with messages because of the amount of males in here.

When I didn't have any public pictures at all I still got loads of messages a day but when looking at the calibre of the people messaging me I thought it best to show a few pictures so guys know what type of person they are messaging. With a picture I'm more likely to get a message off a guy who's in the same league as me looks wise rather than a guy who would just blind message anyone regardless of what they look like.

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By *ntimatediscretionMan
over a year ago

eaglescliffe

well spotted.... double egg and chips to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a week and trying to dictate how people use their own accounts - stunning"

Does it matter if they've been here a week or a decade... Sometimes it takes fresh eyes to spot things out and make suggestions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!"

Try to stand out from the crowd. Posting negative rants will alienate you from the small proportion of people who use the forums.

Are your messages not being read or just being deleted?

Not read? Busy girl. Pushy will not endear you to her.

Deleted? You ain't cut the mustard. Work on your profile or messages.

If you see a ladies profile with no face pic, there is probably a good reason why not, first and foremost being she doesn't want to show it.

You cannot blame others for your lack of success...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a week and trying to dictate how people use their own accounts - stunning

Does it matter if they've been here a week or a decade... Sometimes it takes fresh eyes to spot things out and make suggestions. "

I've been here over a year only just got round to using the site to meet and been verified I don't pictures etc. got nothing to do with fresh eyes

People use the site in different ways does not make them fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a week and trying to dictate how people use their own accounts - stunning

Does it matter if they've been here a week or a decade... Sometimes it takes fresh eyes to spot things out and make suggestions. "

But he hasn't made any suggestions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got this radical idea.......

Let people do with their profile what they like and leave them to it.

You do with your profile what you like and get on with it.

The sites got plenty of tools available to help you spot or avoid potential timewasters. If there was a solution, it would have been implemented yonks ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want to have a profile picture. I have a face. I always send a pic with a message.

There is so much 'freakin bitchin ere', chill out! "

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

Ok, I know I'm a "faceless" profile, but at least I have verifications to show that I am for genuine meets. Quite a few people on here who haven't had a meet although they joined months, or even a YEAR ago with no meets, why stay on, or at least change/update your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been on here a year now and iv only just verified my account but that don't mean I'm a fake or time waister just means I have other stuff more important than fab ??

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By *olly RogererMan
over a year ago

Braintree

So its hard to get females to notice you due to the 1000 of messages they get?? But fab should delete all inactive profiles

How many inactive profiles send messages??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people like privacy my job I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So its hard to get females to notice you due to the 1000 of messages they get?? But fab should delete all inactive profiles

How many inactive profiles send messages?? "

I receive a few messages from people who should remain inactive

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!"

Browse using the advanced search and tick the boxes that say 'have pictures' and 'are verified'.

Apply message filters so only verified profiles with photos can contact you.

It's really that simple!

As for the '1000' messages bollocks? That's one of the oldest bullshit excuses going. Even those that receive many messages still seem to meet - hence must actually be reading some (or maybe proactively sending them themselves!)

The site gives you tools. Use them and life on site is simple.

Don't use them and you may just end up posting forum threads moaning about things you can actually influence yourself.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jezebel used to play the silhouette game....most number of silhouettes in a row on your looked at me page..

3...

I guess Most folks that look at me are safe then..

We beat you! 4 in a row

crystal"

whoooooo we got 8 in a row

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!"

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air"

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?"

They might just use the forums or chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?

They might just use the forums or chat rooms."

Well considering the huge number of fakes on the site, surely these people should also be removed. It's a swingers site, not a site for people who like to perv or chat dirty, surely, or have we missed the point?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?"

Why?

You have the option to ignore them? Nothing they do (or don't as the case may be!) affects you in any way!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?

Why?

You have the option to ignore them? Nothing they do (or don't as the case may be!) affects you in any way!

A"

Just a suggestion. If people are happy with loads of fake profiles then hey, that's cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder why people stick around an internet site that obviously upsets them due to it not doing what they want it to do. Me personally would hit the delete button rather than moan about it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?

Why?

You have the option to ignore them? Nothing they do (or don't as the case may be!) affects you in any way!

A

Just a suggestion. If people are happy with loads of fake profiles then hey, that's cool"

Fake profiles don't make people happy.

But they only bother those who don't help themselves avoid them. There are plenty of tools on site to use - plus common sense - and it's something you, me or the site can't prevent.

There is no foolproof system.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder why people stick around an internet site that obviously upsets them due to it not doing what they want it to do. Me personally would hit the delete button rather than moan about it. "

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?

They might just use the forums or chat rooms.

Well considering the huge number of fakes on the site, surely these people should also be removed. It's a swingers site, not a site for people who like to perv or chat dirty, surely, or have we missed the point?"

To be honest I haven't given it a lot of thought, we filter out profiles with no verifications or pictures in our searches and if a message comes from such a profile we don't respond unless it has a picture attached.

There is a section of the forum to make suggestions though so if you feel strongly maybe approach admin that way.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site! "

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry we got 12 veri not 10 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake..."

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?

They might just use the forums or chat rooms.

Well considering the huge number of fakes on the site, surely these people should also be removed. It's a swingers site, not a site for people who like to perv or chat dirty, surely, or have we missed the point?"

Yes, it's a swingers site. doesn't that mean it's a site for likeminded people to 'be' ; what aspects they take from the site is surely up to them? Conversing with like minded people but not actively playing for whatever personal reason they have is surely a little different to fakes and time wasters?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet."

I only had a veri from a close friend who invited me on here for a long time. I couldn't find anyone I actually wanted to meet, and was not about to rush in and meet for the sake of it. So not everyone who is unverified is unwilling to meet, they just may not have found the right people yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?

They might just use the forums or chat rooms.

Well considering the huge number of fakes on the site, surely these people should also be removed. It's a swingers site, not a site for people who like to perv or chat dirty, surely, or have we missed the point?

Yes, it's a swingers site. doesn't that mean it's a site for likeminded people to 'be' ; what aspects they take from the site is surely up to them? Conversing with like minded people but not actively playing for whatever personal reason they have is surely a little different to fakes and time wasters?"

Join a forum where people like to chat. We joined a swingers site, not a site for people to perv on people who swing

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet."

No everyone shows their veris. And everyone was unverified to begin with.. That's a very sweeping statement to say those people don't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet.

I only had a veri from a close friend who invited me on here for a long time. I couldn't find anyone I actually wanted to meet, and was not about to rush in and meet for the sake of it. So not everyone who is unverified is unwilling to meet, they just may not have found the right people yet."

Great. Give people a year, no meets then ciao.

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!"

I don't get 1000 messages A day

Maybe half a dozen

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?

They might just use the forums or chat rooms.

Well considering the huge number of fakes on the site, surely these people should also be removed. It's a swingers site, not a site for people who like to perv or chat dirty, surely, or have we missed the point?

Yes, it's a swingers site. doesn't that mean it's a site for likeminded people to 'be' ; what aspects they take from the site is surely up to them? Conversing with like minded people but not actively playing for whatever personal reason they have is surely a little different to fakes and time wasters?

Join a forum where people like to chat. We joined a swingers site, not a site for people to perv on people who swing"

By dint that we are conversing on a forum suggests this site offers more than just a way to find meets. We use it for both, it's nice to chat openly about a lifestyle we are venturing into. You are entitled to use it your way, just as we are entitled to use it our way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet.

I only had a veri from a close friend who invited me on here for a long time. I couldn't find anyone I actually wanted to meet, and was not about to rush in and meet for the sake of it. So not everyone who is unverified is unwilling to meet, they just may not have found the right people yet."

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"

Great. Give people a year, no meets then ciao."

Wow, I have gone over a year between meets on here... I live in a rural area, have a life apart from swinging, and am fussy who I meet... All that is going to do is increase the yoyo members who are on and off more often than my knickers!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We don't have public photos or display veri for personal reasons we have 10 veri few photos

We are fed up of time wasters arranging meets and don't turn up

Or get talking then go off air

The fake profiles are easy to spot. If a couple/single on for over a year and have no pics, no veri's etc then surely they should be removed from the site?

They might just use the forums or chat rooms.

Well considering the huge number of fakes on the site, surely these people should also be removed. It's a swingers site, not a site for people who like to perv or chat dirty, surely, or have we missed the point?

Yes, it's a swingers site. doesn't that mean it's a site for likeminded people to 'be' ; what aspects they take from the site is surely up to them? Conversing with like minded people but not actively playing for whatever personal reason they have is surely a little different to fakes and time wasters?

Join a forum where people like to chat. We joined a swingers site, not a site for people to perv on people who swing"

You do your thing.

Allow others to do theirs.

Everyone is then happy!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet.

I only had a veri from a close friend who invited me on here for a long time. I couldn't find anyone I actually wanted to meet, and was not about to rush in and meet for the sake of it. So not everyone who is unverified is unwilling to meet, they just may not have found the right people yet.

Great. Give people a year, no meets then ciao."

And how do you prop is admin check that ? Maybe we have to send a message from both parties to confirm the meet happened to them ?

I think if people spent more time concentrating on their own use of the site and less about how others use it they may be more productive.

As a side line I've been here years now and have very rarely come across either a fake or a time waster , what's the tips for finding them , oh hang on one way would be to go back pages and pages when searching till all the inactive profile comes up , yep that should waste some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet.

I only had a veri from a close friend who invited me on here for a long time. I couldn't find anyone I actually wanted to meet, and was not about to rush in and meet for the sake of it. So not everyone who is unverified is unwilling to meet, they just may not have found the right people yet.

Great. Give people a year, no meets then ciao.

And how do you prop is admin check that ? Maybe we have to send a message from both parties to confirm the meet happened to them ?

I think if people spent more time concentrating on their own use of the site and less about how others use it they may be more productive.

As a side line I've been here years now and have very rarely come across either a fake or a time waster , what's the tips for finding them , oh hang on one way would be to go back pages and pages when searching till all the inactive profile comes up , yep that should waste some time. "

That's for the admins to figure out. Just an opinion, you know, the sort of things people put across in forums??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet.

I only had a veri from a close friend who invited me on here for a long time. I couldn't find anyone I actually wanted to meet, and was not about to rush in and meet for the sake of it. So not everyone who is unverified is unwilling to meet, they just may not have found the right people yet.

Great. Give people a year, no meets then ciao.

And how do you prop is admin check that ? Maybe we have to send a message from both parties to confirm the meet happened to them ?

I think if people spent more time concentrating on their own use of the site and less about how others use it they may be more productive.

As a side line I've been here years now and have very rarely come across either a fake or a time waster , what's the tips for finding them , oh hang on one way would be to go back pages and pages when searching till all the inactive profile comes up , yep that should waste some time.

That's for the admins to figure out. Just an opinion, you know, the sort of things people put across in forums??"

There is a section of the forums called "Fabswingers.com site feedback"

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!"

Why get wound up about what you can't change? Seems pointless.

There's plenty you can do to get noticed. Make your profile appealing, Attend Clubs/Socials, Participate in the Forums resisting posting whinging threads, Go into the chatroom or like me ......Just have a laugh, Take the piss and be in no rush.

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Why get wound up about what you can't change? Seems pointless.

There's plenty you can do to get noticed. Make your profile appealing, Attend Clubs/Socials, Participate in the Forums resisting posting whinging threads, Go into the chatroom or like me ......Just have a laugh, Take the piss and be in no rush."

I'm not allowed to take the piss on here I get the forum police lynching me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Why get wound up about what you can't change? Seems pointless.

There's plenty you can do to get noticed. Make your profile appealing, Attend Clubs/Socials, Participate in the Forums resisting posting whinging threads, Go into the chatroom or like me ......Just have a laugh, Take the piss and be in no rush.

I'm not allowed to take the piss on here I get the forum police lynching me "

They'd have to catch me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet.

I only had a veri from a close friend who invited me on here for a long time. I couldn't find anyone I actually wanted to meet, and was not about to rush in and meet for the sake of it. So not everyone who is unverified is unwilling to meet, they just may not have found the right people yet.

Great. Give people a year, no meets then ciao."

Several people we know meet regularly but don't ask for or send verifications...how would you propose they are served by the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet.

I only had a veri from a close friend who invited me on here for a long time. I couldn't find anyone I actually wanted to meet, and was not about to rush in and meet for the sake of it. So not everyone who is unverified is unwilling to meet, they just may not have found the right people yet.

Great. Give people a year, no meets then ciao.

Several people we know meet regularly but don't ask for or send verifications...how would you propose they are served by the site?"

stop being silly and have a verification

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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago

Nothing to see here. Please move along.


"Blimey, if a web site infuriated me I would probably log off and find something more calming to look at."

Kittens perhaps. People love kittens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site!

Is there a guideline to how often us timewasting fems should play? Just so i don't fall foul and become even more fake...

Clearly if you are verified as much as you are, then you are not fake. Point was all the fem and cpls profiles where they are unverified, don't meet.

I only had a veri from a close friend who invited me on here for a long time. I couldn't find anyone I actually wanted to meet, and was not about to rush in and meet for the sake of it. So not everyone who is unverified is unwilling to meet, they just may not have found the right people yet.

Great. Give people a year, no meets then ciao.

And how do you prop is admin check that ? Maybe we have to send a message from both parties to confirm the meet happened to them ?

I think if people spent more time concentrating on their own use of the site and less about how others use it they may be more productive.

As a side line I've been here years now and have very rarely come across either a fake or a time waster , what's the tips for finding them , oh hang on one way would be to go back pages and pages when searching till all the inactive profile comes up , yep that should waste some time.

That's for the admins to figure out. Just an opinion, you know, the sort of things people put across in forums??"

What like my very own opinion ? Yep I think I have already said mine ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know and yep just my own opinion when you think some are hell bent on just trying to wind people up , well I think obviously stating yet again it's my opinion that there maybe some on here trying to do just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day this is a free site so if you aren't happy with the service try somewhere else. It's not like you've paid a big subscription is it?

No one on here has the right to dictate to others how they should use the site or who should and shouldn't be on here. The onus is on you to put the effort in and implement your own safeguards. The only people that can waste your time are the people YOU allow to waste it.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri"

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not.."

Well I'm just bloody disgusted and outraged at you , a whole year without a bloody meet how very dare you. !! You're beating me by 6 months and it's just not fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not.."

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want to have a profile picture. I have a face. I always send a pic with a message.

There is so much 'freakin bitchin ere', chill out!

yeah but your a god"

I thought she was a goddess. Not a bloke in disguise is it ?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on."

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

"

Why not? enjoying your ranting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey, some angry buggers on here.

Some of yall are going to have heart attacks before you reach fifty if you carry on worrying about other people's issues and don't learn to chill out.

Deal with your own shit and who cares how others behave....it doesn't affect you.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting"

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

Deal with your own shit and who cares how others behave....it doesn't affect you. "

some cant help it, its their way or no way..

small minded possibly but hey ho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye.."

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag? "

Or a Space Hopper Race?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag? "

Not me , I'm trying to catch up with sensual and making it to a year without a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag?

Or a Space Hopper Race?"

Noooooooooo a shags more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag?

Not me , I'm trying to catch up with sensual and making it to a year without a meet "

its been hard..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily."

You'll find many fakes are verified and many genuine people unverified so not that easy and I'd assume very time consuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got this radical idea.......

Let people do with their profile what they like and leave them to it.

You do with your profile what you like and get on with it.

The sites got plenty of tools available to help you spot or avoid potential timewasters. If there was a solution, it would have been implemented yonks ago."

Spot On!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag?

Or a Space Hopper Race?

Noooooooooo a shags more fun"

Combine the two? Sit on his lap and bounce away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag?

Or a Space Hopper Race?

Noooooooooo a shags more fun"

Eye go on....come on over here away from these shouty buggers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag? "
Or watch big brother tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's more like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily."

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's more like it "

Yep. Teamwork is always best! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion. "

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion. "

without people moaning incessantly the forums would be empty

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag? Or watch big brother tonight "

watching that bunch of feckless muppets would have the rant level at nigh on blood vessel bursting point..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag? Or watch big brother tonight "

Dont go complaining about getting no meets shag if your happy to turn folk down for big brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

"

I've got two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I've got two "

Greedy bugger , share please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag? Or watch big brother tonight

Dont go complaining about getting no meets shag if your happy to turn folk down for big brother "

I know, wish all the meets would be before 9pm lol, good show tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I've got two "

Yeah but mine's Purple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

without people moaning incessantly the forums would be empty"

No they wouldn't. They'd just be nicer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in response to the building anger.....lets lighten things, who wants a shag? Or watch big brother tonight

watching that bunch of feckless muppets would have the rant level at nigh on blood vessel bursting point.."

lol yes but its not Thursday yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So,if all these profiles added a pic and got verified would it make it better for you OP?

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily."

based your definition of genuine though? it's not nec everyone else's...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"So,if all these profiles added a pic and got verified would it make it better for you OP? "

going 'out on a limb' i would think it wouldn't make a jot of difference as some will always want to moan about this or that being the reason they are not having shagathons every day and not look at their own profile or are they using the site to their best advantage..

hey ho..

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper "

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol"

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone? "

Can we play that game where you try and and knock someone off the log and into water please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone?

Can we play that game where you try and and knock someone off the log and into water please "

Any event considered. You have people in mind? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone? "

Brilliant idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone?

Can we play that game where you try and and knock someone off the log and into water please

Any event considered. You have people in mind? lol"

I may do

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone?

Can we play that game where you try and and knock someone off the log and into water please

Any event considered. You have people in mind? lol"

Fab sports day. Theres a social Id be up for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What ideas do you have for sorting this out?"

You maybe one out of a thousand that do already and this is not directed at you personally, ... Most single men don't bother reading the profiles first before they message. If they did and see that the woman/ couples either are or not what there looking for and if not don't message them this too would cut down on unwanted messages and give others a chance. But i hear what you say. I think if a profile is not verified in a month to 6 months or so, by admin ( green tick ) and a photo and a full profil, it should be removed but then again, its more time consuming work for the admin team.

The only genuine things that do get you a much better chance of meets are attend licals socials, use forum and join in the banter and debates, and use chatrooms, not just to cam and pull the pudding but to stick a cam on and talk/ flirt and show your personality. But unfortunatly thousands dont so its always harder for men to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone?

Can we play that game where you try and and knock someone off the log and into water please

Any event considered. You have people in mind? lol

I may do "

Ok it's implemented and will directly follow the love egg n spoon race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone?

Can we play that game where you try and and knock someone off the log and into water please

Any event considered. You have people in mind? lol

I may do

Ok it's implemented and will directly follow the love egg n spoon race "

Omg the picture I have in my head of that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone?

Can we play that game where you try and and knock someone off the log and into water please

Any event considered. You have people in mind? lol

Fab sports day. Theres a social Id be up for! "

Fun events for fun people....Just need to dream them all up first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If Fab were to Google Image the pics put forward for upload, there wouldn't be so many fake profiles. A guy uploaded pics of Brad Pitt last week ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I can do nothing but fab should just wipe all inactive accounts and people on over a year without a pic or veri

we have chosen not to play for about a year now, we have met froends socially etc..

is that ok with you?

tbh, why am i asking its T S if its not..

Er, we couldn't give a toss if you play. Point was that fake accounts and those on for over a year without verifications could easily be removed. Nothing controversial there. Don't ;et that get in the way of your rant though, you carry on.

you give enough of a toss to reply to something which wasn't a response to anything you have posted..?

Why not? enjoying your ranting

a response isn't a rant..

arrogant fuckers telling others how they should do this or that with their profile and how they use fab etc does get on my wick but not enough to consider a rant..

bye..

Use your profile how you wish. Just suggesting that the site could easily get rid of fakers. It can keep all the genuine couples and singles very easily.

I think it would improve the forums if we got rid of everyone who complained needlessly instead of passing their issues through to admin....it's improper use of the site in my opinion.

Oh I'm liking that idea , now I'm off to find a space hopper

I love space hoppers.. Got two here. lol

Seems loads of you have them. Fab sports day anyone?

Can we play that game where you try and and knock someone off the log and into water please

Any event considered. You have people in mind? lol

I may do

Ok it's implemented and will directly follow the love egg n spoon race

Omg the picture I have in my head of that now "

Had me giggling too and to increase the difficult.....One on the spoon and one in the........

Vibrating ones obviously lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If Fab were to Google Image the pics put forward for upload, there wouldn't be so many fake profiles. A guy uploaded pics of Brad Pitt last week ffs! "

How do you know Brad wasn't trying to get a NSA fix of hot sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sack race ought to be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sack race ought to be interesting "

I wonder how many would finish?....The race I mean

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

double ended dildo relay race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sack race ought to be interesting

I wonder how many would finish?....The race I mean "

More like how many would finish the race prematurely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"double ended dildo relay race "

Oh I've got a huge one of them

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"The sack race ought to be interesting

I wonder how many would finish?....The race I mean

More like how many would finish the race prematurely "

That made me chuckle. Esp if you arranged distractions along the way.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"double ended dildo relay race

Oh I've got a huge one of them "

Can I join your team then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sack race ought to be interesting

I wonder how many would finish?....The race I mean

More like how many would finish the race prematurely "

With all that Bouncing and Jiggling??? All of them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"double ended dildo relay race

Oh I've got a huge one of them

Can I join your team then? "

Be a pleasure

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"double ended dildo relay race

Oh I've got a huge one of them "

It would make life difficult if the ends were hard to get a grip of for some reason

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"double ended dildo relay race

Oh I've got a huge one of them

Can I join your team then?

Be a pleasure "

Whoop

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"double ended dildo relay race

Oh I've got a huge one of them

It would make life difficult if the ends were hard to get a grip of for some reason "

Would Keep it interesting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it infuriates me how many faceless profiles,time wasters, and fake profiles there are on here! Single females are harder to contact on here due to this which breaks me! Trying to get noticed is half the problem due to people getting a 1000 messages a day fab need to sort it out!

Add in all the timewasting couples and fems who don't play, are here to chat, watch, cam etc and you've got a great site! "

Oh look an UNLOS , they found the delete button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the people who have no public pictures or just one private picture how successful are you on here?

I need a sufficient amount of pictures to be sent to me before I can even decide whether I want to speak to that person further. I expect most people require the same. "

I dont have any problems,

I always send pics if I am after a meet,

on the other hand having no profile face pic does mean I dont get many offers coming my way ver often

But if I was as unhappy as the OP I'd find another site or something

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