FabSwingers.com forum: BMFC

By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

I have on occassion considered attending a BMFC party, but felt that it was funny to entice women to play with black men, yet charge the men the premium rate to do so. Not that I would really want women or anyone else to suffer the expense we single men have to. Lo and behold today I open my newspaper to find a story pictures included detailling the goings on at the parties. What are the thoughts of the lifestyle being made public? Also if anybody else bought the rag today and caught the stoy what are your thoughts of the way it was reported?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats BMFC stand for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big Momma Fisting Club?

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Whats BMFC stand for?"
Black Mans Fan Club

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Big Momma Fisting Club?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats BMFC stand for?"

Dyslexic United Football Club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

which rag is it ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bury Market Fish Counter - They get fished off with Black Man Fan Club members turning up ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not "enticing" women to play with you. Surely they will only go if they are into black guys?

Can't imagine women paying for it when they can get it for nothing by just hanging around the carpark, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you included a link might be a bit easier to give feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this something to do with German uber club Bayern Munich?

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Would have left the link, but adhering to the naming and shaming. But page 35 of 'The Sun' holds details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not "enticing" women to play with you. Surely they will only go if they are into black guys?

Can't imagine women paying for it when they can get it for nothing by just hanging around the carpark, lol"

That was my initial thought, but then why would anybody part with money for sexual acts we do for free.

I could make a fortune with what I do!!

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By *nnebellWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Oh My goodness, I had heard about this but it was played down at the time. I so glad I have never attented one of the BMFC parties, to have your details splashed across the Sun Newspapers for all to see would totally mortify me and i guese anybody else who happened to be present on that fateful evening. my gosh.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I assume its similiar to coffee and cream nights which are held regularly in clubs. Surely only women into blackmen would go to a blackmans fan club party so couldnt imagine much enticing going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats BMFC stand for?

Dyslexic United Football Club?"

Surely that would be FDUC.

Apologies to any Dyslexic people here, I just thought it was mildly funny x

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By *nnebellWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I have to say the Coffee and Cream evenings are always held in a club on normal club nights and attract a wide range of people............ normaly held every 3 mths or so by a gentleman on this site. Alas i had heard he wasnt going to be doing them anymore.......... so I have no excuse to travel over the Brumm anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather tame reporting to be fair: more about the woman's relationship with her ex rather than their "business".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this something to do with German uber club Bayern Munich?

Now I know why James says Bayern Munich are an odd bunch of lads.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Well if you want to (allegedly) try and set fire to your ex then don't do it at a BMFC party

Wait until the funs over at least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asked if anything "changed hands" at the orgies she replied: "I might get out some condoms."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems it was a financial matter between the woman and her ex partner

when the woman was asked in court if "anything changed hands" at the orgies she replied "I might get out the condoms"

Classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahh too late lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would have left the link, but adhering to the naming and shaming. But page 35 of 'The Sun' holds details"

The Sun? nuf said

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Well if you want to (allegedly) try and set fire to your ex then don't do it at a BMFC party Wait until the funs over at least! "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Does the actual newspaper carry a different story to it compared to the one on the suns site? All i can see about it is ex attacks woman with lighter fluid ect, very little mention of anything that happens there. The only pictures are one of her house and one of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This reminds me of the so called exposes on clubs such as Extasia / all silly stuff and actually quite boring when you dig deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This reminds me of the so called exposes on clubs such as Extasia / all silly stuff and actually quite boring when you dig deep "

bet the Inland Revenue don't find it boring

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Does the actual newspaper carry a different story to it compared to the one on the suns site? All i can see about it is ex attacks woman with lighter fluid ect, very little mention of anything that happens there. The only pictures are one of her house and one of her."
Don't think that the focus of the story were the activities, but there were mentions of activities. Also I thought I recognised the pic of the property from an old documentary about swinging from a while ago

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By *nnebellWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

It's just an inccident that happened at one of the parties hosted by the Lady and her former boyfriend, in the end its about the green eyed moster and mainly money.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If any activity goes against society's norm the rags will always be bias.... it's not news otherwise.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

was never the biggest fan of them in the 1st place, and then I didn't have the most pleasant of experiences at them to the point where I made the decision that I wouldn't go to one again......

but it is something I am glad i tried.. even if it went on the list of "never again"

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"was never the biggest fan of them in the 1st place, and then I didn't have the most pleasant of experiences at them to the point where I made the decision that I wouldn't go to one again...... but it is something I am glad i tried.. even if it went on the list of "never again""
Would like to know why it was such a bad experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They got what they asked for ...... the women that is, they went for black guys they got black guys, everyone happy, The Sun, is that the newspaper thats part of a group of Newspapers that say all this sex stuff is wrong whilst making millions in revenue from advertising sex contacts and sex chat lines.

Yea I really put a lot of respect in what they have to say

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"The Sun, is that the newspaper thats part of a group of Newspapers that say all this sex stuff is wrong whilst making millions in revenue from advertising sex contacts and sex chat lines..."

I'm not sure the Sun has a view itself. They just pander to the thirst for sensationism and sex that the public has, in the name of selling papers. Lets face it, "reality TV" has converted half the counrty into being voyeurs. Peer into the telly when Big Brother is on, in the hope of seeing housemates bonking, and that is cool, the Daily Star will love you. They make big money out of Big Brother. Peer into a car window though, and because that's not what the papers can make money out of in one way, they'll make it another way, with a big sexational expose...well, ask Stan Collymore!

"...bet the Inland Revenue don't find it boring "

Now that is a good point. These "Parties for Profit" are a real hornets nest when you scratch below the surface. They make money that is probably never declared to the Revenue, and they go uninsured (because household insurance doesn't usually cover "business" activities) so for pities sake, don't start a fire there else you'll never be compensated for your lost property. Ho hum, sex "sells" though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I intend to attend a Coffee and Cream night at Chams so that I can drool at the gents' fine physique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly, the newspapers have no real personal issue with anything, if it sells papers it is good material. If supporting it earns them money they support it, if going against something earns them money they go against it.

Who lacks the morals us or them.

Most reporters are not good enough to be the dog shit in dogging areas.

Most I say because some journalists, go where the metal meets the flesh and put themselves at risk to bring stories worthy of attention.

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Read the article online as we missed it in the paper.. doesn't really give too much infor apart from their 'dispute' so hardly plastering details of these parties and those who attend on the internet.

Fact is, there will always be interest in these types of story. More people find swinging interesting than actually indulge, so if it gives them a bit of titilation, then so be it. No harm.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"I intend to attend a Coffee and Cream night at Chams so that I can drool at the gents' fine physique!

er, and other nights are no good for fine physiques?

Now if a bloke was to make a comparable remark about oggling at black lady's J-Lo botties, wouldn't he be hung from a high tree for racism / sexism?

As a matter of interest, not having been to one of these nights, do white guys take black women with them or is it exclusively BM + WF?

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

"I intend to attend a Coffee and Cream night at Chams so that I can drool at the gents' fine physique!

er, and other nights are no good for fine physiques?

Now if a bloke was to make a comparable remark about oggling at black lady's J-Lo botties, wouldn't he be hung from a high tree for racism / sexism?

As a matter of interest, not having been to one of these nights, do white guys take black women with them or is it exclusively BM + WF?"

Not been to one myself, but I believe it's strictly black guys and white women. And no, don't think you'd be strung up. Not as though it's a racist remark.. so many times have said surely isn't it OK for you to be attracted to a certain type? Admittedly, the "fine physiques" comment may be a bit of a generalisation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS! Do I have to draw you a picture or what?! I believe most peeps would know what I meant by "fine physique"!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I have my thoughts on the BMFC/sExpose but that's not for here - is it fair that people's swingign (or even, sexual) antics be plastered allover newspapers? I'm sure most would say no.

However... what I find confusing is how her response to "anything changing hands" (to which she apparently responded "some condoms", to paraphrase) can be possible if the whole incident why/how it ended up in the paper (via the attempted assault was on the basis of "financial share of the business/profit" or have I read that wrong?

Oh well.. I have always found the scene to be more enjoyable when money has not been the focus as it changes the purpose and mentality of people.

As for the whole "Black-for-white" preference, people will go for what catches their eye - as for me, I'm here for those that want me (and for those that don't, I appreciate their honesty). I believe this rings true for most.

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By *pecial bbCouple
over a year ago

london

at the end of the day the lady involved is organising parties for people that want to be there. its consensual and in usually safe surroundings. sadly a domestic situation became involved at the said event.

bmfc is an event for people that like black guys and for black guys that like being liked lol. that could mean a white guy taking his partner or black ladies attending too. like everything, it would attract alsorts. I wouldnt judge what i havent been to, or the people involved. swinging in any arena is a choice we make and enjoy.

so play safe people and have fun

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

"As for the whole "Black-for-white" preference, people will go for what catches their eye - as for me, I'm here for those that want me (and for those that don't, I appreciate their honesty). I believe this rings true for most."

Exactly what I have always said all along. Different people are attracted to different types, be it their physique, face, personality.. skin colour is no different - it's a physical attribute just like anything else. Doesn't make that person any different really, but don't see it as being wrong to be attracted to someone because of a physical attribute, it's natural.

As for the aforementioned 'physiques' something tells me we're not talking about pecs and abs here..

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"FFS! Do I have to draw you a picture or what?! I believe most peeps would know what I meant by "fine physique"!

Best you contact the Police then to borrow one of those mirrors on a handle that they use for checking for bombs underneath cars. At Chams you'll need it because far from their "physiques" hanging out all over the place, they'll probably be wrapped away under the towels that they'll be wearing. One of those mirrors will get you around that problem though.

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"FFS! Do I have to draw you a picture or what?! I believe most peeps would know what I meant by "fine physique"!

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Bet you're one of those who drops things quite often!

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By *estLondonGuy49Man
over a year ago

Harrow Ealing Northolt Uxbridge London

I've taken female friends to BMFC events and I can promise anyone reading this far down the posting that the events (held in one of 3 places that are usually 'straight' swinging venues) are safe, great fun, discreet and horny. Its a shame that a business matter between the two owners got out of hand and I feel really sorry for Helen that she had her pic and full name splashed over the tabloids. But none of the reporting 'exposed' the partygoers and there have been loads of BMFC parties since the events in February and the story was in the papers where numbers were unaffected - or even increased!

to answer the original posting though - why are guys charged the premium rate? Sorry - simple rule of supply and demand. Its a business venture after all, like all swingers clubs, even when run by swingers, and the male numbers are vastly over-subscribed every party. Couples and single women are in shorter supply so they are offered a better deal. Unfair on guys? Yes. The same principle as other clubs with greedy girls or mixed singles/couples nights? Yes as well.

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